Family › Re: Potty Training by Mamasessy(op): 9:22pm On Sep 23, 2022 |
I like this answer but if only it's that simple |
Family › Potty Training by Mamasessy(op): 7:08pm On Sep 23, 2022 |
hi am looking advice on toilet training, I did with my own children in the past but now my nephew turn 3 and still in diaper. He cries and refuses to use potty. my own children never cry like this but I want to encourage him. |
Family › Re: How Do I Train My 3 N Half Year Old. I'm Lost! by Mamasessy(f): 7:35pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
shes 3 and playing with friends there is nothing sexual about loving her classmates. it is better to spank than lock her for hours alone, that's too evil when she is so small. what bad can she do at 3 to be forced to be locked in a room  |
Family › Re: How Do You Cope With Very Energetic Kids by Mamasessy(f): 6:59pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
little kids are like this but if you dont want to spank him then remove him or stand any time he hits you, tell him to stop then ignore until he is sorry. If you are distracted I think it's his way of getting attention but sometimes you can spank him well n the behaviour will reduce for a while, if it starts again you can spank him well again. Other ideas is to use toys or let him play with water to keep him busy. |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Mamasessy(f): 2:33pm On Jul 10, 2022 |
give him pacifier then he will forget the habit of sucking his finger Manuel91: You should try removing his finger from his mouth when you notice, then immediately feed your baby... This is how I stopped my son from sucking, but trust me sometimes they just use it to keep themselves busy I guess 
You can only manage it, not completely stop it, cos my son I'm even talking about now puts his toes in his mouth as I don stop the thumb sucking �  |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Mamasessy(f): 9:07pm On Jul 09, 2022 |
AfolAde: My 3months old baby has brought new style o...he doesn't suck my breasts and even take bottles anymore...most times I force him to take the bottle...and I breastfeed him while he sleeps at night. But during the day, it's worse...he won't eat and he'll cry for hunger. I don't know what to do o when I had this problem i found putting the baby on a chair or baby seat then offering bottle was successful, if I carry the baby she refuse |
Family › Re: My 2-Year-Old Daughter Is Using Foul Words by Mamasessy(f): 10:52am On May 20, 2022 |
talk with her and advise words she can use in place of the bad ones. Tell her 'if you say eni pi I will spank you' but the mother needs to do the same or her behaviour will only change in your presence... the threat should work but also put her in school where she will hear less of this type of words. |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Mamasessy(f): 10:08am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Nyxx123: Hello mummies, how true is this... so am weaning my daughter whose 19months BTW off diapers, I do wake her wake to pee@night, a concerned aunt told me, to leave the diapers on her in the night and I should stop, with the waking her up @ night to pee, that it affects their growth, that it is what's making her to slim down. So I like how so? I have asked google but nothing on that growth part. Senior Mamas I need your views on this pls. Thank you
it's her opinion not a fact, the only way your baby is not going to grow is if you dont feed her. ignore her and say your putting diapers at night. it's not necessary to tell everybody everything and they always have their own opinion. |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Mamasessy(f): 10:38am On Apr 08, 2021 |
maingwaest: My 3 months old does not pee as much as she use to and it's really bothering me. Is it normal? it can seem less as baby muscles strengthen but actually they hold pee longer. otherwise is baby feeding well? is the fontanele ok, not sunken? its important to ensure she is not dehydrated and you are producing enough milk. |
Family › Re: HELP: My 3 Year Old Son Can't Do Without Cartoons, Stays Awake Till Morning by Mamasessy(f): 4:49pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
The boy is controlling the household, you must be the one to determine when cartoons are watched. if he throws a tantrum spank him very well every time until he accepts the change of rule, it should only take two or three times until he knows not to try you. You need to be the one in control mama. |
Family › Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Mamasessy(f): 9:55am On Dec 28, 2020 |
you used a belt on a baby, that's evil. Just tell him No cos right now hes learning what is right and wrong. Distract him and I wont even tell you to spank him at all because you have no control. leave the spanking to the mother if necessary. if you cant cope with a baby throwing things then how will you cope when he does things wrong on purpose. I hope you change your response, a small person can die from shock with the pain you inflicted. |
Family › Re: I Need Tips On Raising Kids And Being Patient With Them. by Mamasessy(f): 9:45pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Play and talk to them more, give warnings if they misbehave you can make them face the wall but if the behaviour continues spank them very well so they dont repeat the behaviour. Most times warning is enough but depends on the age of the child. The older ones can listen to your warning but if under 5 just spank him each time until he learns the consequence, that's what I do. |
Family › Re: Disciplining Children by Mamasessy(f): 8:54pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Becalm: The best way to train a child is the right and timely combination of all methods proposed. Show love at the right time, talk sense when it matters and whip if it is extremely necessary. I agree |
Family › Re: Why Do Kids Do This.. by Mamasessy(f): 12:34pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Trying to keep themself awake they start running around. If they over tired it's worse so try make them sleep before that time comes. |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Mamasessy(f): 1:13pm On Sep 26, 2020 |
Pls help baby 15 months bite kids in school |
Family › Re: All My Kids Are Picky Eaters, Its Driving Me Crazy by Mamasessy(f): 9:02am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Only offer the meals if they refuse then they get the same meal next time. Eventually they will eat. Remember kids that size only eat portion the size of their palm. Don't force them to eat but tell them they should sit at the table for a good length of time as there is nothing else. Or serve only noodles for one week, they soon beg for something else. |
Family › Re: My 4-Year-Old Niece Loves To Perceive Horrific Scents. Is This Normal? by Mamasessy(f): 3:13pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
Perhaps she can't smell well and is trying to smell something |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Mamasessy(f): 8:11pm On Sep 12, 2020 |
nahzyla: Hello all, I need advice please
My toddler of two years 8 months is stubbornly refusing to use potty. We started training him immediately after his second birthday when he could understand instructions to pee and poop. He used it about four times and then started stubbornly refusing to use it, we tried coaxing him it didn't work, offering bribes didn't work, spanking didnt work, he just says no or runs away or fights you when you try to get him to sit on potty.
