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A Mercedes Benz ML350 4MATIC.
German engineering. German Efficiency
The car is still in GREAT condition.
The only flaw to this beauty is dent of the left hand side of the car (Above the back left tyre).
That aside this car is Tops.
Driven well, maintained well and still used regularly.
The car is located in Lekki
5.5m
72000 mileage
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marvelli:
that's nice that you've never cheated. Its not the case with me. Its the case I see around me every day with both married and single men.

1. Then its not in our DNA.
2. Exception to the rule right here.
3. That's around you...not every guy

im out....

marvelli:
Pushed to the wall ke? Abeg nobody has to push anything. Im beginning to believe its in their DNA. Im still looking for the exception to that rule sha

Ive NEVER cheated...
I wonder if thats the case with you?
....

Hanseel1:
lol.. you've time arguing with her sha

Like I said some days ago

"Any man who makes money for the sole purpose of impressing a lady or trying to get her attention is a dead man living"

There's no justification in bringing your hungry friends along with you to a date.

If you say it because of security then you don't trust your date!

why will you go on date with someone you don't trust then?? and it'll probably be an open place so what fvcking safe is she talking about.

My guy. I tire ooo. She is beyond reason. She doesn't even get where I am going. So Im not going to continue the conversation.

justtoodark:
how does it go again....?? the hearts of men is continously wicked....??

i dont remember....

you people are finished....

and you men can forget that women will accept una bullshitttt.....

When the bible says "men" it means men and women, like mankind.

Shugavee:
justify what please?? So i am supoose to justify something to you?? Bbecause?? I commented based on my own experience in life n u expect me to justify what please?
Disrespected that what please? That I brought friends so i can hv a fun time with you? Like hello!! Disrespected that what Disrespected that I wanna feel safe around someone I probably just met!!

No be only disrespect!! Till I get use to you b4 i go on private dates that's my rule!!

Ok. If you had a boyfriend and you said you should meet up that you feel like buying him lunch.

If he then came with his friends and wanted you to pay how would you feel?

Shugavee:
lol n i put it to you that not all men think the way u do!!! Simple

If more men thought like me alot of girls would go hungry!!

Your response is an easy way of not having to justify yourself even though the statement is true.

Plus to be frank the few men that do not think like me have a motivation behind it.

You think they think nothing of it?!!

They do so because they either want to sleep with you or your friend. Or remain in your good books....to eventually get something.

A good man will pay, not say anything and will feel very disrespected and move on.

You are not a man. I doubt it has ever happened to you so how do you know how it feels?

Shugavee:
question not answered!! Assume what ever I dont care

(You have just outed yourself...
Yes they do it to impress your friends.
Many guys wont say anything but the relationship is doomed from there.
From that moment he is looking elsewhere....
Your friends are the first target)

(As in.
The point I was trying to make is that it is very disrespectful.
Especially if he doesn't know beforehand and with many men respect is very key.
So a man who doesn't feel respected will eventually go.)

Either way point proven....

Okoyeebos:
That girl is so blind she can't see what's happening.

As in.
The point I was trying to make is that it is very disrespectful.
Especially if he doesn't know beforehand and with many men respect is very key.
So a man who doesn't feel respected will eventually go.

Shugavee:
yeah that's why I don't keep trash friends!! N a man that ain't urs ain't urs!! Outed myself asin I am not suppose to allow my friends hv some fun with me!! Oh please!! We all r different!!

Do you currently have a boyfriend?

justtoodark:
if you dont have money to toast a woman then dont toast a tall....you wan tell me your money is more important than her security....??

you pay more but she is secure.....andddd you get bonus if her friends like your charachter....they will tell her you are mr right guy....

its a win win business.....you cant loose.........

Chai... Ive never met you in my life but in this post I can see so much.
Firstly..My comment had nothing to do with money. Doing things like bringing people without informing the other person is direspectful.
Secondly your saying if a man doesn't have money then he shouldn't toast a woman? That mentality is backward. Go ask couple whose marriages have lasted 50 years...ask then how they began. They will say that both started from nothing. Good luck to you.
Thirdly... Even if the guy pays for her friends it doesn't mean she is any safer
Lastly you are equating that if he pays he has a good character??!!
I hope God sends a good man to you because with this attitude you will land in the hands of a bad guy...be warned.

justtoodark:
i think its a good idea when she brings her friends too....its for security too...many mad men runnig around this days....

Giving excuses for shameless behaviour.
Its like a girl telling a guy to come over so she can cook for him. He then brings his boys and the girl has to cook more food.
The guys excuse: "She may poison my food".

If the girl fears for her security then she shouldn't go. Full stop.

Shugavee:
That's to him!! Most guys I hv met will do anything to impress my friends on a date n see nothing to it!!

You have just outed yourself...
Yes they do it to impress your friends.
Many guys wont say anything but the relationship is doomed from there.
From that moment he is looking elsewhere....
Your friends are the first target

I am creating this thread because after 8 months of being a Nairalander I realise there is a perception about "All Men"

So.... in order to encourage my fellow brothers who are trying to do the right things, and are good men, comment ways in which men are to be valued and respected.

THE ONLY RULES!!!!

