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For starters I wont advice u 2 label urself a free thinker it gives connotations of someone whose adrift wit no destinatn in mind n no anchor. I wld also like 2 commend ur courage in coming out 2 express urself. I have an understanding in life which may serve as some help 2 u. 1st, religion in itself is a means 2 an end its not d end itself. 2nd, The Almighty does not need a religion on a religious institution between Him and His creatures dat he created before d advent of the said. 3rd no matter how much u believe urself 2 b good u must have some kind of focus 2 direct u in life dats y I dont recommend u not calling urself a free thinker. 4 there r questions in life dat u must b able 2 answer if u must move from here 2 heaven as u put it earlier. My advice 2 u wld b 4 u 2 keep urself open. If u r truly desirous of finding a way out of d box, answers wld come ur way soon. Just remember 2 keep ur self open.

It all depends on d kind of person u r. If u'd rather work in a less conservative work environment then u r better off wit Celtel Call Centre. But if want a very "officious" environment then u r better off with First Bank. But I think First Bank is a better career choice than Celtel call centre

[/quote]good news,but what as faith got todo with attires.[quote]

Your attire has everything to d with faith as u've put it. And not only faith but with ur entire way of life. U need 2 appreciate dat just as u'll want 2 dress properly when u have a job interview dat wld b conducted like human beings 2 u or u dress really special when u have some formal outing so u much try 2 b properly attired when u go b4 ur Maker who had also made all those pple whom u try 2 impress either in a job interview or a formal outing. Dat we do contrary only shows dat we actually have not come 2 a proper grasp of wat it takes 2 present ourselves b4 d presence of The Almighty Father; The Maker of all the Worlds, 2 whom we owe our entire existence.

I thot dis thread was supposed 2 b abt me meeting someone. Any way I wish u luck if it serves 4 u 2 meet someone u like

We are simply letting d world knw dat our judicial system is a mockery

Any one who opened their eyes who see dat France herself is strugglin 2 stabilize their economy they r simply cuttin down on their excesses so dey can get on wit thier lives

Yep. Relationships have bcome harder because d world has because more complex. Pple want more 4rm "life" dan dey used to naturally there r more break ups now than dey were 20yrs ago

For guys, early 30's, 4 girls, mid/late 20's. But den again u shld b bothred abt d maturity of d person n not d person's age. Marrying very early could b a disadvantage because u may end up feelin like it was somethin u rushed in 2

In actual fact there's nothing dat love shld't b able 2 forgive. So wat it means is dat wat we actually practice is no true love. May b in d best senarious we have a very high sense of affection for d other party. But then again we misunderstand d concept of love forgiving all. Wat it actually means is dat if d person can truly b repentant, den d love dat u feel is willing d give not a second chance, but a fresh chance where, u like wipe off d slate n u dont c wat d person did, but u him/her as she currently is repentant n willing 2 start again without goin back 2 d act. There's no point in giving d person a fresh chance if he/she's not repentant or if u r not sure dat d deed wld not b repeated.

French Village like the name suggests is a village. It keeps u out of touch wit town n d original idea was dat d seclusion wld spur u 2 learn d language faster because u'd have no distractions but I dont think dey've acheieved their objectives. I speak dis way because I've been there as an undergraduate n as a post graduate n I'm not very impressed. Worst is d fact many of dem finish wit d so called diplomas n certificates n still come out wit little or nothing. I knw a girl who went there did a diploma n still came out 2 to join an elementary class in Alliance Française. I used 2 work in Alliance n I knw many of dem still go 2 Alliance. So may b u r better of at Alliance. But if u feel u need 2 get away 4rm home den may b u shld go there but in d long run u are better off Allinace Française.

Have u considrede dat perhaps she's hesitant 2 wear dem because dey r out of fashion? Aside of d fact dat dey r not very comfortable because of our climatic conditions?

Nobody said anything abt contradicting rules. Its all abt sensitivity not being politically correct on Naira land forum. I think u shld spend more time tryin 2 access ur feelings 2wards dis person n tryin 2 knw her rather dan samplin pple's opinions besides is dis d way u r going 2 keep askin pple 4 advice 4 relationship btw urself n a fellow nairalander where she can come n see ur insensibility?

R u serious?

