What abt this one? Your Vj goes back to normal even after 4 kids? Shoo :ohow, after 4 human beings?

Plss enh, make una dey tell us single ladies the real thing, so dat we r prepared

Tolexander: First of all, JAMB gives one the opportunity to choose any school one wishes and there are over 100 universities in nigeria. So to serve nigeria is not by force!

am doubting the credibility of their nursing science.

Why will nursing fee be lesser than accounting? Or their accounting department has a laboratory?

their nursing is one of the best in the country at least until I left. I actualy left cos my aunty caLls nursing“ise kogbe kogbe” I wouldn't mind doing nursing abroad thou

Fine boy

successking:

Why don't you nationalize in Ghana? You are a disgrace to Nigeria and deserved to be banished. Ode!

Mu he he...am proudly Nigerian if u don't know..if the truth is too hard for u to swallow, then its ur headache not mine.

I wonder what u bashers teach ur children.I mean where v u pple thrown peace, love and unity to. We r Africans and should live in harmony. All this internet wars and bashing will not help u pple criously. Enough said

Most pple insulting Ghanaians wished they were from Ghana in their deepest of hearts. Come to think of it fellow Nigerians, a Ghanaian is more respected than a Nigerian in d diaspora.I even wished I had their passport to make life easier.

bigfat04:

PERFECT ANSWER ...

If what @greatgod wrote doesnt work for you,try natural remedies for social anxiety. Its natural, no side-effects. I use Triple Complex Nerve tonic and it works like a bomb. It can be used in pregnancy as well. Cheers

shadshadyz:

hmm! i disagree.The only good edo men are the GOD-FEARING ONES. Any other one dat is nt GOD-FEARING,be very careful.Becos u may just have a rival elsewhere.Most edo men are unpleasant and have a major character in their bloodline of cheatin.
am 4rm edo state, i lived there when schooling,so i know them& i dont like them.

cheating bastards they are...........SMH

acidtalk:


Those are the illiterate ones. An average edo man na genuise

U are so right about this one

deniyor:

By now you should know the personality of the man your married
You still have emotional attachments to your ex. Probably cos you broke up with a[b] flimsy excuse such as religion[/b] and not cos of personality issues. You could have sent him a bday card but you just had to call to hear his voice.
Your husband has valid questions. One more question for you - is your ex a friend of the family? If not, why the call?

Breaking up because of religion is not flimpsy at all, infact the OP did the rite thing, marrying someone dat doesnt share d same faith as u do, is like building on sand, IMO, OP should do whatever to make her home happy, nd dat involves pleasing her hubby.

sweet_gala:

Anyone have any information about the odd acts this man performed while head of his church

where were u on this planet, when Rev Kings news was everywia? his story is stale jare,

thank God, there r men out there dat appreciate their women, thanks Omega[sub][/sub]@poster, if u treat a woman well, then she will treat u well, and dont forget, u r nt the only guy out there, so reason well,

@poster,relationship is about compromise, sometimes you just have to do things to please ur partner, and most times, ladies want to be assured that they are loved/adored.    I see no reason y u shudnt reciprocate by posting your gf's pix on fb, its no big deal, and btw, u dont need to listen to people's comment/opinion, most times people dont ve good intentions and listening to them can be misleading, Finally,  if u r serious abt ur relationship, then i see no reason why u wouldnt do anything positive within your powers to make it work.

S@mi:

@Fickle. check out my profile pix. for those hating it's not a sin to be ugly lol

hmm, this dude is fynnnne

Hi nairalanders, has anyone used meladerm before and what effect did it have? somebody suggested it worked for her spots, but i want to hear views from people who used it too.

kpolli:

Well just hope Mr D wont make u regret this cos I notice this situations always lead girls to run back to Mr Shy

u might be right abt that, the MR Ds r mostly the ones that dnt really love us the way the Mr shy does, they ve sweet mouths and r very deceitful, mostly the Mr Shy ones r the marriageable materials,

i quite agree with u Toba, but its a different thing altogether if the lady was not willing and was forced, and ve nt been violated b4

i beg ur pardon atheist Claremont, do u guys also believe in forgiveness too? and to whom do you ask forgiveness from?

