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Eriokanmi:
I'm back already

Urghhhhh

You are no fun!!!

Rukevwe999:
Most simps, if not naivety or infatuation,suffer from Nice Guy Syndrome. The kindness they show to women is done with an ulterior motive; they think like this "if I buy this stuff for Sandra, perhaps she'll recognize what a nice guy I am and would want to date me. And if I keep up with the act she'll sleep with me "
Some simping are just awkward and poorly planned sexual strategies.
If many guys were able to attract women with no hassle or were in loving and fulfilling relationships, they won't be in the redpill. Redpill awareness is golden but some guys here have unresolved issues in their lives and have turned the redpill into a copium to feel better about themselves, not for the self-improvement it teaches.

You have a point that some guys are still at the anger or rage stage but I think it's due to the fact that they lost so much and been taken for granted for so long that they get angry at themselves for being so blind. Many guys pass this stage and become stabilized though.

Surely you can agree with me that many men are not in fulfilling relationships in Nigeria because it's one-sided and redpill is saying enough is enough of that shiit. Look at it this way, if you are full of food and have means to always get some, will you still scramble for a plate of Amala and ewedu distributed at a party you were invited to? Nope...we are always gravitated towards what we don't have...not what we already did.

Your opening statement was the best of all. Simps do shiit for validation. I have seen it all my life and I still saw it yesterday. The urge to do something so a girl sees you as Mr. Nice guy or 'responsible or real' man sometimes overpowers these simps and they can't help themselves. But that's why we are here, doing what we are doing and despite being vilified and abused for it, we are still strong. Men have to be strong enough to lead or the human race is doomed.

TheTravelingOne:
Thank you. I am coming to terms with the fact that I was scammed. But keeping up a facade for 4 years, how can someone do that I ask myself. But the writing is on the wall even though he would never admit to it.
I plan to move to another African country because I want to stay on the continent and when I get settled, I’ll let the authorities handle him and try not to feel guilty about it. Imagine feeling guilty for reporting the person who abandoned me in his country. Smh. I need to heal & not let this keep me from experiencing love again.

I kept out of the convoy since you started the thread but don't listen to the dude you quoted. He is a mæd man!!!

Things didn't work out and you are hurt, I understand but move on and leave him be. You have your job and your life intact, so be grateful. It's not a Nigerian men issue. It's just that people hurt people sometimes but there are good men out there, don't let anger and bile veil your eyes from seeing the good ones out there

Darkestking:
People will tell you to let it go but don't. Get your revenge. He doesn't deserve sympathy. If you've got the resources I'd even hire a lawyer and get him listed as a romance scammer so that he's never allowed into the US or western Europe for the rest of his life.

Werey ni Bobo yi sha

Your own na revenge....did someone steal your kidney?

Eriokanmi:
If I start cursing our leaders every minute, it's not enough. When a leader is bad, the followers will follow suit. That's what we see everywhere today. Anyone who had been to manhattan in the US, especially when leaving the Broadway, shortly after the NY PA station, you'd see well-dressed American ladies everywhere who will smile at you naturally , when you're not even focusing your attention on them. Manhattan is like broad Street where you see lots of offices.

When they see you and you happen to give them audience at the rush hour, they ask where you from...cos your accent is a trigger. The moment you say you're from Nigeria, l'obatan. They won't let you go without getting close. 2 weeks ago, a lady paid for my taxi back to my programme venue. No strings attached. They're having a change of mentality about us. We're no scammers. When you have controversial and super corrupt leaders at the helms , what do you expect? Disrespect and this has been going on from time immemorial.

Look at those leaders, they taught most of the bad eggs and they became pros in it. There are a lot of them holding key positions today in Nigeria who were eigher jailed in the US over credit card fraud, or jailed for dealing drugs. Those are the people denting the Nigeria's image and most of those bad eggs are their coded couriers .

So na Manhattan you dey.... Oya invite me come chop Fufu and egusi naaa

EreluRoz:
Shut up and grow up, kids all over this forum that's why I'm outgrowing this nairaland

Werey evening newspaper ... Stay and grow old in your father's house, mumu!!!


