₦airaland Forum

AlphaNugget:
Don't ever think you can change a woman.....that gender will leave you without remorse, learn game or perish 👍

True talk

JESHAL007:
If a girl doesn't show you her pant she doesn't have genuine desire for you, note I didn't say love, I said genuine desire, but remember genuine desire is not enough for vetting, she must be willing to make sacrifices and compromises for the relationship to work, she must also have a fair amount of feminity and submissiveness which is a natural outcome if she respects you and want to defer to your authority, again her background, strong Christian and traditional values, strong father figure, no dysfunctional home.

Even if she's positive in all the following no red flag which makes her manageable, remember she's still a woman, female nature, feral nature, hypergamy, AWALT, you would still have to handle her neuroticism, shit tests, emotional tantrums and she can hurt or betray you if she chooses

@ luminouz

True talk bro

dominique:
Which hits have lil Wayne produced over the past year that will qualify him for a whole superbowl halftime show, that's he's a native of the host city does not mean it's his rights to perform. I'm sure even him knows that. Kendrick's show may have been underwhelming but lil Wayne wouldn't have been a better substitute

Go and sit your flat ass down, fishlips

What do you even know? Yen yen yen everywhere like residential parrot!!

SnoopTech:
Hello Fam!

I need some advice from gurus here. The thing is, I have been dating this girl for some time now! Honestly, she loves me, though she tries hard to hide it. I have done my analysis and come to that conclusion.

Even when we had issues and broke up, she still came back and apologized. She also emphasized that she sees a future of us together (married) because at the beginning of the relationship, I told her that I date to marry.

I am in tech! Though I am not rich, I earn a decent amount of money for myself.

But my issues are as follows:

1. I suspect she’s involved in coded runs. I have done my research, and from some stories she tells me, though it's not 100% proof, there is a high possibility that she’s involved in "sugar daddy" relationships. She buys expensive phones, clothes, etc., and she doesn’t ask me for a dime. At the beginning of the relationship, she used to ask me for money, but after we broke up and she came back, she stopped. There was a time I even saw her Snapchat story in a hotel room. I confronted her, but she turned it into a fight until the matter died down.

2. She doesn’t listen! In fact, she warns me not to tell her what to do or not to do. If I insist, it turns into a full-blown argument. In fact, if not because I put her in her place, this girl wanted to dominate me and turn me into a "mumu" (fool) who does anything she wants.

3. She refuses to have sex with me. She always tells me she is a virgin, and no matter how hard I try, she will never admit that she has had sex before. Though she doesn’t ask me for money or even bother if I don’t call her for days, all she wants is for us to chat briefly in a day, and that’s it. But she wants me to be loyal.

4. She gets angry when I mention anything that isn’t positive regarding marriage. For example, there was a time I said I would marry four wives. She started giving me the silent treatment for days. Another time, when I said I’d have to complete my MSc before marriage, she got angry.

Please, experts! Can you help me analyze this situation and explain the way forward? A friend says she sees a bright future in me and wants to keep me as her backup husband when she starts reaching her "diminishing age." Because, going by the calculations, we are both young, in our early twenties.

Skepticus

Martinez39s

iichidodo

Rizzputin

Samueltemi337

AlphaNugget

Luminouz

Sabbiboi

*Sighs*

Do I even need to advise you like this?

Because you already annoyed me with your opening mumu statement 'she loves me even though she tries to hide it'

And then proceed to give me your points 1-3.

A woman who doesn't listen to you, never had sex with you and who you don't even know her source of income...loves you? Or is there another type of love I don't know?


N.B: A woman who loves you will do all these things I mentioned. That you still think she loves you despite the blood red flags is just annoying.

The worst man to advice is a man who thinks he is love. That girl doesn't love you. Check her phone, clone her WhatsApp, put your foot down and make her submit to your authority. But I think it's too late for all that. Just leave her.

My 2 cents

Aproko nigga

My own is for the simps:

If you like, spend your life savings on a woman who no send your papa oh...you still have 10 more months to get sense. That's if hunger never kpai you!!!

oluwaseunamos33:
Wow. That's nice. I did same thing some years back

To whom?

SmartPolician:
God has given us power to do everything unaided. Therefore, it's important to seek medical help first while fortifying it with prayers. When you go to a hospital and the tests show nothing, then it's clearly a spiritual issue.

I like this take.

But sometimes it shows something and it is still a spiritual issue. Combining the two is key

jaxxy:
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Are u agege?

Yes babe 😘😘😘😘

jaxxy:
I said what I said. if u don't look normal that's ur business.

You don't look normal sweetheart 💋

BloomingDale:
As soon as I reply I forget whatever you said initially cos it is inconsequential to me. To remember I have to go dig up your old replies. I’m just replying you based on your response to me.

K

jaxxy:
it's too fast. Doesn't look normal

You don't look normal

BloomingDale:
How did the other men handle my case? I’ve forgotten everything they said just as I have forgotten yours cos it was probably all mumu rantings.

You forgot yet you replied me?

Are you normal at all?

