Evercurious:


Sure. But hope I ll remember. June 4

Skmoda360:
Ode ni bobo yen joor....instead of him to just walk away and go look for another babe.... anything you give a woman is more or less a gift and it should go that way....

Fountainofyouth:
Childishness.

Skmoda360:
Ode ni bobo yen joor....instead of him to just walk away and go look for another babe.... anything you give a woman is more or less a gift and it should go that way....

2buffagain:
See as she balance dey chop the guy moneey like say na money she work for.

Tunar18:
Big hand for you my guy. It's basically because of this response that I had to read all the pages. Thought you wouldn't respond to the Empty comment

My Submission

Instead of people to condemn the action that triggers a reaction, they will be busy condemning the reaction. Obviously the next girl will do the same thing since the guy will be blamed.

If every mouth condemn the girl for moving around and collecting the guy's money/gift or whatever you call it since she doesn't have the intention of marrying him, perhaps some other ladies will think twice before romancing someone they cannot marry.

Either mature or not mature, It's a win-win situation for the two of them. The guy does not have to go home moody and sad, and the girl too has been able to move to the next guy.

Walk away Ko Cry away ni

AfroKnight:


Exactly. Most of the people supporting the girl are ladies. They think it’s their right to collect and dodge when it’s time for marriage. They think it is a guy’s destiny to work and spend on woman.

There are some stupîd guys here supporting her. Na dem go dey beg woman for love.

I know women who have class and dignity. They won’t waste your time if they don’t want you. They will refuse your gift if they think you want something they cannot give. Not like all these corporate beggars posing as girlfriends these days.

You have said it all bros.

bigman001:
See dem dey criticize the guy, why did she collect everything he bought for her and yet rejected him? (awon i never chop gang). She should have rejected everything from onset but she wants to play smart she will now tell her friends, i chop d maga well. Next time you wont eat what you cant swallow.

adekS1:
team alasedanu

if you collect it does it change anything or increase your account balance.?..do you know how the nigga is treating the lady for her to have turn him down? but the girl sha, na oshofree go kill her.

Note: I'm not alashedanu Mr man.

Ogunkillbuhari:
Just like this convo below

IamPatriotic:
I won't watch the video, because the story could have been scripted. However, if it turns out to be true, I congratulate the lady for dodging "a weapon of mass destruction". A guy that would do that to his girlfriend is not worth being a "side hustle", let alone a husband.

jackomagnus:
Even if you bought her a car to celebrate the proposal?

bros, do you know anything about the relationship? That's the first question you should ask yourself but one thing I hate about Nigerian girls is that they don't know when to stop and quit an abusive relationship, the guy might be a cruel type but na oshofree go kill that babe.

As to your question, I won't buy any girl a car if I'm not 100% sure she is into me and even if she is into me I won't unless we are married, I dey mad....

9jaRealist:




A gift is a gift is a GIFT - once given, it cannot be taken back...
Anyone who gives a purported "gift" with the expectation of getting something back (or with strings attached) does not have a pure heart.

Nonetheless, I ironically agree with the comment that it's a win-win...
Any woman who makes the MISTAKE of marrying a dude who believes he's effectively bought your love is ill-fated to an abusive matrimony. SMH
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drey076:
the girl go just buy dunlop slippers waka go house with it

nanakgh:
Women always tell men if they're not serious they should move over for a more serious man to come and take over.

This woman was enjoying all the perks of the relationship without actually being serious about the guy. Classic use and dump, yet women always speak as if this practice is exclusively a male one. I've seen women rend their clothes and rain curses on men for 'using and dumping' them.

This is one very patient guy, he shudda slapped that parasitic hoe for good measure. Nonsense.

Michellekabod2:

Isn't it obvious that is because of such behavior of his that she declined his proposal?
Look at all the men condemning her like they they don't collect wife privileges from a girl they aren't interested in settling down with

9jaRealist:




A gift is a gift is a GIFT - once given, it cannot be taken back...
Anyone who gives a purported "gift" with the expectation of getting something back (or with strings attached) does not have a pure heart.

Nonetheless, I ironically agree with the comment that it's a win-win...
Any woman who makes the MISTAKE of marrying a dude who believes he's effectively bought your love is ill-fated to an abusive matrimony. SMH
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Chinwe4real:


Slap the parasitic hoe you said?oshey batterer. You have shown how quick you are to hit women.

Shame no dey catch you

Olalan:
The guy must be very hot tempered........can't even blame the lady for not accepting his proposal just maybe his actions behind closed doors is wack.
BTW who brought this public proposal thing to naija sef.......me see it as nonsense we copy oyibo proposal but can't copy the way they love each other deeply

Wizpa:
One thing majority of humans don't understand is that "Its more blessed to give than to receive"
Giving is hard but its the way nature works, nothing good comes easy so is blessings.
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"Its more blessed to give than to receive" so you can say "Its more cursed to receive than to give"
Trade by barter excluded.
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Guys, Whatever you are not willing to let go, do not give. Moreover giving puts you on a more powerful ground in your relationship
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Also remember that, giving that is not appreciated attracts more blessings than the one that is.

Ladies, keep on eating awoof, eat as much as you want but always remember that you can never eat your cake and still have it. The future will tell.

I rest my case

IamPatriotic:
I won't watch the video, because the story could have been scripted. However, if it turns out to be true, I congratulate the lady for dodging "a weapon of mass destruction". A guy that would do that to his girlfriend is not worth being a "side hustle", let alone a husband.

Tunar18:
If she had known him like that, while still follow him around? Could that be Covetousness? And isn't that's what eventually leads to battering in relationship?

Quit if you can't cope or not interested, but greed won't allow them. Set awon Ole

You can continue to paint what's bad to be good.
The fact is: 'the truth remains the same even if no one believes it.'

No one in this life gives a gift without a motivating factor/reason behind it. You don't tell me you just do things. That's nothing but an hypocritical lie. Either you come to tell us you do it for God (a reason enough since you expect your reward from Him) or for some personal reasons.

This whole long story could have been avoided if the lady had informed the guy she can't settle with him earlier. I'm sure no African guy would take the risk of proposing if he wasn't confident enough of the relationship.

Beyond the gift sef, why still give him hope by going around with him when you have made up your mind?

I care less about the gender involved. My own concern is WE SHOULD ALWAYS ADDRESS THE ACTION THAT TRIGGERS A REACTION.

That's the problem we are facing in our society today. If one gets intimidated and react/ revenge, people that didn't warn the tormentor will be the first to condemn the one that was initially oppressed. Spitting all sort of defensive gibberish.

Abeg, I'm done with this bullshit

9jaRealist:


So you think that declining someone's marriage proposal is "tormenting" and "oppressive" conduct?!

Dude, if you're the sort of person that believes every woman MUST accept a marriage proposal (especially if the suitor had bought her lunch or given her gifts), then no rational argument put forward by anyone here will make a difference to you. Cheers.
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playapayaski:
Suppose give the Gyal #1500 recharge slap join.. Rubbish

A friends elder brother almost died last week cos he just found out on Tuesday his babe he been sponsoring in uniben n waiting to marry is getting married march 7th.. Guy almost mad, till now never calm down or regain e self..

Harsh reaction from d guy no doubt but sometimes these bitches take us for fools, BIG FOOLISH FOOLS

Skmoda360:

bros, do you know anything about the relationship? That's the first question you should ask yourself but one thing I hate about Nigerian girls is that they don't know when to stop and quit an abusive relationship, the guy might be a cruel type but na oshofree go kill that babe.

As to your question, I won't buy any girl a car if I'm not 100% sure she is into me and even if she is into me I won't unless we are married, I dey mad....