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ufotty2001:
Is it right to set up a lady after Marriage. I keep asking myself these questions.
At 28yrs as a lady u don't have a career?
What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I met a beautiful girl yesterday with good character but she has no career or any business ideas. She told me that she will love to go to school..I love this girl and I wish to marry her but my problem is that I want to enroll her in University. I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.? She said that her parents are poor.. that they were unable to enroll her in University

There is no use advising a man in love. It's a waste of my time.

I wish you well

Gerrard59:
It is like you people don't know the effects the Nigerian economy has on its citizens. From your name, you are most likely based in Uyo. Imagine how it is for folks in Taraba, Kogi, Adamawa, Kebbi, Yobe, Ebonyi, Northern Cross River etc. The farming some indulged in, Fulani herdsmen no gree make dem rest.

If she is good enough character-wise, yes, you can set her up and ensure she is educated on basic maths. I was going through a thread for people who have made so much money. The question was, "couples to these rich folks, what do you do?". Many responses came up, from women to these rich men, on how they manage the homefront effectively while the man makes the dough. It made me realise that inasmuch as it is good/OK for both parents to work, the traditional way is also good before competition entered the global economy. One wrote about how she manages his schedule to attend friends' events, children's school events, exercises etc. Another manages the investment aspect together with her husband as she has experience in investment management, but since the man out-earns her, she stays at home. Yet another wrote how she takes care of the four children, which frees up time for the man since he knows the homefront is safe and sound. She ensures he is minimally distracted as much as possible. So, having a SAHM (sit-at-home mom) is not entirely bad as most make it to be. Obviously, the woman should keep improving herself educationally and mentally to keep up with developments.

This is common in East Asian societies even though inflation, low salaries and increasing westernisation are gradually changing the society. For instance, in Japan, men work and hand their salaries to their wives, who manage the expenses. This model can work for your household - you make it and she manages it. So far it works for you, it is very OK. Don't listen to hungry, uneducated, unexposed and mentally malnourished alfa meils. Their greatest achievement is chanting alfa meil, alfa meil, alfa meil while dangling their smelly preek around.

Such a load of premium bullshiiit!!

You are always high on some shiit!

Advice your brother like that too when he brings such home.

adeola1097:
Literally, cus look at the shit we’re calling love these days

Lol...crazzzy!!

SOZINN:
This is just one of the many scams they come up with to deceive gullible men, they will keep draining you and make you believe that they are the source of your wealth. Then you will be afraid of cutting ties with someone that is just taking from you without adding any real value. Once you see this shît for what it truly is you won't be unable to unsee it.

You nailed it bro.

I remembered telling a nagging gf to take the gate and be gone. She kept coming back, and when I wouldn't give in, said it's her prayers helping me out all this while. Well, I said she hadn't prayed hard enough, because not only are you broke, you also never bought me shiit. If your prayers don't even show in your own life, how dafuq can I trust it in mine? You are broke, make yourself rich and I can trust your prayers. She went away grumbling. She is still broke till now.

joeeee240:
Why you dey lie boss 🤣

Pass me her handle for telegram

K

joeeee240:
Na wetin i dey tell you

That you can control the construct... that's why she's smashable

Sure...but then do I want to? Nope... I just don't have the interest.

joeeee240:
I know... i didn't say you should send a picture
I said you shouldn't just completely forget her because she is still well within smashable territory

Lol... I won't push that unless I can control the construct.

N.B: I'm definitely winning this 10k

joeeee240:
Hope you no go just completely forget am

She is still smashable

I'm not sending my picture to any girl so she can 'decide whether I'm worth her time or not' which was essentially what the girl meant.

Smashable? Yes!!! But on my own terms, not hers!!

Eazzii:
10k for anyone who ignores the dense dolt.

I am the winner already just pay me!!!

heartofcity12:
It’s genuine desire or nothing. Don’t force yourself on anyone, don’t apply pressure. #trp

Something happened yesterday. This girl got a big scholarship to study in the US in a telegram group I am and like everyone else, I congratulated her and told her to carry Oha soup ingredients when travelling oh. She said she can be stingy but I should drop my picture and she will decide whether to be stingy or not with her 'Oha'.

I didn't bother to reply. It's very simple. Na shit-test be that. The narrative or power has shifted to her and now, it's up to me to find my bestest picture so she won't be stingy with her affection or whatever.

To play their game is to lose. Never play their game

Maxxim:
Looks cool on em, dude physique looks great, he must have been on workout all through his time there

Yeah!!!

Maxxim:
Top G now released, placed under house arrest

Love his beards!!!

It's not a relationship but situationship

Some CAN cope...Most WILL NOT.

Karli is the new Pill-a-daddy

Dey drop am hot hot

Karlifate:
Trust, but verify occasionally, so you won't end up like him.


This kind of see finish is on another level.

Jesu Kristi!!

