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What kind of Job does your boyfriend do??

username1111:
I've been seeing different threads about women looking for husbands and I created a new account to share this

when my mum was alive she told me she wishes for me to be married latest by 25 but she died when I was 16 and rounding off with secondary school.
Now the issue is I'm 36 and single. Not the I intended for this to happen but I find out that all my exes leave me for the most mundane of all reasons, some never even bothered to give reasons
examples include:
1. I prefer a little more flesh after dating for over 3 months (I'm not skinny lo I'm size
2. 'My mum adds more palm oil to the soup than you' and I replied 'you have a heart condition it's best to cut down on oil' than he said I disrespected his mum
3. There's this student that asked me out and when I got to know he was a student, I told him to focus on his education and graduate first but if he needs assistance he should come to me. Guess what he laughed in my face saying ill die lonely that he wants to manage me I'm making Shakira
4. One's mother just took a long look at me and said I look pretentious.
5. One said I don't socialise well with his friends, etc
It got to a point I was afraid of going into relationships customer I know it will end in tears
One day I went to Bodija market to get a few things and I gave a better some change and she told me I'm married to spirits and that's why my relationships don't last.
Long and short of the matter is for 4 years I've been enriching people who promise to separate us. I've made peace with it and living my life plus I have 7 children from my 4 brothers.
Now there's this guy that has been calling my phone but I'm afraid to meet him customer without solutions I know it will still end in tears

Guys let's be a little nice to the female folk and stop calling them hoes, evening newspapers, etc without knowing their stories. You never know your trolling could be the reason someone commits suicide or is killed in a road accident while being absent minded. the funny thing is you will not know that you have blood on your hands and won't ask your maker for forgiveness

All is well..

What kind if dreams do you have?
Is that the men dont come or what??
If you have spirit husband you would know.

Just be prayerful you would prevail

Suspect33:
i had a dream where i was lying on my bed, i had difficulty moving like something was holding on to me or pressing me, i had this feeling that something was lying next to me(it was night in the dream) so i asked my brother whose bed was next to mine what was on my bed, he pointed his torch towards my bed and said 'Python'

Bros,

The summary is you are under close monitoring by the power of your father house.

They put you in bondage but also ensured to get a guard to ensure you are in perpetual bondage.

The serpent in real life would be a friend or family member or somebody who has access to your life.

God would deliver you bro

WinningEleven:
I am here for advice and guidance... no other thing.
I have realised that a young chap like me depends relatively on expectations on solving problems rather than using experience
it has been manageable.for me this far but I wanna change things into high gear
I'm moving to new grounds come 2020, leaving my parents, new school, new environment. new faces, new problems and new opportunities
what advice do you have to give to a young chap like me? I really need your help Sirs/ Ma
I find that this is the only section I feel I can meet my target audience. so please keep the advice coming
how can I become a responsible man?
how do I avoid the numerous pitfalls in life?
how do I deal with failure with loss and how do I deal with pride with victory?
feel free to gimme bible verses and source materials too so I may Go and dig deeper personally

Bros just follow the below

nnamdiosu:
Hello brother,
Trust me, its very hard to see a young man In this present era, that acknowledges that he doesn't know, and seeks wisdom fr those around him. Trust me, thats one of the greatest humility a young person cam display.

That being said, I'll go straight to the point.
Based on my little experience in life, there are three things a young person MUST NOT DO to be responsible or avoid pitalls. Majority of young people have fallen through them.
There are called the big three by me. They are...

1. Alcohol (drunkess)
2. Drugs
3. Women.

If.you can avoid these three successfully, youve made it 50% successfully in life.
The other 50% trap is another aspect of life that trapped people who avoided the big three

Its peer pressure. These is so powerful, its 50% alone.

If tpu can do your best to be close to God, as much as you can and ask him to help you avoid these things above....youll come back here some Years time and acknowledge the words a I've were true and right.
May God help you. Amen.
Psalm 1 would be fine for now.

