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afroLAD:
Whenever a man falls in love, a mugun has been born.

What value does she add to your life? If none - it is a one sided relationship.

Can two walk together without first agreeing? Obviously both of you don't have the same goal of being financially disciplined that you're walking towards.

In light of the above do the needful and do it quick.

it's better they run after you than the other way round. Otherwise you'll run to the end of the earth to satisfy them

tolexy123:
Hello nairalanders, please I want you to advice me on how to handle my excessively demanding girlfriend. She demands money excessively from me at regular intervals (everytime i go to visit her which is now discouraging me from visiting her now) without considering my pocket and its really making me to see her from another angle negatively as a gold digger and it's affecting my true feelings for her.

I don't want to be too rude to her but at the same time, I want her to get the information across to her. its not like am not financially supportive or am broke but I want to exercise some financial disciplines in her cos am thinking of seeing her as more than my girlfriend but this is not telling well about her.

Mature advice please!

Maybe you started on the wrong foot [attracted her with material things] and now starts seeing you as an ATM or her moneybag. Now it's time to be dogged about it by stopping the spending spree and now see what she'll do. The result will give you a glimpse of what the future holds for...

I want to know that man[husband] that will sit down 4 house and watch his wife dey scatter yansh and expose all her privates like this 4 public. Pity such a man

With this question you are painting our ladies as perpetual dependants and gold diggers

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biggie73:
Ladies should stop dating guys with lower educational background to theirs . The reason being that the guy, like Buhari will make you stoop so low like him.

The ladies u are referring to will never attain anything educationally without the so called illiterate men.

Wake up call to start disgracing their men publicly or to stop cooking for their husbands? I pity marriages these days..

Envy? What's there to envy?

For God's sake, who still dey listen to this woman.

This one will claim she has family ohh. [Weeping for womenfolks]. They are highly potent weapons in the hands of the devil against the men. God help us

This one will claim she has parents ohh. [Weeping for womenfolks]. They are highly potent weapons in the hands of the devil against the men. God help us

2dugged:
yes of course they are all included

I like you

ianSweet:
The Nigerian men are no different. They are worse

they don dey start again

2dugged:
and how many guys can swear with sango that since they started dating their so called girlfriend that have not muemuesugbe with another babe?,Nigerian men that have flirting as inborn character

Including your dad and brothers?

d4guy:
Until we realise corruption in Nigeria needs iron hand and we all need to support that iron hand, I say we are not ready .

Honestly we are not ready for emancipation we just dey cry of hunger and suffering. Hunger neva wire us enough until then we'll know freedom does not come by following some set of rules. We need to come as a unit and fight these untouchables hiding under democracy and rule of law to steal and make poorer. Till we are tired of suffering, I fold my arms dey watch

bettercreature:
Africa will never develop without the use of force,black men are next to animal.Take south Africa for example they are going backward every year ever since their independent in 1991,USA in 1850 is better than Nigeria in 2016

Honestly, the demon corruption has to be FORCEFULLY chased out. Pampering and rule is not meant for us,at least not yet

bettercreature:
Africa will never develop without the use of force,black men are next to animal.Take south Africa for example they are going backward every year ever since their independent in 1991,USA in 1850 is better than Nigeria in 2016

Honestly, the demon corruption has to be FORCEFULLY chased out. Pampering and rule is not meant for us

kvngjesse:
So what type of gionee u usin nw

M5

Wadeoye:
That tells you the problem of Nigeria is not just leadership.

The followers are worse than their leaders and in such a country, only a dictator can turn the country around. Kill those that need to be killed among the so called leaders, jailed those that belong to prison and force the corrupt minded followers to change their ways.