OP, you dont know what you want thats y u r gallivanting about, if u know what u want, u will be focused abt it,

manmustwac:

Are you trying to say that you know someone who was violated by a guy she met on nairaland?

am talking generally, whether she met the guy on nairaland/not, violation is traumatic for the victim

I wont be surprised if there are rapists on nairaland. If you have forcefully had intimate relatonship with a lady, u are amongst the despoiler on nairaland. You need to ask for forgiveness from the lady and God because indirectly you have placed a curse on yourself.

I know someone going through the process of psychological healing, so i know what am saying.

i left my first love a month ago because he was too proud and self-centred, took me sometime to get over-with

tpia@:
how in the frigging world are internet strangers/others supposed to know you better than you know yourself?

i quite agree with that post, OP, u know urself better, u know y u tend to associate with guys more, we dont know, we can only guess, could be that u ve inferiority complex? your are not fashionable? so many guesses OP, but u know y u dont easily make girl friends

this is serious then, why dont u speak to her about it in the presence of your fiancee since ur fiancee is also aware, the earlier you tell her ur mind, the better for u, cos i forsee somethng happening between u guys later which u may later regret, also, if u ve been doing favors for her before, i think u shud stop it for a while till she changes her behaviour,

OP, i can see why ur gf said u r not handsome, u too dey show, y naa? most people said u r cute, what else do u want?abi, u want us to put u on t.v?

sorry for derailing OP, i think, SAFO, MMM and Mr Cork think the same way, just my observation thou

SAFO:


Just tell the truth, you want to nyash the girl?

M M M link=topic=741608.msg8980724#msg8980724 date=1314021798:


op
fu-ck her and pay her off [quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=741608.msg8981150#msg8981150 date=1314025318]

huh. you scared of punnny?

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thanks horny4u, your comment is well appreciated.

Mr, Cork:

mamacy.  madam i have moiney. so was your number?

is dat all u got to offer, am nt impressed, do better

AmeboAjela:


This is madness. How on earth can she forget been violated? She should be in therapy. That is the problem with Nigerians, why would you keep such a thing to yourself? For crying out loud she was 10 then, how could a 10yrs old not report such a thing to her parents or siblings? Shows the deep break down in communication and relationship between some parents and their kids. Now that she is a bit grown up instead of confronting the guy of the evil he did, she is acting all wired and even accepting him on FB. What message is she passing to this silly guy? From your story it is plain that the guy is gradually working himself up to sleep with her again and she doesn't seems to be doing anything about it. Rubbish!

i dont know if u grew up in nigeria, but there are certain issues that ladies rather keep to themselves esp violation, which is very traumatic, at that age she was probably scared and decided to keep it to herself, but she only got disturbed when the guy added her on fb, which she didnt accept, but rite now, she has decided to see a counselor

U are perfectly fine OP. am also on the quiet side, and i like it, and people commend me for it all the time including my former lecturers, cos when i talk i make lot of sense, u are different, and thats what makes u unique, dnt even try to be like other people, just be v. good at what u do and let ur work speak for u,

M M M:

i dont know oh!!
or
maybe it is cheap dowm dere

Believe if u want to, but am nt making it up, and u r a guy, so am nt surprised at ur comment,

5stardude

link=topic=741708.msg8982989#msg8982989 date=1314040940:

SO op you indirectly got rapped?

As if i will get a gold medal for explaining once again, believe if u like too, i directed her to see a counselor, so things will be fine

Before going into a relationship, study the character(s) of your potential partner to see if u can cope with same before going deep. If not expect a broken relationship in a short while

WORD

@Claremont, what about guys, pls dnt be bias, being good/bad is an individual thing abeg, and btw, hw is research going?

Excelboi:

bull dungs

get ur filthiness out of my thread,