NO WOMAN BASHING/HATING/ABUSE.
NO REFERENCES TO NEGATIVE THINGS THAT HAVE HAPPENED IN THE PAST.
DO NOT RESPOND TO ANY TROUBLE MAKERS THAT WANT TO BE IMMATURE!!

This is a way to encourage those who have been through something or who are trying to live right and should continue.

For example:

To those men who have been used and dumped in the past but still treat a woman right....I SALUTE YOU!

To those men who are provoked and do not raise their voice or their hand in anger.... I SALUTE YOU!

To those men who work odd hours, do menial jobs and hard labour jobs to provide for their family.....I SALUTE YOU!

To those men that are being accused falsely and still manage to keep themselves......I SALUTE YOU!

To those men that stand for justice and equality......I SALUTE YOU!

To those men that are trying to be positive change agents.....I SALUTE YOU!

To those single father suffering in silence.....I SALUTE YOU!

To those men who are struggling but refuse to do evil things to make money.....I SALUTE YOU!

To those men who are in a position to take advantage of women and dont....I SALUTE YOU!

To those men who have been hurt or damage....don't take revenge...leave it in God's hands....from experience it is the best way. Have strength. I SALUTE YOU.

The REAL MEN out there will understand this thread....

Continue in a positive way (I Hope)

God bless

ceejayluv:
Thats no colt. It's a locally made pistol that fires one cartridge round loaded at a time

Hmm you seemed to know alot about weaponry. hmm

Fair enough...

biacan:
When a man fails to provide for his family this is what happens.......But what lead you to date a weed smoker report him to the nearest security agencies...... biko

I can't stand irrational people. She wrote her Husband doesn't please. You automatically jumped to the conclusion he doesn't provide. She didn't say that.

Secondly there are two sides to every story. Don't judge by face value. It shows ignorance.

If It was rape then he should be reported to authorities.

Lastly this is a prayer to all those men bashers out there...If we are all bad then I pray you should never want or find a man in your life.

Has anybody noticed anything suspicious.

Why are there shotgun shells even though the gun is fashioned like a colt?!

just saying....

sinaj:
lolll

Dnt take the post serious. Its might be a guy daz behind the monica.

Haha true. Then switch the boyfriend for girlfriend.

These are the kind of stories we should post more.

Positive stories.

Wrong section but good story nonetheless.

Work Hard...

Get rich....

Get a boyfriend....

and give him all your money....


Seriously I dont know where to begin.... The post, the spelling, the mindset...Also sinaj, you think this one is likely to still be a virgin based on this post? possible but unlikely.

Look at all the hungry boys on Nairaland...

I feel sorry for those who are baby mamas/daddys to celebrities.

Unless they achieve something great they will always be known as (Insert Celebrities Name) baby mama/daddy.

....

prechbills1:
...some girls from wealthy families and independent ladies have that mentality but they're rare...

it's limited unlike the scenario when dating a broke bitch

Not disagreeing with you. Just my my experience that broke or rich...they're out there.

prechbills1:
Mr man all these ones are long epistles

stop dating broke babes.. una no go hear

You think its only broke girls?

There is more to this matter than meets the eye.

The truth is that most men understand the concept whether the admit it or not.

The fact is that they don't want to be played a fool by providing for a woman that will then just dump them or jump to another man when they have used them up. Let's not pretend there are not women out there who do such.

A man gives his women money for upkeep but what of the return (If as a woman you are reading this and your mind says "I'm giving him sex" then Its a shame). This is just my experiences so I AM NOT SPEAKING ABOUT ALL WOMEN. Sex doesn't keep a man. Looks don't keep a man. Ask Celebrities.

One former girlfriend said such a sentence to me a few years back. I was in Abuja and knew in my spirit that I wasn't the only guy she was seeing. She said I should provide for makeup, hair, clothes. I didn't provide for all but gave her something. As God is my witness she admitted to me last week that she was seeing others. So wasnt I justified in what I did?

My point is here that many of the women that complain about such are the ones you should be wary of. Big red flag. There are too many good women out there to settle. Find one. Treat her right and this wont be an issue. You will do it happily.

lonelydora:
This Chelsea fan is very stingy.

Who said the wife isnt wearing a MAN UTD shirt.

He's secretly vexed at her...

Isn't she meant to be a married woman now

Just saying...

let me be going.

mhisbliss:
Same here and i didn't even look hard, its glaring

Thanks for the compliment. Its good to be recognized for fighting for a good cause.

I try to add positive value to this world.

mhisbliss:
Its irrelevant alright but i could feel the pain in your comment

I can see your character in yours...

mhisbliss:
See one of them here

Part of the reason why real feminists are having to fight so hard for equality is because of certain individuals.

You think you are helping the cause. You are not.

Find one piece of evidence that I've called any woman on Nairaland a gold digger.

Don't worry Ill wait..

Even earlier in this thread i am actually defending women... so your comment is irrelevant.

mhisbliss:
Someone who's unwilling to spend, even when its absolutely necessary, he'll cling on to it like his last breath see them all over romanceland calling girls broke gold diggers

The OP didn't say Stingy Man.
You belong in the same group as those you are calling out.
(Mic Drop).