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JasonScoolari:
Brilliant! Absolutely Brilliant. We learn everyday and I think I just learnt something from you today.


Merci Bokù!

Read in between the lines Bro. "Never expect anything in return"?! Anybody that invests anything expects a return...you just learnt something else..

WinningEleven:
You fell for my trap. Brilliantly. How can you believe that that kind of woman can get married or agreed to be tied down

You got me haha

Preek

Do you know what I have come to realize (and this is not meant to be as hostile as it sounds), a lot of women don't realize that there are some guys that are out of their league just like the other way around. The only difference is the good ones will ignore you and the bad ones will smash.. Just because you have a good body it doesn't mean you can get every man. Every man needs different things. That's why when some women come on to men they will play like its going somewhere and then go cold turkey because they don't want to be given the insult of their life or be bathed in Acid..
Frankly some men are just overqualified for some women...
The lady in question will just get thirsty applicants and she will remain dissatisfied

gloria34:
from d comments here, its guys that act like they are perfect. its wrong to use insults on a person, man or woman, but that's d very thing they do. their personality attracts d kind of girls they meet

I guess you missed the part where I read that as a man I know we have our problems... That aside many guys are just venting because of experiences they have been through and don't know how to correctly express themselves..the same as women ("All men are cheats" and all that bull). My point is no gender can claim righteousness... Both sides are at fault.....why do you think most relationships dont work. Both men and women think the worst of each other due to their past so instead of trying to work together they are just in it to get what they want and bounce. Lastly I've found that you attract the opposite. A good guy meets a bad chick, she messes him over and turns him into a bad guy. He then meets s nice girl and messes her over....vicious cycle. Have you ever insulted someone? Or used someone for something knowing you didn't like them? You only will know the answer.... Let's stop this rhetoric like its always men against women...its counterproductive. Like I said there are faults on all sides.

GistmeBlog:
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1. Men shouldn't look at their phones more than the Lady while on a date
2. Don't Talk about your Bank account or how much your father has ; this puts ladies off (Bragging)
3. Smelling Bad ( Mouth or Body Odor is a No. No)
4. Don't ask " are you a virgin?"
5. Don't ask her how many guys she's been with ( Body Count) .
6. If she's going to pay for the movie or dinner let her know in advance ( no unexpected ATM failures, I forgot my wallet at home)
7. When your phone rings on a date and you're asked where you are? Don't give a degrading response e.g ( I dey with that big ass babe, I dey with tolu big Breasts, I dey with that weekend chops I teh u about"
8. Don't insist on a "come to my house first date" or come to my friends house first date
9. Don't leave your date to talk to another Lady for more that 2 minutes
10. Don't buy her too many gifts she may think you're trying to "buy" her .
11. If for any reason someone else needs to be in the car, don't put her in the back seat
12. Don't compare her to your Ex
13. Don't talk about her weight or hair in a negative way e.g ( some guys may say : you're about to burst out of that dress, your hair should be due by now ?)
14. After the first sex always call as a courtesy (whether the sex was good or bad)
15. Table manners ( don't make sounds with you're mouth while eating, don't talk while there's food in your mouth, don't use fork & knife for ice cream) .
16. Focus your eyes on her eyes not her breast or ass. ( don't look at any other lady asides her on a date)
17. Projecting yourself as someone you're not (Ladies can spot fake confidence, or a fake in general) Don't borrow your friends car and say it's yours, don't lie your friend's apartment is yours)
18.Don't be too touchy & feely on a first date
19. Don't be rude or nasty to the waiter or waitress to impress your date
20. Don't ask her for money
21. Don't ask for pictures unless she offers

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As someone who practices this I agree with most.
Number 6 made me laugh as only one girl has ever offered to split the bill and I refused and paid it all.
Secondly even if you do all these it just reflects that you are a good man. Many dates I've been on where I literally ticked off all of these point to only be disrespected by my date...
So all those women out there using the statements like "Men-Child", "boys" etc..you are very hypocritical...those are the same comments they will lay on their dates...As a man and knowing how some men operate, we have our problems but women need to stop behaving as if there aren't women out there who aren't terribly behaved...it's annoying...

funmisticqueen:
what can i say, winners play dirty. All is fair in love and war

OK. Well let's see how the lives of those 'winners' end up....
Ladies and gentlemen if you need a reason for the toils of Nigeria...this is it... God help us.

