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Iamblessed85:
Thanks for this. I came to this conclusion myself after some meditation and so i’m shocked to see it validated by someone else. I have always said that everyone you help tries to get even either subconsciously or consciously.

Why do they need to get even?

It’s hard to believe but they subconsciously resent you for doing better than them. When you help someone (especially someone you came up with), they start to feel inferior. They hate that you now occupy that pristine position as their helper, afterall you grew up together and you aren’t better than them in any way or so they think.


How do they get even?

1. They ask for help repeatedly. Everyone knows this would cause you to react poorly at some point, so, they continue to poke the bear. When you get tired and turn down their request or react poorly, everything else you’ve done is thrown out of the window and you become a bad person. You nolonger wield that pristine position as their helper.

2. They simply pay you back with evil or talk down on you behind your back.

In summary, no good deed goes unpunished. Does it mean you shouldn’t do good? Not at all but just know that often times, it’s someone else that would reward you. You’ve put out that positivity into the universe and so the universe becomes your debtor. With this understanding, people should never say stuff like “after all i’ve done for you”. The reason why they are hurting you is because of all you did for them lol.

Perhaps you even threw in some condescending remarks while at it and this sorta overshadowed the good deed.

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drimzsmoke:
Listen to that guy, a woman who is not happy or mentally stressed can NOT reach orgasm during sex

Who told you🤣🤣🤣


So she will reach orgasm when she is happy but your dick is limp? Or you can hit the jackpot?

Women Bleep better when they are unhappy!!! Sex becomes a relief

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That witch?? I don't want her!!!

Besides her black ass is in the UK

Lyrics269:
Dem dey always act like mumu during and after cumming

I swear.

Especially those who have met men but have not cummed before. They just keep looking at you like you did something heroic.

Even me don taya of the worship I dey get after making them cum. Whoever talk say women no dey enjoy sex na bastaard!!!

I know the skill...I have honed it and while every woman is different bodywise, I have mastered the art of accessing and unlocking a woman's erogenous zones...so they always mudafucking cum.

Dshocker:
Because orgasm is of the mind, when you free from mental stress, then there is a high chance a woman stands to achieve it.

Which mind nonsense you dey talk? So when go cum when you no know where to hit...even if they are mentally ok?

Alaye...know how to fûck biko....that's the koko..it's a skill

Lyrics269:
So all these women ejaculated every time u knack dem

Lol...it's not easy my brother. You mean every round? Rara o....but if I do 3, they go cum in one or two... No be everyday soup dey sweet na

The bottom line is that no woman has ever left my bed without the experience of cumming!!


If you have ever made a woman cum, you will know they act like mumu afterwards. One even knelt down and thanked me for it. Many Nigerian women never had anything close to cumming!!! So they know that I be tiger to make them experience it

We4all:
That is kissable.

Werey!!!🤣🤣🤣

ChizzyBuna:
Messi na trillionaire and still has achieved more records than Ronaldo.

The fact that all you Ronaldo Fans boys keep shouting how much he has instead of shouting his football achievement is proof that una goat is a washed up camel...

As if money be achievement for football
Messi get money pass Ronaldo and still no dey make mouth

If na money Messi get money pass ocean
And still beat una idol with 8 ballon Dior and World cup
The highest achievement in football while your washed up goat no fit even qualify for euros and still got benched in world cup.

I don't care about Ronaldo but your mental health.

You woke up today, created a thread about a man who doesn't know you exist...how does that make sense?

And that's why Lumi Lumi is different.

I beat my chest when I say no woman who has been with me ever left without cumming and I have dated all the three major tribes. I learnt no matter tribe or race, women are same at their core. Satisfy them and watch them do anything to make you happy.

It's instinct and a skill. Learning it will save men lots of heartache...if only they know how women go crazy after orgasms.

ChizzyBuna:
300 trophies kill you were werey
Make una dey lie with sense

And the purpose of your thread is to mock a trillionaire, a successful player and the most marketable player on the planet?

And you are


Una just taya me

Lionessza6:
I see you sneaked in the bolded after I replied to you . Stop putting words into my mouth Sir. I never suggested that you cant attract good women, what I said is that I'm struggling to believe that high value men and women in the West see you in your native wear and stop everything that they're doing to come over and introduce themselves to you and ontop ask for your friendship . These are damn lies and you know it . I put up some possible scenarios on how interracial relationships between quality people usually occur in liberal countries....but then again, you guys are used to believing in your own lies and fantasies ....sign of narcissism ....