That you replied is absolute sign that I am in your brain like a termite digging in.

Now buzz off, yeyeDale

Yes...it's called shiit-testing.

Maintain frame and she will call back. Lose frame and she will be the boss in the relationship and YOU ARE FÛCKED

generalud:
This he goat called tuface is a big disgrace to manhood. I don't really know whether that his pencil like prick does not stay with a particular woman till death do them part. I am fully convinced that he is going into that relationship to squander the lady's wealth, used her, impregnate her for two children before divorcing her.
Is a big curse on him. He needs deliverance. All he needs now is for him to look for a woman that will pray, fast and remove the curses from him before he dies.

You are the big disgrace here because last I checked, he didn't kill or steal or destroy your family's property. He is not violent, a woman beater or a rapist...so how dafuq is he a disgrace to manhood, you fûcking crétin?


What nonsense is this na?

BloomingDale:
Advising her not to pick a man with so many baggages, and run as far away from him is now term jealousy? Something must be wrong with your brain. Hopefully you never get blessed with female children because your way of thinking is hazardous to them.

Kindly shût dafuq UP!!!

I love how the other men here handled your case. Jealous ass mudafuckìng wîtch

Looking4Trouble:
About 20 years age difference. So this dog is also a pedophille

Pedophile?

Do you even know the mean of that word?

A mature 30 year old woman and a 50 year old...and you say its pedophile? Nawa o

BloomingDale:
Well, I’m just glad women are wising up and becoming more callous when dealing with men. They will keep learning from men on how to please themselve first.

What a load of horseshit

BloomingDale:
This foolish girl better shine her eyes. Imagine dating a washed up man with community prick like Tuface. As in, Nigerian mothers and fathers what are you teaching your daughters? No self esteem? Tufiakwa.

Well, unless she is using him to become popular to further her political career. We don’t know the whole story.

Jealousy wan wound your life.

See hatred. 😂😂😂😂

We4all:
I am even preparing to attend our meeting tonight. Care to join me?

Jesus...you are such a mess.

How dafuq did you get a husband?😁

wendy120:
Ability to travel anywhere anytime is a luxury so many people in Africa doesn't have so it is indeed an achievement.

Travelling out is an achievement to you?😳. That's such a poor, cul-de-sac thinking. No wonder you think you are better than other Nigerians.

You confirmed what I said about you... Your only value in life is what you can afford. Your God is money. Damn shame

wendy120:
How are you sure aside money I don't have other value? I speak about how I constantly travel, doesn't even mean I'm rich but I can get the funds to travel if I want to.

Please get away from me. Money is the only thing you have to offer. If not, why call others poor and broke! And how does your travels make you a good woman, which is the purpose of the thread.

We4all:
I am bald, my love.

Leave me alone, witch!!!

gigabyte13:
See as all the female just dey comment with bitterness......
Person say he no do again
Which one come dey vex una there

Before nko?

They are bitter specimens na!!!

adamma24:
If 2face had beat or assault Annie while still married to her...you will come here to shout and talk

If 2face had bear all this silently and something bad happened to him while still married to Annie...you will come out here to shout and talk

Now 2face have move on with his life ...you are still here shouting and talking...

Watin make 2face do way una no go criticize...

2face is mature enough to know what he want ...when he wants it...and how he wants it

Reminds me of the song Kete-Kete by Ebenezer Obey..

No mind that one...yeye lawyer

poshestmina:
Dude is becoming too childish .
What's the need of the unnecessary Videos and shalaye?

Even kept Nigeria flag to 'address' us .
Love and marry who you wanna...If only Annie didn't lose her existence to you ,she'd have seen this coming.


Never force yourself on a man and what you accepted/tolerated from the beginning,ready to do so till the end.
Two lessons I've learnt from this Couple.

Who gives a flying fûck about the mumu lessons you allegedly have learned?

Keep it moving and face your own life. Dafuq!!!

DrAda:
😂 You win

😁

DrAda:
Lol. Fair enough and that's because I always forget momentarily that you exist until you strike.

Face it. You miss my comments. I challenge you.

magicminister:
There was no reason for the lecturer to tap her. He could've easily asked for her to make room but based on the video, it appeared there was ample room in the back for the lecturer to pass through.

Her verbal insult of the lecturer is not a crime.

However, the lecturer's attempt to grab her phone and force her to delete the video could equate to theft.


I don't know enough about this story but based on what I just saw, the lecturer initiated the conflict and escalated the conflict by further engaging the student

You are a mãd person.

Magicmumu

DrAda:
I just realized at this very moment that I have been talking to you all these while. This will be the last time that I make the same mistake.

You always say that but you will still reply me.😀

AngelicBeing:
Hian, focus on you, Haha 😂

Lol..I enjoy teasing her online.

Like all women, she is emotional though intelligent. I wonder how in hell she thinks she can tell a grown ass man and woman what to do with their lives and thinks her opinion matters?

DrAda:
A couple who live, breathe and exist on social media will definitely see these messages. I wish them well. They will need it

Aproko, leave them alone nah..

Focus on me, okwaya?