sukkot: truth of the matter is that if you are a social animal and you hate working hard and you like awoof you will absolutely hate living in the west. Those 3 things I described is the typical naija person right ? Love to parrryyyyy and if you employ them they will spend half the time gisting or playing on the job and they like awoof like this is why naijas love 419 or olosho, it’s like awoof easy money. Ehn so this is why many get miserable in the west. The west there is no socializing, nobody has your time, the west there is no free money and finally if white man employs you to do 10 hours walahi you will do all 10 hours no slacking. And so this why Nigerians get miserable in the west but if you are a rare type of Nigerian who is a hermit and you are a loner who hates socializing and you hate awoof money and you just loveee working extremely hard, you will love oyinbo country
person will just have mb come online to type nonsense.
This is a warning to everyone of you in lagos zanga. Running after those small girl just developing breast. Of them catch you. Na life oooo. Leave small girls alone. Follow her aunty.
PesinPikin84: There is no reason for him to have trust issues with me. He says that he trusts me in everything except when it comes to my career, that I will always put my career ahead of family. The only thing he can point to support this thought is me insisting on remaining in the U.S. before our marriage. Even telling him that I will join him wherever after my training changes nothing for him.
it surprisingly funny how it is that your husband is the one wanting your family to be together no matter what. Career is great but tou can always make alternative measures to work around it. Family is key dearest. For me one year is too much to stay apart. 6months is even too much for a married couple. One person must sacrifice to keep the family.
Let me give you a hint. There will be a time when career can not give tou all the satisfaction and fulfillment
The corruption in this Nigeria is too much. How can this post male front page. With just 35post. Seun please we need to review the rules for this page.
Kenn55: No where is 100% good. Every country, system, policy, anything in this life etc comes with both positive and negatives.
The problem is that a lot of people don't even know what they want out of life and a lot of people also don't know how to analyze and evaluate issues.
A place,policy,country in short anything is said to be good if the positive outweighs the negative. That means you have to list all the positive and negatives and weigh them to see which outweighs the other and match it to your aspirations and ambitions of your life not another person's aspirations.
What happens is that most of us don't know what we want or just want everything. You can't have it all,choose your battle. For example, someone doesn't want to pay tax but want 24/7 light, water, good roads, world class infrastructure, quality education,quality healthcare,security etc, that is not possible, so you either stay where you don't pay taxes and manage whatever service you get and don't complain or you pay the tax, get the services and don't complain.
In Canada, whether you are jobless, homeless,rich poor etc, as long as you are a citizen or PR, your healthcare treatment is free of charge. My wife had a medical procedure of recent that would have cost us $17k if we were to pay but we paid nothing. This is one of the reasons why our taxes are higher than say USA cos of the universal health care funded by tax payers.
If people can just define what they want and make proper analysis, all these useless threads and complains on this forum will disappear
thanks for your insight to this brother. I wish there was a way to private chat with you. I would love so clarity on some issues
I have not seen one Nigerian come back from Canada. People where do they run to. UK is bad no job no good housing, taxes are too much. US is bad gun violence, Russia is bad racism, North Korea is bad Kim jong Hong is there. My brother where come good.
Aimere: I dislike being ignored, so he was doing that. I dragged him angrily which I immediately regretted, maybe I should have kept quiet But I don't know how to keep things in.
guys fear a lady that is reserved. U need to be more patience if not you may over react and misjudge issues
Bro let her go. Remain the good guy she fall for. Give yourself 6months apart. Then she can file for you. If you love that barney then let her travel but have a plan. You fit rush do court wedding. Use this one month plan sometime
dominique: I saw the victim blaming you did there. You disgusting people must always make excuses for men whenever they do despicable things. A woman must be blamed for their misbehaviour. Have you met the couple before? How do you know the woman was troublesome? What if the man had always been violent? So in your shallow, tiny myopic brain, the woman made him do it. He was just an innocent gentle easygoing man till his wife made him pick up a knife stab to her. Continue to delude yourself, we know the truth that most men are violent and are responsible for at least 75% of violent crimes. No amount of fear women you shout will change that!
if you don't have sense to read what I wrote den stay in your lane. I forgive you for all you wrote and termed me. From all indications you are suffering from abuse. You better cry out for help.
What is the gain of anger. You don't need to fight to be a man. Sometimes it's good to run. Run my brothers run. Usain bolt is a runner. You can be a world class star just by running away from wahala. Just imagine how the story would have been caption ...... a benue man ran away from his troublesome wife.