You dey vex say nobody look your side? You go old like last year Fufu. We no send youuuuuu!!!

dominique:
Nigerian men like feeling themselves but in reality, the only sets of women that actually wants y'all's crusty ass are undesirable women like the one in the op

You have no idea how wrong you are. No matter how you try to downplay us, I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT WHITE WOMEN WANT US. And not the old ones...the young ones too. Three of my dudes in Atlanta got married this year to MBA graduates(2 whites, one BA) all less than 26 years old.
I understand it's not your reality but don't be so bitter or dog will bite you this week.

Almiron:
that's the current reality of your family, na that hunger go blind una eyes, no be my fault say your papa lazy when his mates dey hustle... Oloribu omo irankiran, Ogun pa baba e

You see now?

I got you to lose your shiit.
Now people will see how immature you are. You proved me right

I have completed my mission🤣🤣🤣

Almiron:
Pep Guardiola is the greatest and most influential sports manager in the world. His influence transcends football

Pep not only conquered football, he's already making conquering another sport, the NBA just experienced his greatness that's why he's the 🐐 of all coaches dead or alive.

City are going to win 5peat next season.

No manager comes close steeze and composure na out of this world. That's my manager, I don't follow losers...

That's the definition of Aura, y'all haters should recreate this then I'll deactivate.. abi na oil money e take inspire the Celtic coach too...

Happy Sallah

You don chop today?

It's no longer Messi but Guardiola now abi?

Sapa never hold your balls tight enough

Hell yeah

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Dangote has women outside marriage to satisfy his sexual cravings even though being so much busy and choosing not to his wife. It's on record an explicit picture of Dangote's ass all outside in a picture by one of this women. So what are you saying?! That men who don't have time for their wives because they are rich don't have time too for lots of women outside marriage?!

A woman is not superficial. It's you men that fall for hips, big breast, big butts. We go for substance and there is no reason why a man should not be able to have time for his family all because he is rich, since he does have time for women outside marriage. A woman will marry a teacher if his future is bright. Women make wise choices.

So Dangote spends all his time with that mistress abi? She is just a paid fûck, and she gets paid...which Dangote prefers than a nagging wife who takes his money yet demands all his attention... That's just plain craziness.

You go for substance...like money? Yes I agree!!!

Case closed

Zxcvbnmghtr:
He has to seek a balance. It is a FACT that a wife of the richest black man, Dangote asked to be divorced because he is too busy and have no time for her. You think it's all about money?!

It is not sensible for you to destroy your own family in a bid to only satisfy your wife with money alone when sex is as well important. A duty that qualifies you as a HUSBAND. A word is enough for the wise, it is WORST with a virgin wife. One of the first thing that pops up in her mind is regret, the other is curiosity, you can tell the rest.

Life is about balance but most women don't seek that out when marrying their husbands, they focus on money alone. You think the woman married Dangote because he is tall, dark and has six packs? His fame, power and influence made her marry him ..don't talk as if she was blind when making her choices. That's called accountability and most women lack that shiit. There is no way a man like Dangote won't be busy and still become the richest man in Africa. Elon Musk works and sleeps on his factory floor and his gf understood that, hence why they are not traditionally married. Everyone has to sacrifice but you women don't want all that.

I still maintain my stance. Many women, include YOU will gladly choose Dangote over a teacher who loves in your street, because money is what motivates most of you. yet you complain of being sex-starved?

cococandy:
This doesn’t make any sense

Can you rephrase it?

Urghhhhh!!!!

😷😷😷

Zxcvbnmghtr:
There is this salon I go to make my hair. In the salon, there was this young guy who infact is better than all of the female hairstylist. Very creative . He was a corp member of the NYSC. He was telling us his experience with married women who are sexually frustrated by their husbands. He got involved with them out of sympathy because they practically begged him with tears rolling down their eyes for at least a smooching that will lead to making them feel like a woman. The first lady introduced him to her many friends who suffer the same torture from their husbands who have no time for them except from one business trip to another.

Their husbands hardly touch them for months. Sex is a big deal in marriage especially for we women unless you want us to cheat on you or seek for divorce, just like one of Dangote's wife did because he had no time for her and so she asked him for a divorce.

