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Gideonski:
But seriously why are women like this? Let me tell you what I mean:
There's this girl that lives in the same compound as me that I guess she's around her late teenage years or possibly early twenties. She's a very wild girl and I suspected she's into hookup based on her careless dressing and men often dropping her off in their cars early in the morning after night outs. Her friendly nature made us to get along quickly as neighbours. One day she came to me to borrow money, and I innocently gave her. I waited for her to return the money but she never did, and when I asked her about it, she gave all types of silly excuses that made me realise that she didn't want to pay back.
The worst thing is that she would only come to me when she needed something either financially or in items of which I would give to her out of the sake of being just nice.
As time went on I started feeling stupid and used.
Even when her friend came over and started living with her, the friend started knocking my door to ask for stuff within a few weeks! She must have told her about "the nice guy who never says no!". One day I decided that enough was enough and I told them that I will not be borrowing them my stuff and they should buy whatever they need for themselves.
We didn't talk to each other like before but I liked it that way.
This made me realise something about women :
1. Women don't respect nice guys, they only pretend to like them because of what they get from them.
2. Any money you give to a woman is gone. 90% of them will never think of paying you back even when they have it. This is why most guys demand sex before rendering help to ladies. They believe the sex is the only thing tangible that can come out of it. Some sort of a collateral.
In all you do, learn how to say no to ladies that only take from you and never give. That is a parasitic relationship.
My neighbour banged the hell out of a lady that asked him for 2k. He knew she would never pay him back.
They might start to hate you when you stand your ground but it is better to be hated for saying NO than to be loved(If it is real) for being a FOOL.

You are a late bloomer sha.

Something I already knew before I was 15? You think it's a coincidence I'm the chairman of stingy men association?

Hoard your resources or be simps and lose them. Your call.

Basic123:
He is the generation already stop underrating the guy.

Someone that has short down O2 arena twice and many other concerts!

He is already like you already.

Short ko...shot ni!

dominique:
What a way to end an impeccable unbeaten home record, Real madrid fans no go sleep well tonight

Bla blaaaaaaaaaa...big mouth

Kipaji:
The very best YouTuber about female nature and sexual dynamics is China White.

https://www.youtube.com/@ThelionDen/videos

She is an African-american woman who gives men the raw game and information about women. What she says makes the redpill look like a joke. Even Ubunja recommended her. He too sees her as the best content creator on these topics. In some of her videos, China White explains why women don't really want marriage but control, why and how women cheat, the mindset of hoes, women sexual nature, games women play, damaged women, how to benefit from women, etc.

One of the highly discussed topic here is the attraction of women towards bad boys. People like CaveAdullam, emmaodet, luminouz, pansophist, pukkalo, heartofcity12, JESHAL, etc. have given their different opinions on the topic. There are all insightful but there's one problem: they all come from a male perspective. Don't you want to know what a real woman has to say about why and how women fall for bad boys? I summarized below China's thoughts on this question. In the summary below, everything quoted and written in bold are China's words verbatim. Everything below are China's thoughts, not mine.


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China White on Women's attraction to Bad boy


Women like bad boys because bad boys allow them to be who they are, their raw natural self. “He allows her to be as toxic as fvck, he allows her to be jealous, he allows her to manipulate. The bad boy actually allows her to be herself. You don’t.” The bad boy will take anything: the old, the young, the toxic, the hoe, the married bitch. But you won’t because you have standards (which is good). “The bad boy allows women to live their fantasies through him.”

Women are also attracted to bad boys because they seem to not care. “Women were raised to always focus on the guy that cares and is willing to give to his family.” So, when she encounters a dude who has no care in the world, he takes her breath away. It captures her attention the way the ‘good dude’ can’t.

Bad boys are also smooth talkers. “They will make the woman feel like she met a celebrity.” They are very charming. Their energy humbles women. They make them feel like if they miss him they are going to miss out on something amazing. “They try to make the women to believe that they have something that is so amazing” because they believe it in their mind. Make sure you teach your young daughter about all these games. These guys are out there to mess women up, get what they can get, and disappear. Bad boys are quick to retrieve their attention from women after she poured her soul into him, which makes them attached and go borderline crazy. Your daughter should not be easily impressionable (especially by words). It is also important to put your woman on game. Let her know about the games that men are playing out there. Women are typically receptive to these strategies when they are thirsty and unfulfilled.

