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JESHAL007:
Genuine desire could come to an end. A woman could be crazy about you today, and in the next 2 years she doesn't see you as the man she needs. Genuine desire in the mud. With women, anything can happen. Well, if there's anything that I've benefited from the redpill, it is the need to be prepared for the worst at anytime

Golden!!!

Samantha125:
Many women across the American continent get kidnapped, raped, subjected to GBV, and get trafficked on a daily basis... It's just that when we talk about America, we mostly only focus on the USA, forgetting that America is a continent and not a country... Most of those rights are only applicable in the USA.

Young girls are forced into child prostitution and their justice system isn't doing much about it, the police are either working with the perpetrators, or they're afraid of them... There are some areas in Mexico where ladies are even advised not to go to because many of them have disappeared without a trace.

It is also alleged that Miss Panama during the Miss Universe 2024 was disqualified from the pageant for leaving the hotel under no supervision, risking her safety and the reputation of Miss Universe pageant.

I'm very sure that in some European countries the situation is also similar, they're just good in hiding their dirty laundries.

And how do these justify the OP's post or you read the wrong post?

Always forming victim!!!

Pukkalolo:
I get what you are trying to say, but you still missed the major point I was trying to pass across.



Let's talk about the two bolded.


The first one:

You have to understand that Brothers that talk like me actually don't think satisfying a woman is hard work; infact, quite the opposite. We actually think is easy—We just think trying to satisfy a woman is NOT the goal.

Most Men who feel heartbroken, cheated, used or exploited by women, and who now have hatred for women—the vast majority of time, their problem wasn't lack of sex game.

If satisfying a woman sexually was the major problem nice guys, simps and average guys have with women—then a big thread like this wouldn't exist. Because satisfying a woman sexually is fairly easy.

I have met guys who are simps and nice guys that still knows how to Bleep girls really well and satisfy them tho.

You missed the major point: it's not about satisfying her; it's about making her satisfy you.

In that post, I sighted that example that
I have had some girls going to watch videos or read books on how to satisfy a Man on bed, and coming up to me the next time with new sexual skills just to satisfy me.

If you read that post open mindedly, you’d understand that an “unsatisfied” girl wouldn't even be making effort trying to watch videos or read stuff on ways to satisfy me.

For a girl to make those effort, it means she was sexually satisfied with me. And that's the reality—I made the girl cum her brain out. But the goal wasn't to satisfy her; it was to satisfy me. So I gave the girls the impression that they've not satisfied me the way I want. That's where the real game is.


My major “game” with women is playing hard-to-impress. I act unexcited or impressed with her. That's because I want them to put effort into trying to please me too.



Now, the second bolded

The story of Ebang doesn't tell anything special; at least from my own experience.

There are many Men in Nigeria who are smashing more women than Ebang could imagine… The only difference is that those Men aren't mounting camera to video their sex. Or worse a lot of Men also have their sex tapes but it just it haven't leaked yet.

Just like the saying, “na who dem catch, be thief.”

A lot people just hasn't been caught yet in the sexual act

If I myself or few other Men I know video taped their sexual activities with women and it got leaked, we will also trend online. Nothing special.

Anyways I hope you get my point.

You didn't address many of what I pointed out in your earlier post but you clarified some in the new post. All I read from your earlier post was 'i couldn't give a Bleep about her bla blaaaaaaaaaa'.

I disagree about the 'majority of men who were cheated on, had sex game'. Majority of men were cheated on because they had no SEX GAME. I am talking from personal feedbacks from women I have been with and those who confided in me. Most men don't have a fuqin clue how to satisfy a woman. They think it's about WHAM WHAM GBAM AND SHAKABULA!!! Or take drugs to enlarge their diicks and just BULAWAYO her pussy with that. So men with sex game stand a higher chance of retaining women because women know how hard it is to get a guy who is good enough, lasts enough to get them off. But your diick game is not all that makes you a man.

Your will, intellect, strength, vision, hustling spirit and charisma are involved too. But most times, at the core of a woman, sex is what gets her hooked, even though you have these good qualities. But the key is...once you diick game is set and you have satisfied her a few times, then you can relax and pace yourself. You don't need to make her cum every single round or time. She knows you can do it and you know you can do it but you give yourself time to choose when and where she gets her cum. You became her love-vendor and your prowess is her crack and she is hooked to you. you don't spend every waking moment making her cum every time, because there will be days you are tired or sick and she needs to get that. Be in control and she will get hooked to you.

