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 Romance › Re: This Is Why I Think Getting Married Will Mar Your Chances To Make Heaven. by MadeINchenzen2(op): 6:57pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
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| Romance › This Is Why I Think Getting Married Will Mar Your Chances To Make Heaven. by MadeINchenzen2(op): 6:53pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
1. The first question u want to ask is why catholic priests do not marry— Advocates see clerical celibacy as "a special gift of God by which sacred ministers can more easily remain close to Christ with an undivided heart, and can dedicate themselves more freely to the service of God and their neighbour." 2. What does God say about not getting married? Bible Gateway 1 Corinthians 7 :: NIV. Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry. But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her. 3.What did Peter say about marriage? I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that. Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion. NB: God created everything, he created Adam and gave him a mate, but God did not create a wife for himself. Neither did Jesus @ 33 have a wife. More... 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: DJ Switch Begs Peter Okoye For Giveaway: Says "I Am A Fugitive" by MadeINchenzen2: 1:53pm On Jan 30, 2021 |
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| Romance › Re: Covid-19: If You Are Still Doubting If The Virus Is In Nigeria? Sorry !!! by MadeINchenzen2(op): 11:06am On Jan 29, 2021 |
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| Romance › Covid-19: If You Are Still Doubting If The Virus Is In Nigeria? Sorry !!! by MadeINchenzen2(op): 11:05am On Jan 29, 2021 |
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| Politics › Re: Second Wave: PTF Mulls Lockdown In Lagos, Abuja, Plateau by MadeINchenzen2: 10:49am On Jan 29, 2021 |
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| Romance › Re: Reasons Why 21st Century Marriage Reduces A Spouse Life Expectancy By 50% by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:53am On Jan 29, 2021 |
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| Romance › Re: Reasons Why 21st Century Marriage Reduces A Spouse Life Expectancy By 50% by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:09am On Jan 29, 2021 |
Boredom Spending almost every waking moment with the same person for the rest of your life may alternately seem comforting and terrifying. Probably the thing you worry most about is getting sick of one another. It’s to be expected that every so often your marriage will fall victim to boredom. But boredom isn’t as hard to beat as you might think. You can keep things fresh by taking up new hobbies, travelling to new places together and — especially — by trying new things in the bedroom. Now that doesn’t sound so bad, does it? |
| Romance › Re: Reasons Why 21st Century Marriage Reduces A Spouse Life Expectancy By 50% by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:08am On Jan 29, 2021 |
Financial Stresses Speaking of financial stresses, you don’t need to own property to worry about money. The source of your money woes could be almost anything, from the fact that you always have to pick up the check at dinner to the fact that she’s helping pay off your debts. Money may be the thing married couples fight about the most. The biggest solution to money problems is to talk about them. Be forthright and honest about things like your debt and adopt a policy of transparency when it comes to purchases |
| Romance › Re: Reasons Why 21st Century Marriage Reduces A Spouse Life Expectancy By 50% by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:08am On Jan 29, 2021 |
House Stress Getting married often means buying a house, and houses come with all manner of hassles. First and foremost, houses are expensive. Besides the mortgage you have to think about property taxes and maintenance costs. Before you even think about buying your dream home, make absolutely sure you can afford it. Saddle yourselves with an unmanageable debt and you might doom your marriage to failure. |
| Romance › Re: Reasons Why 21st Century Marriage Reduces A Spouse Life Expectancy By 50% by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:07am On Jan 29, 2021 |
The in-laws Whether it’s your nosy mother, or her mooch of a younger brother, in-laws can introduce some serious tension into your relationship. Recognize that it’s very easy for you to be critical of her in-laws, but not as easy to see the stress your family causes her. Yes, it’s entirely possible that your family is totally normal and hers is completely insane, but the more likely scenario is that your family is nuts too and you’ve just built up an immunity to their particular brand of craziness. Just try to remember before you make a fuss about going to her aunt’s for dinner, that your cousin comes over every Saturday to watch the game. Be respectful of her family time and she’ll be respectful of yours. |
| Romance › Re: Reasons Why 21st Century Marriage Reduces A Spouse Life Expectancy By 50% by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:05am On Jan 29, 2021 |
