₦airaland Forum

CaptainJeffry:
At the time of your call, she was with a man full stop.

i once reason like you,and that have cost me on different occassion.

Why nt think from the perspective that THE LADY MIGHT BE SAYING THE TRUTH.

OP,pls try and see the lady first before concluding(am sure this is happening for the first time)

Maychang:
Who is that one up there who said Marriage will take it from her. Very myopic fellow.

OP... Its obvious she is cheating. There is nothing like my boss is playful especially when he sits on her laps.

Dont feel a pinch of guilt. You did the right thing. Its ok to cry for now (atleast its hurtful). Man up too.

BTW- When the Boss dumps her and she retraces her steps, Do not take her back.

before he came here for advice,he would have thought of quiting...
But be sincere,is it that easy to quit when true feelings is there?


Have you ever find ur sef in such situation to take a bold step and say I WONT CALL YOU AGAIN,I WONT PICK YOUR CALL AGAIN,I DONT WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN ETC. Hw easy was it?

You shld have advice him to go for the toughest decision that comes to his mind rather than you asking him to do what you cant do

OP,no single advice can change ur feelings when it comes to the issue of love(i once caught my gf cheating,instead of getting mad,i end up begging her to stop the act)....though,we end up going our seperate ways


1. Will that same me advice you on what to do?

2. Many people here have found themselve in a worst situation than mine,but they will be quick to advice you on what they cant do(i.e quit,run for ur life etc) like its that easy


3. my advice:Just follow ur mind..
Go for that toughest decision ur instinct tells you

I will leave her for a lesser amount sef...

We always loss to argentina by one goal margin... I believe things will turn around this time... Come next year,we are winning

When you have only one game left to decide your fate.
Green(won) yellow(undecided) red(lost)

Business as usual

My concern are:
1. IN WHAT WAY ARE THE CHURCH HELPING THEIR FOLLOWERS?

2.WITH THE HUGE AMOUNT OF OFFERING AND TITHE COLLECTED ON WEEKLY BASIS,WHY MUST THE CHURCH TASK THEIR MEMBER WHEN ITS TIME TO RENOVATE OR BUILD A NEW CHURCH(where are the offerings and tithe going)

3. IF ANY MEMBER DONATE UP TO 100MILLION NAIRA,WILL DADDY G.O TAKE HIS TIME TO QUESTION HIS SOURCE OF INCOME?

Acidosis:
Shameless old man..


Ordinary home of three people (wife with child), you can't keep. Yet trying hard to teach people above you how to keep their so called sheep

cry NOMORE dude

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Mice one for the dude... So painful he left my beloved club. The lord is ur strength

Tomorrow,one woman will upload a pix of how she was beaten by her husband....without know the cause,some people will start calling all men animal....


What will you call this lady...
Let assume a wife did this to ur child,as the husband,what will you do?

ChangetheChange:


Nah that's is not how politics is being played

Quote me, there will be mass defection from APC to PDP in less than two weeks to PDP convention, another mass defection will take place on the very day of PDP defection.
The final and largest defection that will deplete the rank of APC will be immediately after the PDP defection.

Atiku crossing over to PDP was just a smoke screen to confuse APC.

The real defections from APC to PDP starts in two weeks before PDP convention in December

mass defection or no mass defection,BUHARI will still win if ATIKU is PDP presidential candidate.

The only slight chance PDP has is to present a vibrant candidate,someone who has the love of nigerians at heart,some at his early 50's,someone with zero currupt record and probly give Fayose VP post.

Atiku only want to increase buhari chance of winning 2019 election.


He should rather sponsor a vibrant candidate with his resources rather than embarrassing himself as usual.

Let him come out and declear the million of dollars he spent while on sick bed abroad,before claiming to be saint

I regret wasting my 6mb... Chai,

ritualist!!!

Apina:
Your composition and language structure is really poor for a graduate

i stand to be corrected sir.
Thanx for your observation

babyfaceafrica:
You have been fried zoned.. Wise up and move on

she HAS convinced me am not friendzoneD with every benefit of a relationship(you shld know what i mean).
She always caution my spending each time i tried to entice her with that... Pointing 2 or 3 of my needs that the reckless spending can meet.