I'm using Ebanga as a classic example of women (no matter their status or wealth) being willing to do anything including being sex taped, so long they are hooked to a good D. That's the level of addiction your sex game can get you,if you can work on yourself and get your shit together. It shows women love a good D-game and will DO ANYTHING FOR IT. THAT'S MY POINT!!! That's special because I know from my experience that only few men reach that level without drugs or drinks


This is a technique that has always worked for me.

Pukkalolo:
@bolded

You need to understand that nature didn't make men losers, it's men that made themselves loser because of their desire to “satisfy a woman”

The simps are always trying to satisfy her needs, where did that lead them too — heartbreak.

Here's the worst: Men are trying to satisfy a woman sexually.

Even here on this forum, I see guys say things like, “if you want to satisfy a woman, and keep her coming back, you need to have a good dick game.”

It's no wonder guys are taking drugs or dangerous herbal substances just to satisfy the modern woman. It's no surprise that a lot Men have lost their life during sex—they are trying to satisfy the woman.

The goal isn't to satisfy her; the goal is to make her satisfy You.

After the first kiss, I have had girls texting me, telling things along the lines, “I am sorry about our first kiss, I will make it up to you when we next meet.”

That's because after the kiss, I act unimpressed and tell them in different words that they need to learn how to kiss better.

Seriously speaking, After the first sex, I have had some girls going to watch videos or read books on how to satisfy a Man on bed, and coming up to me the next time with new sexual skills just to impress me.

This is because of my behavior or words towards them after sex.

The goal is to make them try to satisfy me. My mindset is—satisfy me or get lost.

That might make me look like an big asshole… but I don't care.

You don't keep a woman by trying to satisfy her.

As a Man, it's important that the woman is also putting in the effort to satisfy you. That's how you genuinely keep a woman.

Nah...you are wrong on this.

You develop yourself to be an Alpha in business, education, body shape and you refuse to upgrade your sex game? That's not cool.

I have never taken a sex drug on my life..trams, Viagra or burantashi or any other brand. I just keep fit and use sex as fun/exercise too. I realize men that talk like you think satisfying a woman is hard work but it's not. Satisfying a woman is both imprinting you on her pysche and developing your own bed game. You control her that way. I never knew just how poorly other men's game were till I had women cumming under me. Doesn't matter what age or shape, women will do anything for a man who unlocks her sexual well. They will take care of you, protect you and serve you, especially if they already chose you.

I'm not an advocate of using drugs for sex or killing yourself with goddamn concoctions from road side sellers. Just natural body and dick cleansing should do. We all know sex is a tool and women hold it over us all the time. If I have a means to use that to my advantage by making women cum their brains out, hell yeah I absolutely will use it. I'm good at it..hell, I'm great at it. And it's not all about banging like a warrior. It's about getting to her sensitive spots and unlocking it. Shouldn't the story of Ebanga tell us anything? You control a woman whose pussy vibrates for YOU.

This is my personal opinion.

ChizzyBuna:
Dede Linus take am easy naaa

He told you his story and you say he is lying!

Is it your story?🙄

Dottore:
China is developing lots of countries in Africa, Asia, Middle East and even European countries simultaneously through BRI without noise. They don't meddle in other countries politics and they have made it possible for everybody to have access to all home appliances, gadgets etc. The West could have prefered people to keep seeing mobile phones and DVD players as things meant for kings if not for China.

China have demystified car manufacturing that ordinary man now have a taste of what brand new vehicle looks like and even own one. They are even offering partnerships to anyone that can afford one million dollars to start assembling cars and trucks in any name of your choice anywhere you want it in your home country. That's why you are seeing Innoson, Nord, JetMover, all manner of Hiace bus variants being used by transporters.
No western country could have done that. Never.
They'd prefer calling you monkey and having you leak their asses.

You are so ignorant that it hurts.

You think China is innocent?😳 Or the so called help they give you is free? They do that in exchange for your critical minerals resources. That's all they care about. They also call you monkeys and treat you like trash and they won't hide it. Go to Chinese companies in Nigeria and see the way they treat their Nigerian workers.

You know nothing, Jon Snow

Namaster:
FACTS!

That meme is just STUPID.

If USA wants to be the Daddy of the world, it has to foot the bills.

And this makes sense to you?😳

dealslip:
Bye eran Iya Osogbo and stop beating all over the thread. On top say you poor, you still jobless. Expecting me to be discussing vomit with you laaro Monday. Engage your poor female relatives. Bye Eran Iya Osogbo 🤣🤣🤣

Yeyeslip puhleeaaase!!!!

It's like poverty dealt with you early in life so much you see it everywhere you go. Don't you have any other defense?

Laaro Monday? Pele o...aunty busybody. Yet you still dey reply. Your husband no dey around to console you abi? Because I can't imagine a woman cradled in her husband's arms getting time to type online... Using meeting as excuse to yeyeslip everywhere.

