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Pukkalolo:
Luminouz... Great input. You obviously seem like a smart dude. I feel you for that.

But try and read this open mindedly so you can get my point.


Shit test is a made up concept... Some nerdy fellas pick out certain kinds of behaviors from women, label it as shit test, then say passing this test is what is gonna get you laid...

Isn't it contradictory how those nerdy fellas say you should never put women on pedestal, but they still put women back on that same pedestal by saying you need to pass women shit test in order to get laid.

The nice guy feels he needs to spend cash and simp for women in order to get the pussy. The redpill junkie think he need to pass women shit test in order to get the pussy.

The redpill junkie may beef on the nice guys and call them simp, but he and the Nice guy are the same: they are both hoping to be rewarded with the pussy. And that's one of their fundamental dating problem.

*Taking a deep breath*

I'm just starting....

Pussy is similar to money in a particular aspect:


Money only has value because the government says it does and its citizen agree that it does...Basically, Money only has value because everybody thinks it’s valuable.
Money, which is just paper is practically created from thin air, without any effort. It was just printed. Government can print as much copy.

We believe that money such as dollars, pounds naira and so on are actually of value, but in reality money is only a store of value and not the actual value...but, sadly, many of do not understand this. This is why the rich concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is Asset.

Pussy only has value because the media, society and women say it does and then the men agree that it does....

Pussy is mainly for enjoyment and procreation. And that is. But we make it seem more valuable than that. No wonder men attach their self-worth to getting pussy. Pussy is overrated.

The other day, a lady was telling me that anytime she's taking her bath and she looks at her pussy, she wonders why almost every guy she meets are dying to have a taste of it...

She was like, "What is even special about this pussy that all this men are chasing...Men are just so foolish"

Although, I found what she was saying a bit funny, but she's absolutely right. There's nothing special about the pussy. The pussy is for enjoyment, but there are other enjoyable activities. But men attached so much special value to the pussy, and that's a big problem.

Basically, pussy only has value because everybody thinks it’s has. And women are taking advantage of that. But the high quality guy that actually understand pussy knows that there's nothing special about the pussy, this is why he concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is, Attention.

The girl was born with pussy, she didn't have to work hard to own a pussy...it was given to her for free. When she reach her teenage years, she realized that guys are competing to get a taste of it. Then she assume this pussy must be so much valuable for these men to be dying to have a taste of it.

These make her start acting like an entiled bitch and start acting saucy towards men.

The nice guy sees her saucy, rude and entiled behavior, then he thinks, "I needs to spend money and try to please her so I can get her valuable pussy."

The redpill junkie sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a "shit test", then he think " I needs to pass her shit test so I can get her valuable pussy.

The high quality guy sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a crap, then he thinks, "if she doesn't behavior right, I'll channel my attention somewhere else."

The average guy think pussy is valuable, that's is why he strategize is dating game around "acting" a certain way so he can be giving the pussy.

The high quality guy think attention is valuable, that's why he strategize is dating game around adjustment to the amount or intensity of attention he gives or withholds from her.

Attention is everything. Attention builds popularity. It sells products and services, and it builds wealth…

Attention gives value to something. It makes something worthless seem worthy. Pussy seem worthy because men give so much attention to pussy. The value of Pussy has overblown due excessive attention from men.

Pussy will become worthless when men stop giving so much attention to it. A LACK OF ATTENTION FROM MEN can pratically make a woman go insane. Even if a womam is not interested in fucking or dating you, she still want you to give her attention.


If you’re willing to give any woman your attention, then you are in for a lot of troubles. One of the best dating skill that will increase a woman desire for you is your ability to know when to withdraw and give attention to a woman.

I learnt the power of attention years ago... Just like most guys here, I noticed that when I pay less attention to certain girls around me, they seem to want me more... Suddenly light bulb goes on in my head. I began thinking, "If this lady, want me more when I give her less of my attention, then my attention must definitely be valuable to her."

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women

Then I was struck with an ingenious paradigm, I started thinking: "If a woman give her pussy to a man as a reward for behaving right, then how can I increase the value of my attention in a woman eyes, so I can give her my attention as reward for behaving right towards me?"

