₦airaland Forum

phemmyfour:
Ignorance and Illiteracy... especially in the North

The fault is more on the govt than on the masses. We have illiteracy and there is ignorance too when polio is almost non existent in Nigeria.
If hepatitis is given one quarter of the attention given to polio or malaria, the result would be seen by all.

So, what's the government doing about it? No awareness creation, no immunisation programme, no subsidised drugs, no sensitisation, nothing. And the thing kept multiplying

philipobiz:
When they are voting to increase their allowances do they laugh at all the way they are doing in the video?

Either they laughed or cried, they should just take decision that will favour the masses.

tctrills:
Not every contributor is poor but everyone can tell that you are hopelessly poor. Secondly, don't share what you observe oga. Use it to improve your life first. If it's not working for you then why share it?

Stop ranting, we heard you already. You don't have nothing to share, so let those who have share theirs.

tctrills:
Lol. See pain. Trust me, if you ever make money you would begin to see clearly.

Like you, right?

emkz:
The decision by Nigeria's President Bola Ahmed Tinubu to remove the very popular but expensively scandalous fuel subsidies has reduced the demand for petrol in the West African country and also removed incentives for smugglers. Nigeria had been a popular destination for refined fuel from the EU, and with the current development, the EU refiners need to look elsewhere to break even.

https://www.reuters.com/business/energy/end-nigerian-fuel-subsidy-set-squeeze-europes-refiners-2023-07-28/

Dey dia and be deceiving yourself . Smugglers my left nyash. People can no longer afford to buy the quantity of petrol they used to buy before

AlexBells:
If it isn't emotions why is it too hard for the court to sentence him

No need to sentence him, keeping him is enough.

lovediehatelive:
So I decided to spend the weekend at my uncle's place because it has been many years I went there.


In the midnight, around 1am, I heard the television was on and I thought he forget to put it off.


So I went to the living room only to see his son of about 4-5 years old watching cartoon. I was shocked and asked him to go and sleep, which he grudgingly agreed.


Now, early morning around 5am or so, same thing happened. I want to the living room and saw him there.


This time he refused to go to bed.


I later found out that's how he does. I wonder if he ever sleeps at night.

The parents are not even bothered, but I'm worried. When we were growing up, who are you to stay awake past 9pm watching TV? Not to talk about waking up at night. Even in the day time you better not be caught idling away on front of the TV when others are busy.

This one just comes to the living room anytime he likes and puts on the TV.

Is this how kids of nowadays behave?

Not the kid's fault. All kids if given the opportunity would want to watch TV from dusk till dawn and from dawn till dusk again! It is up to parents to determine when TV should be switched off at night and switched on during the day.
I don't subscribe my cable TV when schools are in session as I don't always stay at home during the day in order to prevent them from watching TV so that their home work wouldn't be neglected.
During the holidays, TV must be switched off by 11pm till the next day. And it wouldn't be switched on until I leave home in the morning.

obaidan:
I agree with you and like I said "in some cases" not all cases.....I personally would advice people to combine working hard and smart(in higher proportion)

Up till early 2018 @op question was the only thing constantly ravaging my mind. But I knew that working smart was the one I preferred. I had seen hard working people but I wasn't impressed at all, our parents were hard working too. I saw fraudulent youngsters too, it wasn't my thing too.
Early 2018, I made what later seemed the right decision and things began to change for the better until May 29th when Tinubu happened with his petrol subsidy removal. Initially it didn't affect me but now, it is beginning to. This has gotten me thinking again where to look at again, working smart.

HugeElephant:
You said The main secret to wealth is a wealthy background, for a person like me that didn't come from a wealth background, how can I get to be "selected" out of 100 other humans?

I have tried to build connections and make friends but I discover that, most people think I am well off and wants to beg me for money.
But the irony is I am just a lonely, struggling unmarried young man.

When I don't give them money for data, or borrow them 3k, they start to distance themselves from me. They don't understand I don't have too.
Its as if everyone within my age bracket needs help too and are poor.

Very serious

tctrills:
Another poor motivational speaker. Now learn, I was not mocking. I was only pointing out that the blind can't lead the blind

Mumu. So, every contributor so far is poor?
And secondly, they can't share what they might have observed around them. Negativity should be your first name

Runtown07:
Are u into Tech.

He's into internet fraud. And he takes pride in doing so.

Abudu2000:
non of those you mentioned came out of a poor home. Eh suleman keh his dad was a govt worker now pentioned. Don’t allow these rich ppl be giving bobo juice, apostle suleman went to uniben, back those days you could write jamb 5X and still not gain that admission. The main secret to wealth is a wealthy background. Take me for instance, i have worked millions but still not a big man, why? Because the responsibilities weighing me down, no help no support. Some people have never lived in face me face u house in their lives, seyi tinubu children will never pay agent and agreement fee in their whole lives, why? Because the foundation has been laid.