K

blowjohn:
This foolish goat that the satanic sphere in Hollywood has used.
This idiot who appeared on stage at the last Oscars nude just to fulfil their humiliation/feminization ritual of Hollywood.

Stupid ass sick fellow. Something kat Williams warned about, he still did, all for fame and money.

Foolish idiot

Hey ..take a chill pill ..it's for your own good!!!

Lionessza6:
Mr, we are now racist because we refuse to believe in lies?.

Esteemed ** members of every race prefer to hang out with people with substance and people they have something in common with and this is a fact!. Normal people don't go around looking to hookup with random "cool" people , this is something you expect from members of each race that care nothing about their safety , reputation and status amongst their peers. That's why I insisted on the CALIBRE of these random strangers who wanted to hang out with you because of your Nigerian "swag".

K

Ojagun:


I just dey laugh una back & forth for this thread.
I swear you get time.
Think am na;
She is a South African who has never travelled outside South Africa before but knows how westerners think & act because many travel to south Africa

Nna mehn

Baba I taya for that girl. Innocent talk about swag, naso she wrote plenty historical stories and I wonder if I can't share my own views anymore ni? Other SA came in and followed her trend and I don't understand their issues. Both men and women have engaged me before and they were people of high and low calibre but suddenly she and the other SA changed from calibre to sexual stuffs and I wonder if these people have gone mad? Shey I dey use my swags to fûck both men and women ni? She is suggesting that the only Calibre of women I can attract in the West are the hookups, onlyfans and prostitutes and I wonder how in hell does she know my reality? Even after specifically telling her my experience. Omo, wahala dey this world oh.

Omo, I hope majority of SA don't think like these three did because it reeks of chronic racism of the highest order

Lionessza6:
Mr man, you're talking about engaging now? . Ofvourse people do engage random strangers in public especially if they seem out of place or look interesting, weird or both. For instance there were a bunch of Bolivians who came for a vacation in Cape town some months back, and they were wearing their colourful native wear with some similar facial features to ours but with long wavy hair. People were curious , some were approaching and asking them where they're from and even taking pics, this doesn't mean that we wanted anything more than that,we were just curious because we have never encountered such people before even though we have so many people from different parts of the world.

You can arouse people's curiosity by being at a certain location where people like you aren't a norm (without them actually wanting to jump your bones) . There's a thread on nairaland from a West African man who goes around Chinese villages and you can see the curiosity when they are engaging him ...its not like they're looking to be friends with him but his black skin and hair are an unusual sight for them so they all gathered around him to cure their curiosity...ain't none of them trying to exchange numbers with him because of his "swag" ....he is simple something they're not used to seeing in their region

With that being said; I find it very difficult to believe that white women who have something going for themselves or even poor ones with morals will walk up to a Nigerian man on random street and start engaging him with hopes of something more . I'm seriously struggling with that one , because not even a black American woman of that category will do that .

Now if you had said, you're part of a cycling, bowling club,etc or you work together and you talk on a regular ( small talk even) and then you invite he/she out for lunch or drinks , then your story would be believable. Their defenses are a bit down, and there's some sort of an established relationship and they have something to engage you on ( the hobby you share ). People are generally not very receptive in letting in people of different cultures into their circles and private lives that easily.. especially not people who have something to protect ...unlike the onlyfans, hookup girls etc who care about nothing else but fun , illicit sex and quick cash ...safety and reputation aren't a thing for that CALIBRE of females

K

Sapasenator:
I am a doubting Nigerian. The South African has a valid point though.

She doesn't!!! It's a she!! And she has always have issues with anything a Nigerian says.

I have had strangers walk up to me when wearing my cultural outfit and engage me and stuffs...that is no lie

Sapasenator:
Dude,

Are you for real?

What?

Are you a doubting South African too?

God1000:
This guy is a gold digger setting himself up for serious heartbreak, he's feeling loved in an uncomfortable environment.

