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babyfaceafrica:
Sowore

He is the only one that isn't a politician amongst them

I don't trust him

Prechgold1180:
Good evening house

Sorry to bore you with my issues


My mum and dad separated 24 years ago

Reason for separation
My only biological bro died from malaria
My dad was unable to come up with money for treatment

My mum moved out took me with her
She remarried 2 years after
Gave birth to 4 leaving me with 4 step sibling
Some years back I heard my mum saying my dad has other children ( I don’t even know them ) I don’t even know my dad

I am a graduate now

So comfortable in life
Got lands houses and cars to my name

My problem now is I feel empty whenever I think of my dad
More like I don’t know my root

I plan on visiting mums home for Christmas
The problem is she hates my dad so much
any thing about that topic gets her angry

I don’t know how to convince to go show me my dads house

I don’t know possible ways to get her to show me my dad hus

Don’t even know if my dad is good
Don’t even know his family
Don’t even know my village
Everything I call family is just from my mother side

Zero from my dad side
I wish I can know them

Sue your mum for denying you the right to know who your father is .

babyfaceafrica:
Arise TV owned by a PDP stalwart nduka Obaibena can't be trusted or deemed neutral. Their chief Anchor Ruben Abati confessed collecting 500m from Dasuki. APC has failed, yes, but not be arise TV go tell us!

PDP was never an option, i can remember the number of assassinations during pdp times, bomb going off in Abuja and many states.. Who can forget the rubbish NGF election between Amaechi and saraki where 16 was greater than 19?...una think say eveybody na indomie generation? Rabbish

In all this who do you rather we vote?

oikirodah:
You say

Are you confused?

Gangster1ms:
The rules of football cease to exist, when it comes to Lionel Messi.
Upon all the help the referee gave, he still went to him after match to abuse him. Very pretentious human. I've never seen Ronaldo behave like this and I was told he was the arrogant one.
I just hope Argentina never succeed for the love of football, the team as a whole is dirty.

Very dirty and toxic

jimmychang:
All this WHAT IF WHAT IF like say na MARVEL ABI AVENGERS we dey watch

LOL

jimmychang:
Doesn't mean he shouldn't be punished.That is how you spoil kids or raise irresponsible people.No matter how you love people when they do wrong they need to be punished.

Of course he should be punished. He should be made to understand that what he did was wrong but at the same time he also needs help.

Hannania:
Somethings can be forgiven, but to forget is impossible. The only thing I'll do differently is not to arrest her. It's not worth it. That action is to the boy, and since he's not 18 yet, as long as am alive, he must be charged for rape when he's of age. Every action he takes now should be about the innocent child. No matter the fear(that's if it is), you don't go about telling your family's predicament to an outsider. You can see what it led to.

To protect that child, she should be raised with no connection to that family. I can't imagine how she'll feel. When she's 16-18, he should seat her down and inform her of her child hood.

I don't know about you, but personally, when am in a relationship and my partner tells about our ordeal outside I lose every form of affection ASAP. Not even my family should know about what goes on in my relationship. It's a bond of trust. And it's my responsibility as a man to make sure I don't make it toxic or uncomfortable for my partner because that's the cost of trust for me. That's why it's hard to date these days, because ladies in particular can't keep to that. It's either her friend, her mother or worst case her pastor.

I understand your point, but he will never look at her the same again .

I get you

Zedoo:
Rubbish talk.

Yeah for someone who doesn't have a family. No matter how bad a brother is if you lose him you would wish that things were different.

Hannania:
A woman who trust a Prophetess and her immediate family over her own marriage and family is not worth the space of motherhood.

Every one has standards. She can't raise that girl anymore.

What if you stop looking at it from the perspective of not trusting her husband? What if the husband is the aggressive type who often impose fears on his subject. Not justifying the woman's actions because it's terrible but using an extreme measures to instil discipline is off to me. Remember the man himself confessed that she has been a good wife also she is also traumatized by the fact that her own brother raped her daughter. I believe the fear of the man made her to keep it from him.

You mean Tinubu Wil be a vindictive president? May he never smell that seat. We don't need people who will spend more time chasing after their perceived enemies. What we need now is a unifier. Peter Obi is the man for the job

co787:
Thanks all for the advice the reason I will bail her next week is because we will be going to the village together I will arrest the rapist if I bail her now her brother will escape for him not to escape my wife must be in jail until we go to the village

Your once very good wife. Chai this life.eh. Too bad to have a bad sibling. Her foolishness has cost her marriage.

DearGorgeous:
I reject having such a stinking mess as a brother! Heaven knows I'm the one that will personally lock you up in Police cell, even before notifying my husband.

There's no way that contaminated blood will be thicker than water in this instance. A two year old baby for crying out loud?

God forbids evil!

What if that brother of yours needed help too? What if he was abused when he was much younger? I'm not condoning his actions but I think the boy needs saving. He's in bondage already and should be rescued from total destruction.

HornyTave:
congratulations,you've won the Award for the most stupid idiot on the internet today
2 awards would be presented to you, one for being stupid the other for being an idiot.