All of you saying “solve a problem” “have talent “ you think cristiano or messi are world best players? Keep dreaming, messi got the chance because he was brought into the team via connection, he was selected out of over 100 names submitted. My first year I didn’t gain admission until i used money to sort even when i got a higher score in jamb. That is life!! The poor willl always be slave to the rich.

How did his father being a civil servant make him millionaire?

tctrills:
99.99% of those advising on this thread are living in poverty. Poor people are very good at advising others.

Your contribution is useless and meaningless

Evolutionlove:
This is what I usually tell people.

So you got to the post of MD and you couldn't fortify yourself. I'm even more concerned about how you got to MD Level. That means you have been very lucky or perhaps your mother's prayers have been protecting you all the while.

You think your downlines workers are joking with you lol. Some of them are eyeing your position and they want you out by all means. Some of them have powerful occultic parents/friends whom they will take your matter to. Seems you don't know Nigerians.

Esu and Water Demons are the Sole owner of Wealth and Fame.

All the Africa Dieties are still very much alive.

You can never make it BIG from the Scratch as a nobody ordinarily in Nigeria. NEVER!!!

Even most of those White People you see are into Occultism and Spiritualism and they are way advanced than the rest of the world.

Eku ise. People like you, nothing can be said to you to change your mentality and mindset. Enjoy your belief

obaidan:
Plenty ways.
1. By working hard
2. By working smart,
3. By being fraudulent

The first one is the hardest route that will make you rich, but it's the one that will give you the most peace.
The second one in some cases have element of the third one.

This has always been my favourite and it doesn't have to have the element of the third one. Working hard has its own tolls and being fraudulent sometime has consequences

cococandy:
Whatever y’all need to tell yourselves that’s fine.
I’m just hoping none of these girls seeing these posts actually believe the hogwash spewed on here daily. Not when they make up around 50% of the workforce just like the men. But let y’all tell it. All Nigerian women depend on men financially

You could be right about the statistics but the truth remains the fact over 90% of Nigerian ladies/women depend on men for survival. That's a fact you can't deny.

skultrick:
Well u guess many of the opinions here lack depth, you might never understand until you find yourself in such situation.

One thing I'm certain about is that many men in Nigeria have forgiven and taken back a cheating wife. [/b]

That doesn't mean I would.

Sure thing. I have witnessed many of such situation.

MrBrownJay1:
TRUE, but we all understand why some women prefer to stay in these yeye marriages in Nigeria.
Marriage in Nigeria is a do or die mission. many women's sole goal in life is to be called "Mrs" at any cost. the Nigerian society/culture looks at an unmarried woman as a failure, thus why people can still look at Genevieve or Linda Ikeji and tell them to go find husband to marry (even after their success). so its understandable that when women in Nigeria get married, they would rather stay married at any cost than divorce. these women would rather be miserable in marriage than lose the "Mrs" title. so i cant put myself in their shoes, but i certainly wouldnt want such miserable life for my loved ones....

but, regardless of why these women stay married and/or if they would find another husband after divorce,

You know very well those two women are not in category of do or die marriage thing.

the
Important question IS: is it right for a woman to stay married to a man who has no respect for his wife/himself/their marriage?!

Women who decide to stay in marriages with cheating have their own reasons for staying. If they decide to walk out, no one can prevent them

skultrick:
So this question is for the men, I was watching this movie, and this woman despite having a sweet home cheated on her husband.

The husband loved his wife so much but after finding out about her infidelity told her it was over. The wife couldn't bare it, she just jumped in front of a moving car but luckily she survived it.

Now the husband is finding it difficult to call it a quit considering the amazing children at stake.

Would you divorce your wife for cheating on you even though she is an amazing woman?

Aftermath of the movie, the man took back his wife after so much pleading from the wife's mom. Turns out the wife was raped when she was 10, and that act seemed to have made her addicted to sex. The husband couldn't go the marathon sex. Moreover, their sex life became boring. It was always in the bedroom but this woman wanted to be banged in the kitchen, hotel, any other out of the norm setting. I can’t really say with all certainty that i can take back a cheating wife but i wouldn't want a broken home. I want my kids raised by both parents.

This reason is not enough reason to overlook cheating, there must be a stronger reason or stronger reasons.

How? I thought Obi is challenging the victory of Tinubu, not Atiku the first runner-up. . So, how is he going to win Atiku?

JayDaily2:
Use natural milk from grass fed cow.

Except that one needs to be careful of tuberculosis from the fresh raw milk from cow

AlexBells:
Law is different from emotions, the law is the law he is innocent until proven guilty

When he ordered the killings of security agents, civilians and burning of security assets, was that law or emotion?

Zonefree:

Nice one Davido.. you did the right thing.

Who sent the bicycle seat head to apologize?