He doesn't even know what made the woman to separate from her ex-husband, one thing I know is that a woman would always choose her children over any other thing, he should quit the relationship before it's too late

You haven't met all mothers

I have seen some give up their kids for men..even kill these kids

KingCold:
of course Nigeria is always 3 decades behind in everything, I believe you bro 😂

K

IamHonourable1:
The worst thing you could do in this life is to trust a woman.I trusted my ex wife and that was why I couldn't quickly find out she's a lesbian and likes going after married men.If you like trust woman, I pray make your disappointment pass my own.

How does that work?

If she is a lesbian, why is she still going after married men?

ObalendeCMS:
The way I detest that gender, even the ones in my family are not left out. In church, at work, in my street & everywhere I see them, they just keep disgusting me!

Good good my son...

Let the hate flow through you...

KingCold:
Who still uses the term "swag" anyways? especially in 2024? chai

I use it...and if you have a problem with that, it's a YOU problem.

Lionessza6:
LMFAO. What falsehood have I spread on nairaland now?

And how do you know I've never left the shores of my country? .

And do I need to have lived in any Western country to actually be exposed to western way of life ....When Westerners are in millions where I live ?.

I'm done with you

Lionessza6:
LMFAO. Please show me the pictures I beg of you .

Like I said , I was curious as to how this swag of yours works out....and I'm not a bit surprised by your "experiences " . Thanks for confirming my suspicions .

I should try leave my country to experience what exactly? .

So both these women and men were total strangers to you, they randomly chatted you up in some queue or restaurant because you're a Nigerian and exchanged numbers with you ...and they were people of the CALIBRE you mentioned?........ . Ok!

Thank you for confirming what I said about you. It doesn't matter what I post, you'd still find a way to make fun of it because you simply don't wanna believe.

Like I said, you are a SA and your antics here are well known...I'm done engaging you

Lionessza6:
LMFAO. You're getting mad because I asked a simply question?.

So you mean to tell me professionals from other races go around looking to befriend Nigerians just for their swag? . It's not because you happen to be colleagues and or have same interests but your "swag" .
So a white banker in New York would be out for some brunch and she will bumb into you on their way , and you can just chat her up wearing your Nigerian native clothing and she'll be smitten and exchange numbers with you because she can't resist your black Nigerian swag? . Am I getting this right ?

I'm not trying to invalidate your own personal experiences or anything....I'm just curious. The original post I quoted here got me curious.

The scenario you painted has happened to me but both men and women. You really have no idea, do you? You should try to leave your country to experience something like that but since you don't even have swag...what else will you do?

Come back with another point and I might even show you pictures I took with these random calibre people

Lionessza6:
Why don't you ignore my comments then, and focus on the comments that are more in line with what you want to hear ?

I can't have you spreading falsehoods on NL... When I know you are saying bullshiiit...

You are from a multi-ethnic country but never left the shores of your country to any western nation. How dafuq would you know shiit about what I'm saying?

Lionessza6:
Forgetting what trouble?

Formenting*

Lionessza6:
I asked the CALIBRE of of people from the other races that want to hang out with black people because of their "swag"?

Professors? Bank officials? Artistes? Normal human beings? My experience

What's the issue with you and calibre? What does it matter that other nations like our swag and wanna be around us?

And it's not black people...it's Nigerians!!! That's who they wanna be around because of their swag!!

You see why I have issues with you? Something is really missing in your psyche!!!

Sonnobax15:

The ministry is moving...

The office just got widened and the steady tax collection just got elongated

Oyinbo dey invent new stuffs wey go better their lives, but Africans own problem na to dey build churches and install pastors wey go help dem fight imaginary demons,and in the process also milk Dem dey

E no go ever better for the people wey gather swear for Africa as a whole

You wey dey talk ..what did you invent in your life...or you no get head like the whites ni?

Ok

Lionessza6:
LMFAO. Why are you pained by my question?.

Of course not! But you have a penchant for sounding innocuous while forgetting trouble

Lionessza6:
LMFAO. That's great but I also asked because I was born in a multi-racial country so race relations aren't an alien topic to me.....I'm asking based on lived experiences and exposure on how different people view and socialise race . And my question still stands ....what calibre of people from the other races are actually attracted to the black people's "swag"?

All races!!!

Black, white, Mexican... At least from my experience