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HappenStone:
Your attitude is FINE!

Your BF is used to sweeping ladies off their feet with his personality, the fact that he doesn't have that effect on you deeply unsettled him.

He felt she was cold.
Nothing baffles a man more than a girl who only says 'ok' to anything he says. It reminds him of an openmouthed dead fish

cyndy1000:
God I love twins bless me with one in the future.
Beautiful family

In how many years' time do you want them?

Charleys:
OP does she have a father?






If she has a father then there's no need to see her pastor.

A single Mum was forcing me to see her pastor once and I backed out at the last minute. Because I thought she had been brainwashed by her pastor.

Secondly the father to her child didn't go through all these just to Bleep her so why is she making me pass through all these.



I used to give her money but I stopped.

Don't give money jare...now focus on me. Gimme money

Notasaints:
You act like you know too much, but you know nothing.
@Op don't give In to her demands.

She totally went out of context.

Ladylite:
Dangerous to who? She may be too devoted to her pastor but as a Christian anything that threatens the devotion to God that she knows....has to be stopped.

Would you say she was wrong if she was a Muslim? Well I blame Christians for how shabby they have made Christianity in Nigeria because it sounds like slavery but the tenants of Christianity must never be overridden for any reason not even marriage.

Your first paragraph is conflicting. The dude never said he doesn't wanna go to church but he felt being that threatened to see a pastor or lose the relationship is a tad too far for anyone. That is some pastor worship right there, not God worship.

A Muslim? Never heard of any intending groom being compelled to see an Alfa/imam before being wedded. Dont dig holes or make shallow comparisons where they dont exist. Christianity aint what I'm attacking,the sheepie,dog-like devotion to any 'man of god' ish,without even the luxury of independent thinking without being labeled as deviant, is what I attack.

I call it what it is. The girl went overboard. Her pastor is a human being prone to mistakes and if the dude doesn't call her bluff now,he would never be master of his own home. The pastor will be.

Ladylite:
Marriage is NOT a joke. How can you be marrying a religious lady and the first thing you do is try to enforce yourself over her religious convictions... Your marriage may not last. That lady will always see her pastor above you.

Hate pastors all you want but if your marriage will be against the principles of God and the church then prepare for hell.

Even your parents married in the church, so Oga calm down, your authority has not yet been instituted until she is totally married to you, she is not to be your slave. If you want to marry her and you too do not have a pastor that you can take her to then you both are headed for problem o. Because like play like play after marriage you will tell her to leave that church or stop church totally... Oga pls define your religious stand with her else you are about to be unhappy in 2020


Are you even aware that you are meant to be her leader NOT her boss? Meaning you should be more religious or spiritually inclined than her... Stop all the lazy talk that pastors are fake, it's old news but Oga where are the real ones. You can not marry a church girl without her pastor being involved.

Finally, is it not robbery that you use biblical principles in that you claim to be the head or authority in the union yet you are not ready to submit to church standards. Marriage was created by God and only His principles and rules will stand. You can't create your own thing and call it marriage. It will have problems later and your kids will be free thinkers.


Pls humble yourself and follow her to her pastor. You need to find a real pastor too else don't marry.

You missed where she threatened to end the relationship if he refused to see her pastor.

Who Dafuq gives such power to a human being that's not even your parent?

That kind of devotion and her threat are dangerous!

Offpoint:
leave me alone, leave my name alone

Ok sir.

*sighs*

why does this guy always talk a little bit condescending and offpoint?

Now this is the real shiit!!


Most of NLanders yelling upandan will calm dafuq down now!