Difference in Parenting Philosophies Once you have kids, of course, they introduce 18 years worth of excitement and turbulence into your marriage. Kids spill stuff, break stuff and often steal stuff. The life of a parent can often feel like a constant struggle to get your children to eat their vegetables and, for God’s sake, put their pants back on! So what’s your parenting strategy going to be? Are you going to be cool, fun dad or the “just-wait-until-your-mother-gets-home” guy? Difference in parenting philosophies is another one of our top 10 common marital problems. The most important thing is to recognize that so long as you love your kids, they’ll probably turn out OK. You’ll quickly learn that presenting a united front on rules and punishments is more important than just about anything else |
| Romance › Re: Reasons Why 21st Century Marriage Reduces A Spouse Life Expectancy By 50% by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:04am On Jan 29, 2021 |
Unwillingness to Have Kids Many women (and some men) see children as a necessary consequence of marriage. Whether or not to have kids is a major decision, perhaps the biggest you’ll ever make, so some hesitation on the baby-making front is understandable. That said, persistently putting off procreation can introduce a lot of stress into your marriage and is one of the most common marital problems. If you’re the one putting the breaks on baby plans because you’re nervous about having kids, you might want to start doing some math. If you wait three or four years, how old will you be when your hypothetical future kids graduate from high school or university? Thinking in those terms might help you sympathize a bit with your spouse, who feels these time pressures on a biological level. |
| Romance › Re: Reasons Why 21st Century Marriage Reduces A Spouse Life Expectancy By 50% by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:04am On Jan 29, 2021 |
Division of Household Responsibilities Gone are the days when we can consider men’s work and women’s work clearly delineated categories. Men are just as likely to be captains of the kitchen and lords of the laundry room as women are. Problematically, this flexibility has left us in a nebulous space in which either partner could be doing any chore at any given moment, and by extension, neither of you thinks of any chore as your “job.” Be reasonable: Don’t let one person do all the work. Divvy up the chores. Try bargaining: If you hate doing laundry, ask her to do it, and in exchange pledge to keep the bathroom looking spic and span. |
| Romance › Re: Reasons Why 21st Century Marriage Reduces A Spouse Life Expectancy By 50% by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:03am On Jan 29, 2021 |
Sex Frequency Infrequent sex is perhaps the most common marital problem. Married couples periodically stop having sex for all kinds of reasons: resentment, exhaustion, stress, you name it. The ironic thing is that having sex is a great way to relieve all the stress that is preventing you from having sex. If a lack of sex becomes an additional source of stress, it actually compounds the problem. To break a sex slump, try eliminating all the sources of stress in your wife’s life. Do the dishes, clean the bathroom and send the kids to Grandma’s. You’ll be surprised by the effect a clean and quiet house has on your partner. |
| Romance › Reasons Why 21st Century Marriage Reduces A Spouse Life Expectancy By 50% by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:03am On Jan 29, 2021 |
one issue confronting marriages in Nigeria today is polygyny. Polygyny spreads because of the preponderance of women in the society, men seeking economic advantage in their trades, men seeking to enhance their status, childlessness of first wife, desire for a son, desire for a large progeny, constancy of sex urge, and desire for variety. Covert polygyny, she argued, has become the order of the day in most Nigerian families. This is a situation whereby a married man still has other “wives” outside the official wife. These “wives” may or may not be known by the official wife. Consequently, this has serious implications for parental responsibility, in that the father will not be available to cater for the psychological needs of his children scattered over the place. Other problems confronting marriages in Nigeria include intrusion by extended family members and domestic violence. |
| Romance › Guys: Mention Dat Side U Dnt Like About Nairaland Ladies, 4 Adjustment 2021 by MadeINchenzen2(op): 4:14pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: Game: Take A Screenshot Of Ur Phone Home Screen And Share To Win Cash !!! by MadeINchenzen2: 4:07pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: Game: Take A Screenshot Of Ur Phone Home Screen And Share To Win Cash !!! by MadeINchenzen2: 8:38pm On Dec 30, 2020 |
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| Celebrities › Re: Ned Nwoko Must Not Marry Another Wife - Regina Daniels Fans Protest (video) by MadeINchenzen2: 3:31pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
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| Politics › Re: Inside Niger Delta Creeks Where The Youths Are Raking In Millions by MadeINchenzen2: 3:00pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
| Romance › Re: I'm Old Enough, I Want A Nairalander For A Wife? LetsGo !!! by MadeINchenzen2(op): 2:48pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: I'm Old Enough, I Want A Nairalander For A Wife? LetsGo !!! by MadeINchenzen2(op): 2:45pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: I'm Old Enough, I Want A Nairalander For A Wife? LetsGo !!! by MadeINchenzen2(op): 8:00pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: I'm Old Enough, I Want A Nairalander For A Wife? LetsGo !!! by MadeINchenzen2(op): 7:55pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
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