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Kaymicheal852:
All this modernly unconditional love bla bla bla people are talking about I don't kuku experience it before,as far as I can remember I was only 7 when I start receiving good lashing and degredation (especially my mother) from my parents and I have technically buying my own clothes since 2011 when I was only 14

All I could remember they did was giving me food ( Im not sure if I ever go hungry) just because mother is a food seller ,if not only God knows

And I don't remember any sacrifice from them in my teenage years,even when mother took my to learn fashion designing ( I suffer there for almost 4 years) they don't do any freedom or establishing or any tools for me ,I later start working as a sales person and give mom some money to pay for my appprentiship,but heard later on from dad she didn't pay


I wondered sometimes if they are my real parents because mom treats a elder brother better , although I can't say I'm a very good son to them but I was just too young and naive to be treated that way ( before 18 years old )

I had to live with hynia pains for years before I finally do surgery in 2020 with 100k

The little financial stability I have today is all by God and my efforts, nothing is directly connected to my parents, it's really pathetic

Maybe I'll have been better off as an orphan but i thank God because it makes me strong and independent and I realized early on in life that as a man in this world you're all on your own , you've only got God and yourself to look up to

When I start to do really well I later meet on stupid lady that wants to ruin me that's what leads me to TRP and Im grateful for everyone that have contributed to this thread

I always gives my parents whenever they ask me something because of kindness and to my knowledge they gave birth to me

TRP is GOLDEN

You really went alot but thank to God you're independent and comfortable now that all matter and can you kindly share what you experienced with the stupid girl you mentioned

Emotionss:
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Bros I don try but nothing. Not even a passport photograph.

Na memory person take the remember him papa original face even that one self don federal 80% if not that my eldest brothers resembles the man we for done completely forget him face.

My papa na gentle, responsible hard working man but he was never appreciated especially from we the children. unfortunately, he died thinking how to better the lives of his family.

Women have been using we men as slave in exchange as husband for many years from the time of Adam and eve

Emotionss:
This is a true life story... (A Relatives)

But I will try and shorten it.

Mr ken (not real name) has always been on the road 80% of his life.

First, as a Truck conductor (15years to 22 years ) then later as a Truck driver.

Mr Ken got married at age 28 and eventually have 5 children (3 boys 2 girls)

Because of the nature of his job, Mr ken, is almost never around. Spend 90% of his adult life on the road working to provide for his family....

Unfailingly, Mr ken sends 75% of his weekly income to his lovely wife for house keep and other expenses like, school fees, house rents and so on. Because he trust his wife to handle things accordingly.

Unknown to Mr Ken, his sweet loving wife, was busy poisoning and manipulating the mind of his children against him by giving them the impression that their father is a useless and irresponsible man who spend all his money on prostitutes and concubines.

She also made them believe she is the ONE taking care of 99% of the family financial responsibilities... Unfortunately, her victimization crocodile tears is all the prove the children needed to believe her.

The children grow up resenting, disrespecting and in most cases out rightly hatting their father.

On the other hand, the kind of love and praises being showered on their mother was unprecedented, unmatched,unspeakable and unimaginable

Few years later, Mr Ken died a heart broken, lonely, defeated and confused man who took his last breath wondering what he did wrong to his children to make them resent him soooo much even on his dying bed.

(he was 59 years old)

Few months after his death, one of his sons came across an old file and notes of their late father.
Where he kept detailed Records, bank tellers, receipts of all the money and items he sents to his wife for the family upkeep up to 5 months before his death...

When the children confronted their mother about the records, instead of giving them a tangible explanations, she resulted to her usual victimization and crocodile tears. Telling anyone that care to listen that her children have been bewitched by her enemies.

Till this very day the children (most especially the men ) are living in regrets for what the did to their father in his lifetime and even in death

Those of you thinking your mother is different, I honestly pity you. If only you know what she is capable of doing.

There's a 99.9% possibilities/probabilities that your mother is showing you "this unconditional love" because she believes/hoping you will reciprocate the gesture when you grow up and start earning some money.

The TRUE reason mother's hate their daughter in-laws or their sons girlfriends is because they know that those women are about to do to you what they did to your father.

Make I stop here because,

Nairaland Alpha Males are honestly not ready for this discussion.

Alpha male can too drag and we sigma Male doesn't give a fvck about them.

Peaceyw:
My guy posted this on his status, this girl hasn't contacted him a while now messaged him because her birthday is coming up. I just love his reply.

The funniest story i ever come across this year

ubunja:
as long as you sent a snapshot of your profile on that whatsapp I won't forget.

Bossman i want you to add me too

Mentholated:
No female is capable of loving any man for who he is. They all love opportunistically.

Mothers abort millions of their babies annually. Have we asked ourselves why?

Kids are just assest for companionship and security.

If your parents were 100% sure you won't provide that, they will find a way to make you disappear.

ALL relationships in life are TRANSACTIONAL.

Humans simply do not want to deal with the fact that we live in a cold world.

i know that we live in a cold world.

Carchoice:
I want to share a very annoying tip to those that like arguing with women. Please note, I strongly advise you don’t even argue with a woman or try to prove a point, it’s a waste of time.

Here it is, if you found yourself trying to win an argument with a woman or in a banter, always start your argument with “Brosss, ...................

Meaning you start addressing her as “Brosss”


Like this “Brossss, what you are saying doesn’t make sense”

Stress the “ssss” very well to her hearing.

Try it and thank me later. It works magic. A woman will get REALLY offended when you address her as bros. Meaning you no longer consider her as a woman since She wants to argue with a man.

