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TruthDefender:
She is the daughter of the well-known Poi master Francis Van Lare. US born with Nigerian parents.

The guy is a weakling because he could have easily relocated back to Nigeria and have a great life

Kai...see FBI

Better person

cococandy:
And neither do you guys have enough information to claim the ex is a Nigerian woman.

Out of all the speculators here, I’m the only speculating based on what’s likely to be true.

The rest of you are just using it as an opportunity to rant against Nigerian women like you usually do.

Go and sit your flat ass down

She is US born with Nigerian parents, you prejudiced woman!!!

There is no escaping this one. I CAUGHT YOUR ASS!!!

dealslip:
I have been married for probably longer than you are, Submission in marriage is to secured men. Men who are submissive to God. Once you are scared of what your wife will do to you abroad just know you have been oppressive towards her

This is bullshit....

I have seen men who treated their wives like queens and were abused, used and dumped.

What dafuq is submission is to secured men? Did you negotiate this when he was paying your bride price despite you not being a virgin?

I have said this often, there is no way I'm tolerating all these shiits from a woman I never met a virgin

AngelicBeing:
HIAN, wetin Gboyega do you na, take it easy jare

That dude is something else...Shuuuuu

irumole1975:
lol that GboyegaD will always find ways to whitewash what happens in these sainier climes and make it look posh. In his mind he thinks the fact that you’re not out to hurt people and take their money will means other people will do the same. I think when people live a substantial part of their life in these western countries, they tend to be subtard or a retard over time and they just go gentle, timid, weak, always at the mercy of their wives etc. Some of them will even see another man fvking their wife on their bed and will say “I’m sure I must have annoyed her to make her do this. Communication is the best and we will communicate more so this doesn’t happen again” many even give their wives cheating pass to make her happy and so she don’t deny them sex when it’s that turn. A lot is happening in sainier clime but the Nigerian way is to always paint the positive part

That GboyegaD dude is someone I will avoid in real life because he can poison you. He is such a snake. How does living in saner(we know it ain't that saner) climes make you lose your reasoning as a man. The guy is always talking rubbish just to look good to the female folks on NL and I just wonder which kain low self esteem dey worry that guy

Tightpussy2024:
Proverbs 11:24-28

24 One person gives freely, yet gains even more;
another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.

25 A generous person will prosper;
whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.

26 People curse the one who hoards grain,
but they pray God’s blessing on the one who is willing to sell.

That is why people like you and luminouz will never prosper in this life
I am giving you expo and root cause of your problems in life.

Thank me later

All this talk from someone whose moniker and probably her best achievement in life is tightpussy? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Werey!!!

Vicky951:
STFU psycho! When a doctor molest your wife or daughter, give him an applause! Or when you see your wife sleeping with other women and neglecting the kids with news of how she’s molesting men in her place of work, give her an applause, dimwit!

Now I know what your problem is. You are jealous of a dead man...someone whose boots are not even fit to lick on your best day.

I understand you now. I hope he haunts you, I really do

GboyegaD:
Do you have problem with comprehension? Where did you read my comment about the dead man in this case? If you have a problem with my opinion, it's your business because I don't have to reason the way you do.

Gboyega... shût dafuq UP!!!

Fishlips.

Tightpussy2024:
this Ibadan tout,you again!

If you find something reasonable to do with your life,you may have become something in life by now

Bla bla blaaaaaaaaaa

E enter your blood abi?


It's always about the money for you.

Wait, so you dey UK too? Lol...no wonder you dey scream for more money. Ole

Tightpussy2024:
Oga put your emotions in place.

Ask these questions to yourself:
1). Who asked for the divorce?
2) what caused the divorce?
3) who calculated the money (the court)?
4) how much does he earns monthly?
5) Are you ready to take care of a single mom child? If no,why not make the father do so? So she doesn't go around looking for who to accept her and her child?

Since they are also your kids, why can't you take care of them YOURSELF?

it's always about the money to you lots, never about all these questions you asked.

I thank my stars for the redpill.

Tightpussy2024:
Like dullards that they are,men will start blaming women. That is likely 0ne quarter of what he earns. Who will marry her as a single mother? You know how divorcees are stigmatized. Who will assume the role of taking care of another man seed? Obviously men fight for custody not because they love their kids but to avoid paying child custody.so they can easily drop the child with their aged mother and send peanuts just enough to feed the child since grandma economizes.

