₦airaland Forum

SIONKPO1:
What brings Christ into this Matter?
Boy,you need to reason and moreover nobody is forcing any man to marry a single mother

Yen yen yen!!!

You don't know women like I do. That woman with.two boys is no saint. Unless the father of those kids are dead, nothing justifies his choice as a single guy to marry her in my opinion. She may be the greatest woman in the world but popping out two boys for another man already told me okafor's law will always happen

SIONKPO1:
Brother,Would you think same if your sister has a child and she is single?
We shouldn't discriminate against single mothers,thou they have their flaws

If my sister is a single mom, I would love her regardless because she is my blood but I wouldn't advise anyone to marry her. She knows that already

See emotions dripping on the thread. Nigerians are so emotional.

All that vibrant adrenochrome energy being wasted online. Wish I could access them all and power a jet engine to the Andromeda Galaxy with it.

Kiddogarcia:
You beautiful sha,but Goodluck to those in your DM


Na we be your best plug for everything Sexual enhancement tho

And you believe na she gets that pix?

I laugh in red oil!!!😄😄😄😄😄

SIONKPO1:
Naija isn't fair to Single moms,am a guy too but let's know that some of those Ladies got pregnant because they were received by their Former Guys.

And so?

You are her Christ the Redeemer? Her Superman or Batman to the rescue?

Karlifate:
🙄

LMAO!

Ignore IT.

just keep dropping your pills.

I never swallow today's own.

chikasnight:
Who cares ?? The message has gone farther than just Nairaland. So I guess they’ll have to close Twitter, telegram and other online spaces. Some of the OGs here have moved on to spread the message in other platforms
Ubunja on Instagram
Cave on Twitter
Psychologist on telegram
They’ll shut down all these too
So closing the thread is not a big deal not to me
No one can stop the message

The girl who’s boasting to martinez about killing the ashawothread, did it really stop prostitution. The men moved to a more conducive telegram and prostitution is still the biggest business in the country and still growing...

You believe that girl closed down the ashewo beer parlour thread? Lol...she is a fuqin liar. Same way she lied about Martinez editing her post. The guys on the beer parlour derailed the thread themselves!!!

The women have their pinkpill thread. We don't clamour for the closure so I don't get how e dey pepper them na

meum:
You know that’s how most ladies love in Nigeria. They love to survive

Everyone loves to survive.

I still maintain my stand.

Ceenachi:
Boss/Madam
Try to understand when reading
If Davido dey broke today, Mr E Money go Bleep Chioma wella

Bro if you get money here in 9ja, you can Bleep many of your desire gals

Lol...she knew him when he wasn't a star..same with PSquare and Adekunle Gold. You lots think money buys women...na why you all get heartbroken in the end

iInjureHerYansh:
You must be really dumb and naive to not know money can buy love in Nigeria. Deh play

Jesus...that's not love. You are the dûmbo!!!

It's called survival.

meum:
Love is for the highest bidder for 9ja don’t be deceived.

That's not love...it's called survival

IBKdammie:
Whao! Congratulation and Happy birthday to you.
There is always a light at the end of the tunnel.
I won't give up now

You wanted to before?

Na who give up fuq up oh!!!

ChybuzzDD:
So, to you, he posted it here solely to attract praises from ass-licking kids like you, and not to get one or two pieces of valuable advice as well from a few of the experienced people like us?

Haven't you read stories here of people who lost their jobs but had no savings, as they spent their salaries on luxuries and other frivolities?

If you're doing a salaried job, invest first as a protection for your future before impressing people with luxurious lifestyles. This is even more important for someone from a poor background with no family backup.

The advice is not unsolicited because you'll still come down here to disturb our peace when it eventually happens.

I no ask you all this history lesson, Mr. Experienced.

I just told you to keep your advice to yourself. You don't know OP and his life story, why come here to dey form counselor on money you didn't work for?

Just be happy with him and get a move on.

Phoenix873:
That should do then. I will double down on ignoring her. I have been viewing her status deliberately and indeliberately ( you know how after viewing one status on WhatsApp, it slides to the next status of another contact).
She has tagged me twice with 20 other possible simps on her Facebook post, I was tempted to comment and warn her never in her life to tag me with unknown guys in any of her posts again, but I held back and just acted like I don't care, while most of the idiots tagged with me were liking the posts commenting with their simping brain.
I will be choosy when viewing status henceforth, so as not to mistakenly see hers.