The only thing am not sure of IS THE POSITION I AM IN HER LIFE

Goodday my fellow nairalanders...
Am not sure anyone have found his or herself in an unwanted relationship just as mine.. Despite the sleepless night,headache and pain you are passing through,you still find it difficult to quit....


The last i have a serious relationship was far back in 2012. The girl cheat alot and i do forgive her of her unrightousness...
She was impregnated while am away for my Nysc,thats how the story end.


Ever since i only date without loving. Countless of ladies have come my way and gone without having a regret for lossing any.
Not that am treating them badly bcoz of my experience,bt i dont just have the zeal to love.


I meet these young lady through a friend on this blessed evening(though,i do see her occassionally bt we dont talk,only exchange greetings). Things started well and perfect. I love her whole heartedly from the onset she told me YES. Within myself,i thought av meet the Mrs RIGHT.


As times goes on,i get to know her better. She was into multiple relationship. She played her game so smart that i doubt am judging her wrongly.

I was chanced to go through her phone one day. I went through the inbox,i found nothing(even all the love msgs i sent to her wasnt there).

Decide to go through her sent item,there i found alot of msgs she sent out to people....

I comfronted her with the msgs and she got angry,saying she didnt want to hurt me by saying she was into multiple relationship before she met me and that she has been trying to quit them all.



I keep observing her behaviour since then. I observe when any of them called her,she either tell them to call back or she just talk to them like a normal friend,hang up on them without them concluding their converstion,give wrong response to their question or pretend the ntwk is bad.


This days she has been acting such way to me which make me think she is seeing them behind me. She missed my calls often this days especially weekends and late in the evening on weekly basis.


I complained but she act too smart and use the word ARE YOU DOUBTING ME which weak me most time.



I wish i could quit but the love i have for her is holding me down. I knw she wasnt the right person for me but i dont know why am still staying with her.


I lost the zeal to date any other lady since i met her.each time i tried to force my way,she will act straight and i will drop the ambition...

I place her high on my heart and its affecting me negatively.
I know the best i should do is to quit,but whats holding me down,i really dont know..



As anyone found him or herself in this situation? How did you overcome the problem?

Pls help a save a soul...
Thanks

Am currently in the same shoe ...
I dont see her religion as a barrier thou,bt the issue now is...


Am a christian but dont go to church,i want my unborn kids to go to church and nt mosque...

Here she was saying she cant go to church and that my kids are free to choose any religion they like...


And we both love each other?

In this case,what shld i do?

Sagay212:
I see very hungry, frustrated and hopeless pigs everywhere..See their strong faces... The pigs be thinking baifrau.d will make the millionaires overnight...lol..them no know say kanu the king of pigs dey scam dem.

frustrated and hungry you just said?

Thats what ur lord BUHARI turn the nation to.....

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See this toothless dog ranting....
Like say they really mean business...


Wait and see them sleeping at the polling centre...
Yeye people

Yyeske:
What I don't understand is that what have they achieved with all this waka waka

when there is no one to vote in anambra come november,you will know what they have achieve.

peteregwu:
I think I like the new university cut off marks, it is okay for everyone. Let the opportunity be for everyone, and after they are admitted it is left for them to perform creditably well and if not, they would be rusticated. So let it be.

lowering the cut off mark was a deliberate action which is supported by the FG.


They massive enrollment into different institution so as to exhaust the masses in return(school fees)

they kuku knw there is no job for you after you graduate

I love fayosr,but he is not the solution to Nigeria problem. We are too many to be ruled by a single federal govt.
Let there be division. By this,we will be close to govt and the govt will be closer to the masses.

I dont support this.
There are millions of unemployed youth out there who are in need of this job...
Additional 5years is not a welcome development

Baba Buffon just wan create scene ni jare... Nothing happend from the above picture jor

MediumStout:
Buratai will send in troops to wipe them out. One Nigeria we shall remain. Fvck biafra

this one mumu oooo
wipe people out to vote by force?