SecretSpy666:
Greetings Nairalanders,
I want to seek for you peoples opinions regarding my family challenges.

I'm from a broken home. My parents divorced when I was a child of two years. I'm the only child from their union. My father and mother abandoned me and remarried to other spouse each. I passed through hell growing up with relatives who insulted me with all kinds of names and I was treated like a slave to their own children.

Because of public outcry about my dehumanizing treatment, my father came to village and took me to the city. It was from fry pan to fire experience as my father's new wife was maltreating me. At a point, my father asked me to leave his house that since my arrival, he don't have peace with his wife.

I packed to the house of a relative and work in a block industry to help myself. Most times, I slept in a CAC church close to the relative house as the two-room apartment is not enough for his family. My mother never care if I was alive. She never call me nor reply to letter I sent through someone to her. I continued working in the block industry and started a part time programme. I completed the part time programme and did my NYSC and master degree. I got a job with University of Ado Ekiti with the help of a course mate, managing myself now and surprisingly my mother and father started calling me often.

Both of them have 6 children each with their respective second spouse. Mother want his son to come and live with me, I refused and my father too have been requesting for financial assistance which I also refused. I don't want to have anything to do with both of them. My father's daughter recently called me to help her with school fees, I bluntly told her to ask her mother what she did to me and caught the call. Since then, she never call.

I'm alone and have just two friends. I don't have family. All of them calling now are just looking for what to get from me, not that they care about me. My mother never call me once to ask about my welfare even when I sent my phone number to her through her relative. I wrote WAEC, completed degree course before she started calling me and it is only to request for one thing or other. I'm planning to get married without telling them and build a separate family.

Bar1941:
May the soul of late abami eda FELA ANIKULAPO KUTI continue to rest in peace.....

Just listening to one of his songs with this lyrics "wen trouble sleep yanga go wake am, wetin he dey find, palavaaaa he de find"

A film by an Igbo man (who knows little or nothing about Hausa man's religion) shot in Igbo man's land yet portraying Hausa man's religion in bad light despite knowing that an Hausa man can do anything when it comes to his religion.

The wahala wey Kaduna Nzeogu cause since 1966 never comot for ground, why trying to bring up a fresh one?

marsman:
The fight has always been between Igbo and Hausa from onset, Yoruba will just keep quite and keep prospering.

Joshmodest:
How low can we sink as a country
Ludo and Dunlop , sometimes I think the politicians are happy with our poverty , so they have something to bobo us with !!
Dunlop & Ludo , poverty is a vagabond !!

boyjo:


Na this part I no dey like.
You don't want to go into details?
So how will these young folks learn when the people who know won't educate?

pwansunriseteam:

Education does not equate to money
It is what you are able to do with it.
Zuckerberg just graduated from Harvard after many years of dropping out. Bill Gate is a drop out yet smarter and more intelligent than many Computer Science professor.

Badonasty:
Lol....the funniest thing in the story is even the woman’s uncle speaking trash about his niece....family comes first no matter what

myBraine:
Imagine?

Prior to me watching the YouTube video above, I initially thought that the narval officer was guilty of the allegation issued against him but after perusing the video content, it came to my realization that the task officers were suffering from intellectual superiority.

Knowing fully well that the officer was a loner as at the time of the incident, they preyed on him by taking advantage of that and exploited him in groups.

He is a military man for crying out loud. Maneuvering his way through BRT lane shouldn't be the topic of discussion. Lagos roads are usually busy and this man has to reach his destination on time (mostly for the sake of bloody civilians).

For those of us that has been privileged to travel by air before, we violently and ridiculously trespassed international airspace just to reach our desired countries on time. Now, imagine if those countries we trespassed on began firing us missiles from their military airbase, how many of us will still be alive today?

I am standing with this Naval officer, not because I am a military or a paramilitary man but solely because I am a man with an eccentric mindset and a functioning brain.

Asquare84:
Because he was convicted in us court doesn't mean he can't occupy a position in Nigeria again

sexylassie2:


Damn!, it seems they all want the fast fame

Nigerian artists do not care about masters or contract, what they care about is present fame and balling..so sad

Necksonnel:
Music industry in America is on another level entirely. I laugh when I see some Nigeria artists signing different deals with this America music label

sexylassie2:


Are you for real about peruzzi case?

I watched an interview, davido said he doesnt collect any dim from his artists

flokii:
Misplaced priorities.. one airport is enough to serve all the 5 SE states not up to Oyo state in size. There are better things to do with money.

WaterTheMonk:
As a producer or aspiring producer which is the software you consider to be the best??
Both for producing beat and also the one for voice?