That's a blow some men may never recover from.

Skepticus:
She geo-maxxed which is changing her location (state) where we all knew her as w.hore to a far distant state and city to improve her chances of sexual attractiveness (I gave her that advice, though, as a simp would always be available to clean up our mess). In this new state, she ran into this new simp, who was more than happy to find the love of his life. Now, he is in New Zealand working his ass off placing "our w.hore" on monthly salary coupled with the business she opened for her before he left. Same w.hore is still fucking and trying to fûck her past back.

Knowing the problems, male white knights cause for men, I do not hate them but I have no pity for them. I can only save who is ready and gravely hate those men who make or support laws to support women (without recourse to responsibility and accountability) at the expense of men.

Totally agree with you 😊😊

Skepticus:
Their "pink pill" or whatever they call it is a waste of time because women are the red-pill. Some ladies on nairaland once made an attempt to create a version of their own but came out with nothing. If they wrote anything truly red pill, it would be a own goal because it would expose their own true nature. This is why a lot of them get angry with genuinely red-pilled men who are as smart and as cunning as it is a mirror reflection of their own true nature but they secretly crave them. It might explain why Martinez39s has his own fair share of female troll/stalkers who never seem to tire of you despite ignoring them.

Nailed it again

Skepticus:
She isn't even the first to tell me this. One (a single mother and a girl I knew that was being pimped out for hookup in the night club I worked some years back) would say same about her "serious" boyfriend who set her business up (supplying the capital running into about 1.5 Million). She was cheating on him codedly at the same time (including me). I wasn't interested but she would flood my phone with unrequested nudes just to get my "attention". I would oblige her enough to keep the conversation going just to learn more about female nature. Her request to visit me is always cleverly ignored.

Damn!!

Men are in danger oh

mariahAngel:
Continue...
You go soon jam!

K

lizychimamanda:
He that break the Hegde, the sapent will bite.
RIP kiddo

Nawa o...you no even sabi quote am properly.

Hegde ko...Elede ni

Sapent ko...Sapa ni

sharpwriter:
Hmmmm... You're right. May God see the Edochie's through this phase.

Amen bro.

They need all the help they can get right now

mariahAngel:
Demonic! Deliberately demonic!
I'm very much aware that there are so many of your kind on this forum.
That is why I'm always prepared for them.

K!!!!!!!!!!!!

Skepticus:
On point!

HeartofCity once made a comment on the thread saying that the Red pill should be scientifically studied on why so much of what it preaches (and also predicts) turn out to be true and fulfilled.

Men by nature are usually not bothered about what women do in their in-groups like gossiping about irrelevant things or themselves (intra-gender competition) in their sorority gathering or hair-saloons. Ladies have told me how surprised and pleasured they are, seeing random men meeting each other in a barber shop, mechanic garage or having friendly rivalries over their favourite sport teams while sharing drinks in a bar, exchange numbers and move on while the same can't happen easily for women. One told me yesterday that men tend to be better keeper of secrets and she like other ladies I know, tend to enjoy the company of men as it is often fun of course. This may also contribute to why they invade male spaces but the innate female imperative of control and tendency towards disorder often kicks in.

A female fûck buddy of mine some years back, who got married last year was telling me (in a private chat) about how he would feed his husband a "sleepy" meal so he could not hang out with his friends on weekends. In her words "He seems very happy hanging out with them. I can't stand him being so happy without me".

Your last paragraph took me dafuq out.

Imagine if she decides he has outlived his usefulness. He will sleep forever!!!

Karlifate:
Right.

Another reason why they always force themselves into men's space is because, by default, a woman's life is boring & men's life is full of activities, so many spontaneous activities.

Side note: Since time immemorial, men have been building a lot of somethings out of nothings. — Men build, conquer, protect & raise strong offsprings.

So, when men come together in one accord, these activities become wildfire & this is irresistible to the females with default boring lives. They'll do anything to part of it or tear it down by manipulation.

They're also the crusaders of "you'll be lonely at old age" when they come across high-achieving (single) men, that doesn't want marital commitment to slow him down.

They're surprised at how a man can be alone, yet not lonely — This concept look alien to them, thereby stirring up their curiosities.

According to that popular cliché: "behind every successful man is a woman" even proves this 'attaché by force' observation right.

I've never come across "behind every successful woman is a man", even when the saying is visible to the blind & audible to the deaf.

You nailed it bro.

Couldn't add more to it

heartofcity12:

Lol..I said so.


"What have you done that your mates haven't done sef"

Statements that will make you sit down and look at Baygon insecticide romantically

sharpwriter:
Damnnn... Wicked
You know on this same Yul's issue, a newspaper on Facebook already had 8.5k comments about it as at yesterday. I can't imagine the amount of energy floating there.

