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Evercurious:
Sure. But hope I ll remember. June 4

Done

patoski39:
hope u no go collect d trips back if she no comply?

Lmaoooooo... No


Offer was strictly platonic

Evercurious:
Lol.. Abeg I be woman not man. But we need to be realistic

I'm glad you are being realistic.

Holla me when its ur birthday, trips on me.

HORLADSTAR:
I think it will do more good than harm if you can just be wise for once, but I can't blame you since you are a fool anyway.
As for our rejected guy, what message is he trying to pass, I am sure that shoe and food is not the only thing that he has spent on the girl so if he really wants to pass a message he should have ask the lady to return everything he has given her.Then I would praise him as a guy can not be mess with.
And also, as per his action of his "has he won " .
Moreover there would be a reason why the lady rejected her.

Lol,.Na so e pain u reach?


Oya sorry, no cry eh...


Byeeee

Imarnuel08:
Have you ever thought for a moment it's not about loyalties? A lady committing herself to a man is a big deal. The least you can do as a man is to reassure her and make her feel secure.
What gift is he talking of? I can bet it's not up to 500k. What gift please? These kind of guys can't help their egos.
And to answer your question I didn't get embarrassed in public because I was there for my fiancee. She knew this man would be there for here and stand by her. It wasn't a public showy proposal and she said yes. We have been happy ever since.
I still maintain that she dodged a bullet, if the guy thinks he spent too much then he's a broke ass. He can come back when he's ready to be a man

Your last paragraph stinks like locust beans. What makes u so special that a man cannot think he has spent too much to lose it? Are u God? So he should go back when he is ready to be a man? Lmaoooo. See entitlement mentality. Well,deal with it darling,that girl would walk home on bare feet. Next time,she would refuse gifts from a man she sees no future with.

FrLukas:
How can you be dating a girl for years or months and you don't know whether she wants to marry you or not?

I always laugh at guys who make a public spectacle of themselves and get shamed in the end.

You been dating a girl and you can't tell if she'll accept your ring or not?

If you aren't 100% sure, what's wrong with proposing in private?

Truth is, the girl may even be interested in marrying him but may be an introvert and hates that kind of public display. Panic attack may make her say no and walk away.

The guy na mumu.

I wonder what's wrong with guys these days.

That was how one went to kneel down and propose to his girl right in church during the wedding of another guy while the couple were on the altar, just about to be joined together.

Serious embarrassment for the guy and his girl when they were stopped by the pastor.

Collecting back shoes and food there even makes it worse for the guy.

I'm sure the girl will be thanking her lucky stars that she dodged a bullet.

Buying a pair of shoes and food to entice a girl to marry you?? Frankly I'd feel insulted too if I was the girl.

In other words, he's saying that the girl is worth a pair of shoes and a plate of food.

You keep missing the point bro....you keep supporting the girl and blaming the dude as if he was dating himself. Are u God to know if a girl really wants to marry u in her heart? Can't they pretend while eating your money and everything? You think a guy would wake up one day and just propose without seeing signs? Who does that?

Now,you shifted the narrative to the girl being an introvert, how in God's name does that stop her from saying yes? She is introverted,not dumb or deaf na. She never saw a future with him and that guy quickly recounted dome losses while shaming her in the process. Who collects shoes,wigs and other stuffs from a man she never intends to marry? Does it make sense to you?

Now the last part of your story that made me doubt if you're a man is the 'the girl dodged a bullet,just because he collected his shoes and food from her'... Did he buy the shoes on that day or why the enticement statement from you? Worse off,she collected shoes and ate the food of the guy she saw no future with. Who does that if not a gold digger? That u never blamed the girl at all in this scenario made me realise how weak your logic is. I see how other men use weak logic to support the girl and I was flabbergasted. Timaya collected the car he bought for empress njamah when they fought,so what else are u saying. For a girl to collect stuff from a guy, means they are on the same page, so what is now the issue with marriage. SHe disgraced him and he disgraced her. Simple.

I fully support the guy even though he made a mistake kneeling down and proposing in public.

The only thing you said that made sense to me was the public spectacle stuff. Never my thing,nor does kneeling down to marry a woman who becomes your responsibility. We are Africans and our culture ain't like the whites. Na copy copy dey kill cat wey see himself for mirror.

FrLukas:
Naah...

There's no point embarrassing the girl.

The babe is even doing him a favour sef.

A girl whose loyalty can be bought will say yes.

Then another guy will buy her a car and she'll dump you.

But the girl can embarasss him and get away with it?

Thats the whole point na. What's good for the Goose is good for the gander.

Evercurious:
Hmmm.are you for real? Woman go.control you well.well. I don see am finish

I'm sure you're not a lady...most Naija babes no dey reason like u oh...your comments on this thread surprised me


Who are u gangan?


N.B: dont mind the men who were yakking in support of that girl...na beta cucks(SIMPs) full NL na..dem want likes using alternates so women go say dem be nice guys

tsdarkside:
i tell you....what he did was completly wrong....
and dont forget other ladies are watching too....

if you can threat their kind like this because of a simple no,then you are not marriage material....

Jesu...what kind of sìmp are you?


The stuff may be scripted though

Organs:
Na wretched mumu you be.

I support the guy jor....

I mean, the girl's shoes weren't even bought by her? I'm sure her wig isn't too.

FrLukas:
Childish. Very childish.

Your gifts to her is dependent upon her agreeing to date you? Even food?

Why don't you ask her to date you first before buying her stuff?

Who raises guys like these, anyway?

Lol...I like what he did though.

HORLADSTAR:
I sense some kind of immaturity here. I congratulate the lady.

Thats immaturity to you?

Mūmu men plenty for here sha