[quote author=funmisticqueen post=7184[b]5293]how has respect made your destiny better[/b], respect will come naturally when they see you know how to get what you want[/quote]So a man who gets what he wants by any means necessary, even by evil, is worthy of respect?...
As for the part in bold...I don't even know when to begin...

funmisticqueen:
yet, many great men and many civilisations have fallen because of the vagina, the only people i see complaining are those who dont have what it takes yo get what they want in life

Comments like these are why many guys don't give some women the respect they deserve...

Saff:
I only look for money and that is the end.

At least she is honest..

When her breasts are always out why wouldn't he look?!
Even women who don't know what this post was about will notice her breasts if they saw this picture....and every picture she posts...

Liliyann:
A woman wants a man that will love her, cherish her, spend on her lavishly, treat her like a queen and be there for her always!

A woman wants a man that is ready to put her needs above his,a man that is financially buoyant and is ready to defy all odds including his family and friends just to satisfy her financial needs and stand up for her always!!
There is a clear difference between a man and a boy, until you know this, you will forever be trying to measure up!
If you are broke and struggling, you have no reason looking for a girlfriend!
No lady was born to suffer!!

I've seem many of this ladies posts.
Also study her profile
They are filled with Anger towards men.
I've come to hope that if something has happened to you that you can forgive and let it go...
You wrote above what a woman wants...
..well do you think a man with all those traits will like a woman with your attitude(or the one you display).
As a man I know we have our problems but in that I pray to God that I never marry someone with this kind of attitude. I'd rather he just take my life...
Some people might abuse me but if you read in between the lines of her comment you will see the picture...

I wish I could flog some sense into the OP.
So there are no fine babes without HIV.
If you don't love yourself there are many people that are in need of organs to survive...

Liliyann:
This could have been averted if only she has a rich and caring boyfriend to take her where ever she wants to go!
It's quite a pity most guys are shying away from their responsibility!!

Your boyfriend should be your god on earth,he should be willing to do anything for you and go extra miles just to make you happy... even getting a nice ride and a driver to drive you!

Never settle for less!
Be with a man that is ready to spend for you just to prove his love and loyalty!!

Read her profile... "She doesn't respond to mentions because most men on Nairaland are frustrated and Broke"
Then why is she here??
Secondly, with the attitude shown above I'm sure she has run into some terrible men and has now become ....FRUSTRATED AND BROKE!!
People such as this live for these kind of interactions as there is not much else doing.
People...don't vex. I'm a believer that we all receive exactly what we deserve in the end...
Let her live her life

Daeylar:
And I am asking you, why are you angry? Why are you angry that a woman has a man who spends money on her? And how do you know she doesn't love him


I don't understand, It's not what you or I feel is right. It's what she and her man are ok with, and If they are ok with it, what's my business inside?
Once again. Why is it bothering you? Why this anger?

I'm not going to comment on the Lady..there is no need.
Since the situation doesn't offend you then I pray that it is your portion to be the Wife of such a Maga that just gives her money...
Say a resounding Amen...

Why is she still only his girlfriend...
Let me be going...

bukatyne:
Subject the man to temptation how?

I am not a fan of updating SM per second however, I will not think of snatching except you are talking diabolical means here.

Funny how we do not agree and I suddenly sound like an advocate of broken homes.

I hail you.

I am all of women being good and sensible however if you think it is to tolerate the excesses of a husband, you have it twisted.

I expect same standards from men and women.

If that makes me a home breaker according to you, so be it.

I'm not going to lie to you... I am completely confused by your write up. Diabolical means?! That didn't cross my mind. Excesses of a husband?! Where did I mention anything like that or where did i condone such behaviour? What I agree with is Men an Women should have the same standards. I said "like" a home breaker because that kind of comment is what homebreakers say..
The bold part - Really?

bukatyne:
Are their relationships really great if their lovers can be snatched like a bag?

"If they could". See the last line.
And why subject him to temptation.
A good and smart woman knows that and if you were married you would know it too...
Many relationships are great but they all have hard times...
You sound like an advocate of home breakers.

Ihatelove:
Cause most guys are pricks, so we would rather stay single than die of heartbreak

Correction. Most of the guys you've met or been around with are pricks.

Also of all the women that have commented about men. Have you met all of Us... Those comments are wildly ignorant.

