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janetakan:
You're the one looking for attention on her post. Old fool! Leave her alone.

OLD FOOL, GO AND FACE YOUR WIFE AND KIDS!!

K

Konquest:
If you read my original post without any confirmation bias, you would realize that I empathized with your instinctive desires. I don't like tagging people with wrong labels unnecessarily... I was very CLEAR.

You are being reactive here and have jumped the gun already! I NEVER defended the young man like you stated but ONLY asked for more specifics about his "age range" from you and laid the "groundwork" for you to see CLEARLY why a huge percentage of men worldwide do NOT like giving "cunnilingus." Regardless of this FACT, there are men who do and it's any young woman's right of choice to have these desires with her man in any healthy relationship. If he doesn't want to give a "head," BUT you intensely crave it for the purpose of "bonding" and you think you would faint or "PASS OUT" because it's a MAJOR part of your "love language" blueprint, then you are free to bounce off from the relationship. It's your prerogative. Period.

As a mature older man, I CLEARLY emphatized with you from the get go. I was in reality gonna round off by giving you a "hack or deeper insights" from a "male perspective" as to how to make your man act out the fantasies you crave for in a healthy, committed relationship.

I'll end this convo here and now.

Nawa o..see as mature older man is being taken for a ride. That girl ain't shiit ...she is just looking for attention

AishaDant:
I am fulani, age is not my problem. We hardly really age but clearly you don't know that.

I take very good care of myself.
Keep this advice for your wife and kids okay?

Shût dafuq up, ungrateful little mumu.... Seeking attention everywhere.

dkidd:
Omor wetin my eyes see this night as in right now. There's this neighbor opposite my house. Young couple they have about three kids between them. When I first came into the estate she was very friendly always giving green light but she's very pretty, black slim girl. Then I saw her kids and her husband. So I started keeping my distance. She took notice and reciprocated same. Later she stopped greeting me altogether. She dey even squeeze if she sees me. I needed some loud cos mine is finished. Took a stroll to the boys cos my regular plug couldn't come on time. On my way back almost 12 midnight see this married babe sneaking off to meet a guy in the dark corner of a street not even far from her house. When she passed me she was shocked and greeted I answered reluctantly then stood at my gate and saw her meeting the guy then they both disappeared. So many things ran through my mind. Like where is the husband? The kids, they're probably sleeping so she could sneak out to fvck. Painful thing is the husband dey try na. Young agile guy. Paying for a 3 bedroom self compound, gen, solar, kids in good schools.... Omor why some women useless like this? Chai! Una when dey knack people wives sha... Make I light my loud in peace. I pity some husbands. I wish na my guy I go call am right now but it's well... One day monkey go reach market and no come back.

That's why you need the redpill...

Women will always be women.

In your shoes, I will tell the husband...not verbally but with clues (a phone number dropped or taped to his car or something)

he may be a simp, but at least you have warned him

meobizy:
Women are part of the luxuries of being wealthy.

Shût dafuq up!!

AishaDant:
Last time I checked, silence is still the best answer to a FOOL!!!

Yet you replied me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Logic is really far from women

Nonexisting:
I have sworn never to put my mouth inside a woman's pussy even if I bath her myself. I will never disgrace my ancestors by subjecting myself under a woman's authority. A woman can give a man bj but it will be foolishness for a man to do the same. These days I don't agree to bj sef because I don't know who dey suffer from epilepsy before they use teeth cut my dick.

The epilepsy part is crazy...she will bite straight through the spongy tissues of the dick and all hell would be let loose

AishaDant:
If you are indirectly wondering if I am smart or not, I studied medicine. Honestly, I usually don't care what strangers think of me.

You would have to be important in my life for your opinion of me to even count.

Yeah right!!! Yet you are creating threads looking for attention

Medicine kee you dia

Sapasenator:
Na, that Is a fail in my book. He should be able to give at least an hour of "head", 40minutes head alone and about 20minutes of head in combinations with dexterous fingers before proceeding with intimacy. At least two orgasms for the lady before penetrative intercourse.

What reason/s is he giving for failing in this important duty?
What was is background? Are you his first date?

Dafuq is wrong with you?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

*sighs*

This one's problem is that his mumu boyfriend doesn't give head?

You just told everyone that his dick wasn't good enough to make you cum, so you need his tongue.

I'm a redpiller...I don't give head..my dick does a good job already. Make una no feminize us finish.

It's this kind of nonchalance see finish that made the she-goat develop a beard like the he-goat.

