₦airaland Forum

Humans by nature are competitive beings. Its not only in relationships, but in all endeavours of life, It only improves one's life, if taken in the spirit of good competition-like.

It would be dangerous if women compare their relationship and decide to take decisions that would threaten such relationships. As long as the channelling of such competition is for the good, upliftment and improvement of the relationship, then it is very much healthy and encourageable.

The world would be a stagnant and retrogressive society if there is no competition. Just make good use of such competitions.

True sportmanship, though wouldn't be easy for an incumbent to concede defeat.

Bro! After now, what next for fashola?

dguyindcorner:
very childish post.

How can i post a campaign poster of him contesting for senate, when he could not even summon the courage to print one.

donphilopus:
Stop spewing gibberish and post a campaign poster of him seeking to go to the Senate. If you fail to do that, then you're a pathological liar.

And he was denied an electoral post by tinubu. How in the whole wide world will a man be governor for 8 good solid years and he couldn't influence the aftermaths of his exit. Once fashola leaves office 29th of may, that is the end of his shadow in lagos state. His only hope is just for APC to win and lobby for appointment.

He could not even get the senatorial ticket to stay relevant. And some people will say here that he is not greedy ooo.
He didn't even have a say on whom his successor would be. After 8 good solid years of being a governor and he is still dancing shoki for tinubu.

I love this guy, but after 8years and he still has no say in lagos, then there must be something wrong somewhere.

saharareporters and their kind of journalism is very scary.

How can osibanjo be GEJ's problem? Of all the heavy weights that can sway votes massively to APC, it is osibanjo that would make GEJ scared.
What then happens to the likes of tinubu, amaechi, kwankwanso and even buhari with all his northern massive followers.

I understand saharareporters want to continue their role of blackmailing and stiring disaffection amongst christains with this kind of news.

Is saharareporters trying to tell us that, all the muslims vote is now locked down for Buhari, why the main battle is the christain votes?

If all the muslim votes is locked down for Buhari, who then are the religious bigot?

What happened this morning here in lagos at plamgrove heading towards onipanu was a real signal of what is actually ahead of us.
APC and PDP thugs shooting themselves in the full glare of people living in these area.

I just sit here reminiscing what our youths have turned into. Shooting themselves for peanuts given to them by politicians.

Can they use the peanuts given to them to build a house?

I just wonder why this politics thing have turn to the most deadliest and dreadest proffession in Nigeria.

They give you guns, sit back and watch you kill yourselves. Damn, Its high time we begin to change our orientation.

A whole president? WOOOOOW...........GEJ is a real democrat.

A governor not allowing a president using a stadium anywhere in this world?
GEJ is truely the definition of a democrat per excellence.

Obasanjo doing everything possible to show that he is the real Darling Bride of the APC and PDP party.

And one of Boko Haram's agitations is rejecting western education.

I stumbled on this picture of the emir of katsina online and i was shocked to know that, such a high revered northern leader had known what civilization is as far back as 1931.

It is disheartening to observe with all sincerity, that, with the advent and rapid spread of civilization in the 20th century, the northern zone of nigeria are still backward. Meanwhile, the yorubas and igbos, have long embraced civilization, the north still keep on wallowing in perpetual primitive way of living.

Now, whom are we to blame for this perpetual enslavement of our northern people ?
I blame their leaders and they are doing it on purpose and not due to negligence.

It is said that for you to get power and maintain that power, there are ways by which it is achieved.The most veritable and workable way, our northern elites have continued to arrogate influence and affluence in the north is to keep their people in eternal darkness. This is a very crude and crass method of maintaining influence and affluence in a society.
The question is how did they do these? The answer is simple. They achieve their continous rule over their people by denying them education. Francis bacon said, 'Knowledge is power'.

Awolowo was priviledged like this emir of katsina to also see civilization in london, and he came back and gave the whole of south-west free education. where is the south west today? Thumbs up to awolowo.
The igbos are also very educated because their leaders recognized the importance of education and influenced their people to get education.

The northern elites truely know that, if their people are being educated, they will be sharing of power and wealth among the people through unfettered civilization that will set in. It is high time we begin to tell our northern brothers the bitter truth, that, all they need is development and civilization and not just being servants to a few. They should begin to hold their leaders accountable, because, the only aim of their leaders, is to deny them the neccessary education so that they would continue to be used in their quest to continue their entrenchment of power and amassing of wealth on them.

Even after 50years of independence of Nigeria, our northern brothers are still talking of almajiri schools. Anytime i hear this almajiri school thing, i just laugh and cant seem to stop laughing.