Kindly getat! But I know you will still reply me .....🤣🤣🤣

dealslip:
Whatever you wrote up there I don't have time to read it, I wish the same. Like I Said child, I have a meeting for 8am. Thank you for the comedy you provided me this morning. Now go and help Mummy fetch water in your poor neighborhood

You keep replying and now I'm fearing for your husband. What's your obsession with me na...

Kept yelling meeting, meeting like agbado hawker and I'm wondering why are you telling me the specifics of your mundane life. Just to make yourself feel more important? Damn ...your life must be that boring to seek so much validation online. You sha wan prove yourself say abroadian na big person too?

Ok..you have meeting, I have heard you. Get outta here and go drink some water...and next time, watch your mouth with me

dealslip:
Ok child, I have a meeting for 8am. Thank you for the comedy you provided me this morning. Now go and help Mummy fetch water in your poor neighborhood

Which mumu meeting? Come back here and let me talk small sense into your agbalumo head!!!

Dealslip ko... Yeyeslip ni

emmaodet:


I understand bro.
Abeg catch cruise small

👍👍😊😊

dealslip:
No be woman carry you, born you and nurture you. That woman still dey nurture till now🤣🤣

I never said otherwise to the first part.... Unlike you who thinks every man in your life is a liability because you are abroad. What dafuq is the matter with you.

A woman is NURTURING me as I type!!! Wanna see some milk?🤣🤣🤣🤣

emmaodet:

Boss...I'm having fun jare ..

Make I pepper them well before I go offline small🙂

dealslip:
Child you are confused 🤣🤣🤣, go get married first. I can't be conversing a child still collecting pocket money from Daddy and Mummy, because where the blaming you enter this conversation.

Please go and sit down...iya osogbo.... Methuselah sister. Your first born is 16 and you think I'm childless?🤣🤣🤣

dealslip:
Pepper from a faceless little boy online,,🤣🤣. Still collecting pocket money from Mummy and Daddy. I have referred your female relatives from the onset so nothing new. Na your poor female relatives who need a man to take them abroad you sabi well 🤣🤣🤣

I have told you aunty Methuselah that all the subtle insults won't work ..I'm facing you and dragging your ass today. If you aren't pained see how you are trying so hard to be relevant with mumu emojis which don't mean shiit.

I am faceless yet you know I'm still collecting pocket money from mummy and daddy? 😳😳😳. How in hell does that make sense na? It's you who sees being abroad as an achievement that's why you crow like a big black bird on every post here. It means nothing to me because I don't tie my innate value to the countries I have been to

wendy120:
Seriously,I come to nairaland to laugh. I come from a generation of women who have all traveled to at least 10 countries. These freaks must come from very poor communities. I hope they heal

Again..it's always about money to you lots. Don't you have shame? Everything has to revolve around money to make sense to you. How in hell do you know which country I am or how much money I have in the bank? I'm talking about values, integrity,honesty, good heart and peace of mind that comes from women who are not using men for papers and you think it's money or travel experience I lacked?

How does your generational waka-waka experience affect your attitude to your men? Or being to 20,000 countries show that you are a good woman?

Why dafuq am I conversing with these set of potato-heads nitori olorun?

dealslip:
honestly the way they reason is almost senseless. Thinking every woman is a beggar and can't survive without them

Can you?

No be man sire you,fed you,sent you to school?

With a man,will you ever get to where you are now?

dealslip:
You no sabi mi. Na your female relatives you sabi. You speak for them

Rara seh....na you I sabi!!!

Nah you...abroadian with big lips. E don dey pepper you ma you are now referring to my relatives.🤣🤣🤣

dealslip:
That's for the poor girls you people marry who haven't visited America or stepped out of the country before. If a person is mean they are are mean, it's not the system that changes them. If you can't decipher people's values from what they hold dear, it speaks a lot about your ability to judge things properly.

Yeah go ahead and blame me na....for why the so called wife turned on the husband. Oh yes! The husband must have done something to trigger her or oh, he didn't judge her values right. He is at fault.

Can you be less obvious about your hypocrisy? Damn!!!

dealslip:
Speak for your wife and sisters

Rara o dealslip our ancestral mother of Methuselah age. I'm speaking for you.

Come and wooze me na!!!

GboyegaD:
No go kill yourself on top my matter ooo. If all you read from my post doesnt align with your ideology, why not move on? It is your low self esteem and your fake pride that makes you bother about how any gender feels about your post. I sabi your type with low testosterone qey dey try form manly by force wey you no be.