90% from women I can assure you. They are sure sources of adrenochrome I tell you. Just keep their emotional state in constant turmoil and sit back and tap those energies. It's a gold mine. The politicians, news hogs and online blogs know all these and that's how they make their money

sharpwriter:
Hahahahahahaha

I tell you..when I feel like my life force is waning, I come online and drop some inciting comments about politics, religion, football or.some shiit and sit back and recharge as Nlanders yell their heads off online.

SIONKPO1:
Your Opinion not mine but stop the discrimination.
We Blacks are quick at criticizing whites of discrimination but it is more amongst us.

I told you to go ahead and marry her since I won't and OP won't. I pity your life. I trust you have sisters and mom...they will reformat your brain quick when you bring her home.

The most haters of single moms are women in the prospective husband's family.

sharpwriter:
Lol... I wish I could mine them as life force for more spiritual energy

Damn..why didn't I think of this?

Your answer is dope. I will use it and live forever.

SIONKPO1:
Don't bring Christ into this matter,A woman having child(Ren)might have messed up but that doesn't mean that she can't pick up her life

I have brought Christ to it and I want Christ in it. Since you love the woman so much, call OP and marry her yourself. Shikena

I'm getting bored with you. And I hate getting bored with anyone.

SIONKPO1:
Let be be so
What if your daughter is a single mother,would you still advice any man not to marry your daughter ?

Even if you use my mother, my answer stays same.

Dizzyyish:
That's another interesting thing - you won't see men bothered about a female space but you'll often see women either 1.) Exhibiting their lack of self-respect and restraint by (forcefully) attempting to insert themselves where they don't belong or 2.) Attempting to tear down that space.

Funny enough, a few days before landlord came I read a post on TheRationalMale on 'Male Spaces' by Rollo. Here are some take-aways from it:

Whether this condition is an all male club or cohort (gender segregated team sports for example) or a personal state that is typically attributed only to the masculine – characteristic strength, rationality, decisiveness, risk taking, even brashness or vulgarity – the Feminine Imperative encourages women to insert themselves, and by association the Feminine Imperative itself, into masculine exclusivity. Scout Willis’ (Bruce Willis’ daughter) most recent ‘activism’ to encourage female equality by going topless in public is an example of this female-to-male parity (google it) – in an equalist utopia, if men can do it, women should be able to as well.

The goal is to be a woman in male space.

The cover story is the same trope the Feminine Imperative (and its social arm, feminism) always finds useful; the never ending push towards gender equalism. The practice however reveals the push into male space serves two purposes – social control and male oversight.

Social control is the easier of the two to grasp. Even when changing the rules of an all-male game to accommodate a lack of genuine female interest in a male endeavor, it fundamentally alters the nature of that game.

An easy example of this would be NASCAR’s embracing a driver like Danica Patrick. It’s not that she’s an exceptional driver, and I can’t vouch for her genuine passion for NASCAR, but the social control she represents is that she is the first woman to (dubiously) be taken seriously in the nominally all-male space of NASCAR drivers. The goal has been achieved, all that’s left now is female oversight of this male space.

The second purpose in the goal of female inclusion into male space is really a policing of the thought dynamics and attitudes of the men in that space. When women are allowed access to the locker room the dynamic of the locker room changes. The locker room can take many different shapes: the workplace environment, the sports team, the group of all-male coders, the primarily male scientific community, the ‘boys club’, the group of gamer nerds at the local game store, even strip clubs and the sanctuary you think your ‘man cave’ is – the context is one of women inserting themselves into male space in order to enforce the dictates of feminine social primacy.

Shebi earlier someone here mentioned that once women are allowed into this space one will start hearing "a real redpiller..."

One of the most threatening aspects of conventional masculinity for the Feminine Imperative is the cooperative potential of male bonding. When only men comprise an in-group, team building, common purpose and a masculine-primary environment tend to define that group. I would argue that the modern insertion of feminine influence into all male spaces is a concerted effort to limit this bonding and unity in favor of a feminine-primary ‘correctness’.

This limitation may not be directly influenced by a present female; often all that’s needed to foster feminine-primary correctness is a feminine-identifying male in the in-group (anonymous White Knight), or even just a prevailing attitude of not wanting to offend the suspicions that other in-group men may subscribe to this feminine-identifying influence for fear it may get back to a woman they perceive may have authority.

Even the most well meaning of women involved (however peripherally) in the manosphere are still motivated by their innate security needs – and those hypergamous security needs imply a want for certainty and control. As such the psychological influence of the Feminine Imperative will always be a predominant motivator in their participation in this all male space. This leads women to a want to sanitize Game to fit the purposes of the imperative, as well as oversee the thought processes of the men who come to participate in it.

I love your post.

In my own simple English...they don't need to be here. It's a man's space. I wouldn't be found in their pinkpill thread in a thousand years commenting and disrupting. It makes no sense. That tells you that women are vain and their emotions are fickle.