Now, let’s talk about the woman who never dealt with a bad boy. She heard all the bad things about him: he is a criminal, he will break your heart, he is a loser, he is not a righteous man, etc. This creates curiosity for the bad boy, in a sense. While the good guy respects her, opens the door, tries to get her validation, and give her complements, the bad boy does not give a shit. Her approval is meaning less to him. The bad boy walks up to her with a killing intent. “He doesn’t ask for approval, he takes it. He goes after what he wants, he’s in then he’s out.” While the good guy tries to get her by treating her nice and being friendly, the bad boy will be quick to let her know that he is after her pussy. “He is looking at her like he is about to tear her ass up.” After being told her whole life that she should avoid the bad boy, the woman is confused when she feels so damn good being in the bad boys’ presence. “Her energy submits to him, and he knows it, and he goes in. He literally devours her.” The woman is perplexed: why do I want this ‘bad’ guy? Why am I so excited about him? Did my parents lie to me about the bad boy? “Now she has been imprinted by the bad boy. There’s no going back. She will never look at men the same.” This is why the average guy is a lame to her. This guy is trying to fulfill her needs and/or wants while the bad boy that imprinted her did not give a fvck. While the average guy is asking her ‘what do you need?’, the bad boy tells her ‘I know what you want. I know what you need. Whatever the fvck I want, that’s what you want.’ “He’s not asking for her approval, he’s taking it.”


Now, from a woman’s perspective, a bad boy is not always a criminal, a thug, or a street dude. To a woman, the bad boy is the man that “got the best of her, the one that she gave to and got her heart broken from.” It could be anybody: a pastor, a blue-collar worker, a CEO, a regular civilian, etc.

“If you are dealing with a woman and she has been with a bad boy, leave her alone. She’s damaged goods.” A woman that have been through a relationship with a bad boy cannot be in a healthy relationship with a man. “She’s been through the mud.” That is, he did all sorts of things with her and imprinted her. “There is no coming back from that.” She is tainted for life and will always have tendencies that pertain to her time with the bad boy. Her past tells a lot about what she is going to do in the future. She will always love bad boys. Your money, status, looks, or whatever, can’t do anything about it. At most, it will be a temporary fix. That said, it is possible that a woman can heal from a bad boy. But that takes years, it’s not something you do in a few months.

To China, bad boys are “men who had fvcked up mothers” or men who had their heart broken by a woman they cherished. They don’t put any value on women. The good guy, on the other hand, is a man that wants to love a woman. There is nothing wrong with this. But, he “gets fvcked when he goes after the bad girl, when he goes after the woman that will never respect him for what he brings as a man and what he values.” In a world where 80% of women have been fvcked up by bad boys, it is hard for the good guy to find a woman that can receive what he has to give. Men must carefully select their women. There are still women out there who believe in loving a man, submitting to him, and putting him first.


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Thoughts?

This is gold. And I agree with the points. Though I don't agree with how bad boys have fûcked up mothers or heartbroken dudes. I never had these two. I just understand nature since the veil of reality has been ripped since I was young. I see things and people for what and who they are.

*sighs*

See the energy strangers waste yelling and cussing one another on the Internet about two countries who view them as monkeys.

Is that not saddening?

eepeepook:
Two people made the child. Both shoulder the responsibilities involved.

See your life....mumu feminist

TheBreastSucker:
And majority of them are hoodrats who have no problem fighting in public, this is the reason why I just suck their breasts and move on to the next one

Wereyyyyyy!!!!🤣🤣🤣

Kipaji:
I will address this issue.
The redpill forgets that most women just don't give a shit about most men.
Most men don't have any woman checking for them. A lot of men don't have any woman showing attraction to them. Asking these men to go for women who have passion for them is basically asking them the impossible because they don't have such women.
It is wise that a man must choose the woman who chooses him. But what if NO woman chooses him? What is he supposed to choose?

And before you say "just improve yourself, bro", check this out.
Firstly, look at the men women are going for (besides golddiggers/prostitutes going to rich men for money or services). Look at the men women are craving sexually. Are those men self-improvement maniacs? Most are just regular guys around the block. Most never went on any self-improvement journey. A lot of degenerate drug addicts. Secondly, if by improvement yourself you mean wear finer clothes and get richer, the best you will get are gold diggers thay will use for money before going back to the men they truly want to Bleep.

Of course, one should self-improve. I am all for self-improvement. But as far as sex comes, I don't think it has much of an impact. Improve for yourself, not because you believe it's going to get you more sex (the girl you are dreaming about is currently being bleeped by a guy who doesn't even know what self-improvement is).

