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To poster: Wat wld u rather have as d 1st questn?

2 Poster: i'd say u mr wit seay need 2 have ur head xamined if u think a rape victim wld b freer wit sex. Incase u didnt knw, rape is a tramautic incident!

To d poster: its spelt C-O-U-N-T-E-R-P-A-R-T

wat a shame we lost d match

Its really unfortunate that it has 2 b dis way but a guy who wld witout battin an eye ask u 2 break up wit him because u both got jobs in d same firm n blives one of u wld have 2 resign if u decide 2 marry is really not worth ur time. So hard as it is u r beta off searchin 4 someone who doesnt think dat his job is more of a priority dan u.

Olanajim, I think you've gotten it wrong. Intelliegnce does not only refer to academic prowress. In fact u may find out some of those effikos can b very dumb otherwise. Not dat I condone rudeness, intelligent or otherwise. Real intelliegnce wld rather b an in born ability 2 "catch on fast" within n without d class room walls

I'm gemini, n I dont claim 2 knw so much abt zodiac signs but if there's sumthing I knw its dat there r no universal xpectations 4 geminii which means if u meet 10 of dem, dey'll all strike u as different. Generally dey r gd communicators, may b perceived as restless n easily bored. Dey r super flexible n can basically fit in 2 any mode which makes dem very versatile. Dey cld also b sturborn, moody n b temeperamental. I also agree dey r very intelligent n can say somethin atleast about every thing. Many pple see dem as superficial but I think 2 get d best out of dem, u just have 2 knw d right buttons 2 press.

I have been out of touch 4 a long time (many issues which am sure u Ariblaze r aware of)

Funny I was listenin 2 a radio show on a similar issue n some of d criteria was: generosity, payin attention in d most superisin ways 2 wat she says, being in touch wit d aspects of her life that matter 2 her, how ready d guy is take on a relationship witout baggage 4rm either of their relationships etc.

Long n short a guy must b able 2 get in touch wit some 20% wit d aspects of her life dat matter.

So I'd say u just need 2 b sensitive in d appealin way as per d lady's criteria 2 her.

Why do guys tell large lies?

A happy marriage can n wld exist if both partners put a sincere effort 2 make it work . A marriage is essentially abt 2 pple dciding 2 whether d storm while remembering 2 b happy 4 one another. As long as u dont go in with illusions in ur mind u wld b able 2 make it work n remember 2 love ur partner 4 who he is not wat he is n dont xpect 2 go in n change him eventually both of u wld learn 2 adapt 2 one another

There's an opportunity 4 u 2 do dat thru re-incarnation. But by d universe's timetable there's a time limit 2 which u can do dat which is abt d times we stand. it's really not adviceable 4 u 2 wish 2 come back again because d earth is bcoming increasingly uncorfortable 2 b in. So u shld direct ur attitudes n actions 2wards not coming back again.

I think u r wrong 2 think dat guys hate 2 date unintelligent girls. There may b something else u r doing wrong

Faithful, Educate n neat

Its good u've mentioned dat dey dont have d right 2 ask 4 vehicle purchase docs because I've been kept 4 abt 4 hrs 4 d import vehicle papers of my car. den after we had "settled" one of dem adviced me 2 tear it up n go and swear an adfidavit saying dat it is missing den he now told me dat actually d police does not have d right 2 ask 4 it!!!

Dont get me wrong am also Igbo. But part of d prob stems 4rm d fact dat even d Igbos r not united. Igbos r one group of pple who neva help one another something dat other tribes never do. I believe if we can form a united front it wld b more difficult 4 others 2 marginalise us

I belive d word u wanted was persistence

Wat do u mean dat women attract more than men? As magnet or wat?

I have been in a similar situation n at d end I had 2 let go hard as it may have been. Ur question is more like love versus common sense n many pple wld tell u dat common sense shld have d upper hand. I still wld marry a person wit As genotype (am As) given another chance but sometimes u have 2 try 2 c d bigger picture in d long run if wat u felt 4 d person was not very strong havin an SS baby or having 2 b wit an SS during his/her crisis wld b a serious test. Aside of dat pple wld just look at u like a stupid person wen d chips come down n u'd b left alone. So may b u shld just have a gd time but keep ur head n knw wen 2 end d show. But if u do dcide 2 go ahead u just may receive d strenght 2 go on if u blive hard enough because u sure r goin 2 need it n who knws u just might b lucky or avail ur self d many technologies dat r in vogue now. But its not something 2 rush in 2 or turn complete deaf ears on.