Let our northern brothers embrace education,so as to get civilization. If their northern leaders tell them not to go to school that school is useless, while they send their own children to school to pass leadership over to them, let them reject such calls and embrace education.
If their leaders tell them that education is bad, they only tell them that, so they will continue to be servants to them and their children.

'KNOWLEDGE IS REAL POWER'. Francis Bacon.

Story for the gods oooooooooo

Don't you get the message?

Lies and Deceit are like Bread and Butter to Politicians.

Don't you get the message?

Why you kill yourselves over this politicians their children don't even bother. They enjoy themselves abroad.

A typical example: I just went through the tweets of this said daughter of muhammadu Buhari. She has not even been tweeting or campaigning for her father. She just started yesterday. All she has been tweeting all this while her dad has been campaigning is just how she is living her life, Meanwhile an inconsequential nobody like you will be ranting all over people who don't care one bit for you.

Did you get the message now? If not then maybe you should beg them to help you access a much better school in nigeria.

LouisVanGaal:
Op, don't be silly...I'm not in anyone's defence!
But have you read about buhari's wife (Aisha)...she came 4rm an important fulani family..has an Msc and as well a consultant to NNPC..

The woman has her own money, and she's self-sufficient (independent)....Zulaiha buhari (the first daughter from the late wife) had ha education up to Msc level all in ABU zaira..the ONLY time she studied abroad was when buhari was in war college, US..he was with his wife and kids nd later she came bk with ha father to complete ha education here b4 sh died in 2012...

This second wife is much more exposed than the first and knws what's good..

Yes! No doubt, Buhari's daughter trended on twitter yesterday, after some of her pictures went viral. I am very happy for her that as a beautiful daughter of Buhari, a leading presidential candidate in the forthcoming elections, Priviledges like this come along.

I am not actually fused by Buhari's daughter trending because she is beautiful or she is Buhari's daughter, i am so shocked about the information i got about her.

The Information is that, Buhari's daughter is based and schooling in the united kingdom. She is a 400level student of microbiology in the university of surrey Uk according to lindaikeji.

My take on this:

1. It is no secret that why our politicians keep their children abroad, they use other people's children to achieve their aim.

2. Residing and schooling in the United Kingdom is very expensive. Buhari have been touted severally to be a saint that cant afford even a house, but, just one of his daughter that we have information on, is schooling in the Uk, I don't know about his other children.

3. It is high time nigerians as a whole begin to ask pertinent questions about our leaders and not just follow sheepishly whatever they hear. A politician will always be a politician.

4. Nigeria has pressing issues, very pressing issues, i actually do expect a Hashtag like #SayNoToTerrorism to trend amongst our youth in solidarity with the nigerian Army fighting night and day to end terrorism, but, it is a lady based in the UK that is trending.

5. Say No To Election Violence. #SayNoToElectionViolence should be our watchword. Why we kill ourselves, destroy our hard-earned properties, let us ask ourselves, were are the politicians of this children. Are their own properties even being tampered with?

My take on this issue is not just based on only Buhari's daughter, but on all politicians in these country. I strongly believe that, why they fight for power here, their children are somewhere abroad enjoying the perks of being offsprings of them.

#SayNoToTerrorism , #SayNoToElectionViolence

All the best.

Midehi:
its so sweet.

I bet i wanna know. Trust me, It will be very interesting to know.

charijee:
I bet you don't wanna know

Great you are actually reciprocating his love to you. Nothing like being truely in love.

Midehi:
He deserves it.

Huh!!! Is that what you told your boyfriend?

If that is what you old him, what was his reaction?

charijee:
If I love a guy, I'll just walk up to him and say "I chosed you out of so many"

HEHEHEHEHEEH! Your boyfriend must be enjoying...

Midehi:
kudos to you, its just d fact..evn wen no money,d love keep burning.

You are already engaged. Right?

Now, you shouldn't even be asking or contemplating on whom to go for, because, you weighed all options available at the time you got engaged and you went ahead.

Your fiancée must measured up to the criteria, you are looking for in a woman before you engaged her. Why now having inner thoughts or contemplations on leaving or staying with her because of some other chick.

Even as a married man, you will still be getting lots of attention from women as it is naturally bound to be so.
Will you be changing them your wife (wives) as other women continue to show signs of likeness towards you?
Relationships are not always rosy and perfect, but those in the relationships make them atleast worthwhile. Why not work on your present relationship with your woman and try to rekindle the love and commitment.......It works.

Goodquestion:
You are just very right dear. There is a girl who keep showing me all those signs but i told her i have a girl friend i proposed to marry but she is not giving up. I like her a lot but am kind of engage with someone else though the girl am engage with no longer show me the commitment we use to have. TO tell you the truth am confuse about who to go for Your advice will help if you don't mind.

So, how really do you show your guy you love him?