Cheers bro.

strungup79:
You are just like my wife. If marriage is about control, why marry? Why not stay on your own? Making money is not about hustling, if it was i'd be earning over three times what my wife earns. Luck, favour also plays a role. Maybe God just wants to show me who I married.

Bros you are coming back up...


Dont worry.... Dont feel disappointed.. What you should do in to intensify prayers


Every prince of Persia blocking the manifestation to my testimony die

Oh lord my father arise over my life.

Oh lord my father, Arise and let mockery come to an end in my life.

Bros, it is only God that can help you in this case, and it would get worse.. But if you would pray you would come out of this and the name of the lord would be glorified

unicorn79:
cc Madprophet

Thanks bro

Alooone:
Mine is more or less of betrayal and man's imminent wickedness...
I got married to my husband in 2013 at the age of 22, then I was still in school... We ttcd for 2years before I gave birth to my daughter in 2015... In 2017 I got pregnant for my son and we packed into our new house (that's where all my problem started).... We had this neighbour that for no reason at all just hated me,...right from day one her complain about me has always been "u too dey pose".....its either you are posing with your husband or you are posing with your child or even your belle..... We nearly packed out because of them.... Shortly before I gave birth I had a dream in which I saw a cat enter into our bedroom and disappeared into my leg... The first attack happened 2weeks after I gave birth to my son then my mum came for omugwo... She was the one that took me to the hospital.... The doctor diagnosed "puperuim psychosis"...after then it has been one attack to the other... When it got to the extent that I have started talking to myself in public unknowingly... I had to run for my dear life... I packed a few of my belongings and RAN with my kids to my parent's house... Now you could ask where was my husband when all this was happening... My people instead of my husband to quench the fire he was busy adding petrol to it... He told whoever that cares to know how I was MAD... According to him he feels "deceived" and "cheated" as he feels my parents knew about my "sickness "before we got married but nobody told him about it. .. It turned to full physical and verbal abuse as he felt saddled with such a liability like me...everyday he reminded me how I was a "regret " to him and told my children how he was going to marry a new mother that will take care of them and was looking for every way possible to frustrate me out of the marriage , because He practically saw it as an "opportunity "
I'm currently staying with my parents and my prayer every day is God should give me the heart to forgive my husband....but it's not easy... Someone we ttcd together and I went through a lot for... as for my neighbour am still praying for her, my God will fight for me... Sometimes I feel like going diabolical cos all these is unfair... I come from a Good,decent Catholic home and prayerful .....just payed for my daughter's school fees (she is an ace student) and saving for my Masters because when I remember all I have passed it further motivates me to aim higher..
Still love my husband though... Sometimes I'm filled with hate for him other times I love him... As for the psychosis ALL the symptoms are gone.
Single motherhood is not what I will wish on my enemy... If you like let it be 500percent the man's fault there will always be a stigma associated with a divorcee....



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The lord is your strength oo..

But this is obviously spiritual.. You contending with something bigger than you..

That is what envy can cause. But i believe God for you for restoration. Ss for hubby, just remember him in your prayers as he was just manipulated against you.

Best of luck in your journey ahead. The Lord would fight for you.

arinpe16:
Good evening everyone. Please I need your advice.

My husband has been keeping malice with me because I don't pray regularly again (we're Muslims) and he's threatening to divorce me (we only did court wedding and yet to do Nikkah).

He's eats my food but doesn't talk to me. This has been going on for over a year now and it's getting worse. Can I tell his parents? They are strong Muslims and I'm afraid they may blame me more. He also doesn't give me money anymore. I'm tired of his stinginess and he's very insensitive. He believes I'm a devil since I don't pray even though things have changed for the better for him since we met.

He also doesn't believe I can get a husband since I'm close to 35. Please, I'm confused. I don't know what to do.

Madam

You husband wants to marry another wife.

Gather your self esteem and be prepared

Blazebond:
Hmmm,so kings dey go funeral for yoruba land,na wa o,kings nor dey near burial or funeral for urhobo at all o,even if na fellow king die sef,the highest that they do is to pay condolences to the family before or after the burial.

