₦airaland Forum

AlabiKILLER2023:
So if I'm a woman now

I'm a victim of rape

I should kill my self cus I can't live with the guilt

I'm never going to take my own life

Uptheante:
For the fact that it's only women's vagina that has hymen, that should tell you that virginity is a female virtue not a male because men don't have anything to prove sexual purity.
2ndly, it is men who finance relationships/marriage. A man spends a fortune to marry, & then take over all the expenses of the woman.
The least he should deserve is an untainted virginity so as to ensure that he's getting the best deal for all spending & effort. If he gets a vagina that has been pummeled & vandalized by others without them spending or making any commensurate effort.

Is it fair for you to pay the price for a secondhand fo car that thousands have drove for free for the price of a brand new car?

Can you buy a leftover food that many have eaten for free for the price of a freshly cooked food that has not been tampered with?

AlabiKILLER2023:
Nothing is better than life

Originalsly:
Hmmm ... a victim twice? .... did he willingly return?...for the money? ... or was threatened? They need to question and examine his children.

joshuaidibia:
Funny thing is, it is hard to escape it cos most of the good soaps or creams out there have 'brightening' written on it. If you use them over time you'll notice a change in your skin tone. But those idiots going for whitening are just stack idiots or illiterates. Personally I prefer using Nivea creams cos they have a zero policy for bleaching.

franchasofficia:
Nigerians and their natural abi traditional hatred for women giving birth through C-section is one of the major problems birthing women experience in Nigeria, whereas it seems to be the safest if done by an experienced person.

Timothy89:
Go and ask your dad how much he worth when he impregnated your mother, because you dummies have phones now, your mental and societal understanding of life locked



Does this fool even know that as a lady aged her fertility activeness reduces biologically? You can't compare a lady of 20yrs with a lady of 38yrs when it comes to fertility proactiveness



I leave you to your foolishness

Timothy89:
I regret not giving birth early enough, my first child for don dey write waec by now



Like a writer wrote above, no let money hold you down, give birth and for those ladies that are aging, find a responsible man get you pregnant


If you comot this world without having your offsprings to keep your history, it will be unfair

idahme:
Equality in cheating advocate but not equality in financial responsibilities in the family. The day women bring 50 percent of the money in the marriage then I will listen to equality bullshit in cheating. Divorce am make hungry finish you . Why did you marry again? They say I want a man that will take care of my financial liabilities , a man that will buy me a car , give me money and make things easy for me is that an equal man with you? Think, when you solely wait on a man to give u money for pad what do you expect? Equality? Dey play

When it gets to your turn divorce him and go back to the trenches where you came from , this one is still enjoying freebies from men when you get married then repeat that line.

lululovesblue:
I won't lie, it seems to me like this is a strawman argument. As in, you're grasping at straws. They were still at the dating stage? So did they do white wedding at any point in their lives before death? God himself had recognized their union, giving Eve to Adam as a companion. So they were still dating?

You said they were in the dating stage when Satan got them to fall. But in Genesis 3:6 it says "And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat". I haven't read the Bible since secondary school and even I remember that.

Adam is referred to as her husband in this verse by most versions of the Bible. So what exactly are you talking about?

Oga, if you want to sleep around before marriage, do so. It's your body after all. But don't use the Bible as justification.

StillDtruth:
Yes! They were not married.

They were still at the dating stage when satan got them to fall.

Yes! They were not married.

They were still at the dating stage when satan got them to fall.

And as you see, you do not see any place where God declared them husband and wife nor do you see any marriage ceremony and celebration take place.

Which is why even male Adam said "it is the woman you gave me" and not it is the wife you gave me or it is my wife whom you gave me.

Parental consent is a very important ingredient of having a valid marriage and a public show by the parents is also integral to it. That is why all over the world traditional amd customary marriages are valid.

10mobile:
Don't mind my gender Sis. See them avoiding your intelligent questions. Just, how would I feel to accept a proposal from a woman? It will certainly make me feel less a man.

Even the rest of nature shows that it is the role of the male to initiate the move. Or, how many times have these Nairalanders seen a hen go for a cock? Or a she-goat go for a he?

Meanwhile, I'm even more ashamed to realize that my people are so shallow-minded as not to notice that this video has been acted from a script.

y3mi:
Certainly you miss the mark. The other is not a construct but philosophy of life. Complimentary Dualism is so extensive to start explaining than I have time to on here as I surf through threads. I PM'd you sha.

y3mi:
Unshackle the chains of your mind from rigid social construct. You and 1Sharon are worried about concerns that are the imaginary pitholes made real in a patriarchal system. In the Yoruba belief system, no such thing breadwinner or home keeper, Ifa teaches about the fundamental nature of complimentary duality. Both gender can always work out the flexibility of roles inter-play just to make it work, eben in this modern times with many factors ro contend with.

TheFinesseKid:
absolutely! Good afternoon. You thought I was kidding earlier. Didn't you?

TheFinesseKid:
choi. Just my luck eh? Sometimes I feel like my village chieftain could be after me. Lol. Now that's a helluva day. Wish mine felt half as good., But we move sha. What's the title of the book she read?

So how do I make sure I can get in touch with you now?

Cause I'm lost. Do I drop my email address?

Pussyisgud:
Op learn to tolerate and live with people, stop forming Porsche and woke and all that shit you are living among people so tolerate, no man is an island

PerfectStranger:
What if people who don't come out to speak are only keeping silence due to shame and what the society will say? Have you thought about that? What if others are actually enduring? Lol

maasoap:
You know many Nigerians are hypocrites, see as most of them are commenting and asking Op the same question like they don't understand his point. Ask to see how many of them doing buying and selling or are self employed and see disappointment.
You don't need university first degree to be able to sell pepper not to talk of master degree. Why would you spend many years studying to the level of master degree and at the end of the day, dragging pepper baskets with Abokis and uneducated market women? . You don't even deserve those degrees to begin with.
But I get it, this is a very messed up country where university graduates have turned to okada riders because of no jobs or low paying jobs everywhere. That's the only reason

fastseo:
As a student u hardly find jobs.. It's stated on ur visa that u can only do 20hrs and employers when they want to employ u will ask for a code to check ur work permit... 100% all employers will ask for this code and then they see 20hrs restrictions they won't further the employment. They want full time.

UK is not Nigeria where jobs are not organised. Even if it's to wash toilet u will pass recruitment process that's like bank recruitment process.

Any company that employ anyone without permit could be fine 60,000 pounds per person employed.

More also jobs for student no de.