The sad news again is, majority of you men have refuse to give head abi?! Okay nah. Likewise most of you suffer from weak erection and have refused to work on your selves through controlling what you eat and regular exercise instead you are into sexually enhanced drugs which makes sex feel so awful and very painful like one being stabbed with a stick.

SEXUAL FRUSTRATION IS REAL AND IT IS DESTROYING MARRIAGES. WHAT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AS A HUSBAND IF YOU DON'T MAKE SEX AS ONE OF YOUR PRIORITIES BECAUSE THAT MARRIAGE IS WHERE YOUR WIFE IS EXPECTED TO FULFILL ALL HER SEXUAL CRAVINGS AND NOT OUTSIDE LEADING TO INFIDELITY.

So if he makes sex his priority and has less time to hustle and provide, una go still cheat so what's the issue? Many of you know the dude won't satisfy y'all but the lure of money no go gree una leave him na


It's better for him to have money to live his life to the fullest instead of trying to please many women who have been stretched and slammed so badly that it will require 6 men to satisfy them.

Femzaremz:
DEY PLAY

Goan sit down small boi

Elders dey talk, tadpole like you dey get opinion too?

Dog will bite you this week

Biglittlelois:
So because of the nonsense you spewed automatically justifies Argentina for the mass killing of blacks in their country? The galls of you inhuman nitwit

I repeat, how the hell do you equate your silly ad hominem to the mass murder of BLACKS in Argentina?

Oh oh! Little miss Lois has lost her shiit!!!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

cococandy:
He wants people to tell him to stop being a “good” husband, so that he can feel justified in his nonsense that he’s plotting.

That’s if the wife even exists. For all we know this is just another one of them women hating threads.

You are always full of shît

Fishlips

We4all:
I can see you have fallen in love with me. Why didn't you tell me this before?

😳😳😳😳😳

🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

dominique:
But when men physically assaults, maim or even kill their wives with glaring evidence, you're quick to ask for their side of the story. Here a man is painting a one sided picture of himself as angel Gabriel and his wife as Lucifer and we're not allowed to seek for her side of the story. You must be dumber than a doorknob

Pea brains

Dominique is in her feelings today!!!

You ok Hun? Economy or Queen Flo?

nanauju:
Maybe you should have a discussion with her about this current situation and how you feel.
If she also has something on her mind to clear she should say it. Make it a two way thing and get a feedback from her.
You can move forward on the next point of action from there

You think a woman like that wants a discussion? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

That marriage is broken because OP is a simp. He is weak. You know it, I know it...and all NL knows it too

ScotHarvath:
Sex is another issue, I always have to beg for it and when I raised the issue in anger she said I can be going to get it from other girls.

I really don’t think most Nigerian girls deserve or want a cool headed man. They will show you shege.

Thinking back and seeing only the things I did I can only can myself a fool. Helping with the chores, helping with the kids, revealing everything about my finances to her, standing up to her family for once admonishing her, spending too much time with her and trying to make her my everything.


Friends have taught me a lot in this life which I why I chose to avoid friends and focus on my wife and family but this woman is making those same guys I abandoned for her call me a fool.


If there’s an altercation, she turns on off the TV and sound system so the neighbors can hear everything.


Is it wrong to be a good man and want your wife to be your best friend.

If this marriage finally fails, the next woman I will date will see another version of me

Lmaooooooo

Eh yahhhhhh!!!

We4all:
No wonder.

Gbenulo jor....

Na to comment mumuishly you know...

If I see you utter pim on NL, I go deal with you.

Fishlips

We4all:
Oloriburiku, how was a little kid supposed to do shit?

You are so dūmb sha

You can't scream? But you know how to lick lollipop shamelessly

LilMissFavvy:
This one is probably one of those women who was deceived by her husband to become a full time house wife. Oga if you don't want your wife to work, then provide money. A wise woman can never accept to be a full time house wife. A wise woman can never allow one person in the name of husband to tie down her potentials in the name of marriage. Imagine how a woman this age is throwing tantrums because of food.

Rubbish talk!!!
A fully grown woman became a kid overnight because of cow and you are saying rubbish? He still gave her 360k three days prior for her hair?

That man is a simp and she knows it. That marriage is already damaged. I am glad her own mother knows what's up

A woman who behaved like this wasn't corrected for throwing tantrums when young. She grew up having her way and that's exactly why she still thinks the solution to anything she doesn't have is to destroy shit around her.