I have downloaded plenty cartoons teaching potty he will just settle down and watch the cartoons and discard whatever the lesson in it was.
I don't know how to get him to use potty, he understands how to use it he is just being stubborn. Me I am tired of buying diapers, economy is something else and price of molfix went up suddenly. Please help me ooo
The first few times he used potty, nothing bad happened to him in fact we were happy and praising him because we thought he picked up easily only for him to start running from it afterwards. You can try give him candy every time he sits on potty even if he does nothing in It. But he sounds very stubborn. If he pees on potty more praise, if he pees on floor make him go sit on potty a few times but if he continues to refuse then spank him. You have to make him try sit on potty every half an hour until he knows this is not a game. If he refuse you can hold him there for few mins to make him realise he need to listen to you, after a few times he should go sit there without problem. If he says no or throw potty you can be firm and punish until he comply. Most times I'd say give candy but he seems like a stubborn one who is choosing to disobey you. He will soon realise that rewards come from good behaviour. |
Family › Re: Share The Most Painful Punishment Given To You By Your Parents by Mamasessy(f): 8:02pm On Sep 12, 2020 |
Worst one is when my parents beat me for carving a picture on the table with a knife. That beating seemed to last forever, they used many things to beat me with. But didn't beat me often. |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Mamasessy(f): 7:47pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
angeltolly:
you might have to wait for her to grow more. Teach her it's bad to bite tho. My son is almost 3,still does all of these except the biting tho Thanks it takes time i suppose she will get better when she understand more. |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Mamasessy(f): 6:23pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
My 2 year old baby is always touching things opening cupboard pulling things out. She is happy all the time but never stops , some times she bites other kids,anyone tell me any method that has given results or do i have to wait for her to grow more? |
Food › What Are You Cooking Today? by Mamasessy(op): 6:20pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Just for fun, what did you cook today? |
Family › Re: My Niece Behave Badly by Mamasessy(op): 10:26pm On May 25, 2020 |
cococandy: It works magic for my kid.
I don’t know what it is about it. Maybe the fear of missing out on the fun stuff while “incarcerated” . A threat of time-out resets her brain instantly.
Think about it like prison. Nobody wants to go there no matter how nice it is. Same for me but now people say it’s abuse. But in my eyes the kid can choose to behave. If they choose not to behave then they have to suffer consequences. My own children I only had to beat them when they small because they learn what will happen if they misbehave. |
Family › Re: My Niece Behave Badly by Mamasessy(op): 12:35am On May 25, 2020 |
I tried the naughty corner and she resisted for some time. But I told her she can’t play until she stops making noise. It worked somewhat but still have to keep trying each day. |
Family › Re: My Niece Behave Badly by Mamasessy(op): 5:36pm On May 24, 2020 |
merieam16: wen shestarts cryin lovk her in a room Thanks |
Family › Re: Access Email by Mamasessy(op): 12:43pm On May 24, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Share The Most Painful Punishment Given To You By Your Parents by Mamasessy(f): 12:36pm On May 24, 2020 |
Too many to remember but one time I was locked outside for the night and I never liked to eat so that some nights I spent whole evening sat at the dinner table until I eat. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Woman Flogged By Her Family For Cheating On Her Husband? (VIDEO) by Mamasessy(f): 12:29pm On May 24, 2020 |
The husband need to look at himself, why is she cheating on him? This treatment is wicked |
Family › Access Email by Mamasessy(op): 12:23pm On May 24, 2020 |
I’m not sure where to post this thread but can anyone help me to know how to access the messages sent by other members please |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Mamasessy(f): 11:30am On May 24, 2020 |
Cutemarvel: Thanks ma, I'll try to manage the beating. All I want is for him to be well behaved. It’s not easy because they have so much to learn. I promise he will become more obedient as he grows. You need to keep loving and discipline with love he will change. |
Family › Re: My Niece Behave Badly by Mamasessy(op): 11:26am On May 24, 2020 |
Greatzeus: What of her mother? If you live with her parents,but you look after her when they're not around,you have no right to beat her. Physically beating a child is assault and child abuse. Let her mother be the one to punish her if need be. If she lives with you,not her parents,for any reason, you have to decide to return her to her parents or other family members if you can't do without beating her. She is a child,you are destroying her sub conscious mind by maltreating her. If she is your child will you beat her for every offence? I don't blame you,I blame her parents. Her mother had asked me to help because she is struggling. I don’t beat her for no reason only when other methods fail. I’m very loving with her but she is very stubborn. |
Family › Re: My Niece Behave Badly by Mamasessy(op): 11:24am On May 24, 2020 |
Kiki4: The above method should work. I have only 2kids, please use the cane if you have to, I use mine well. Another thing I do is I reward good behaviour. It could be a drink, biscuits. After punishing her, leave her to cry belleful then you sit her down and have a discussion. The change will be gradual. I promise you. Thankyou I will reward when she is good |