👍👍👍

Phoenix873:
Thanks man. I think I will go with option 2, reject their comeback gestures, because trying to go with option one to recount my losses will be tough knowing how much it is and how jobless those bitches are.
Now, I have thought of blocking and deleting the first bitch whom I gifted a phone on all our communication channels since she has become of no use to me, but at the same time, I don't know whether to keep her there and continue ignore her while we have access to each others posts and status updates, so she can be seeing how I have moved on and progress fine and know that she messed up by losing me?

I don't block women I reject on my phone. I just ignore them. Their texts or chats are left unread, unchecked and permanently ignored. Same as their calls. I act like they don't exist because to me, they don't! A few weeks later, I have even forgotten their names.

You choose this method if you will keep a strong frame. It doesn't matter what she uploads or sends on status or whatever, don't check or be curious or tempted to check. Any attention is preferable to women. Just don't give ANY.

I also use this same method on the femrangutans I dash a 'K' on NL. They never get anything else but that from me EVER again.

SonOfHercules:
Why

1. You stay in the same compound and go to the same workplace. Any relationship you have with her is directly proportional to your work-home health. Any day you guys fight, it will be evident in both.

2. She gave you signs. Are you sure she wasn't doing that as a friend, getting you to spend your resources while frienzoning you? You are talking of love after knowing her for how many months?

3. What are your plans for her, assuming her green light is truly green? Marriage or knacking? Your answer determines what happens in 1

ChybuzzDD:
Congrats,man, but why the Benz when you're going to spend only a few weeks in Nigeria before travelling back?

What will become of it when you go back?

Let's all avoid focusing on pleasing others when we haven't reached our final destination.

I don't see that Benz as a necessity for now.

It doesn't matter what you see or don't see or have seen. It's his money. He can spend it as he fits. Who told you he is pleasing others biko?

I don't understand Nigerians and giving unsolicited advice when it comes to other people's money.

SonOfHercules:
Good evening bosses..
There is this lady I'm working with and I like her.

She's always giving me the green light but I can't initiate the conversation. We are actually living in the same compound and also working at the same place but I just love her ways of reasoning cos she isn't materialistic and she is also resourceful.

I've tried very hard to kill the feelings but it isn't going, the more we communicate the more I love her.

Now I'm thinking if i should take her on a date or probably tell her cos we are friends.

*Sighs*

Phoenix873:
I get your points bro. Be assured that my simping days are over. I am fully red pilled now. What prompted my question was the fact that I lost hugely in the hands of those two bitches during my simping days, and I feel should the opportunity arise, I shouldn't waste time to reverse the game in my favour, using the redpill to fvck and dump whichever of them had the nerve to try to reestablish communication with me. But I guess your view is that I should cut my losses and totally move on and forget about them both or ever trying to reestablish communication with them, isn't it?

I got you.

If they ever come.back, are you strong enough to play the redpill game? If you are, you could recount your losses in terms of money(pussytime means nothing to me) and resources. Let them be the one to chase and take care of you till you dump them. It takes real discipline to pull this off or you become pussy whipped and a simp again.

Most times, even the fact that you rejected their comeback gestures already settled your value. Shows you won't tolerate nonsense and ingredients from, shows you value your own self.

Take your pick but I always go for 2. No need wasting time fuqin a pussy already jazzed and juzzed by another nigga for a year.

Phoenix873:
Good evening comrades.
I got played and used during my simping days which was like months, ago. I have been aware of the redpill and this thread for a very long time but never took the teachings to heart despite knowing it is full of wisdom to navigate life, relationships and female manipulation.
Not until I got my fingers badly burnt by the female gender in the name of a relationship, and losing heavily in material and monetary terms did it occur to me that truly, the redpill is the ultimate guide and shield against costly female manipulations.

Actually, it took me two failed parasitic and manipulative relationships with two girls before I finally came to my senses and wholeheartedly pledged to stop being a simp, a nice guy, or people pleaser, and finally decide to make the redpill a way of life.

My question now is, the two ungrateful and manipulative ladies I had failed relationships with months ago, I gifted one a phone to improve communication between us and gifted another cash to get a phone for the same reason, because I just relocated to a distant location cos of work.

When I found out that the first one whom I gifted my old phone to was using it for the intended purpose ( not communicating with me unless I initiated the chat, and even at that, chatting in an annoying manner with those one word replies and no vibes), it dawned on me I was forcing this thing, so I went on silent mode and stopped all channels of communication between us, letting the fake relationship die a slow death. The second one I gave money to for a phone, lol, till this day, haven't heard anything from her, lol.