Is ur story true?

30 mins do u perhaps wk wit a telephone company n r u trying 2 put some unpaid crdt 2 gd use?

I quite agree wit u but I cant say its dis or dat. I just knw dat Nigerians can "show theirselves" which just shows how unique dey r

Pardon my spellings!

Agwa nti mo onu, a na egbu isi, o ga eso ya (If u advice d ears n dey refuse 2 listen, when d head is cut dey would join in)

Pardon my spellings!

Asi na a na gwa ochi nti na aha ebido la (You dont need to tell a deaf man that d war has begun)

J'ai étudié la langue dans l'université. C'était que quand nous replissions la fiche pour l'enrée à l'université (c'est à dire JAMB), tout le mond voulait etudier le droit, science économique, medicin etc. Moi je voulait queque chose un peu different. c'est la raison pour quelle j'ai étudié la langue. Maintenant je travaille avec la chambre de commerce et de l'industrie Fraçaise ici au Nigéria. Avant ça, je travaillais avec Alliance Française de Lagos. je crois que c'est beaucoup intéressant quand même ce ne pas souvent qu'on trouve du travaille facilement. En plus les grandes sociétés prefèrent employer des salariés qui peut être ne peuvent pas parler la langue mais qui sont competents dans des autres domines. Par exemple quand je travaillais à Alliance souvent on trouve que ces sociétés envoient leurs employés à Alliance pour étudier et ils paient N2,500 pour une heure. et je me demandais pourquoi pas employer quelqu'un qui peut parler le français et epaigner l'argent

Well hello r u tryin 2 makin me blive dat copyin out d dictionary meanin of dat word was not just a little uncomfortable? Perhaps a synonym wld have suffice or better still a very brief descriptn. Dis is not a literature class n dictionaries r not lackin where I come 4rm so if I wanted d dictionary meanin i wld have availed my self of it. Besides if u had paid just a little more attention u may have noticed dat my 1st rejoinder was more or less driping of sarcasm

I dont think its completely possible to stop having feelings 4 an ex so its best not 2 get in 2 an unconfortable situtaion wit one. I think d ball shld totally b in his court he shld make up his mind where he wants 2 b. meanwhile I wld advice u 2 b openminded without being unneccesarily solicitous. Just see it as a storm dat u shld conquer may b one day u'd b able 2 laugh abt it.

I think Nigerian Men put in a comendable effort. One thing I knw abt Nigerians in general is dat dey travel alot, watch a lot of cable TV and read alot of foreign mags. So dey follow current trends alot n with a little common sense, tdey come out rite.

[/quote]obnoxious

1. highly objectionable or offensive; odious: obnoxious behavior. 
2. annoying or objectionable due to being a showoff or attracting undue attention to oneself: an obnoxious little brat. 
3. Archaic. exposed or liable to harm, evil, or anything objectionable. 
4. Obsolete. liable to punishment or censure; reprehensible


pick your choice ,


self serving
–adjective

1. preoccupied with one's own interests, often disregarding the truth or the interests, well-being, etc., of others. 


2. serving to further one's own selfish interests. 


guess that explains it

or

would you rather hear it


in my own words?


just add both meanings together and you would get my drift.kapish?obnoxious

1. highly objectionable or offensive; odious: obnoxious behavior. 
2. annoying or objectionable due to being a showoff or attracting undue attention to oneself: an obnoxious little brat. 
3. Archaic. exposed or liable to harm, evil, or anything objectionable. 
4. Obsolete. liable to punishment or censure; reprehensible


pick your choice ,


self serving
–adjective

1. preoccupied with one's own interests, often disregarding the truth or the interests, well-being, etc., of others. 


2. serving to further one's own selfish interests. 


guess that explains it

or

would you rather hear it


in my own words?


just add both meanings together and you would get my drift.kapish?[quote]

I think u speak 2 much grammar 4 ur own comfort

Need I say it was a very silly thing 4 both of u 2 have done? Human beings as dey present demselves presently are very fickle in nature n u must give allowance 4 dat. In d best of ur interest u shld let her go 4rm deep within urself. I doubt if u can do much abt it now because wat u both did has a very far reachin effect than u may b able 2 understand. So just let her go so dat u dont make an already bad situation worse. Wit time u'll heal if ur story is true n perhaps u'd meet someone u can love

[/quote]Obnoxious self serving women[quote]

Pray tell wat mean by dat?