Cc Lalasticala Dominique can I get more audience. Thanks

WaterTheMonk:
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Cc magicminister

One4me:



If by now you dont recognise that the girl you quoted above was SATANICALLY MANIPULATING YOU, then l can understand why your brain functions in only one direction!
That "No is NO", is the first thing she should have told you the moment you start trying to remove your Pant or she decides to remove her own Pant.
The problem with all you these Indomie Generation of men is that "You dont realize when you are being manipulated and set-up for slaughter".

I dont support Rape in the remotest form because l think it is "Weak Men who lack self confidence" that engage is such acts, Women BEG ME to Sleep with them and l pick and chose based on my standards!

BTW, when it comes to sex, "No does not always mean NO"
Example is when you are digging a lady and she is shouting "You will kill me today, You are killing me Oooo"!
You want to stand-up or ease-up the Pressure (out of sypmpathy) but she keeps drawing you closer and deeper inside her!
Which kain of "No means No" be that?

But if you tell a Lady you WANT TO have Sex with her and she says "NO", you MUST respect that "NO" and takeit to means "No".
Just leave her immediately and walk away, even when some of them try to call you back, indicating that such ladies are just trying to use that sexual desire to manipulate you. Walk Away, Sex is not food.

We need to put RAPE into CONTEXT as stop acting like Remote Controlled Zombies.

doeeyed:


To that I say....

If you knowingly go to a high crime-laden area dripping in diamonds and gold apparel, then you're partly responsible for any criminal attack...

As much as my sympathy goes to the victims of crime, it is alarming, the levels of irresponsibility brimming on stuuuupidity exhibited by people, who display victim mentality after spinning the story on its head.

Caveat... I accept that there will cases where there was a lack of knowledge with people placing themselves inadvertently in harm's way.. In addition, I condemn robustly pedophillic rape..a very real scourge in this society.
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One4me:
Osinbajo should stop all these "Political Correctness" joor.
Some Victims have a hand in their own abuse, if we can even call it that.

If you go and do a Sleep-Overnight with a guy you have been sex-texting with, you remove your clothes, took a bath in his Shower, wore his Night wear, lay yourself on his Bed and start smooching, then you wake up the next morning to start claiming he bleeped/Raped you, ... Please, YOU CONTRIBUTED TO THAT SEXUAL ABUSE.

What you know you wont eat, dont rub it against your Nose.
Lord, Lead us not into Temptation and Deliver us from Eve.

Wada3:
The best Vice President ever in the history of Nigeria

Eriokanmi:
Lool. She wan commot look for something to chop. Naxo I go France 2 years ago to meet the compamy wey wam buy my processed casava. For Paris oo, I com see 2 ladies dey greet me for French bon soir I no ansa. I dey look restaurant make i fin food chop. I walked down she street near Forum des halles mall. On my way back, com hear how dem dey yearn edo language. Fear kash me ooh. I wan respond but I swallow am their dress na bizarre. Some ladies go don born finish before traveling overseas to dey do rubbish

CzarChris:
Na wa, as much as I don't condone indecent dressing, How the hell is this the man's business? So hustle wey carry am go abroad na to the find Africans wey dress indecently dey waka bah? The mugu no no dey one wey dey pain am sha.

People should freaking learn to mind their business,as far as e no carry im matter come meet you.

shuooooor!!!

ThothHermes:
You have proof of this? How do you define modesty. The aircrafts are for mission projects only. Have you ever seen this man or Bishop Oyedepo on a trip to Dubai or Las Vegas? Look at the clothes they put on. You see Gucci or Prada there? This man lives in Redemption camp for God sake!
What is your definition of modesty? I agree.

What possessions? This is very false. I dare you to prove it.

The Bible has guidelines for engaging with political authorities. Men like Adeboye are the reason Nigeria has not disintegrated. You don't have to believe this.

People just say excerpts they read from the Internet. I'm sure you haven't listened to any of Adeboye's sermons.

vicrot20:
Oga, Jesus would have rode on any kind of Car of his choice when he was alive. Dont associste Jesus with Poverty ok. Christianity isnt a criteria for poverty. It pays to serve God; You should pls not that. Know the story b4 criticising the glory! Jesus entered Jerusalem riding a donkey. In his days, it was the poor that use donkeys as means of transportation while the rich used horses and chariots.

It is rather sad that most Nigerians pastors are materialistics and do not follow the footsteps of Jesus. I don't need the help of any pastor to serve my God. I would rather give money to the poor and less privileged than pay tithes to these Pharisees called pastors.

malele:
Ndi yorouba I love this una change oo, relax it’s coming to u people soon.
My Brodas from west are so myopic