Now, I command the respect of almost all ladies in my life because they know my attention is scares and valuable and they know they must not joke with it: I'm very stingy with my attention. As a lady, you should be happy I'm giving you more of my attention.

The ladies know this about me, and they always make sure they be at their best behavior around me.

A lady was telling me a week ago, "you are difficult guy."

I said, "how?"

In her own different words, she said, "I don't just know what to say that will please you or turn you off..You are just unpredictable. I just have to be careful with my words and actions around you."

In my mind, I smiled. That's the exact psychological situation I want girls to be in when dealing with me. I want ladies to be scared of messing with me.

The nice guy thinks, "How can I impressed her enough so I can get the pussy?"

The red pill junkie thinks, "how can I pass her shit test, so I get the pussy?"

But I think, "she needs to prove to me that she's worth it, or else I'll withdraw my attention from her."

When you stop being pussy focus and start being attention focused, you'd suddenly realized that female shit test doesn't matter. It's now your test that matters now.

I'm attention focused, that's why I can quickly identify the type of ladies that are most likely to waste my VALUABLE ATTENTION . In few seconds or minutes of interacting with a woman, I can immediately tell if she worth it or not.


I treat my attention the way women treat their pussy. I do the shit testing, not women. If a woman pass my shit test, then I'll give her access to more of my attention. That's a mindset shift.

Stay blessed brothers...

You made nice points.

But men have testosterone. Unless it's mastered, Men will ALWAYS give attention to women and their pussy.

That's the blessing and curse of testosterone!!! So men must master it. You were able to master your own by equating it to your ATTENTION and seeing women as organic beings not angels dripped in honey,senses befuddled by lust. Most men never break that matrix sadly and die being enslaved by their lust.

heartofcity12:
Be careful out there, HIV is spreading in Nigeria at a fast pace nowadays.. You mustn’t have sex with every girl you meet and if you do, practice safe sex. 👍

3 weeks and she was already so confident it was him?

Why not wait 3/6 months?

What if na she gets am infect the dude or na false accusation?

Fear Tauruses

They can knack on palm and mango trees!!!

Throughout First page of thread,no feminists comments.

If na man do am now, everywhere gondon stew

Second page...one feminist.


Third page, NONE YET,as at when I posted. Nawa ooo...

falcon01:
🤣🤣🤣 bruh, hes gon forgive her either his mind is already made up. So it's pbetter to guide him to do it well

😁😁😁😁😁

Sighs

Let that be a female and watch the thread burn

Glad that a few women saw through those manipulative tactics employed by OP's girl.

Once a girl like that knows you respond to any weakness, you either go for broke or stay a mule.


Almost all in that category are 'chronically' committed Christians, which is just a farce.

palmshots:
You're wrong bro.
Yes girls love money no doubt but who's that you without the money that's what matters most.
Let me tell you a true life scenerio , I have a cousin brother older than me.
He's very tough in the family I mean he can be tagged a good for nothing. He used to live with us but my mum won't let us get close so he won't influence me ,I guess was her reason.
He gave birth while in Secondary school, he's always found wherever there's trouble so he had to vacate our house due to this issues
He then left back to the village to live in the family house (grandparents house), fast forward to when one university cited their campus in our village, he met this "very" beautiful young rich girl note the very in quote..😂
This girl wud bring him food, money fight off his other chics and even comfortably live with him in that dead house.Everybody including myself thought na jazz or he's lucky. Just that now I know better.
Right now they're married with a little girl.
The lady is now in abroad,I guess it's her parents trying to separate them, she recently sent him an iPhone 13promax and currently processing his visa alongside her little girl.
She's even ready to adopt the previous girl he had before they met.
Well,the summary of the whole story is he's her alpha fvck.
The guy still score different chics altho he recognised that hes married now..

Good thing is you dont have to be a good for nothing to achieve this. Just the right frame of mind

I watch some of my friends say I'm lucky with the type of girls I get they don't know it's not luck. It's has to do with your frame of mind .
Sometimes I chip in some red pill awareness subtly in our gathering but I know they're just irredeemable. I just sip my Arabian Tea in peace

Finally, some fuqin redpill!!!