Agree with you, democracy and rule of law are two of our major problems. All these thieves hide under democracy and rule of law to perpetrate evil quoting what the law says as a cover/defense. We are not yet ripe for democracy, each and every one of us has to be shaken to our bone marrows so as to flush out corruption from our cores not a pampering hand but forceful one. God bless Naija

Reading through all comments, I can't but continue to pity the future of this society. It seems we don't want the situation of this country to improve. We have allowed tribal/religious etc sentiments to make us tools in the hands of thieves/selfish individuals. It seems we are contented with the level of decay in our system. Let's keep on shouting RULE OF LAW[that did not stop them from wrong deeds]...

Bullshit! We have overbloated this DEMOCRACY sef as if it is a passport to heaven. What has democracy offered us since all these years if not impunity, opportunity to embezzle and all sorts of ills bedevilling our dear country now. Has democracy put food on your tables? Rule of law my ass, where was rule of law when corruption was having a filled day in all facets of our livelihood

Onegai:
You don't get, I started counting threads a while back bashing women or telling them to change for the better. Then I tried comparing it to threads extolling women. The ratio was 10: 0. Not one male moniker thought to say "hey, we have great women", it was all just insults and putting down in nasty and petty manner.

They don't even realise how bad is to constantly feed yourself negative ideas about a gender, it means when you eventually do get married, you will go in thinking it is a battlefield, that every little issue will become an avenue for a vicious fight. With that mindset, your marriage is dead on arrival. You cannot keep saying "she is evil and bad" and then think you will meet a pretty girl, marry her and one day NOT say the same thing about her. You are what you consume.

Do you know I met some guys on NL who are married and they said they're disgusted by Family section guys? I've met 3 now who call them "small boys" and one went to say I should stop coming to this section because my mind would be poisoned.

No-one is saying the blogger's friend's wife didn't do wrong, all we are saying is "why is it only the wife, only the mother we hate everytime?" Even on Child Molestation threads, they will blame the mother of the victim and random girls for not agreeing to sleep with the perpetrator. On a Domestic Violence thread, it is the victim's fault for marrying a wife beater and annoying him, oh she must have been chasing his money and didn't see "them good guys". On the thread where the NYSC guy's mother sold akara or food to send him to school, filled with comments like "our girls cannot do this". There are so many women contributing positively to their families, they are not celebrated, but the menfolk go on to publicly "try and teach them and hope they will hear word".

It's madness.

Sorry madam, it's painful. With all your outbursts, I can easily say you'll prefer coming back to this world as a man. Such a one sided world...

I suspect more than 70%of ladies that have commented already on this topic would be mean Mils. Even the OP.

raumdeuter:
The OP is really naive

https://static.rogerebert.com/uploads/movie/movie_poster/monster-in-law-2005/large_9Heizw56udoItWRKTwWEmahtvaZ.jpg

ABove is a picture of an American movie about Mother in law probllems, In the OP opinion they probably learnt it from Nigerians

The question you should be asking is why women always have problems with themselves. Why dont we hear of husband vs fatherinlaw problems

The mother inlaws they are complaining about today also complained about their own mother inlaws like 30yrs ago, In another 30yrs another set of wifes would be complaining about this same set of women who are complaining abut their mother inlaws

In fact this is brilliant, you have said it all, women can't stand one another irrespective of the age. It's a cycle that can't be broken. Wish women are like men in reasoning/perspective. Just pity the guys that would be brought into unnecessary issues

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First one was aTecno, the rest till date are Gionees

cekhoe:
some scenes are just unnecessarily dramatic with their annoying sound effects, now I am obsessed with American series

likewise myself but highly selective

cekhoe:
I used to be obsessed with Philippine movies from there I graduated to zee world but now after watching some American series, I just find these movies especially zee world annoying with their unnecessary dramatic scenes and unrealistic emotions they portray

I agree with you, Indian movies are meant for shallow minded peeps with their fake and childish acts/songs. Irritating!

amagunnerfan:
He wasn't joking mate. He actually did kiss as the article stated. Very irresponsible indeed.

So you are a witness!

She has not gotten her priority right at 36, she's still searching for AMAZING. Better find a guy fast and settle down and let the AMAZING come later.

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