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You're very correct. Those ones talking about how God gave them new wombs or whatever, they have to be up to some shady business Jman06: |
At least you're aware. You're even doing it right now. Speak common. I don't know of any girl that likes to be bamboozled with English. If it's pidgin,speak it. If it's regular, speak it. But there's no reason to be flexing your vocabulary when you're not writing an essay. RickyJesus: |
This is your third post about this. Obviously it's a cry for help. This isn't something you should be doing on nairaland, where everyone is seeing shege and has little to no time to share empathy for someone going through it. Surround yourself with a strong support system. In a while you'll move past this |
I was a vyvymanga fan until I discovered mangabuddy. Abeg, even the aesthetics are better and it has more manwhas and mangas. Plus there's the comment section alternative available in every chapter, as opposed to just one singular comment section per manga on vyvymanga. I still use both though, love them |
Sure TheFinesseKid: |
Congrats, you didn't leak it. A strong round of applause for you. The advice remains not to make yourself vulnerable enough for it to even be a possibility. I don't care if it's a generalization so long as it keeps people safe. You will be fine. I find it funny when people move to insuIts to make their point. It means you have no point to make. Do you know the stats on these things? Cybercrimes by sex tape leakings? This is like getting angry when they say don't walk around late at night so you don't get attacked. "What does that mean Many people walk around late at night and don't get attacked! Fvck you!" The most that will happen to you from my post is that your feelings will be hurt. It does not affect your day to day life. The most that will happen to someone who let's someone else have their noods is that they will be posted on the internet, a place that never forgets. If you're truly a married man I expect you to do better. Why am I nineteen and more levelheaded? That's funnyCountinBlessins: |
You also don't understand what I'm trying to say either. You're trying to separate yourself from other nigerians. Calling them "you black folks" and "you people" and it's clearly tap-dancing From the start I said I didn't want to avoid accountability. Africans have a hand in their own failures. But theirs is not the only hand in it. Again,why would you need to separate yourself if you didn't want to be viewed differently from whites? "The whites see YOU PEOPLE as this" "You BLACK FOLKS will never accomplish this" unfortunately you're included. You're part of the people they view as trash. So stop with this weird terminology. I am not sitting back to wail about anything. It feels like you picked one sentence out of many to nit-pick. Drink some water. It will help, I promise fxexperts: |
It's very obvious it's not just housework he's making her do. It's not an accident. She needs to be moved into a home she can be taken care of because it's obvious her parents don't care about her enough if they're comfortable leaving her in this p3d0phile's home. |
Oh, so you're nigerian? How curious. Imagine seperating yourself from the "black folks" you keep spitting vitriol towards and assuming moral highground. I don't have a lot of interest in this conversation, I just found it funny. The whites won't view you any differently from the rest of us, no matter how much of a sellout you try to be on nairaland. Relax and drink water. This conversation is a lot more complex than you think it is fxexperts: |
Abeg this is embarrassing, please delete. Maybe she was online, maybe she was busy, maybe she was answering other stuff. Because your read receipts are off you'll never be able to tell. You quickly started insulting her because she wasn't quick to respond. That's too immature. That's something someone in secondary school would do. While I honestly feel she shouldn't have responded and just left you to continue stewing, I don't blame her for coming back at you. Imagine trying to get ready for bed and here's this random dude insulting you because he believes he should monopolize all your time when you owe him nothing. Come on. Delete this post. It's not too late |
I honestly don't understand these replies, but it's nairaland after all. What's going to happen if he's not ready for marriage? Financially, emotionally, etc? I've also heard from a lot of guys that girls taking the lead in relationships emasculates them. How would you view a woman that proposed to you, realistically? How seriously would you take her? Can you promise you wouldn't see her as desperate? I know men are not a beehive and have individual preferences, but I'd still like to know which one women are supposed to do. Personally I view this as embarrassing. Especially her having to walk back to her seat. Abi she's going to pay his dowry and make him a househusband while she becomes the breadwinner as well? There's so much to unpack. |
Una no get hustle to hustle? 😂 Wetin be this? |
Not even a fan of religion, but I respect religious people. Your type of religious people is very very funny. You've built your whole world, faith and belief on one of your reverend fathers and not the God you believe in, that's why your faith was so easily shaken. You're not doing yourself any favors. Your reverend father is a human being with human urges. Isn't the idea of resisting sin resisting your body's inclinations? You think your reverend father is above sin? I'm actually sorry for you. |
Honestly it's stup1d1ty to let a man video you in such a compromising situation. Of course there are lots of situations where the woman isn't aware she's being recorded, but willingly letting him video you?? With your face and all? How can you trust he won't leak it during an argument or after you broke up? Obviously she's the victim in this and he can and should be prosecuted, as he could spend years in prison for this, but abeg, if you get sense no let person dey video you. Make una dey get sense na |
Not to avoid accountability but this isn't the reason we can't be as developed lmao. Our resources are being siphoned and our leaders are figureheads for the white men you compare us to. There's a lot of reasons we can't ever be as developed, and one of the reasons is we keep bootlicking whites, kinda like what you're doing right now. Then again, I don't know your race. You might as well be white. fxexperts: |