I thought I woke up on Mars when I read his bluepill talk.

Queendera:
don't let any of these guys here guilt trip you.

I know the kind of girl that she is. Too well.

It's probably right now to the point where sometimes you feel as though she feels she's doing you a favor by dating you.

Every show of affection from her is usually promised till after marriage. She doesn't even know how to show that she loves you and most times you find yourself doubting this una love.

See, your mistake was letting her guilt trip you into accepting that you raped her.

If she brings that up next time, I want you to flare up. Get so angry that she either left or beg you.

Give her the cold shoulder for a while, maybe a week or more. Reduce your show of affection.

Constantly hammer it into her head how important sex is to you.

Most importantly, never ever accept her position on matters concerning sex and the relationship.

Be the man. Make sure she follows your instructions.

And try to seduce her every time you meet. Never leave her happy if she doesn't give you sex when you want it. Leave with your silent anger and make sure she's aware that you are angry.

The problem with most of you guys is that you are too afraid to force submissions from your woman.

Relationship power is not given, it must be taken and you're slacking.

If you don't stand your ground now, your daughter will be weaponized against you in the future

I'm not sure you be girl...

Your redpill radar is too hot.

Nice analysis

Queendera:
Obviously, she's manipulating you and you're falling for it continuously.

If you are the type that value your mental health and peace of mind, I'll say, please pack your bags and never look back.

You know why?

This manipulation will continue because she already had a fixed image, of not only you, but men in general at heart.

To her, you're nothing more than a "pen!s"

And that's what she uses to judge you.

And no you didn't rape her but instead of you to shout at her and make her accept responsibility for the act which obviously was performed by the two of you, you cowered and tried to be on the moral ground which doesn't exist.

She will continue to manipulate you like that, her friend is already a record holder.

In the future, more people will hold different receipts of any "wrong" you do to make sure that you are always guilty.

They don't change sir. They don't change. Marriage won't change her.

And let me say this, she's probably a church girl. Not judging but this is their general behavior

You fuqin nailed it!!!

Wow...

Omoawoke:
I bet they will regret their actions in few years to come.
Boy will grow to become a man and his priorities will change, there’s no way they will stay married without cheating in few years to come.
If you think I’m lying, go and find out about couples that married their first love from secondary schools , most of them are separated today. Just find out.
This early marriages only work in the ancient days, this days, it always end in premium tears.

Carry your bad belle face front jare....

Na them do you say make you still be single at 30?

Bitter soul

This dude is just talking bluepill, disguised as redpill.

You make money for YOU, not for any woman's attention. That's redpill. Using money to get women is meeehhhhn,meowwwww and woof woof!!!

falcon01:
I wouldn't normally say this but her point is valid. She said she was already with the guy she didn't have feelings for you like she did now its all valid. The only problem was she lied when you asked her out but they mostly do, forgive her tell her you won't consider that cheating since she didn't have feelings for you then but now she does, she should hold her word! Tell her "if you know you are going to cheat on me let me know now"! I won't tolerate that be really really serious about that, if she agrees tell her " I'm not forcing you don't stay with me if you can't be with me without cheating don't be with me". That right there is a solid f*cking agreement. But just give her another chance.

What a load of falcon birdshiit!!!😡😡😡😡

FORWARDEVERLY:
My Gee with the Fat "K"... It's been a while bro...
Back to the matter. Like Yiu stated, this dude isn't ready... He would forgive her definitely but doom awaits him in time to come as far as that relationship is concerned.... 🤣🤣🤣

I dey tell you.

See the way he reacts na....

Andres28:
Nice one bro..you made a very valid point here.

Valid point kee u dia. He just wasted his time advising you because you still won't listen. You will keep fuqin her and get embittered with time. You will try to save her, monitor her, pet her and finally lose your shiit and beat/kill her.

A woman never cheats by mistake. And a cheating woman never repents if you forgive her, she will cheat AGAIN and make you pay for your weakness in forgiving her.

You can take this to CBN.

Esortigress:
Shut it already, this is a serious issue that needs to be addressed,not a playing ground.