They would attend the event where the corpse is, They would only send their staff as a sign of respect for the dead.

But they can attend the after party, if they so desire.

eniboi:
Good morning to everyone , pls I need someone who is spirit filled holy ghost and who understand God words better to put me through . I am someone who has face a lot of battle in life when I was growing up and I use to dream a lot the more I pray the more God show's me a lot of things and if I didnt pray God use to show me things through my dream's , there is a day I was on 7days fasting and prayer on the third day I had a dream I found a Staff made of crystal in my hand I found my self in the midst of people like a gathering I was singing and they r happy singing along side with me but recently the dream stop at some point due to my laziness and sin to pray like before. I need someone who his truly of the lord that can guide me back. And I want to know what God want me to do.

You are putting so much pressure on your self.

Just be self conscious and do the best you can do and leave the rest for God. DO THE BEST YOU CAN.LEAVE THE REST FOR GOD.

All you need is attend a praying church, Join the workforce, the choir especially and be weary of the ladies their and you be fine.

And ensure to run away from sin especially sexual sin, nothing drains the potency of spiritual gifts like Sexual sins.

God be with you bro.

Shalom

Siki355:
where is it stated in the Bible that eating in is 2bad

Wheb men slept the devil came in and sow tears.

seunmsg:
It’s very likely a parastatal.

Even the parastatal self must be one of the correct ones.

Though ones to enter.

Cos regular ministry Level 8 is like 60k now

rottennaija:
Which ministry is that in Nigeria that will pay you 120k for level 8?

Exactly my thoughts too

BellaV:
I burnt the incense to use as Air freshener. Ok I will keep on praying thanks

Air freshener??

Woow

Dats sounds strange though

BellaV:
Hello all, I have 2 questions bothering my mind.

1) Does burning incense have a significant spiritual meaning. I burnt one this afternoon and I saw a Owl at my neighbors window, I looked it away and checked again it was gone. Should I be worried?

2) Lately I have been having dreams of strangers offering me delicious food but something usually wake me up before I eat. Is there a meaning or warning assigned to it.

P.s I changed my location and I remember my dreams clearly now, I also sleep peacefully sort of. I just hope by burning the incense I collected from my friend I didn’t make a mistake

Why Did you decide to burn incense?
What was the reason for collecting the incense in the first place?
Resisting food in the dream is a good thing as your spirit man is alive.
Eating in the dream is bad and can cause untold affliction on the victim.

Resisting it is a good thing but keep up with your prayers

RiyadhGoddess:
Uhmmm I was just going to read and not say something but your question compelled me to... I am not going to Glorify the devil or promote jazz but I will say there is jazz. I explained it in one of my thread understanding our priesthood over creature. There is jazz and I still wonder why people still argue that there's no jazz even when they hear it from the horses mouth. Maybe they should say they haven't experienced or encounter any and I pray they don't...
As a young teenager, whenever my father has a court case or whenever people bring any court related case to him to work on, my father do call my siblings and I, he will give us ball and ask us to play the ball till he returns back from court or till those people return back from court. He will say or tell them kosi wahala, yo dejo nu. Anise yo dejo nu elo fi okan yi bale, oya eyin omo Mi, ema gba ball, egba daada egba daada! My siblings and I will play the ball tirelessly and even dribble and fall and even pursue ourselves till we get tired and sometimes fight sef and give up. The ball we play no go get head or tail and of course no winner because na fight ojoro dey end am. Whenever my father comes back or when the people return to give him update, my father will say to us Ekare eyin omo Mi lols. I believe you all can imagine what happened at the court without speaking any further. BUT THE GREATEST JAZZ OF ALL IS JESUS! All powers belongs to Him both in heaven, on earth and under the earth.

This one strong gan..

Learnt a lot of peeps in the Judiciary do a lot of things like this.

Jeez..

You guys are still here..

About 10 pages of arguments..

God would help all of us oo...

All this back and forth argument...

All is well