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Kutunban:
The past 35 years that I've existed on earth and few years I've dated, I noticed that Women don't get attracted to needy men.

Give her space and make your self unavailable for a minimum of 4 month, go no contact with her, when she calls you pick her call and talk calmly don't sound angry or hurt, don't initiate conversation or visitation.

I know loneliness and boredom will want you to call or see her but don't. Bro, work on your personal development, workout (exercise) and always look fresh by cutting your hair and nails, get deodorant for your armpit there are cheap ones for like 600 Naira out there even if you don't have money for perfumes.

Even if she doesn't love you again, she'll definitely want to be around you. Broke and weak men are always available for women and women are naturally attracted to alpha and sigma males.

I was once a needy fellow bro, but I've totally transformed into a High profile male, ensure you keep alpha or sigma males as friends too, ensure you associate and flirt with a lot of females, stop proving points to her that she is the only person you are dating, ensure she is always apprehensive emotionally.

Good luck!

As a sigma Male i concur

jayied:
The relationship was more like a child's play...Dated this girl since last year and i can count how many times i have seen her... Visiting to her is like a hell of work, the funny part is that we stay in the same State, same LGA and just N70 TP to my place... Dear kings avoid girls in their early 20s

you don't know before.

Favfables1:
Hmm...
I made a decision to not insult people here, buh I'm seriously considering making an exception for the OP ...
Either ways...
I'll try to keep it civil...

OP...
Break the engagement now...
Like call her now and break that engagement...
That girl is not worthy to be a maid, talk more of a wife...

you finish her patapata

Richdoh:
I'm a young hard work guy who's planning to settle down someday. I have a girlfriend whom I have gone to see her family with my own family , as in, we have done our introduction, what was remaining was for us to fix a date for our wedding.

But this girl started showing some nasty attitude. There was a day she came to spend weekend with me and I gave her some money to buy some food stuffs to cook, that day i received the greatest shocke of my life , my fiancee warmed me never to send her message like that again that she is not my slave.

As if that was not enough. Another day she came to spend some days with me but when she got to my house I was not at home that day. She went to the bathroom to get some shower but unfortunately there was no water running in the bathroom because we didn't had light for 2days so we couldn't pump water. Normally when there's no water like that we usually fetch from the next compound. Though I live in a room and parlour self contain with water running in my kitchen and bathroom.

To cut the long story short, my fiancee refused to fetch water for herself to take her shower. She had to call me on phone to come home and fetch water for her to take her shower. When I eventually got home at late hour, I took the bucket went to fetch water for her to bath just for peace to rain. I later asked her why she had to call me to come and fetch water for her to bath knowing fully well that I was not around. She said in her house, she does not fetch water that her dad usually call Aboki's and buy water from them. She told me that she can't leave a suffering life of having to fetch water, she can never do it.

Please nairalander is this a good sign or bad sign to watch out for?

You guys accept nonsense from girls oh

dan9ice:
No sub
No bills
No taxes

No Twitter dragging
All music are play using their normal voice (accapella)
No show of on social media
No urgent 2k
No wig..

Shawarma and pizza off limits

they are the most happiest people in this whole world

Mlwhen you're jobless sometime you will do nonsense and nuisance things smh

Na those days we make i dey make first move now if you even like me, you will have to toast me yourself i don't get your time so you have to crave for it and after i see how serious you're i will give it to you.

You're an upcoming 70 years old MUMU man

foleskay:
Na so life be. We rise by lifting others. Everybody has his own humble story to tell. Wizzy is referencing wande now because wande too is a big boy. I bet wizzy has forgotten other guys who have helped him to stardom maybe because they re not so popular or not rich like him

Thats how Jide locked up on me after entering Dubai. D guy wey ate my food and slept on my bed for two years. Guy enter Dubai miraculously,con dey flex dey buy cars con forget who wale is. I don move on sha..but its what it is

Hmm this one hit at my weak point God go bless you too soon.
Na him patoranking dey refer to in his make am song

T0T0fucker:
Wizkid chop better juju.






This nor be grace alone.

only him no fit chop am again

Find yourself and put inside the house and collect from the person or else your don bash

ExAngel007:
Twitter user is asking how people would handle this after a lady opened up to her man that sh is into girls but still doesn't want to lose him.

What should the man do?

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2021/12/twitter-user-seeks-advice-after-lady-opened-up-to-her-man-that-she-is-a-lesbian-but-doesnt-want-to-lose-him.html

she want two in one
WTF

How can you do without loving you will definitely but you can just denied it

You don come again with your question

Maybe the phone is not important to him again

AsapTeddy:
Village people don update this one software to current version.

naso oh

Right from time women doesn't like simp guys and you appear like one so she will treat you as such.
There is this girl i suppose to ask out like two years ago when we get close because of her boyfriend mistreating her, but i don't ask her out she notice i don't dance to her tune till went ahead and ask me out to be her her val i reject her propose.
Funny thing i don't even give her number and she have mine that time.

Happy for them

jimmychang:
You still don't understand. Redpillers are guys who can take decisions on their own and look out for themselves. They are more powerful mentally and can take action without considering the feelings involved.They are not easily swayed by the manipulations of women even fellow men inclusive.

Redpill taught me how to manage money(money and emotions can never work together).If my girl ask me for money when I am broke ,I simply tell her I am broke. I will never borrow just to please her.Simps don't make the best husband's my dear,someone who can't take decision without involving his emotions .How will he be able to take control of his home?


The real men are the redpillers

Nice/Simp make good husband to a bastard

Normally you should call her directly your fault is that.
While she is fire girl my guy when use your brain.

lomprico:
You already did by saying you missed her and she agreed by saying she missed you too. Why are you disturbing us again na? Don't you know that 1 small indomie and 1 egg is now 100 naira each?

Almost N150 Guy

End time stealing dey now

And who tell this mumu so called counselor that all wives are nice to their mother in law

Depending on the location bro because many places in Lagos are expensive to live in

In this earth or heaven

OloshoMan:
She'll still go back to him even if she sees a man that treats her like a princess. She'll still go for the rugged one. Don't take these broads seriously anymore

Na only abroad girls even naija girls here like beating.

First of all Nairaland is entire different from all those SM you mention because we guys are something else and ladies are something else too.
mek i tell you the truth

Divoc19:
I really do miss some of my primary and secondary school friends. I pray they're doing well. We had great bond. I was kinda kidnaped (outta the area) by my siblings in a way that I couldn't connect anymore. That was many years ago though
I like your moniker

wow i had such great bond with one of primary school but i haven't see her since we left primary school.
As for my moniker is a normal word.

Is this really a simps story

Divoc19:
Dear Nairalanders,

Am looking for my childhood friend(s). I don't know how Nairaland can help me. Sometimes I dream about them and that gives me hope. Funny thing is I only visit Lagos occasionally. My chances of bumping into any of them is too low.
I lived at No. 13, Sumola Abayomi Street, Mafoluku Oshodi Lagos. I also attended. Mafoluku Grammar School

you dream about them because you think about them

Demigod22:
I have knocked and beaten myself for simping this big. I dusted off myself and I am healthy now.

best to do

Demigod22:
I was asking Cynthia out, she said she like Godly man, I started going to fellowship, she said she doesn't like people that drink, I stopped drinking, she said she like caring man, I started calling everyday, she wants a leader, I started contesting for school election, she doesn't like people that stay out late, I started going home early from school. I became everything she wanted. I broke boundaries just to please her for eight months. I have never loved anyone the way I loved her. There was only a thin line between obsession and my love for her. But she never accepted to date me.


Secondly, I slept in a lady's house just to please her, something I don't like doing.

come here you need knock