K

yeyebrity:
People can only accuse you of rape if you give them a reason to. They might have slept together at some point but the guy didn't enjoy it. She may have wanted more than just sex but he called it quits. I am just thinking out loud.

See them!!!

It's still the man's fault.

Redpillers!!


ASSEMBLE!!!!

Kai...men don suffer. Women can't take what they dish out to men. They never could!!!

My heart breaks for all the good men out there who have gone to prison after being falsely accused of rape like this girl. Jailed by simps who would rather believe a woman's word is the next best thing to pizza rather than investigate. Ain't it a sad sad world that all you need to convict a man is that the woman says bla bla blaaaaaa.

Being a man is a thankless job in this climate. That girl deserves prison time. She even had the guts to say "it will never happen again". What a fuqin liar.

Dexter08:
Dear men,

When people go out of their way to help you show gratitude. When that your guy gives you update show gratitude. Even on days when everything is going well in your life and someone shows you love show gratitude.

That we are now redpilled aware does not mean we should be stoic, hard, inexorable, intransigent.

Just the other day, a friend asked for a favour, after going all out for him, not even a "Thank You" dropped from his mouth. It was indeed sad I tell you.

Showing gratitude is not weakness, to show gratitude is to create a room for more boon down the line.

And why you must show gratitude at all times, make sure the people around you are also grateful to have you around.

Gratitude is not weakness!!!

I don't think there is anyone here who would ever say being redpilled equals being ungrateful. Infact, in this world of simps, getting people who are willing to help you out as a man is a cause for Thanksgiving. Only a simp would be ungrateful for the help he got from other people.

Gratitude is not weakness

dvkot:
nah.. I'm good, tell me one famous red Piller who ain't rich? from future, to Tate to c.ronaldo to Kevin Owens they don't be getting if they ain't rich. Rp is like a frame men needs to have.
Work on yourself, get rich and the hoes will fall in line.
I Know lots of rich men that ain't suckers for women, I still know some rich men who are suckers

K

dvkot:
wooing and giving is not the same, people like Tate and Dan bilzarin won't get half of the chicks they get if they ain't rich. Girls follow money, show it to them, bang them and move on. No amount of redpill will make you get a girl if money is not involved

Your last sentence shows you know nothing of the redpill.

Just start again from page 1 of the thread

MJBOLT:

make I drop aza or btc address??🧐

No drop anything again...one nigga don go quote the troll. Failed the test.

50k for anyone who ignores the bald headed troll!!!

Eric247:
We are horrny 24/7 let's find a way to channel that energy, let's not give our strength to women, let's pussy not control us, be productive, be creative, use your time wisely, women come and go, women are replaceable, I understand loneliness is a factor for men needing feminine companion, but the world is harsh, the brutal realities of inflation, male gender is disposable, society doesn't give a furck about men, women don't give a furck about you except you are a utility to them, it's not easy but none of us are excempted from our masculine burden of performance, we must bear the cross, we are success objects judged by status.

True talk.

It takes a sense of awareness and discipline to do these things though. Testosterone is a blessing and a curse to men. Once you can tame it, you'd do just fine.

Lemme share my secret:

I have a high libido. I never hid this fact on NL. Once I have a gf, I dey do Wella yet I look like a softie who couldn't do shiit on bed,lol. But once I am away or not in a relationship, I hold my body.

How?

I disconnect my sexual drive from my diick and transfer it to my doings. If 50% SE(sexual energy) was used by my diick before, once I no get babe(because I'm selective and won't just fuq anyone but my own spec), I divert this 50% to my daily activities(gym, hustle etc) and exhaust it. By the time I come home to sleep, I'm just too tired to dream or mind-wander about sex. Since I trained my mind to see sex as a tool I control and not one that controls me since I was a child, I never masturbated or fuqed any woman that didn't appeal to me, just to satiate my urge. I fuq only women I have a personal connection with.

Eric247:
I hate it the way my libido always control me in my dealings with women,it makes me open to manipulation, it makes me simp, it makes me supplicate, it makes me pedestalize, I hate inflating this bitches ego, I hate the rejection, at the end this thots will run to religious institutions to make bros commit to them or see one rich thirsty beta simp to lock down .

