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That is why as a girl it is not good to go out without vex money or order what you personally cannot pay for.

Vex money is for when anything irrational happens, you can still pay for the stuffs you guys bought and walk out with your dignity intact.

Order what you can pay for because it just might fall on you to pay. No one knows.

Dignity and respect is very important.

I know what he was hospitalized for

Too much presence on social media especially Snapchat

Get well soon Davido so that you can return to your Snapchat ASAP. We in the media always want Entertainment gist.

Jclement:
Thank you

You are welcome

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Many babes dumped me in that state, hmm! Many male friends useless me, laugh me join, my hommies o! I come back from UK after MSc. dey hustle from hand to mouth like pesin wey never ever hustle. But I always give thanks to God that my wife married me in that state and never disrespected me on grounds of lack. Today things are so much better. I beg God to help me be a great man for her. She is human and wrongs me sometimes and I get angry, I always try to control my anger for her sacrifice and even when I say or do something wrong to her, in no long time, I rush back and beg her. Thank you for the nice post, just like other Nairaland guys, I love it Lunagirl.

I am happy that you have the decency to acknowledge someone that has hustled with you. A lot of guys don't. The minute they see break light, they begin to find another girl that will suit their "status"

speezyWears:
Marry Me.

Ring please

SmartyPants:
Hey

Hey you too.

People like to carry unnecessary things and make it major issues. So basically,

1) You scaled through the hustle of gathering money for wedding and raising a family.

2) You scaled through the hustle of finding a good partner in this adulterated world.

3) You scaled through village people and their antics.


And then the issue at hand will now be whose name should be on the wedding IV page. Why should it even matter? If it must be discussed, I don't expect it to be a serious discussion. If he wants his name there, fine. If he wants mine, fine. It shouldn't even matter!

But who am I to talk? I still dey find the kin husband sef

TonyeBarcanista:
Would you mind me doing a thread with your comment to send some message? I'll give due reference to you

Please go ahead. By all means, it's my pleasure!

TonyeBarcanista:
Thanks Darling, be assured that we will never let you ladies down when we get our feet...

We count on that. Hope keeps us alive.

WriteBoy:


I am an email expert. I help companies and sometimes individuals plan and execute email campaigns. So everyday, I write a ton of emails. It sounds simple but it's complex work because it ties a lot of disparate skill sets together.

I have creative goals but I am not ripe yet.

I do a bit of that as my side job so I understand how it is not easy at all. Mental exhaustion is as real as physical exhaustion.

TonyeBarcanista:
I will never forget these words of yours in a million years...


Thank You for telling me the mind of the woman in my life...

You are welcome dear!

Titilayooni:
you read my mind. God bless them for us ijn

Yeah baby

pcguru1:
This is the most beautiful comment i have ever seen from NL female, we want to let you know, we appreciate this, I do

Gracias Amigo

WriteBoy:
Yeah, I write for a living. Not creative work though -- getting to that part soon.

I am sufficiently intrigued.

WriteBoy:
This is so heartwarming. I swear, I am not crying but I think a speck of dust got into my eyes.

Thanks so much for this.

I am sending hugs and good wishes on your way. Remain blessed.

You write right? You sound like a good writer.

I am sending you a million hugs and good wishes too

RealHaute:
You're the MVP.

And you are MVP too

erosimo:
May God bless you for lifting someone spirit this morning

Thank you and God will bless you and your hustle too

deturla:
God bless you Luna.

I am in love with you already!

deedeesblog.com

Thank you deqr

I love you too

nwaire:
Wao you sound like u really do understand, thank you.
Ladies like you are few out there, future husband will be lucky to have you

Thank you dear.

siobh:
most reasonable girl out here.

Reasonable people are everywhere. Thank you for counting me one.

Naughtytboy:
God bless u

And bless you too dear

Badgers14:
That's really touching

Thank you boss!

Op,

Take a trip to the prison. Ask how many people are on awaiting trial.

Then make your decision

alaricsaltzman:
Thanks dear!! Wish all ladies can be like you... Not this our pepper dem gang and slay generation we are having now

Don't get me wrong. I slay when I want to and do pepperdem when I feel like. It still doesn't take anything from my brain. Except 1 full hour of makeup and 30 minutes selecting the right pepperdem outfit

True.

To all the men out there struggling to create an identity, know that we, the women in your life appreciate you.

We see you, we know the pressure on you. Most importantly, we have your back all the way.

Especially to my father, brothers and my future husband, I see you and I will be true all the way there.

#hustlersmindset

Commit suicide?

Really?

Because of lack of maintenance?

The truth is that sometimes life gives you half opportunities for you to help yourself.

He definitely has a laptop, Internet connection, constant power, a good IP and time. He can use just these tools to maintain himself. He doesn't have to kill himself.

ABU students on this thread...

SmartyPants:
Hmmm...so you mean you are a christian??

Yes na. What were you thinking?

There are more important issues that Christians ought to be addressing, yet we choose to focus on this one, every single time.

Drabeey:
hey, sup

Hi hi

Quora.

Thank me later. It's one of the dopest forums around.

Then Reddit.

Anonymous1234:
Thanks. And your right, were not together anymore and I see things much clearer now. He's not a good person. And I'm embarrassed that I allowed things to get so bad when I knew better. But I learned a lot about myself in this process and I'm working through it.

No need to be embarrassed. I had similar experience, just on a smaller scale. So I genuinely know how far we can get carried away.

Thing is you dodged a bullet.