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Kipaji:
I will address this issue.
The redpill forgets that most women just don't give a shit about most men.
Most men don't have any woman checking for them. A lot of men don't have any woman showing attraction to them. Asking these men to go for women who have passion for them is basically asking them the impossible because they don't have such women.
It is wise that a man must choose the woman who chooses him. But what if NO woman chooses him? What is he supposed to choose?

And before you say "just improve yourself, bro", check this out.
Firstly, look at the men women are going for (besides golddiggers/prostitutes going to rich men for money or services). Look at the men women are craving sexually. Are those men self-improvement maniacs? Most are just regular guys around the block. Most never went on any self-improvement journey. A lot of degenerate drug addicts. Secondly, if by improvement yourself you mean wear finer clothes and get richer, the best you will get are gold diggers thay will use for money before going back to the men they truly want to Bleep.

Of course, one should self-improve. I am all for self-improvement. But as far as sex comes, I don't think it has much of an impact. Improve for yourself, not because you believe it's going to get you more sex (the girl you are dreaming about is currently being bleeped by a guy who doesn't even know what self-improvement is).

Lol....I don't believe this. Continue self improvement and I'm certain there will be one girl somewhere who will choose you. Haba!!! Women have choices and preferences like we do too.

We4all:
My love...

You and who?😳😳😳

We4all:
I woke up to hear my phone bleep, and when I scrolled through the message, I shook my head in disbelief. How far will these loan apps go? Attached is a screenshot of the message. To the commenter below, the message was sent to my phone and probably to others as well to defame the loan defaulter. I can't even recall where I met the person at the center of this mess, but she sure had my contact saved on her phone.

It's you ...pay your sokoloan

Mtchewww!!

dominique:
Asians have good genes sha, 41 years looking mid 20s. I hope the Nigerian that put her up.to this illicit trade has been arrested too

Not the age alone. Don't forget the tight pussy!!!

seanwilliam:

He knows what's up!!!

Sonnobax15:
. Mother's love is second to none and indeed priceless..

People wey their mama still dey alive no know how favoured and blessed they are.......

Anyways,my old man is and forever be my super hero cuz he was there when momsy exited this sinful world...

Now you take care of him with every you got mudafucker or I will come for your balls.

Men dey hustle hard and most times na their wives dey reap am

olamoses75:
and that girl is taking doggy from a random street guy that doesn't send her papa. A woman can fall in love with a guy that just helped her change the car engine oil, forgetting the guy that bought the car for her. That gender ehn..... Make I no talk.

Naso....

Nah why you must be about your own development and vet like hell before you commit and even never slack in taking your pills

olamoses75:
So heartless and senseless! We'll, that's what Simps deserve.

Damn!!!

Someone somewhere is busy working and giving his 'angelic' girlfriend all his earnings, sending her to school and claiming she is perfect without properly vetting her.

I won't say pim.

Fattprince23:
I'm very sure he or me never mentioned mindset only or saying working isn't important. We are just telling you how you can create your own reality using positive thoughts.

Read his reply. He made it sound like it's only mindset that made him 8 figures.

It's all love from me bro.

Fattprince23:
Bro, stop arguing with these guys. I'm broke now oh but from the moment I changed my mindset to this time I'm sure it's just a matter of a few month that I will become wealthy, I'm of the feeling that I am on my way to financial freedom. These things can only be experienced it can't be explained so don't bother yourself too much.

Why a few months? Why not now or tomorrow?

You basically said the same thing as we did. Mindset with hardwork wonders, not just mindset on its own. It's really simple bro

chevrolet60:
The hunger is too much. I believe this guy would have asked for help from his friends and relatives, but none helped him. They rather mocked and insulted him. He also came on nairaland to ask for help, but u guys insulted him and called him all sorts of derogatory names, some called him a scammer and even the mods discouraged potential helpers from helping him. God is watching every evil act being perpetrated against a fellow, we'll all be judged.
If u have, and can help, why not help? Whatever anyone chooses to do with the money u give them is their business and not yours. God knows you've already helped.
Someone says he needs help to buy food, u call him a scammer even when u know the current situation of the country. God will judge us all accordingly.
Inasmuch as Suicide is never an option, anyone who drives people into suicide will surely pay for their sins. Let's help one another.

What are you saying? Was he a nairalander?