Now, I have a feeling either or both of this girls might wanna resume communication somehow, I loved them before but not anymore, I don't know what to make of them should they try to re establish communication. Don't even know if I should block the one I gifted a phone (we at connected on WhatsApp and messenger).

In the event that either of them comes back, I honestly don't know how to deal with them. Whether to tell them straight to fvck off, or turn on my redpill mode and try to reestablish the relationship with them but on my own strict term.

You are giving me simping vibes or what dafuq is the meaning of your last paragraph? Re-establish relationship with two girls who took you to the cleaners? Would it kill you to find other women egbon? WOULD IT? Respect yourself na!! What do you think they will come back for, if not to you use and dump you again! I have met good women and bad women after testing them. It's the trial that shows who dafuq you roll with. How in God's name do you buy a phone for a gf when you are not her father? Is it just me or are Nigerian men really beyond saving? As I am typing this, another nigga is busy hustling like die to give his gf the world, while all he gets in return is a slack pussy, boxers and love names. The cycle still goes on till he gets burnt and decided the redpill is life.

N.B: There are thousands of men like you on NL. You know the redpill, you read it, you don't believe it or gave a fuq till it happened to you because you believe yours is different. You waited till you got used and dumped to realize what we say here is right. I almost don't have pity for you bro. Sôla on Twitter is hated mostly by his own gender for trying to liberate them. On this site, I have been called names just because of being a redpiller by men like you. Would it kill you to even listen to what your fellow men are trying to save you from? All women are to be tested till you can at least have some assurance because they are AWALT.

*sighs*

Such a nice simp

bukatyne:
You now see that your post doesn't make sense.

If your spouse doesn't meet your requirement anymore, let them go before you pick 'a better person'.

That is the honourable thing to do.

K

dontrulee:
I can relate to this story because I'm asexual. I've found ways to gain pleasure that's higher than that from sexual pleasure. My current gf is a virgin and asexual too

Something is seriously wrong with you. Not because you claim asexual but you have a gf who is a virgin yet asexual and you mumuishly believe that shiit?

God! WTF is wrong with men these days?

She didn't want to have sex and bros still married her.


*Walks off*

My hand no dey

ElasmoBranchii:
I have never seen anything so jobless. Hope that thing will stop attention seeking and finally get a life.

I don't want her to get a life biko. Who will hate my guts here? I need a mudafucking fan.😄😄😄

Karlifate:
💯🔥🔥🔥

Her obsession with Martinez is something else. She really wants that dude, who doesn't want her.

The rejection is like a dagger to the heart. I pray she never heals from it. 😁😁😁

bukatyne:
Can we infer that if the husband is not providing well or good in bed, the wife can start dating the driver?

Keep infering. Na your inferral.

folake4u:
My condolences to the family.

I know the indescribable pain in losing a child. It hurts so much and feels like the wound will never heal.

May the Good Lord comfort them.

You do?

I thought you be student for Uniben oh..never knew you had a child.

My condolences

Christistruth03:
Haaaa

This is why some wise Yoruba men fear Polygamy greatly with their lives

Unexplained Premature deaths if you mistakenly bring in Strange Women

It also happens when People Join Secret Societies

This pattern of Strange deaths almost wiped out many Families in the Past


Yul Edochie needs to become a Prayer Warrior Now

Go to Motherless Babies home right away and make sure you always contribute Substantially to the Upkeep of the Orphans there, feed and Clothe them

God Almighty will show you Mercy

What dafuq is this?

You too wan join form motivational speaker?

Just type RIP and move

iezeiyida:
I agree with Gov. Godswill Obaseki's statement that Yahoo Boys are intelligent..

Yeah. These guys are really smart. Let the Nigerian government create enabling environments for particularly the youths. Nigerian youths need job, and other skills that can better their lives and future so they won't engage in illegalities

They are smart with all the juju I dey see for ground so?

One even used the Queen of the Coast picture 🤣

Lovilla:
trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.

MURDERESS!!!

😁😁😁😁😁.

OP na you, talk true... No dey lie for us hia

Reasons?

1. You are a bad cook

2. You are a feminist who refused to do house chores

3. The maid has big yansh and soft breasts

4. She dey use correct gwuogwuo for your husband food

5. She already started serving the other food for your husband and she serves it really good...like the one going through his mouth.

Solutions?

Call your pastors or the elders. Time is running out. Especially on the gwuogwuo part