OboOlora:
The answer is simple, most men have low self-esteem and can't approach women except their financial status is worth boasting about.
Most women on the other hand too won't give you any audience except they smell financial gain oozing as you approach them.
It's a transactional world we all live in, give and take.....ole gbe ole gba
So as soon as men hammer, they remember that high class girl in their neighbourhood they wanted to fvck aa while back but couldn't but now that money has come, let me go n approach her.
But some still have money without class sha, e.g, Davido that was kneeling down to beg for pooC. Or maybe oruko lo n ro OBO n bebe fun OBO

All these points never apply to me!

JASONjnr:
He's not opening up because he's afraid of the stigmatisation that he will face henceforth.

Dude is a liar.

And you know this how?

Fiscus105:
Redpil in which, the doctrines they are teaching you guys,.....
....... even the teachers no understand am....


Blind man leading blind people........

NB. The first thing you guys should first know about urself is that, the group is a group of frustrated and hopeless beings.

Having known that, maybe within you guys, there may be flashes of hope, for you guys to see way to go forward.

Lol...yet we are not the ones creating lamentation thread upandan on this forum. So who is the blind one here but you and your ilk?

PinkNature:
What's your say on a girl that insists that she only has male friends. (True, about 5 guys) and zero female friends.

What's the red pill judment etc about it?

Be explicit if you wish to.

Bless you kings.

K

Almiron:
Delulu Madrid fans, initially it was Bellingham balloon noise, then vini took over...the other day Vini dey taunt Gavi that he will win balloon on Monday chai...

Life go humble you so fast. I hope he has a good psychologist cos of his mental health. I didn't see this coming cos all Madrid PR made us believe he don win already.

Rodri is a worthy winner, well deserved. I'm glad he finally got the recognition he deserved.

Balloon dor back to English soil since Pendu won the last one several years ago. Una English fans suppose dey happy, but una bitterleaf plastic Madrid fans go dey sad as usual 😂😂😂

As e dey pain una e dey sweet me.

Another win for Pep and Manchester City FC.

Yamal will win balloon dor before mbappe or Vini.

You are back from your ban. Well I am here again to make your life miserable. Do you know Argentinians think you and your ancestors are monkeys? Have some shame

Kipaji:
I listened to a China White's video the other the day and she advised men to never spend money on a woman they are sleeping with. According to her, if the woman is not your wife, you are just shooting yourself in the foot by doing this. Here is what she said verbatim: "Only give a woman that's your wife money. This is the thing: women see men that give them money as objects. And that's when the disrespect starts to come when it comes to a woman, she will only see you as that. Do not ever give a woman money because once we receive the money from you and we're having sex with you, we think that's exchange, we think that that's what you owe us for us giving you sex. Now, am I saying don't take her out, am I saying don't pay her bills? Do whatever the fvck you want to do. But here is the thing and this is why I am telling you this: a woman will give her man money, especially when you got good dick. We don't be looking for money with the man thay we're having sex with and we actually want. [...] We don't have a problem with giving him money. We don't even ask him for money unless we really really need it."

Now, @Philosopher1979, I would like to ask you three questions. Do you feel a need to give money to the lady that visits you every week? What is she doing that actually deserves of your money? Why does money have to be involved at all here?

I don't spend money on women. Pronto!!! China White nailed this one.

Philosopher1979:
The issue is one should try and find out if a girl really likes you before spending on her.
Maybe guys like this meet a girl online and start sending money to her account.
See its not his fault. We men have provider and protection instict. Mother nature and society wired us that way.
Is just that a girl has to like u first, I mean showcase devotion, perhaps give you a child before u can be this committed.
The issue is that with some men, money comes before anything. Just start spending on a girl without game.
I have a lot of ladies on my phone but only one showed a strong desire for me. In fact, she calls me everytime and is comkong to my house this weekly. I can spend on this kind of lady cause it shows she at least rates me. A simp will start spending on ladies that don't even pick their calls and get half loyalty.
Mlo abiola is an example. His first 3 wives really loved him and even joined him in his quest to be president. Kudirat even died fighting for his cause.
However, the wives that came later were only around because of money. Dna test exposed them.
So a girl liking you comes before money.
A lady that does not puck your calls or call you back does not rate you

So you spend money on her to reciprocate her attention?

jorion:
Mr redpiller, go and sleep. Na una even mumu pass. Stop talking nonsense. As I said, no woman do prepare for you before.

K

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

NOTE:
What applies to wives applies to husbands in this case. There is no double standards in Christianity.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

Egbon..allow her to use intimacy gadgets oh before everywhere go burst.

helinues:
The guy is right to some extent but one shouldn't demeaning himself because of others

K

jorion:
HAHAHA. CONTINUE DRESSING LIKE THE MINISTER OF WOMEN AFFAIRS.