Abeg, no be your type I dey follow waka for real life.

Who wan follow your type before, ewu!!!

Abeg getat!!!

dealslip:
You are probably the age of my first son. You know nothing about marriage. After 16 yes in the institution, I can give you some insights. I have told you that to succeed in marriage, you marry people of same values like you otherwise you will end up like Kaka. He married a woman with a different value system.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣... This one doesn't know me. Infact, I'm still inside the womb. Marry people of similar values like it's written on the forehead or girls will tell the truth? Nah today una dey pretend...and once you are in America,your true colors go emerge. Please go and sit down.

Vicky951...

You are doing better than him after just 6 years in the USA? Doing drugs? 🤣🤣🤣🤣


Of course you are

N.B: the girl's father was even the one who fûcked and published the names of women he slept with in Naija and you are defending a family like that?

You are jealous of that dead man..and he will haunt you.

ElevationD:
Get common sense, una no go gree.

How do you define “inappropriate” in that context?
A female patient appears to a doctor, complaining of pains in the lower abdomen. Should the doctor, by rule, not feel the area of complain, as a way of finding the solution?

Or you do not know that in the American society, men are endangered species, with women who have too much liberties? If they do not want make doctors to administer to them, then they should simply get female doctors to attend to female patients.

We do not discount the fact of make doctors who take advantage of their patients. However, we must bear in mind that some women deliberately set up the doctors, just to damage their reputations.

Good reply

AngelicBeing:
LoL at leave me alone, wetin Nigeria women do you, Haha 😂

Oh..not a Nigerian woman thing...it's a global woman thing. Men mean nothing but tools

We were born already two goals down...as men...you labour all your life to be somebody and end still enslaved in marriage?
That's not fair

BigIyanga:
Johnny Depp treated her ex Amber Heard and her family like Royalties and she still wanted his head and career.
Elon Musk didnt give AF about her and she wanted no problrm from Musk

My point exactly!!!

Be ruthless and they will behave...be good and get FŪCKED

AngelicBeing:
l met a Kenya friend in Toronto around 2008, he told me a shocking story , the summary of the story is this>> He sponsored his Kenyan wife to Canada, immediately the woman arrived, she completely change like a Chameleon and started treating the guy like a piece of shit, she started dating another man, got pregnant for another man, she Now had a quarrel with his Kenya husband, she called the police, my Kenya friend was kicked out of the house with a RESTRAINING ORDER, but during all this process, my friend was able to hide some of his asset with different people in Toronto, while the case was going on, l lost contact with him at the moment, so l don't know the final decision from the Court

So long his properties are in Canada,they will be traced and shared. He should have sent them back to Kenya.

I have seen worse than you related. The amazing thing is...the more loving the husband is, the brutal and sadistic the wife is...it's like they derive joy in totally humiliating their good husbands.

That dealslip girl was saying rubbish about 'women won't do you like that if you treated her well' but Kaka is a good example. He was an angel according to his ex-wife and she divorced him because he was too perfect...and walked away with some of his too perfect properties. When I see men walk down the aisle these days, I just start mentally calculating when they will get divorced

dealslip:
Me I don't know all the wahala over bride price, virginity and all the stuffs that triggered you. All I know is - If you marry a person with exact same values as your self,you have nothing to fear but if you marry otherwise. The only exception here is if you have shitty values then be prepared for shit.

Bla blaaaaaaaaaa... Sounds like Hollywood but I have seen way worse on real life. Y'all never care about your husbands...he is just a tool.

Now leave me alone....

diamond68:
yeah. Very beautiful. Someone posted her pic with her dad at a burger joint. Igbo girl

That one is beautiful to you?

I wouldn't touch her with 10km pole!!!

Vicky951:
STFU psycho! You didn’t know he was molesting his female patients that was why he lost his license. Allow a doctor molest your wife or kids, dimwit!

You are a mãd man ...who can't even quote properly


So I have helped you.

So now he molests his patients? Lol...

djon78:
I thought I was the only one that noticed the moniker name

Very contradictory

You dey mind that one...forming woke on a loosepusay moniker!

AngelicBeing:
I understand what you are saying but one thing you should know is this, from my experience living in the Western world and from what I have seen with marriages , is this, you must be ready to be a grade one SIMP or mumu for you to have a peaceful marriage especially if you marry a kolo or mumu woman , l have seen how some women have completely taken advantage of the laws in the West to humiliate their husbands and the LAW in most cases is tilted to FAVOR women in the West, so l kind of agree with men who don't want to bring their women to the West,

I completely agree with you na. I have seen my friends suffer that same shiit.

It's just the guy always defend women here even if they are clearly in the wrong