Initially it seem you get stupidity but eventually it's ability to speak with do much sense

emmy2fyn:
Pls. Matured mind pls. No insult. My people I meet a girl and exchanged numbers and she told me she's single but the 2nd day we meet on WhatsApp chart because she based in neighboring state, after some time she was offline so I asked what the matter is, she said she didn't have a recharge card and am having issues with my bank account to unable to make any transaction, if not I would have try to send her recharge card for mb because, we needed to chart alot as u know na, so the 3rd day I always called her ooo buh, I told her to exercise patience and promised her recharge card so immediately she said I should not worry about her that her boy friend already bought her 400naira thats why she came online. So I asked buh u told me u don't have any boy friend now but, she claimed she meet a guy recently so, thats the new person. This girl ennn I really want her so pls. How can I win her? I guess she was angry from her conversation because of the recharge card I was not able to send as requested.

you deserve knock oponu

What about those you knack madam nakam

Ghost

Which is Redpill wanna be again

Your mumu na grade 1

In space

MrBrownJay1:
- if thats the way she used to travel before i met her (and i had no issues with it back then), then what is my concern about it now?
- if i want her to change then i must provide her with the money to take other means of transport
- important question would be (misplaced ego aside): whats wrong if a woman sits in front of a man on a bike?!

You're on point

Ijoba85:
We need to revolt against all yahoo plus guys in the society, kill them all before this madness is stopped if not they would kill our sisters, girlfriends, wives and everyone to continue growing their wealth

You be mumu man, when our sister refuse to go for guy that will treat them well and keep them as wife. Should we force them ?

Yus2020:
Those idiot that collected transport from me without coming Yahoo boys will harvest their parts this year

abeg i ni fit laugh

Yus2020:
Those idiot that collected transport from me without coming Yahoo boys will harvest their parts this year

abeg i ni fit laugh

Justice4Toto:
Pls stop being myopic about it narration. It's not yahoo boys but ritualist as a whole
Ladies should shun ritualist.
Listen a certain guy that sells phones at Akure mall used his gf for rituals but no evidence
The girls machiate till she die.
You see now he is not a yahoo boy but a phone seller
Now the guy has relocated to New York after every one start avoiding him
This is what I tell my sister's anything that look.too good to be true Run

It's really ritual not yahoo but you know these days there rare new names for everything.

Beebah2000:
2022 is something else
Nigerian girls are not safe.
The most annoying part is that some girls will never learn from what is happening to their fellow girls.
They'll still be following yahoo boys up and down.
I wonder how the money ritual dey work sef

let them use you so when you're dead your spirit will know how it work

KingDash:
All Yahoo plus boys will die this year.

For your mind naw you dey talk

SportsHD:
Loll, some girls are so fine and inviting, you'll be willing to go to hell just to taste them.

Willing to go to hell just to toast a girl because she fine guy you dey talk with your brain so

DannyXpress:
As the Grand commander of simps on nairaland, i feel attacked

Sorry you hear

yuping:

Build who for who, I'm always building myself, renovating myself, heaven help those who help themselves.

You're on point man

Ocholu:
Absolutely spot on. This is just it.

That something almost everybody doesn't know.
How can they be saying alpha male is the only strong male in the male group.
Something happened a minute ago you know we sigma are gentle and silent so a woman was saying am like butty children and a man also say am not sharp i just smile and you people doesn't know me, am just gentle that all.

Ocholu:
I know from where you copied this excerpt sir. You couldn't afford to read other studies, sources or translation. You just rushed an picked a "pinch" that demeans.

Trust me, Davido will never do that!

That's my problem with all these low budget "alfa mail" attention seekers. They're half baked in knowledge and don't fully grasp the redpill ideology.

This Thing is alpha male are king over beta male while sigma Male are king on their own no one can rule them.

This is why men die early before their time
If you're not ready for relationship fine discard her.
But if you want to marry, it better you get serious with her because when a man marry a woman that love him he will live long because she will not be stressing you the, unlike the one that doesn't love you but marry for money.

osazsky:
Nor be u and artiku buy rang for destiny ekotu..we know una story for abj..u guys even pay for flight abeg let us be spending data money on them so that we can enjoy free puna..how much for data..if u know how much we spend on drinks bros u for now mention data..this one wont trend u miseed this one and no sense in it just rest oga

where is the evidence to prove you're right and if you say you don't need to prove anything or i don't need to believe you then you're absolutely lying.

ayobamiJR:
You don't need a Laptop...you need love. That's what makes this life interesting...Give her the peace of mind that she want, I know it's the rent money...The love might eventually bring about HP laptop and God is a good God.. he'd provide you with a house later on...Just sleep on the roadside first.

That's how my ex that I told that I needed to settle a 300k office rent keeps bringing different sorts of problem for me hoping I'd fall...last last, I buy 500 MTN for her and told her I was broke that she should reach out to people ...she could not take it, she started forming independent busy woman...We no day together again but my office is still with me...use your head.

Your first paragraph tho

Headlesschicken:
So una still carry this mumu enter new year....

i don't want to laugh but you make me to

Amos1423:
There are a whole lot of personalities if mentioned here on nairaland that you wouldn't dare imagine. I was kinda surprised when i saw a very big guest who came for interview use nairaland and he is even logged in oo.

I never knew my landlord was member of this forum not until we got to vibe together speaking about a whole lot of controversial issue BOOM! Nairaland came into the topic.

Make una Sha dey try respect unaself for here cause you fit insult your landlord play play Sha

i believe you this is a faceless forum so you can't know who is who until the person say he/she is on nairaland