Don't you express your feelings to them at all? and If you do, just whisper them to me, i wont tell anyone.

charijee:
I can do all that but it still doesn't amount to love

How would one know? sometimes, she may be shy or feeling to pride to show it, but might unconsciously subtly pass the message.

I have listed the obvious observations i know and you objected to them, that it is a subjective or individual thing. why just give me like 3 ways you show a guy you love him.

Chizzy20:
no1 nids to tell u or give u signs b4 u knw sum1 is in luv wit u.

Even if your not expressing it to me, i could use it to gauge the feelings and measure the love my girlfriend has for me. Just share how you show that you truely love your guy.

Chizzy20:
lolzz y do u want to knw, so far am nt expressin d luv to u.

How do you show yours?

Chizzy20:
op evr 1 ve diff ways in which dey express dier luv, nyc points tho.

Lol! Bro, your right sha.

Majority are easily swayed by material and financial things they see.

But, don't you think think, atleast for guys who don't have the financial resources, those signs are worth observing to know?

I know poor and average guys still date sha.

alberto2k:
[size=18]They'll show all those signs u listed but at the End they'll switch to Chopping some guys money



Abi na wetin we never see?

The next thing you'll probably say now is








Am Different, am me, am this, am that, am Lurther
Issokay!

I ask because i am not aware that money is everything in determining a woman who really and truely loves you.

alberto2k:
See who's asking

Now i know why Buhari have been campaigning about prisons. I never knew he was this much a dullard, until i saw the video of his rally in owerri were he could hardly connect with the crowd.

Is money everything?

alberto2k:
I just scanned the List and I didn't find [b]Money[\b]
So... Am not buying that shit!

High on weed? ok

ireneony:
op you must be high on weed , just becos i compliment a guy, doesnt mean i love him....
i can chat with a guy if i find him interesting, doesnt mean i love him...

op, please stop the generalisation, most ladies dont act this way

1.She chats with you and call you:
If a lady does not call you or manages to reply your chats with 'ok', 'yeah', 'good', 'hmmmm'., run ooo. But if a woman calls you just to hear your voice and is always anticipating your chat messages, she is sure in love with you.

2. Inquisitive about your personal life.
If a woman loves you, she would want to know everything about you. Why would a woman who does not love you, ask about whom you are? If a woman is not interested in knowing anything about your personal life, then she has no single feelings for you, just run ooo.

3. She laughs at your stupid jokes:
But, if she laughs at every thing you say, you are winner.If a woman does not find your jokes funny, just run ooo.

4. She admires you often:
She always comment on how you look and is always positive about it, then she is in love. But, if she doesn't care about how you look, just run ooooo. When she makes it a norm to always smile at your looks, then she is in love. Even if you use the best perfume in the world, and she does not compliment you, then there is no feeling of her towards you. A woman in love will compliment the cheapest perfume the guy she loves uses.

5. If you’re with other girls she gets jealous:
She is the habit of always asking you ' who is that girl to you?'. Or If she sees you in a very close interaction with a girl and she begins to act up, she is in love. But, If a woman is not concerned about how many women you carry in a day, my brother run oooooo, she no send you.


6. She likes spending time with you:
It is not a big deal if she wants to meet you nearly everyday to spend some quality time with you. She can even be climbing your family house barb-wired fence to just to see you. But, if she is always giving excuses on why she cant make it repeatedly, lol, just run ooooo.


7. She touches you often:
Do you think it is only guys that do the touching? Once a woman is in love, touching you would be like her in heaven. That urge to always want to feel you and touch you will be so strong in her that she would sometimes unconsciously want to cling herself to you. But, if a woman sees you as repulsive, anytime, you are with her she is distant as if you have body odour, run ooooo.


8. She exposes the every single thing of her life:
Women are too emotional by nature. They are created to be so. If a girl begins to share her joys and pain with you. If she give you every detail of her life, like her past relationships, family issues e.t.c, they she is emotionally attached with you. But if a woman tells you, ' why are you asking me?' OR 'what is your business?', run oooo.


9. Staring at you and only you:
she’s is paying full attention on you. If her eyes are totally focused on you while conversation, then congrats bro, it clearly indicates that she is genuinely thinking about you. And she is actually on your radar, when she is licking her lips while deep-eye contact. But, if she is like , Oga, abeg be fast now, i have something else doing, without even a Gaze at you, sorry oooo.


10. She cares for you:
If she always ask about your day and how your day fared. If she ask about your change in mood, to inquire, if everything is fine with you, My brother, you are the king of her heart. But, if she sees you with a bandage and just say sorry and move on without asking what happened,just run ooooo.

This are conscious and and unconscious signs that a woman really loves you.