Not necessary

Hannania:
Your move should be around the future and image of your daughter. Your wive don't seem to trust you enough to reveal such to you as the first point of contact. If I can't have a wife who is my confidant, then I can't live under the same roof with her.

That boy needs to be prosecuted, even though he's not 18 yet, there are cases for him. For the future of your daughter, please disassociate her now or in future with that family. Else, she will live in shame and low esteem for the rest of her life.

If I were in your shoes too, I will outrightly divorce her. She obviously chose her brother over her marriage to even have the guts to tell a prophetess but not you.

Save the future of your child man

And you want to do that by divorcing the mum?

ibechris:
If u divorce ur wife and marry another woman wetin u gain?

Your woman was wrong in all indices and that shows how bad she felt by her weight loss and for not confiding in u.

I bet u,there is no woman/man that wouldn't hide this kind of thing to his or her family members because of how abominable it sounds.

However,u can't use ur hand to shatter your home...she,ur wife has been battered emotionally and I think,she needs to be covered and not shamed to this level.

Note,u have arrested the wrong person.

What happened to the main culprit?
This is a very complicated matter that needs to be treated with extreme care and caution,if not,u may not escape the stigma that comes with it.

Good luck to u.

Well said

Blakjewelry:
Please don't mind all these idiots calling you out, there are hundreds of smarter robot being produced in South Africa but you will never see anything like zuluky or South Africana, na only Nigerian infact don't even be surprised it is simply assembled sef.

Low self-esteem is dangerous. Funny enough fools often see themselves as wise

crafteck:
First thing i want to ask is can it walk?
Was the ai programmed to adapt to any discussion or it only answers particular questions..


Is this another primary school project being exaggerated or it is technologically advanced..

Go and read the article

I hope that update is not true. You want to take people's land by force because your brother is at the centre. You will never succeed.

Tofax:
Breaking: Senate President has confirmed that Tinubu is a placeholder.

The only person with good insight.

You mean a ruling party is afraid of being rigged out? BVAS has come to stay whether APC likes or not. People don't know that this evil party have been collecting people's PVCs for 2k and copied their names and card number then issued it back to them. This has been going on in most of their gatherings and rallies. This is part of the reasons why they don't want BVAS.

Willy7:
And yet some homo sapient will dedicate their miserable lives to insult, mock and denigrate such a gift in human form. I may not know if Peter Obi did excellently well as a governor, but one thing I can say is that he has gotten pretty better over the years and as far as this election season is concerned, he is far above other contenders. Nobody match him. Truely, the votes Tinubu will get in this election will determine how many stupid and mad people we have in this country.

He actually did very well as governor. Don't mind what the opposition is saying.

Someone brought this car model to my guy last night for 2M. The car is extremely clean. Nigerian used though

Ha! Justice Okoro they only invited you to their wedding not to checkmate them

omonnakoda:
You are the bigot

The issue is once it is done to one person it can be done to anybody
The fight is for what kind of country we want to have and not for the person

When we fight for the rights of a person who is first in queue it is not because he is a good person. We are fighting to establish rules and order

I remember a few years ago . When Kemi Olunloyo was jailed for many months. Nigerians did not talk because they hated her. I talked .

On this Nairaland

The fight is that we do not want people jailed for insults. Why ? because that kind of law only applies to poor people

Femi Fani-Kayode spends his life insulting people and has never for one day been arrested. Now we are hearing of courts saying people should be flogged for insults
This same Aisha Buhari called governor Fayose a Mad dog and who knows whether that is why he was arrested too.
Nnamdi Kanu called Buhari a pedophile in connection to Aisha Buhari and where is he now?
We do not think anyone should be jailed for defamation. I think the maximum penalty is one year in prison we would like to see that scrapped and before then no one should spend time in prison until sentenced and all appeals exhausted. IG police and Chief of Army staff sentenced but no action

Nnamdi Kanu ordered released no action. So government chooses which orders to obey. When we fight for freedom of speech it does not mean we agree with what is being said

But there is indeed an irony
The victim opposed the freedom of speech of Deborah and supported her killing still the fight is not and should not be about individuals

This guy has really changed. I like this you

Bintdawood:
But bro you know even here in the north onions dey cost. I did classes last week, one of my students bought 5 tiny onions at 100.
Lucky us, we use to buy 1 and half sack when its at its cheap state and will use it for more than a year.



Lets just pray for better Nigeria in sha Allah everything's gonna be alright

Keep on praying and continue to elect the wrong people

Bankowner:
Who is 15 and who is 16? The Doctor's wife? What I'm seeing here is the Doctor's 16 years old wife's niece instead of the Doctor's wife's 16 years old niece.

Funny but it's the same thing. Maybe you should read it slowly so you can understand.

lekkys:
Civic

2M?

2M?

After 5 years? Was she not there 2 years ago when Patrick cane to the village for the sister's wedding?

ahnie:
Pls someone should like my comment,I would come back to read later.Let me go prepare my umberelleta octopus stew and make down payment for a stick of roasted corn.
Thanks

Hahaha clown. Make Seyi no catch you o