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Please tell me dat u r joking. How can an adult male (I want 2 assume u r 1) come up with dat sort of excuse? 4 goodness sake astrological compatibility or not ur father cannot have a say in ur relationship except u say he shld. Wat matters is how u feel abt dis girl 4 crying out aloud u have been dating 4 6 yrs n u've been fine now ur dad comes up wit some astrological brouhaha. Please give me a break!

It's easy 2 say dat it doesn't matter but I wonder if such a person went 4 a serious job interview if he'll be refused on account of his locks. So it gets me believing dat society may not totally accept dis person as a responsible person and I wouldn'y like dat

It depends on wat is keeping him back. Cld b he's a medical student n he's not done wit sch. If it's just a one year lag u may not really notice d difference because he may do NYSC b4 u or may get a better job b4 u. But d truth about it is dat if d lag is 2 long u'll out grow d relationship faster than u'll b able 2 control n u'll begin 2 have problems

Guys 4 real do these meeting pple on line really work? As tempting as it may seem I still have my reservations. Is n't leaving ur path to fate still not a surer option?

Has anyone bothered 2 ask why d EFCC is not probing Former President Olusegun Obasanjo. Isn't it double standards dat d likes of Orji Uzor-Kalu, Turaki and Dariye are being harrased n Obasanjo sits happily in his Otta farm counting his eggs and having a good time pondering on d confussion he has wrecked in dis country in d last 8 years?

Girls How do u deal wit d so called ovulation pain. Is it really a "medically" proven ailment. And wat is d proper term 4 it?

I chose 2 study wat I did because it was different 4rm wat every one was filling in their UME forms. And it wont have required my doing maths my worst subject in school

I beg 2 differ, "Secrets of the sands" is not Mexican, it's Brazillian. And I think they r a fine way of keeping Nigerians entertained as local soap producers have not sought more innovative ways 2 do d same thing. I will also have u knw dat guys not only chicks watch these soaps. So, lighten up n joind d crowd

Hausa

As an Igbo girl, I can only pray dat I dont have 2 go through dat xperience. Osus r human just like anyone and I have nothing against dem but men it wld pose serious problems n in d long run it wld put strains on d marriage. Dats why I personally am not looking out 2 marry an Igbo guy. I wont b able 2 take it if I have 2 fall in love wit a person n someone wld come n tell me he's Osu n I cant marry him

For as long as dey can turn deaf ears 2 wat other pple r saying because pple wld talk n dats where dey'll begin 2 have problems. It doesn't mean dat dey cannot have a happy marriage its just dat pple have not learnt 2 mind their business' and couples still need 2 understand child bearing & marriage r 2 independant activities dat can inter relate 4 d mutual benefit of d parties concerned. Wat is most important is d couple.

I dont have a problem wit trying 2 stop d pains associated with menstral periods but manipulating ur system 2 appear as though u r pregnant so dat u dont have periods is really going far dis is just another example of how our generation is trying in a fast and furios way 2 wipe out our generation

Because it's easier 2 manage dat way

An eye pencil

That doesn't sound fair. Wats sauce 4 d goose shld also b sauce 4 gander n vice versa

U posted ur thread under d wrong category

Execpt in a case where he lives wit u, there probably is nothing wrong. If u lived 2 geda, that wld b insensitivity of a very high degree. But otherwise, he's just trying 2 catch some fun it doesn't mean he doesn't care may be he's just trying 2 cheer himself up. Think of how miserable he wld b staying at home alone doing nothing.

Pops wat question

If u still think her good qualities outweigh her bad qualities there's no reason not 2 continue. Dont make anyone make u think u cant make a good relationship because she's older than u because u sound as if u've been listening 2 pple's comments. Just remember that both of u n only u 2 make d relationship n no one else no matter how well intentioned dis person may be.

I can have never been involved with any guy less than 8 years older than I wat counts is not his age or urs bt d fact dat u guys do well 2geda

I dont think u've said anything exceptionally different 4rm wat most of us already knw. Innovation!!!!

This is such a not so smart question.

Ok so u've been able 2 establish dat it doesn't so? I think u shld just give ur best in a relationship n see where it leads u.

It's not an impossible feat but wat is ur point? Dont tell me u r trying 2 claim holy

Hell No!

I think ur guy is just being appreciative of women which in itself is not entirely abnormal. But u shld speak abt it with him n let him know u r not very comfortable with it. But dont fuss about it. He'll come around I'm sure n it's good he feels secured and comfortable enough around u 2 express a healthy dose of appreciation of d opposite sex around u rather than pretend n do something behind ur back. I know it's tough but I think he's just being a guy. I hear d greatest talkers dont do much see it as a plus as annoying as it may be.

"Yawn* And as usual, nothing about yourself. Hobbies, financial position, job etc.

Are you scared of your keyboard?"

I totally agree are u a broom stick, dustpan/ bin a wheel barrow or wat pls! give us more details

If u have a problem disclosing how much u earn, den u have a trust problem wit ur wife n it's going 2 lead 2 other issues. Cant say I blame u though because many women may capitalize on knowing how much u earn n begin 2 make selfish demands. But I hope if u dont reveal how much u earn u dont expect her 2 reveal how much she earns 2.