Lol....I don't believe this. Continue self improvement and I'm certain there will be one girl somewhere who will choose you. Haba!!! Women have choices and preferences like we do too.

We4all:
My love...

You and who?😳😳😳

We4all:
I woke up to hear my phone bleep, and when I scrolled through the message, I shook my head in disbelief. How far will these loan apps go? Attached is a screenshot of the message. To the commenter below, the message was sent to my phone and probably to others as well to defame the loan defaulter. I can't even recall where I met the person at the center of this mess, but she sure had my contact saved on her phone.

It's you ...pay your sokoloan

Mtchewww!!

dominique:
Asians have good genes sha, 41 years looking mid 20s. I hope the Nigerian that put her up.to this illicit trade has been arrested too

Not the age alone. Don't forget the tight pussy!!!

seanwilliam:

He knows what's up!!!

Sonnobax15:
. Mother's love is second to none and indeed priceless..

People wey their mama still dey alive no know how favoured and blessed they are.......

Anyways,my old man is and forever be my super hero cuz he was there when momsy exited this sinful world...

Now you take care of him with every you got mudafucker or I will come for your balls.

Men dey hustle hard and most times na their wives dey reap am

olamoses75:
and that girl is taking doggy from a random street guy that doesn't send her papa. A woman can fall in love with a guy that just helped her change the car engine oil, forgetting the guy that bought the car for her. That gender ehn..... Make I no talk.

Naso....

Nah why you must be about your own development and vet like hell before you commit and even never slack in taking your pills

olamoses75:
So heartless and senseless! We'll, that's what Simps deserve.

Damn!!!

Someone somewhere is busy working and giving his 'angelic' girlfriend all his earnings, sending her to school and claiming she is perfect without properly vetting her.

I won't say pim.

Fattprince23:
I'm very sure he or me never mentioned mindset only or saying working isn't important. We are just telling you how you can create your own reality using positive thoughts.

Read his reply. He made it sound like it's only mindset that made him 8 figures.

It's all love from me bro.

Fattprince23:
Bro, stop arguing with these guys. I'm broke now oh but from the moment I changed my mindset to this time I'm sure it's just a matter of a few month that I will become wealthy, I'm of the feeling that I am on my way to financial freedom. These things can only be experienced it can't be explained so don't bother yourself too much.

Why a few months? Why not now or tomorrow?

You basically said the same thing as we did. Mindset with hardwork wonders, not just mindset on its own. It's really simple bro

chevrolet60:
The hunger is too much. I believe this guy would have asked for help from his friends and relatives, but none helped him. They rather mocked and insulted him. He also came on nairaland to ask for help, but u guys insulted him and called him all sorts of derogatory names, some called him a scammer and even the mods discouraged potential helpers from helping him. God is watching every evil act being perpetrated against a fellow, we'll all be judged.
If u have, and can help, why not help? Whatever anyone chooses to do with the money u give them is their business and not yours. God knows you've already helped.
Someone says he needs help to buy food, u call him a scammer even when u know the current situation of the country. God will judge us all accordingly.
Inasmuch as Suicide is never an option, anyone who drives people into suicide will surely pay for their sins. Let's help one another.

What are you saying? Was he a nairalander?

Aaron12:
There is another true life story that happened that I'm about to tell you brothers, There is a corper by name 'blessing' who is a Delta girl, who has a serious man in her life who is based in lagos, while serving in Akwa Ibom, for Abak, an Akwa Ibom man rented a house for her, every weekend she dey travel come Abak collect steady wiping of her pùssy by the Akwa Ibom man, then she has another Akwa Ibom man she visits in Oron that is bånging her pùssy on daily level too, she is an example of a girl living a fake life. Fine girl with banging body, the iphone XR she is using at the moment nah one of these Guys that are mentioned that bought it for her, every weekend they are transferring nothing less than 50k to her account to come over, I personally saw such alerts on her phone. The day she mistakenly match her iphone with her legs, it was a Saturday, she called the Abak man, the man sent her TF to come over, normal pùssy riding and repaired her phone. She was discussing with us the Guys that she ran from the Abak man because of too much pùssy banging, and that it remained small for her get pregnant, and she doesn't want pregnancy so that they Lagos Guy will not know anything. She was encouraging me to have sëx every time to ease off the spërms that has stored in my system since I haven't had sëx for a longer period.