I'M GOOD DRESSING BROKE and I don't give them face except I want to kpansh.

K.

jorion:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I just dey laugh you. Mr macho man.

You think say if woman prepare for you, especially when you like am, she no go fit strip you naked.

That gender are master manipulators.

Not to mention that it is easier to tell when a girl likes you for real when you dress broke

Alaye go and sit your black ass down. There is a reason why we ask y'all to join the redpill. All these your talks won't be needed

Cousin9999:
Uh, some people don't want others to suffer. Some people can see beyond their own needs.

That said, some people don't want to say "no" all day long, or worse. It may be a lot easier and/or safer to camouflage. People do this everywhere. Like going to a poorer area dressed down, or a woman who gets a lot of male attention choosing to wear no makeup, a cap, and very loose clothing.

Bullshiit excuses meant to camouflage weakness. I'm done.

jorion:
This is why I do my best to dress broke outside of work.

Present yourself as if there's something to be gained and they will flock around you.

You are demeaning yourself by dressing broke.

Dress as you want and say NO if they flock around you to ask money. How hard is it to say NO?

Jesus!!!

1Sharon:
Mr "we women this, we women that" has viewed and passed

Waoow😂

Have you no shame....following another moniker like your life depends on it.

Gideonski:
But seriously why are women like this? Let me tell you what I mean:
There's this girl that lives in the same compound as me that I guess she's around her late teenage years or possibly early twenties. She's a very wild girl and I suspected she's into hookup based on her careless dressing and men often dropping her off in their cars early in the morning after night outs. Her friendly nature made us to get along quickly as neighbours. One day she came to me to borrow money, and I innocently gave her. I waited for her to return the money but she never did, and when I asked her about it, she gave all types of silly excuses that made me realise that she didn't want to pay back.
The worst thing is that she would only come to me when she needed something either financially or in items of which I would give to her out of the sake of being just nice.
As time went on I started feeling stupid and used.
Even when her friend came over and started living with her, the friend started knocking my door to ask for stuff within a few weeks! She must have told her about "the nice guy who never says no!". One day I decided that enough was enough and I told them that I will not be borrowing them my stuff and they should buy whatever they need for themselves.
We didn't talk to each other like before but I liked it that way.
This made me realise something about women :
1. Women don't respect nice guys, they only pretend to like them because of what they get from them.
2. Any money you give to a woman is gone. 90% of them will never think of paying you back even when they have it. This is why most guys demand sex before rendering help to ladies. They believe the sex is the only thing tangible that can come out of it. Some sort of a collateral.
In all you do, learn how to say no to ladies that only take from you and never give. That is a parasitic relationship.
My neighbour banged the hell out of a lady that asked him for 2k. He knew she would never pay him back.
They might start to hate you when you stand your ground but it is better to be hated for saying NO than to be loved(If it is real) for being a FOOL.

You are a late bloomer sha.

Something I already knew before I was 15? You think it's a coincidence I'm the chairman of stingy men association?

Hoard your resources or be simps and lose them. Your call.

Basic123:
He is the generation already stop underrating the guy.

Someone that has short down O2 arena twice and many other concerts!

He is already like you already.

Short ko...shot ni!

dominique:
What a way to end an impeccable unbeaten home record, Real madrid fans no go sleep well tonight

Bla blaaaaaaaaaa...big mouth

Kipaji:
The very best YouTuber about female nature and sexual dynamics is China White.

https://www.youtube.com/@ThelionDen/videos

She is an African-american woman who gives men the raw game and information about women. What she says makes the redpill look like a joke. Even Ubunja recommended her. He too sees her as the best content creator on these topics. In some of her videos, China White explains why women don't really want marriage but control, why and how women cheat, the mindset of hoes, women sexual nature, games women play, damaged women, how to benefit from women, etc.

One of the highly discussed topic here is the attraction of women towards bad boys. People like CaveAdullam, emmaodet, luminouz, pansophist, pukkalo, heartofcity12, JESHAL, etc. have given their different opinions on the topic. There are all insightful but there's one problem: they all come from a male perspective. Don't you want to know what a real woman has to say about why and how women fall for bad boys? I summarized below China's thoughts on this question. In the summary below, everything quoted and written in bold are China's words verbatim. Everything below are China's thoughts, not mine.


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China White on Women's attraction to Bad boy


Women like bad boys because bad boys allow them to be who they are, their raw natural self. “He allows her to be as toxic as fvck, he allows her to be jealous, he allows her to manipulate. The bad boy actually allows her to be herself. You don’t.” The bad boy will take anything: the old, the young, the toxic, the hoe, the married bitch. But you won’t because you have standards (which is good). “The bad boy allows women to live their fantasies through him.”

