₦airaland Forum

lafflaff123: Ibo man again? Hmmmm. Make I quiet before them say I be tribalist, but Miss Swiss the truth of the matter is and this does not just apply to you as a foreigner but also to us Nigerian's and that is an IBO(male/female) always have a motive for everything they do. Its not their fault, its just that God created them with too much SENSE and INTELLIGENCE and that is why other Nigerian's are afraid of them so should you.

Be that as it may, I have always said that truth be told, marriages between Foreigners and Nigerian's are usually destined for failure( in rare cases some do stand the test of time)and the chief culprit of why it will never work is because of the cultural differences, but there are others too.

You said he had his permit before he married you? a renewable permit right? And it was just convenient that he married you for love right? Once upon a time in Europe and elsewhere it is to be the IN thing to get married to a White Woman so as to have the BRAGGING rights to say I have slept with one, but with White Prostitutes everywhere, that is not necessary anymore, so unless a Nigerian man needs something from you, don't be deceived he loves you.

Oh did I forget to tell you I lived in Europe for many years and have seen the same scenario played and replayed thousands of times?

So Miss Swiss, back to the cultural thing we talked about. All Nigerians I know married to foreigners who eventually have babies for them share ONE particular problem.

And that problem is that of their FOREIGN wives never ever allowing their Children stay in Nigeria, even if their dad wants them to. My friend battled his American wife for 10 years before she allowed the kids their first time visit, he too has just secretly brought a Nigeria girl to the US where he hopes to start a second life afresh.

Was at Walmart some months back and the lady at the counter was all abusive about Nigerians, and how the dad of her 3 kids ran away to Nigeria in 1984 after schooling, so I asked why? She said he told her they should move back home and her reply? I AIN'T TAKING MY KIDS TO NO JUNGLE. She called his name, a Yoruba name. That was 1984 and he never came back.

Other factors why it will not work.

Cooking. No matter how they teach you how to cook our food, you will lack the Nigerian touch of the cooking, and an average Nigerian man loves his Nigerian food.

Language barrier. This is very big in the African culture as parents usually teaches their kids their tribal dialect, in your case that's not happening.

Acceptability. Even amongst ourselves, we have problems accepting each other, the Yorubas have problems accepting ibos for marriages, Ijaw/ itsekiri, Christian/ Muslim, let alone you a foreigner, so you get the picture.

Pressure from family: if he is a first child from a certain house hold or tribe in Nigeria, there will be increased pressure for him to marry his kind, so where does this leave you?

The other day I saw some women on TV in South Africa married to Nigerians protesting on how they are being treated, I nearly died laughing. In Another 5 to 6 years at most all those men will be with their Nigerian wives.

Miss Swiss and others thinking they can hold on to Nigerian men in their lands, not saying there are some that don't work but usually, and I repeat Usually Nigerian men will marry you for whatever he can get from you. Before he met you, he was in love with somebody else.

So my advice to you? Enjoy him while you still have him as he will not be sticking around for long.

Jbluv55: Correct.


You probably dint count the outermost square


But what?


Suspense is now over


Congratulations on ur 2nd trial. Did you cheat?

Crassus: SE is really Licking SS ass with serious ferocity o..

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Every thread on this section attacking OBJ is from the SE monikers.

These Slaves are really doing their Jobs... A majority Turned Lackeys doing the SS dirty work

Is this how low you guys have become?

Numero uuuno: It would do you more good to change your friends and start making good ones.
You have an above average command of the English language and write well,i don't know why you wanna derail your life by smoking weeds?what if you run mad out of addiction?"Na yaba left case be dat o"
Please,think of the future and start making good use of your life,May God help you.
Goodluck man.

matazzmagi: We are GODS own children!!

wily:wily:
Let face the truth, the brain of Yorubas and their partners in Looting Dirty Stinking Hausa/Fulani are full of Coconut water. Yeye people

mrnestyy1985: Its so clear that you have been watching some hard core porn lately. Amibo

Eze Promoe: [color=crimson]Do you mind explaining the bolded?[/color]

Eze Promoe: [color=crimson]But how would a Nigerian prostitutes be able to get customers there, Spaniards are racists. I wouldn't be surprised if their offences were their skin colors. [/color]

chaircover: You mean that your doctor sits down and discuss other patients medical issues with you?

No confidentiality, no data protection

Heck, the doctors receptionist who is a very good friend of my husband, wouldn't even give results of a pregnancy test over the phone to my husband. We weren't impressed at the time, but we totally understood where they were coming from. The law is there to protect peoples privacy and confidentiality.

You need to change doctors and learn to develop temporary hearing loss when you see people that you shouldn't be speaking to or seen with, out of the corner of your eye and learn to walk very away very fast.

I still dont understand the story maybe because I am reading it from a logical point of view and it just doesnt seem logical

Doesn't this your neighbor have a husband or family members?

chaircover: No vex o! but are you a doctor, or why would an ordinary ex neighbor who hasn't even seen you for a while be sharing such confidential and criminal information with you?

BTW in Kidney transplants you do not swap kidneys. No surgeon will put the daughters bad kidneys in the house girls body. Kidney transplants dont work like that.

I dont even understand this story sef

yellowpawpaw: Ogaa o!
The lady is a doctor?

No wonder, I read her last post and it didn't gel at all. I was wondering how on earth she can hv that fast access to the said wicked woman's doctors immediately and can confidently discuss such weighty matter with them.
Ok o.

Celyt: @ macjive; all the posters above have given you reasonable advice; Also, if you have the means(in form of private detective) to trail the movement of this evil woman, pls do not hesitate to do so cos she had already made up her mind to carry out her evil act; the feedback from the detective should be able to alert the authority(NAPTIP; etc.) depending on how far she has gone with her evil plans. Maybe you are that her house-girl's messaiah in disguise. Pls update us
PLS SAVE THAT POOR SOUL!

Afam4eva: This is the height of wickedness. @OP what are you doing keeping such a person as a friend. If she goes ahead with her evil plans, are you aware that you'll be an accessory before the fact? Some women are devil incarnate and deserve to be shot with their mouths open. The heart of woman is desperately wicked, who can know it.

stillwater: This is a very sick thread. I have come to realize we are very wicked in that country. We have a very innate knack to devise evil.

pickabeau1: Bro.. that wil not yield anything

she will do it nonetheless