Aaron12:
There is another true life story that happened that I'm about to tell you brothers, There is a corper by name 'blessing' who is a Delta girl, who has a serious man in her life who is based in lagos, while serving in Akwa Ibom, for Abak, an Akwa Ibom man rented a house for her, every weekend she dey travel come Abak collect steady wiping of her pùssy by the Akwa Ibom man, then she has another Akwa Ibom man she visits in Oron that is bånging her pùssy on daily level too, she is an example of a girl living a fake life. Fine girl with banging body, the iphone XR she is using at the moment nah one of these Guys that are mentioned that bought it for her, every weekend they are transferring nothing less than 50k to her account to come over, I personally saw such alerts on her phone. The day she mistakenly match her iphone with her legs, it was a Saturday, she called the Abak man, the man sent her TF to come over, normal pùssy riding and repaired her phone. She was discussing with us the Guys that she ran from the Abak man because of too much pùssy banging, and that it remained small for her get pregnant, and she doesn't want pregnancy so that they Lagos Guy will not know anything. She was encouraging me to have sëx every time to ease off the spërms that has stored in my system since I haven't had sëx for a longer period.

Story well received 🙂🙂🙂

Aaron12:
What I'm about to tell you is a true life story, I'm a serving corper@akwa ibom state, there is a corper by name 'Philo' who is dating a married Akwa Ibom man, but this lady is over religious. Every morning she is listening to salvation ministry morning prayers and pastor Jerry eze nsppd morning prayers, she is from PH, so you see trust women at your own foolishness

The question I wanna ask is....

Is the married man fûcking her mercilessly and doing due diligence?

Only a fool will trust anyone(male or female) based on how religious they seem. I learned that lesson very very long ago.

superintendents:
I no see your fault, your papa na red pill abi na simp.

🙄

Because you guys doesn't have shame.

I'm not the one begging for 1k online.

Shame is your second name

Proserpina:
See

Small boy attitude

K

superintendents:
fake arss nigga claiming red pill.

😂

You can't afford woman, you become red pill dey play.. We know your type.

So you afford women?

You buy women

Jesus..I'm done with you

superintendents:
Una go dey claim wetin you no be, If e easy do your own giveaway.

Common 1k you go offline, na wa oo..

Nah me say make you no hustle abi?

Make I do giveaway for you? 😄

superintendents:
oya make i drop datail asap..?

Chronic pathetic beggar!!!

You no get shame!!!

superintendents:
is not because of 1k,is for fun, so nobody here his life depends on 1k..who you ever help for this forum sef...

Fun? So Egbon like you with your bushy beards is also composing lines for 1k?

Nawa oh!!!

I can give you 1k if that's what you want.

olamoses75:
Just-in.....Another one

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa😳😳😳😳😳

Apparently, she came out to talk ONLY when rumors started spreading.

Nawa oh....

While I don't mind the love messages, the notion of men ramming love lines together because of 1k is disturbing.

Proserpina:
So Caveadullam self dey drop lines for woman.

Unbelievable

I pity all these small small boys that follow you to a fault/blindly.

Where's that small boy Luminouz ?

K

ICTspecialist:
She's 28, very caring, she got pregnant after being deceived by her ex but after she delivered the baby, dude abandoned her and is currently cohabiting with another woman tho he occasionally calls and sends upkeep to the son and I fear okafor's law might play out anytime she meets with her ex and father of his son
I'm 34 and we're dating and she's being supportive as well, kind, caring and above all respectful.
Well I hope all these characters are not
pretense to get me to marry her and now our relationship and bond has gone indepth.
But I'm scared to tell my friends the lady I'm dating and want to propose marriage to has a son and I'm scared to tell my family as well.
So guys can you marry a single mother?
What's your advise, pros and cons of marrying a lady that has a child from her previous relationship.
Cc advanceDNA nonexisting1 nonexisting luminuoz et al

So you even have the guts to call my name to this post? Did anyone tell you I'm married to a single mom or something? 😡😡😡

iLegendd:
Even if I'm paid, I won't read what you wrote because it won't make sense. It'll be all rambling, abuse and emotional blackmail. So, have a nice day, dear. I have good relationship with women. I treat my women good, according to their characters and I don't take insult or cheating. I foot the bills and will always do, but I'm always ready to walk away if they misbehave. I'm her slave, yet the leader, but not her SIMP.