The tables can be turned...alot of men have plenty of stories of being messed over by women so lets not be partisan and hypocritical.

The fact is that most ladies would prefer a well to do guy. The problem is that SOME of those well to do guys prey on it and take advantage....

Then Ladies you have a choice... Take a risk and suffer with a guy that might not be all set but is going places (Usually the nice guy or the quiet ones who are either overlooked and exploited) and is more likely to end well (but not all the time)... or continue to "Enjoy" with "Bad guys", who are Fresh, Paid, will most likely be using you and then dump you (The writing is on the wall - He is a "Bad Guy" and then you come on every social media platform to then call the male gender a bunch of P-nis led demons...

....Oh and if your thoughts are Id rather go with the bad guy because he has money....then I dont have any sympathy for you.

One last point....there are maaaany women who are in great relationships and marriages...they just are afraid of letting the world know because they know there are many low-life women that would be willing to snatch their boyfriends/husbands if they could.

Essay over.
Peace y'all.

5 Years and still just boyfriend.

hmmmmmm.

No serious minded man will tell his woman to dump her education.

Wait till problems arise (and they will..)... He will misbehave.

"Am I not the one bringing in the money"

"You, and you're uneducated self"

Two people going into any marriage should be strong individually and unbreakable as two..

If this is true I hope she doesn't live to regret this.

People that love money too much never end well.

Money isnt worth your soul. Ask people like Madueke...

blackaxe78:
And what makes her not be a good role model?

Emancipate yourself from deciet please. It's her life and not yours. People still look up to her and she won't be the first and last transgender. Look more at her strength in flaunting her being. Some people are not even proud of who they are.

First of all I will respond using the female gender as that is what you used. Im not actually sure...
She insults people. She is Vain. She boasts of excessive things. What is her income and from where?
If we were to duplicate her 180 million times and replace her with everybody in this country would this country survive?
Ok She is proud of herself....So are criminals.....doesn't make her a role model. She can be proud of herself and still be an ambassador.
Its her life...yes...And this is mine. I have my opinion.
I am fully are of myself...and there is no deception in me.
People still look up to her and that is exactly my point.
Why? I just want to know some reasons...

Does anyone else have any doubts.

Why don't you show your baby bump instead of your boobs.

Bigger boobs isn't always due to pregnancy.

Her choice though....

EweduAfonja:
what do u expect from a (Snoop) Dog(all Men)

Pele.

Im contemplating cursing the next person who posts a message about this person.

Stop Glorifying such people.

Lets look up to good role models for goodness sake.

Im done....

Sarang:
No need.. Mr. adviser
You must have seen his comment where he was going to slap me. You didn't come and advise then.. men and hypocrisy.. Keep your maturity to yourself

I was addressing you because you were the more mature person until the end. That Is why i said you should "Rise above Immaturity". So I was actually trying to help you against AirForce1's comments which included the slap...
So I wasnt being a hypocrite.
You just misunderstood me.

Babyforever:
Shut up

You were the one who called your father 'scum' by association not me...
..Outwitted
But as you say I will shut up.

Sarang:
You are so wrong.. used? Dumped? I use people and dump them Mr. I can do that to you too but you are obviously not my type.. pained my foot!

Hmm Ive just been reading your comments. Most of the statement you have made aren't made on any concrete evidence.
There are two sides to every story.
Such things happen but how do you know the Lady is telling the truth. Even AirForce1 said MAYBE a beauty without brains.
It might be harsh but it might also be true...
Lastly the part in Bold....not covering yourself in glory there.
Rise above immaturity....its the only way.

Babyforever:
Don't give him a chance Men are scum

Your Father Nko?
He must be so proud..

The Sad thing is you may see some women say things like:

"It Depends on how much he is giving me"

or

"As long as he apologizes with a Benz or a Porsche"

....

What Kind of DumbA** S*** is this...

"We may encounter many defeats, but we must not be defeated" ??!!

If you encounter defeats you have been defeated.

I will not say anymore than this...
Lets stop glorifying things that don't make sense

Let me be going to work...

Also Lets stop shaming men. Both sexes have their problems.

How many times have I gone to buy something and a female teller will say something like:

"Won't you dash me" why?? because you are a woman??

Ill ask "What am I owing you" and she will say "It is 700 (for example) but you can give me more"" ??!! why??!!

Women feel a right to unsubstantiated things too so lets bring down the hypocrisy.