😁😁😁😁😁.

I get you now.

Eric247:
Why is that most guys game women, approach women, message women when we know that deep down they don't fancy us, respect us, have genuine desire for us, lust after us, we enter her frame and put ourselves in the feminine, chasing them, begging them, inflating their ego, she doesn't find you attractive or even arousing, we waste time on them knowing full well we won't get the sex.

It's just stupid, we are living hard mode as a man, you wanted unlimited access to unlimited women but you are not even receiving greenlights and genuine desire at all

Haaaa....someone rejected you this morning or what? Calm down na

Eric247:
As men, let's have a discussion concerning our sexual urges, this gals we are disturbing for relationship and sex don't fancy us like dat except you are useful and many guys are disturbing them,we wake up with libido, we are hornny everyday due to testosterones, this make us stupid, we have lustful thoughts, we watch porn to fantasize about sex we can never get, we see multiple varieties but in real life it's impossible to attain,it's tough as a man, no one cares about your existence except you are powerful, most gals you see them on the streets and crave abundance but dude you low value and low status, they won't look at your side, you are delusional, let's face the truth and call a spade a spade, we are beta males that economically unattractive and even arousing to women, we live life on hardmode, it's not easy but remember we have to persevere.

Huh?

Eric..you don come again abi?

Say it's you that feel this way. I'm not a beta male and my libido no dey control me.

labake1:
OP, my own concern is your kids, hope they are okay? Both you and the lady are not ready for marriage, she is just insecure. I won't advice you to quit love as "body no be firewood". Sit down and ask yourself what you really want unless you are ready to have third baby mama. No bring children to this world and make them suffer

See this one "body no be firewood"

😁😁😁😁

labake1:
Egbon, don't infect him with your Redpill.

Egbon kee u dia

As you dey read the story, you no dey vex ni? It's annoying na.

Gerrard59:
Actually, that is the same one of my guy plans doing, just as many of our kith do here. Provided it works for the family, it is OK by me. I will not dictate how someone should run his family as long as it works for the parties involved. In OP's case, it must not be a university. A polytechnic is OK. But she must be kept abreast with modern developments and ways on how to make money. Again, a SAHM is not wrong as long as the parties involved are fine with it.

I understand you are a revered alfa meil. That is OK. But I am not responsible for dangling your smelly penis as you have been doing in the sexuality section for nearly a decade.

I love you too darling!!!

saweide:
My name is Segun Saweide a native of Ondo state,please am depressed and I need a very serios advice.After having 3 failed relationships,two baby mamas ,I have a son for the first baby mama while a girl for the second baby mama
i decided to give it time but just 3 months ago I met a lady on Facebook and when we started we both love ourselves it was a long distance relationship so I do visit her on weekend basis I will arrive on Friday or sometimes Saturday and go back to my destination on Monday moring.
She has visited me only once due to the fact that she is a widow ,she lost her husband three years ago.
So In my mind I love this lady so much that I promised to marry her and have been to one church to pray about it and the man of God said I can go on..but this my visit to her will be the 6th time since we met and I noticed that she is not happy with me this visits so last night when I took her out she started complaining about me that I am too nagging that I pass aggression too much that she is afraid of getting married to me self and what bring this was because she knows the password to my second phone and when I went to her place on Friday she saw my former girlfriend pics on the Facebook page and she deleted the app without my consent and I was angry at her and why she did that ? I spent nothing less than 20k any weekend I went there and she lives with her 2 children in the house there but my concern is that she has changed a lot compared to when we started, I woke up this night and discovered she left me in the room alone and immediately I woke up I took torchlight to search for her and o found her sitting around 1.30am sitting and putting her arms on her chin,I asked her she did not tell me why and I told her to come back inside and during the time she left the room i had a bad dream ,tho I use to snore as well and she complained a lot about it please what should I do to gain back her ...am fed up...also might she be a witch for standing up by my side at midnight like that I don't want to make mistake.please I seriously need advice

Jesus fuqin Christ dude!!!

You need a therapist!!

DM me...and I will walk you through your shiit. You pay me too.