Nice take. I took my time to read through what she wrote and i wasn't disappointed. I'm yet to see a logical female on this forum and a simple 'K' helps me avoid unnecessary talks with that gender

Berankis:
10 Things I have personally learnt in marriage
1. Lots of women are lazy in marriage. They mostly claim to go to church but are very secretive.
2. You cannot satisfy a woman
3. Marriage demands' pressure can push a man to his death, to crime, misdemeanor and even imprisonment
4 Women tend to see marriage as an escape from the hard work they performed while single, but the opposite is the case
5. Marriage reduces the life span of lots of men
6. Women also make huge sacrifices that are unforgettable like child birth, putting the home together and raising the kids
7. House chores no dey finish, what you do today, you will still do tomorrow, so just so whatever your strength can carry and continue later
8. Woman can be very provocative with words, they can push you beyond the limits and expect you not to retaliate
9. Most women aren't really what you think they are, they change with your ability to do or inability to do
10. Finally, marriage still is the best thing to happen to a man. I am always extremely happy whenever I see my children.

You made good points except that Number 10.

I think you meant a woman because if marriage is the best thing to happen to a man, why are they dying young then due to responsibilities and pressures. Your number 5 point explicitly said that. So...

N.B: You don't need to get married before you have kids.

Akalia:
She does nothing but I don't mind. However, my frustration is that this woman does not take correction and instruction. She does not appreciate my toil under the sun. I work my ass off on a sailing basis to bring good money back home at the end of the month but all she sees are my deficiencies such as not always helping out in domestic chores, being romantic on her own terms, and being assertive.

I can go on and on. Man, I am even thinking along the line of separation for now but I have two toddler sons and that is what is withholding me.

Women are impossible.

Na you cause all that rubbish na. If you give women an inch, they will take a mile. Stand your fucking ground and say no to all that bullshiit and watch her change or you are too weak, begged to marry her, knelt down to propose, paid a hefty bride price or just the type who does anything she wants to satisfy her. When we say men should be Alphas and redpilled before getting married, people vilify us. How in the world does any woman whine that I don't do house chores when I provide everything and she just sits her fat ass down doing nothing and Lumi will tolerate that nonsense?

No be ME. Women became bolder about house chores because they saw that men do it.

SKhanmi:
The problem with women, you give them an inch, they would take a mile.

Help a sensible wife out at home sometimes and she would appreciate and understand why. But see the rest, they would start feeling entitled. Before you know you’re still paying all the bills and doing most of the house chores. No be say dem go still please you for the other room.

I saw a statistics of married couples that shared chores/bills abroad, it was always the guys that ended up loosing because you can’t really satisfy a woman. It’s a trap.

Guys never start what you can’t finish. If you can afford it GET A HOUSEHELP! Nonsense

Exactly!! You nailed it!!

We4all:
Getting married to an African man is like being sentenced to life in prison. Once they pay their peanuts bride price, they think they own their women and can do whatever they want with them. There are still some good men out there, but the bad men overshadow the good ones.

Single woman don drop mumu quote🙂🙂🙂.

Soon, the bride price won't even be paid

JovialJune:
Marriage is not an escape route to anything what exactly is anyone escaping from that isn't happening or present when single?

The best way to face marital life is to expect nothing and hope for the best, and if in a situation whereby one can't cope anymore and one's health is at risk, leave. Marriage is not a do or die affair.

So your marriage is all sweetness and light? No issues?

Nadi una go dey dish out advice to hurt other people

JESHAL007:
Remember guys, some girls are addicted to crazy sex and you won't know, their exes were using all manner of drugs, drinks, pills, styles to fvck the life out of them, some of them got engaged in clubbing and travelling where they hung out with different types of men, asides meeting hypergamy in terms of money and looks, how many can compete with sexual hypergamy, the way they are banging the life out of these girls would make you weep, their pair bonding capacity dead, some become religious after their hoe phase, redpill guys be careful don't settle down for the worst, many guys are suffering in marriages and relationships because they married super damaged sex addicts who would always cheat on them, some did anal, threesomes, orgies, lesbian sex, they are hyper sexualized, normal sex with one dick can't satisfy them again, they are having marathon rounds of sex with abusive guys exposing them to degrading shits. Be careful out there.

Yet our simple men would kneel down to propose and pay bride price

Damian911:
Lol 😆
Who's a dropout?? The financial achievement I can boast of you can only dream of it

K

Damian911:
Keep drinking tears until you're almost 50 with zero life achievements. Well it is written that you shall die in poverty so keeping fooling online! Sixteen years and counting..
..

Lol...at least I'm not a dropout like you