Even Davido himself will eventually apologise, there's no any other way around it. Some people can push him not to apologise but he will at some point

AlexBells:
The Senate is cornfused let the government obey court and stop abusing Kanu's right, follow court order, give a transparent trial, south East is in a government induced turmoil

Kanu's right, lol.
Do you know how many people that have been killed by his foot soldiers based on his instructions? No be only his right but his freedom

JayDaily2:
For you to take this daily it means you don't have a proper financial budget.


There's nothing healthy about holandia yogurt,

Come out from this media Bondage!

Do you read its contents at all?

Do not consume pasteurized milk or it's yogurt.

It's expensive and worthless.

For you to take this daily it means you don't have a proper financial budget.

Enzymes that are helpful have been taken out.

Essential minerals have been taken out.

A, K, E, and D, all fat-soluble vitamins, have all been eliminated.

Pasteurized milk and yogurt are basically bland liquids with sweets that make their way into our food supply thanks to corporate duplicity, misinformation, and profit-seeking.

Those who are familiar with the development of dietary nutrition would know what I'm talking about.

I would be talking about this corporate deception on my channel soon, search and join IAJ ONLINE on telegram.

Join and learn, deliver yourself from this corporate deception in the name of fancy nutrition downgrading our health daily.

What do you suggest instead?

lakeside30:
This OP is a uselss boy,because of cheating and another woman u messed up your own marriage, he is even calling his own son liability, even if your mother inlaw is a multi billionaire she will still be very happy seeing her daughter giving her something, i have a friend too like that after 14yrs of marriage and has tasted another lady outisde,he destroyed his marriage with his own hand and start lieing up and down that the wife is a witch and that she disappear up and down in the house,can you imagine this?

Wrong! If she has more than them, nothing stops her from assisting them so that tensions wouldn't be unnecessarily building up in their marriage like this. Why would she pack all the food in the house for her mother and start wailing again?

bepositive11:
Your son is a liability?

earthsync:
I'm shocked at why you'd call your own son a liability

I think he's referring to the situation where his wife leaves and leaves the baby behind. He knows he can't take care of the baby alone. That's what he meant.

BTW: @op is a newbie on Nairaland to have come here with this kind of story where he clearly called himself a cheat, Nairalanders would roast him alive.
I think he's deactivated his account, I trust my people

Nvestor02:
Everybody want to go to heaven but nobody want to DIE.

People want a working Nigeria but not ready to sacrifice for it.

Nothing good come easily. We are closer to greatness this time than ever.

We can't go back to the burdern of subsidy when we have dying Infrastructure and out-of-school children to cater for.

Government can only help citizen to pay for some certain things, when economy is stable.

Not when it's dying.

Minimum wage will be increased when Ministerial position is fully formed.

To people wey dey complain too much ( we are not the one wey talk say make you poor)

We only need little patience but people are not ready to give it.

Brainwashed mumu spotted.
What is the sacrifice Tinubu is making? What about his VP? His advisers? Incoming ministers, what will be their sacrifices? What about the national lawmakers who are already sharing billions of naira among themselves? What about the govs?
The little things the masses are benefiting from the govt are being taken away one after the other and you are still spitting rubbish about sacrifices. It started with the electricity subsidy, diesel subsidy, kerosine subsidy and now petrol subsidy. Where does it end?
Our kids don't know what public pipe born water is, it is individual boreholes everywhere! No good roads anymore. Food prices, most especially proteinous food which is mostly needed by the kids are almost unaffordable anymore. And you're still talking about sacrifices!
Does this Tinubu appear to you like someone who has direction or who knows what he's doing? He removed petrol subsidy but still wants to be giving handouts to the citizens! He's confused

Eriokanmi:
The president had unlimited powers over the CBN and all the executive arms of government. Go and read the Nigerian constitution. No be me write am

He should have resigned. All what happened at the time was his fault.

Kingsmeal:
Shurrup..


Is Emefiele now the President?

What of Buhari? Who okayed the policy

No be him sold useless and wicked policy to Buhari having known that Buhari was clueless? Or have you seen any former president arrested in Nigeria before?

ahnie:
The way this agbor man stressed me n my then 5years old boy during the cash crunch time,that my lil boy has to stay with me in Accessbank from 11:30am when he closed from school till after 6pm .

The lil kid was so stressed out that he survived only on canned coca cola and eggroll waiting for mummy to collect money in long queue.
His support system was super strong telling me now to leave the queue


I refused deleting that pictures because my son was overtly stressed because of this baldheaded diminutive short umunede/agbor man.

Pls DSS should give this man to me....e get weytin I wan tellam.

STEWpid:
Chai..

When they look for where to hide, they will run to religion that they never believed in.

Useless crooks know how to win the heart of their sheeples.

Nigerians mock religion instead of practicing it.

How many people died during the useless cashless policy while Emefiele and his gangs were busy at the same time looting and selling Nigeria's money to Nigerians?


Anumpama don rush go hold Bible!

Olobuuku.

Wicked soul.

He deserves nothing less than 30 years imprisonment at a stretch.