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6 feet 1 ! ofcourse u'll indimidate guys. Most guys wont want 2 date a girl taller than dem 4 obvious reasons. But dont b dismayed someday someone is going 2 look beyond ur towering height n c d heart of gold u have. I'm just abt 5ft 9 and I cant say if I've met anyone really taller than I so I guess I can say I feel u.

D policy I've adopted over d years is "Do not collect when u do not plan 2 deliver" So dony encourage him. A guy who wants 2 begin 2 date u wld probably begin 2 want 2 spend on u refusing dis is a sure way of saying u r not interested. Try not accept his calls at odd times dat wld indicate interest 4 instance late nite/ early morning calls and try not hang out wit him until he gets d message

Wat do u mean by double dating? Wat I understand dat term 2 mean, is going out wit ur hubby with another coupl. Is dat wat u mean?

Wat do u think 2 assure dem selves dat dey r pretty or simply 4 memory sake

It wld really depend on d individual. A guy needs 2 feel u wld give him his respect may dats why u shld date someone older dan u but u shld b mindful of dating someone so much older dan u he may capitalize on it n treat u real bad. I 4 one cannot date a person of d same age as I am talk less of someone younger dan I

There is no yes or no reply 2 dis. I think Igbo men are responsible so if dey consider u a responsibilty dey wld do all d neccessary things and it wld stop there. Which means he'll probably pay d house rent, school fees 4 d kids support his family and urs. But he'll probably see going 2 d movies a waste n u may never get a good vacation because he's saving 4 a rainy day. Basically dey may b no fun.

A yoruba guy wld b fun all d way. he wld do all d efizee things: go clubbing, see d movies, do d vacation thing once in a while even if it kills him (u knw yoruba pple believe in travelling abroad alot) but he may back out in taking up basic responsibilties.

A hausa guy wld give u tonnes of money but u may never have ur freedom

I'm Igbo by d way n I think i can speak a little on d other tribes mentioned

Did u start out wanting 2 give a biology class or what exactly is ur point?

May b u shld give us ur details we 2 shld have d option of deciding if we want u or not

Could did b a round about way 4 asking 4 a date?

I dont think there's anything wrong wit as long as its not one sided. If u can take 4rm him why shldn't he b able 2 take 4rm u its called a partnership anything short of that wld b unhealthy

2 things:

1 I think you have an overactive imagination/thinking faculty

2 There's no point being wit someone u dont trust

"If a guy lets you go, he really loves you." Is this true?

"That is not true."

I'm glad u clarified me. There sure as hell is no way a guy wld leave u if he really loves u. As far as I knw he's simply not man enough 4 u

I dont think dey do. It just gets 2 a point in d relationship where he begins 2 ask abt seein d pple of d girl or d girl begins 2 ask when he's going 2. The ring issue comes when they r buying stuff 4 d wedding

I theory there is absolutely nothing wrong wit marrying someone 4rm a different denomination. But in practice, u need 2 share same views on spiritual matters 2 make a good marriage. And then there r d children where wld they belong? Children have a way of sticking wit there mothers in matters of faith how wld ur ego as a man take that?

I totally agree wit u

Knowing dat there was someone willing 2 do d harder stuff 4 me especially utility stuff

Perhaps u shld

I dont know if it is possible 4 him 2 stop clubbing after his marriage. But one thing I can guarantee is dat he wld wnat 2 continue 4 a while n his wife wld not only have 2 oblige him but may even have 2 accompany him if she wants 2 ensure dat he does not go playing any away match. Wit time however he may stop especially by d time d occupational hazards of being husband/father/breadwinner/ general support 2 extended family begins 2 catch up wit him. Except if he absolutely refuses 2 b responsible.

Is dis some sort of joke or something? Why wld u specifically ask 4 a female driver? Do u have some sort of agenda or wat?

I'm very impressed by d fact dat u know ur job well are putting effort in 2 doin it well and from d sound of things u seem 2 b enjoying ur job u r a rare combination these days I wish all d best

The perfect guy 4 me wld b someone who just accepts me 4 who I am and doesn't try 2 change me and someone who doesn't go out of his way 2 hurt me.

Nope get out and fast b4 u do something really stupid dat way u keep ur dignity

Na today?

"If a guy lets you go, he really loves you." Is dis true?

Though some of it seems unbeliveable, it's a really sweet attempt

Run 4 my dear life who knows wat other unhanded means she might decide 2 use 2 get wat she wants besides she cldn't possibly love dis guy if she love's d military guys money as far as I know these two terms r mutually exclusive terms

Dta's a petty tough question may b we shld wait till it happens 2 u den u can communicate ur xperience 2 us via a medium

Just cut ur losses n move on. See it as a bad investment shit happens but life goes on. 2 start wit I think pple should begin 2 learn dat their sources of joy shld primarily come 4rm within n not without otherwise u just keep getting hurt. May b we shld just learn 2 keep a part of ourselves so we dont get 2 hurt. Yeah I know its easier said than done but it wont b a bad idea.

Some good advice, save ur sanity because u r goin 2 need it plenty 2 walk out of situation dat wont work. I have found myself in a similar situatn and though it hurts but u just must move on. Ur thinkin dat u cant love anyone is just ur mental state open urself 2 new avenues n u'll b suprised by wat u'll find. Take it 4rm me I've been there u just need 2 move on

What part of antiquity/d dark ages did u fall out from I find it hard 2 believe dat pple with ideas such as urs still exist in dis part of d cosmos I wld ask wat does one have 2 do wit d other?

D fact is dat some guys if not most think they have 2 fling money around 2 get d girl so dey give her d idea dat she has someyhing on sale dey want 2 buy and if dey eventually get in 2 d relationship d trend just continues. I think guys shld b more inventive in trying 2 get their girls money doesn't have 2 b something u prove 2 her dat u have