ValCon888:
This has nothing to do with sallah ram or cow. It's about domination.

The man is weak. And she knows it. That's why she has the capacity to pull this kind of stunt.

If you know women well, you'll understand their disrespect doesn't start in a day. They test you with the littlest things until it gets to the big things.

These women will push and pinch you to know your limit. And for every inch you give, they will take a mile.

Before you know it, they will mold you like eba.

That woman has already swallowed her husband.

You nailed it.

The way he was even stammering and talking weakly dey infuriate me. Someone go damage my properties like this and I go still dey explain dey do video?
Kai ..men don weak finish!!!

Lol....

That was funny and embarrassing at the same time.

Imagine having a wife with this mentality for the rest of your life.

That man is FÛCKED

Bradford111:
I never thought something like this would ever happen to me.……. a girl that we spent more than a year together broke up in January this year she was the one who initiated the break up saying she was tired


I'm jus finding out today that she broke up with me to date someone in her school when she tasted his dick this boy is not even up to my level when it comes to money she is still using the phone I bought for her even up till now.. Not that my dick is very small I'm very 6 inches with a somewhat nice girth and I can swear on my life that I have given this girl everything she asked for while we were dating…..

Nairaland fam please come to my aid I have not been able to eat or sleep since I just found this out yesterday this boy hasn't even given her up to 20k since they dated for six months now,, it's just because of his big divk She is obsessed with him


Please a word of encouragement will go a long way in my healing process…

Please note that this story is real I'm not fabricating anything is been long I posted here but I jus can't keep to my self anymore pls help!!

Join the redpill and stop crying

ShinnBet:
China can afford to walk away from it. Remember , they are the ones who actually make shit the world needs .

As for Saudis, their cash reserves in the US has since been liquidated and converted to bullion bars that are securely stored in a Siberian vault.

No one even trusts the US in holding their gold.

Germany demanded some years back to recoup back some of their gold stored in Fort Knox but all their attempts were waived aside. When they even demanded to see their gold in the vaults , they were still denied.

It's believed that there is no gold left in Fort Knox and that all or most of it has found its way to Israel were it was supposed to be stored in the future Third Temple.

There is a reason Lord Rothschild faked his death as now chilling in an underground mountain bunker in New Zealand.

WTF you on bro

Rukevwe999:
It's the ego at work.
Many guys would do things they wouldn't normally do so women would validate them. They act as if they have a strong frame but would burst into flames the moment a lady ignores or rejects them.
Some even join the redpill so they can become irresistible to women.
It's not only about millions, many of you guys measure your masculinity by how much you're able to attract women. If simping doesn't work, you go into hard guy mode.

That's still simping!!!

That's not what the redpill teaches...Why would you say sending money for validation is redpill...
Redpill has many facers. Rich simps join to understand game and become better at not simping... Others are hustlers who need the redpill for motivation and less distraction.

You don't just open your mouth wa-wa and say what you don't know. I don't lack women and I'm here....so what's my purpose here then...to still please the same pussies I already bleeped? I need the redpill to be better at every facet/level...not just women shiit, even though we discuss feminine dynamics here.

Rukevwe999:
A lot of men love the worship and adoration of women. Their ego is tied to it. A man would send millions to a woman to prove to her that he is a man of means or a hero. If it was his fellow man he wouldn't dare it. Sometimes what we mistake for simping is actually a man trying to maintain a image or prove to be what he is not to impress a woman.

WTF are you saying?

I will send millions to a girl to maintain my image?
No one but simps do that

Rukevwe999:
Perhaps she played on his ego. But for a man to send 30k to a woman on a whim just to prove a point in this economy is a sign that he's probably loaded and would recover back in a short while. Some guys spend more than that daily on useless ventures like gambling.

Go away, punk!!

olamoses75:
Sending money to a banny that doesn't offer any service just to prove a point. Would he have sent the money if it was his fellow guy? Don't be like this, fuul....

I have heard men talk like this!!!

I also shake my head in shame for them. So he shocked her with 30k?🤣🤣🤣.

Her insults entered the werey and he sent his monthly allawee.

At the end of the month, he will be the one in premium shock!!