You should never borrow someone money you can't stand to give out. Obviously the guy is a thief and I hope he gets caught, but you should never be giving out money to someone if you know you're going to need it later because people will disappoint you. Only give what you can stand to lose. I learnt that lesson early😂 Obviously they no dey do good for people again. Dohh. Remove your minds from the money |
Lmaooooo hi😂 TheFinesseKid: |
Well done boss. In a few months it'll be your wife getting her knacks outside |
I'm a student and my course doesn't leave me time for much else, plus I no dey climb bed😂 You people should stop pressuring people abeg. |
Vikkiboi: |
But OP, why you dey gatekeep am na? ![]() |
LMAO I'm in Benin right now and I got fuel for 1000 yesterday. What part of Benin is this abeg? |
What sort of nonsense talk is this oga? Did he care about his investments and businesses in a foreign land before he started acting lawlessly? Did he think he was still in Nigeria where you can k1II your wife and get away with it? You're talking about kids and whether madam is ok to raise them without a husband, something you should be asking the man. You immediately seek to blame the disabled victim and insinuate she's doing it for the money. Can you shut up? This is a genuine plea. How can you watch cctv footage and hear that the man threatened to kill her and her aides if she spoke about the abuse and still be saying this nonsense? In some situations think before you type. Ojady: |
How many bleeps are we supposed to give? Are you paying your PA peanuts or treating him so badly he can't pay 80k as the PA of a former minister on your behalf till you wake up and refund him? The reality of most nigerians is that they don't even have the money in their account to transfer later, you're complaining meanwhile your account is fully loaded from all the money you looted in your tenure. Even your great grandkids will benefit from the wealth you acquired at the cost of common citizens. The mistake the doctor made was treating you. He should have thrown your black yansh out on the street. |
There's nothing to support this. There's no gender more honest or more trustworthy. You sef let go of this bias. Women and men have the capacity to do evil. That's why you're given autonomy. Just be a better person on your own. Simple. Women looting should not surprise you because men looting obviously did not surprise you. There are jobs obviously more suitable for women and jobs more suited to men, but with great power comes to tue great urge to misuse it. ufotunang: |
One day people will stop looking to stupid men in priest attire waving Bibles up and down to save them. Then they'll stop falling victim to the scam that is religion. He doesn't need jail time. He needs castration without anaesthesia and then firing squad, so he can go and meet his God and tell him what a good job he did in his church. I'm sure his crown with many diamonds is waiting for him |
All the men looting and looting you no gree fear am. Na only woman you wan fear? Body go tell you later on you suppose dey talk fear Nigerians ufotunang: |
Even if he was sending 50k it wouldn't do anything actually significant. If he wanted to see improvement he should have gotten more people job opportunities. Try and take some homeless people off the street, build a few apartments. Where is 5k going to go even for a university student, talk less of a family of five or six? Abeg this country is confused |
I have to disagree respectfully. I don't believe men always marry for love, and I don't believe women always marry people who have something to offer. A lot of men marry women to make their parents happy, a lot marry based on sexual attraction, a lot marry women they feel are wife material that can take care of their homes. That's why there are high cases of domestic violence. Not every man is in love with his wife. That's why a lot are serial cheaters. In a lot of homes, not the majority but a lot, the wife is the breadwinner. And still doing a majority of tye house chores. You should always marry someone who you love and who you feel adds value to your life and home. It's not always financial. Or maybe your definition of love and mine are different. Either way let's agree to disagree. anonymous1759: |
Oyibo ke? Has the standard for oyibo changed in the last couple of years because she looks mixed. Or maybe even fully black american. |
Oga, don't say that. A lot of ladies marry less. A lot will marry nonsense. Whether due to circumstances or love or whatever. You're looking at a vocal minority of girls dumping their boyfriends for rich men. How many ladies are going to marry rich men? Not a lot,I can tell you that. Not every man is going to be successful and not every girl is going to end up with a successful man. Build yourself and marry someone that has built herself too. Struggle love shouldn't be a fantasy for anyone. Sha do the best you can for your kids. anonymous1759: |
This is a problem a lot of you guys have sha. Normally you're not supposed to be beating someone you didn't give birth to. If he's not satisfied with her why didn't he just break up? Beating someone else's child like she's an animal? I'll never understand or be able to find justification. E no get wetin woman wan do you to reach beating. Instead throw her out of the house and avoid putting yourself in trouble. If she damaged your property get her to pay. If she insulted you so terribly you can't forgive send her to her parent's house. Never forget Osinachi. And women. Why are you dating someone beating you? Abi na one slap one bone straight? Abeg leave and leave with your life. |
What's the name? Mamita.. for real, that's you on your profile pic, yes? I'd love to send a pm if that's okay by you.
Many people walk around late at night and don't get attacked! Fvck you!" The most that will happen to you from my post is that your feelings will be hurt. It does not affect your day to day life. The most that will happen to someone who let's someone else have their noods is that they will be posted on the internet, a place that never forgets. If you're truly a married man I expect you to do better. Why am I nineteen and more levelheaded? That's funny