Werey

GboyegaD:
The issue is many of our men carry the Nigerian mentality abroad which doesn't help. Be humane, reasonable, responsible, and above all be truthful.

No suppose is a devil and if one sees the sincerity of the other, the tendency of going all out on their evil intentions are reduced greatly.

Jesus, why am I not surprised you will still find a way to blame the man even after he is dead?

Dude...dem use simp water bath you ni?

You are embarrassing the male gender abeg...

Fiscus105:
The trash you guys doing here, claiming Africa man, need to be cut into size over there.


If you behave like good man and caring husband over there, you won't have problem with ur wife.

I know several guys that married over there and still enjoying their marriages, those guys that often encounter marital problems are the one that doing shit, they known them for in Nigeria.

This is premium bullshit...

I know several 'good husbands' that were cleaned out too, both in UK and US. They were driven out and their properties taken

The fûck are you saying?

Vicky951:
He deserves it though. Everyone is just lashing out on the woman. Did you bother knowing the cause of the divorce. Or you think the US government is stupid? Before they will take it license, and limit access to his kids, something prompted him.

If you know you have a character flaw as a man, like aggressive cheating, verbal, physical or emotional abuse, better stay in Nigeria. Foreign countries had zero tolerance for these behaviors against women.

As someone who has been in the USA for over 6 years now, and know this family, the man deserves everything. I have zero empathy for me. If he were to be my brother, he still deserves it. Women are humans too and deserves to be treated right. The woman even gave him an option of going back to Nigeria for a while or getting another space so they see how to resolve the issue with time and he said instead of leaving for Nigeria, he’ll get a divorce. And he got it and even more! May his soul rest in peace.

May his soul rest in peace after all the shiit you said about him?

Are you mãd?

I hope he haunts you in your sleep

Merry100:
🤣And she must obey. I am the head, you are the tail. You dare not go to your father's house because I have commanded you not to go there.

I just don't understand some men. The traditional mindset is deeply ingrained in them, and they expect every man to follow this perception.

A guy doesn't need to marry a woman he can control like a toddler. If a man is responsible and marries a woman who is also responsible, respect will flow naturally. Responsible people know how to handle situations maturely; they don't play power games.

Please go away with your mindset abeg. If you think our culture is archaic, then don't marry or marry a simp. You lots are the ones looking for rich, handsome, six packs and all that jazz but he can't demand submission from you? A man will pay bride price and bridal list nonsense for damaged women and he still won't even get submission in his own home?

Nah why men dey make una babymama na

Merry100:
Bride price does not give a man the right to control, degrade or disrespect a woman

Not all men even pay high amounts as bride price, and some families rejects bride price. My father paid my mother's bride price during their engagement, but my grandpa returned it back to him and said, "my daughter is not for sale."

Superstory.

Merry100:
Why are sugarcoating his words? Does it even make sense to control a fully grown adult to sit, stand, run, come, go, lie down, or sleep? She be Bingo?

The guy could have simply said that marry a woman who is understanding and respectful. What does he mean by "a soulmate that you will tell to sit on the ground, and she will"?

Sorry to say, he is one of the worst types of men to marry. Not only do they try to control their partners, but they also try to dictate their partners' existence.

Women are generally understanding. You can explain to a woman how you want things to be, and she will often agree with you, even if she isn’t entirely convinced. But what is the purpose of a man asking a woman to sit on the ground if it is not just to degrade and disrespect her? Only insecure men would even make such a demand, and only a woman with her own insecurities would be willing to accept such an absurd behaviour.

Rubbish

Prettygirl200:
Submission shouldn't be forced but should be earned, only a slave should submit to a master not a wife, she's is your partner this is just a way to show that y'all don't view women as humans. When you act right and respect your wife, submission will come naturally. Know this and have peace!!

Bla blaaaaaaaaaa....don't collect bride price then

Mariangeles:
She no know where club dey?
So irresponsible, so disrespectful.

Your body just dey pepper you these days!!

Relationship issues? Let Lumi be your father confessor!

duduade:
Broke azzzz rapper

Very dirtyyyyy thing....

I don't know why you decided to carry headache...