Story well received 🙂🙂🙂

Aaron12:
What I'm about to tell you is a true life story, I'm a serving corper@akwa ibom state, there is a corper by name 'Philo' who is dating a married Akwa Ibom man, but this lady is over religious. Every morning she is listening to salvation ministry morning prayers and pastor Jerry eze nsppd morning prayers, she is from PH, so you see trust women at your own foolishness

The question I wanna ask is....

Is the married man fûcking her mercilessly and doing due diligence?

Only a fool will trust anyone(male or female) based on how religious they seem. I learned that lesson very very long ago.

superintendents:
I no see your fault, your papa na red pill abi na simp.

🙄

Because you guys doesn't have shame.

I'm not the one begging for 1k online.

Shame is your second name

Proserpina:
See

Small boy attitude

K

superintendents:
fake arss nigga claiming red pill.

😂

You can't afford woman, you become red pill dey play.. We know your type.

So you afford women?

You buy women

Jesus..I'm done with you

superintendents:
Una go dey claim wetin you no be, If e easy do your own giveaway.

Common 1k you go offline, na wa oo..

Nah me say make you no hustle abi?

Make I do giveaway for you? 😄

superintendents:
oya make i drop datail asap..?

Chronic pathetic beggar!!!

You no get shame!!!

superintendents:
is not because of 1k,is for fun, so nobody here his life depends on 1k..who you ever help for this forum sef...

Fun? So Egbon like you with your bushy beards is also composing lines for 1k?

Nawa oh!!!

I can give you 1k if that's what you want.

olamoses75:
Just-in.....Another one

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa😳😳😳😳😳

Apparently, she came out to talk ONLY when rumors started spreading.

Nawa oh....

While I don't mind the love messages, the notion of men ramming love lines together because of 1k is disturbing.

Proserpina:
So Caveadullam self dey drop lines for woman.

Unbelievable

I pity all these small small boys that follow you to a fault/blindly.

Where's that small boy Luminouz ?

K

ICTspecialist:
She's 28, very caring, she got pregnant after being deceived by her ex but after she delivered the baby, dude abandoned her and is currently cohabiting with another woman tho he occasionally calls and sends upkeep to the son and I fear okafor's law might play out anytime she meets with her ex and father of his son
I'm 34 and we're dating and she's being supportive as well, kind, caring and above all respectful.
Well I hope all these characters are not
pretense to get me to marry her and now our relationship and bond has gone indepth.
But I'm scared to tell my friends the lady I'm dating and want to propose marriage to has a son and I'm scared to tell my family as well.
So guys can you marry a single mother?
What's your advise, pros and cons of marrying a lady that has a child from her previous relationship.
Cc advanceDNA nonexisting1 nonexisting luminuoz et al

So you even have the guts to call my name to this post? Did anyone tell you I'm married to a single mom or something? 😡😡😡

iLegendd:
Even if I'm paid, I won't read what you wrote because it won't make sense. It'll be all rambling, abuse and emotional blackmail. So, have a nice day, dear. I have good relationship with women. I treat my women good, according to their characters and I don't take insult or cheating. I foot the bills and will always do, but I'm always ready to walk away if they misbehave. I'm her slave, yet the leader, but not her SIMP.

Nice take. I took my time to read through what she wrote and i wasn't disappointed. I'm yet to see a logical female on this forum and a simple 'K' helps me avoid unnecessary talks with that gender

Berankis:
10 Things I have personally learnt in marriage
1. Lots of women are lazy in marriage. They mostly claim to go to church but are very secretive.
2. You cannot satisfy a woman
3. Marriage demands' pressure can push a man to his death, to crime, misdemeanor and even imprisonment
4 Women tend to see marriage as an escape from the hard work they performed while single, but the opposite is the case
5. Marriage reduces the life span of lots of men
6. Women also make huge sacrifices that are unforgettable like child birth, putting the home together and raising the kids
7. House chores no dey finish, what you do today, you will still do tomorrow, so just so whatever your strength can carry and continue later
8. Woman can be very provocative with words, they can push you beyond the limits and expect you not to retaliate
9. Most women aren't really what you think they are, they change with your ability to do or inability to do
10. Finally, marriage still is the best thing to happen to a man. I am always extremely happy whenever I see my children.

You made good points except that Number 10.

I think you meant a woman because if marriage is the best thing to happen to a man, why are they dying young then due to responsibilities and pressures. Your number 5 point explicitly said that. So...

N.B: You don't need to get married before you have kids.