Women are also attracted to bad boys because they seem to not care. “Women were raised to always focus on the guy that cares and is willing to give to his family.” So, when she encounters a dude who has no care in the world, he takes her breath away. It captures her attention the way the ‘good dude’ can’t.

Bad boys are also smooth talkers. “They will make the woman feel like she met a celebrity.” They are very charming. Their energy humbles women. They make them feel like if they miss him they are going to miss out on something amazing. “They try to make the women to believe that they have something that is so amazing” because they believe it in their mind. Make sure you teach your young daughter about all these games. These guys are out there to mess women up, get what they can get, and disappear. Bad boys are quick to retrieve their attention from women after she poured her soul into him, which makes them attached and go borderline crazy. Your daughter should not be easily impressionable (especially by words). It is also important to put your woman on game. Let her know about the games that men are playing out there. Women are typically receptive to these strategies when they are thirsty and unfulfilled.

Now, let’s talk about the woman who never dealt with a bad boy. She heard all the bad things about him: he is a criminal, he will break your heart, he is a loser, he is not a righteous man, etc. This creates curiosity for the bad boy, in a sense. While the good guy respects her, opens the door, tries to get her validation, and give her complements, the bad boy does not give a shit. Her approval is meaning less to him. The bad boy walks up to her with a killing intent. “He doesn’t ask for approval, he takes it. He goes after what he wants, he’s in then he’s out.” While the good guy tries to get her by treating her nice and being friendly, the bad boy will be quick to let her know that he is after her pussy. “He is looking at her like he is about to tear her ass up.” After being told her whole life that she should avoid the bad boy, the woman is confused when she feels so damn good being in the bad boys’ presence. “Her energy submits to him, and he knows it, and he goes in. He literally devours her.” The woman is perplexed: why do I want this ‘bad’ guy? Why am I so excited about him? Did my parents lie to me about the bad boy? “Now she has been imprinted by the bad boy. There’s no going back. She will never look at men the same.” This is why the average guy is a lame to her. This guy is trying to fulfill her needs and/or wants while the bad boy that imprinted her did not give a fvck. While the average guy is asking her ‘what do you need?’, the bad boy tells her ‘I know what you want. I know what you need. Whatever the fvck I want, that’s what you want.’ “He’s not asking for her approval, he’s taking it.”


Now, from a woman’s perspective, a bad boy is not always a criminal, a thug, or a street dude. To a woman, the bad boy is the man that “got the best of her, the one that she gave to and got her heart broken from.” It could be anybody: a pastor, a blue-collar worker, a CEO, a regular civilian, etc.

“If you are dealing with a woman and she has been with a bad boy, leave her alone. She’s damaged goods.” A woman that have been through a relationship with a bad boy cannot be in a healthy relationship with a man. “She’s been through the mud.” That is, he did all sorts of things with her and imprinted her. “There is no coming back from that.” She is tainted for life and will always have tendencies that pertain to her time with the bad boy. Her past tells a lot about what she is going to do in the future. She will always love bad boys. Your money, status, looks, or whatever, can’t do anything about it. At most, it will be a temporary fix. That said, it is possible that a woman can heal from a bad boy. But that takes years, it’s not something you do in a few months.

To China, bad boys are “men who had fvcked up mothers” or men who had their heart broken by a woman they cherished. They don’t put any value on women. The good guy, on the other hand, is a man that wants to love a woman. There is nothing wrong with this. But, he “gets fvcked when he goes after the bad girl, when he goes after the woman that will never respect him for what he brings as a man and what he values.” In a world where 80% of women have been fvcked up by bad boys, it is hard for the good guy to find a woman that can receive what he has to give. Men must carefully select their women. There are still women out there who believe in loving a man, submitting to him, and putting him first.


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Thoughts?

This is gold. And I agree with the points. Though I don't agree with how bad boys have fûcked up mothers or heartbroken dudes. I never had these two. I just understand nature since the veil of reality has been ripped since I was young. I see things and people for what and who they are.

*sighs*

See the energy strangers waste yelling and cussing one another on the Internet about two countries who view them as monkeys.

Is that not saddening?

eepeepook:
Two people made the child. Both shoulder the responsibilities involved.

See your life....mumu feminist

TheBreastSucker:
And majority of them are hoodrats who have no problem fighting in public, this is the reason why I just suck their breasts and move on to the next one

Wereyyyyyy!!!!🤣🤣🤣