🚭

If gaynesssss is beginning to worry you take it away from this thread

Yen yen yen... STFU

Mom007:
Bia this he goat, I wasn't talking to, with, or about you and your type in any way, form or manner. It's like you want to be unfortunate in life. Do I look like the type that entertains foolishness like yours? The person I was speaking to has received and acknowledged the message so just where and how do you come in?

If only small children like you know that the words you utter, even on social media have power and go wait for you at critical junctions of your life, you will throw your phones inside River and use your words wisely.

Wow...see what a mummy of life is saying on SM? Is your message not a direct reflection of how evil you are? I pity your husband, poor man!!!

duduade:
Me and you no dey the same category...

You and your big ọpọlọ 👀👀👀

STFU

Serendipity2023:
How did this nonsensical vag1na worship start?

So I will be going on a date with a woman who isn't sick or physically challenged;

I will leave driver's door, and go open passenger door for her to seat in the car.

Then I return to drive.

I do same for her to alight from the car.

Then when we get to the date venue, I hold the entrance door,

At the table, I pull out the seat for her before getting mine.

And this happens even in Nigeria where the man is paying the bills for the date 99.99% of the time.

And in a world where women claim equality with men and demand it too?

How did this tomfoolery start?

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That's simping of the highest order. You can respect your woman without becoming her servant. Infact, doing all these shiits gets her to think she is better than you. When you pedestalise a woman, she doesn't respect you but scorns and belittles you. Treat her like your woman but like a normal human being but simps won't hear and so we let them burn

Prettygirl200:
Godabeg ooo see what a man of 40 is saying? So you finally married a slave not a wife? What you call soulmate is a woman you will tell to sit down and she will sit down? So apparently she doesn't have a say? You succeeded in marrying a slave and you are happy, nice one!!

Shût dafuq up!!!

You know damn well he meant a submissive wife but as usual your inadequate comprehension skills and zigzag emotional spectrum made you see red instead of yellow.

Are you married? No! Did you ever pay bride price? No! So how in hell do you have the guts to tell a grown ass man not to look for a submissive woman!

Mom007:
Sha marry who get sense. Someone that will not ask you to spend your whole savings on marriage. In fact, let me give you a pro tip. Ask your intended what she thinks a reasonable budget for marriage is aside the things obligated by traditional bride price of wherever she is from. And yes, she must be ready to contribute at least a third of that ammont.

Which mumu traditional Bride price must he pay for a non virgin? Or you have forgotten that BP is paid only for virgins back then?

Nah why women dey behave anyhow for marriage na...how will I pay one nonsense BP for a woman with 10-50 body counts and be kneeling to propose or whatever to her? I am never doing that shiit!!!

duduade:
Even with this 5m... You still need to work on your hustle...
God will run it well for you

You need to make sure when you eventually see someone you want to settle down with.. make sure she's has some earnings


Never ever marry a woman who is a liability

Na bad thing

Alaye go and sit down....he shouldn't marry even with 5m? Are you high? You wet dey talk get 1m?

Jeshal is my man of the year....

Steadily dishing out cold, hard pills to choke and set you up right at the same time.


One love y'all

whippersnapper:
The werey wan turn am to cruise to console himself. If the deal had pull through we no go hear am as e go transform all him family members life oh. I feel his pain though.
Always count your chickens before they're hatched

What are you even saying?

You last sentence is wrong!!!

iInjureHerYansh:
The difference is you’re a fool

Sure...drug addict!!!

DrAda:
How long do you think it will take before Americans launches a massive protest against Trump?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

iInjureHerYansh:
I started using trams since 2011 and i still use trams till date
I even used yesterday
Since i started the highest i have taken is 400mg and that was the last time
I maintain my 200mg jeje and I take it when i have too much work at hand to do and i need extra energy or as a way to reward myself for a job well done. I also make sure I don’t take it more than once a week. I think when people talk about addiction i just see them as greedy people who lost control of themselves. Because your hands can not force you to take drugs, except you allow your mind to control you which results to making you act. Na why i no dey pity addicts especially when it’s a man.
I just see you as someone that lacks self control and you’re paying for it. If you like don’t man and do the needful you go pay tire

So to you now you are not a drug addict?

Mumu...you are a chronic drug abuser and your system is being damaged gradually. You are dying and forming jagaban for others? What's the difference between you and OP?

Samantha125:
Yes, me too.

Urgh.....drug addict!!!

Get away from me, zulu wîtch!!!