I think d key 2 getting a person fall in love wit u is being ur self. Let him see u 4 who u r. Secondly u shld try 2 get 2 knw dis person n see how much u both can "fit" in 2 one another. I think d key 2 being wit anybody atall is undersatndin dis person n allowing d person understand u

Isn't d whole essence of goin clubbing so dat u can dance. Why wld u need a critera 2 refuse or accept a dance request. U may as well have sat at home

I think he's much 2 old 4 u. If u were older wit d same age difference say 25/38, it wont b so bad because u 2 wld have gotten some "worldly" experience so u can "match" wit 4 wit. Right now he has far more experience than u n he's going expect somethings 4rm u dat u may not b ready to give 4 instance sex. I think u r 2 young 2 b contemplatin dat now. Besides why dont u get someone within ur age bracket so u can have fun catchin d same experineces. What if 4 instance u want 2 hang out on a week day if u may b afford 2 do especially if u r on holidays n he gives u d excuse of having 2 go 2 work which is a perfectly a valid excuse. U may accept it once, twice but arent u goin 2 get tired. Then ofcourse there's d fact dat he may want 2 hang out really late n naturally u wld want 2 b wit him wat lies r u goin 2 come up wit so ur parents can let u stay out all night 4 instance? Think abt it dear u probably wld lose on all counts

[/quote]Huh?? what's da koko??[quote]

Good point

I haven't listened 2 d whole Maroon 5's new album. But d one song dat has made air play is really good. I've always been a fan of Maroon 5 I think dey r a cool rock band. In any case I'm not sure of d track title but it has something like ", Cos I dont believe in u anymore" It reminds me so much of d song "Dis love has taken its toll" on their old album

Nothing stops u 4rm getting both realising dat both of dem can n shld b independent areas of ur life. Make no mistake abt it, u'll b d world's greatest fool if u pursued marriage without some sort financial independence so dat u do not constitute urself a nuisance by having 2 wait 4 ur husband 2 do everything 4 u. U shldn't also see dis marriage thing as a do or die affair. If d guy u r presently wit is not going 2 encourage u 2 b 2 some extent financially independent may b u shld let it cool off 4 a while because, he'd b d 1st person 2 call u a lazy woman in d future when u r 100% depenedent. Some better person shld come. Besides d hard economic situation does not encourage anyone 2 sit at home. It might not b such a fancy job, but u need some kind of fancy income

I dont think it's fair 4 u 2 choose dis forum 2 discuss dis. Especially as u say dis is a fellow Nairalander. I'm sure she knws ur screen name n u dont need 2 b a genius 2 guess dat she may see dis thread n automatically knw dat u r talkin about her. Ever heard of "Not airing ur dirty linen in public?" Think abt it

I've always felt, if you liked a person whether its a sexual relationship or not, u r bound 2 see things dat u wish u cld give d person. These things may b material or otherwise. But d one cardinal rule about love is d need 2 give dat is why Love is the greatest of God's gifts, it gives u d opportunity 2 b (1) Humble because u r automatically forced 2 wait hand n foot on d person (2) U never want 2 do anything dat u consider disappointin 2 d person so u wld b mindin ur Ps' n Qs' in d process u get 2 redeem alot of wrongs. So if ur guy is really not giving may b he has "fallen in love" enough 2 make him freer in his giving. But all these are just my opinions

Onyeka's You n I must live as one cos dats wat I'd wish our marriage 2 b

Ariblaze wat is d source of ur research analysis?

Geminis r 2 playful 2 b romantic

If u say so. may b u r an exception 2 d rule. But I'm almost 80% sure dat pple wit d taurius zodiac sign r very materialistic. I dont think its a negative thing though I just know it robs of dem of being romantic

I think Librans r d most romantic of all d zodiac signs. Taurians r 2 "realistic" 2 b romantic. They r supposedly searching 4 material comforts 2 stop n smell d roses

[/quote]I just wish justice would be done on the magistrate, This would have been a get-rich opportunity for the victim who was flogged. I blame Islam for this mentality: she's a muslim, right?[quote]

I think u r way out of line

I think d person 2 blame 4 d escalation of d problem is Asari Dokubo. As far as I am cocerned he took up somrthing he didn't expect wld go out of propotion d way dis crisis has done. He started out wit good intentions trying 2 give Niger Deltans a voice but idle miscreants have taken over n now I dont think even he can control wat is goin on there. Dis was how d Biafran crisis started out n in d long run Igbos suffred more than everyone else in d crisis. My point is dis; u dont invite d devil 2 lunch, he never comes empty handed. All supposed revolutionary groups can b safely abolished violence is never d solution 2 a crisis

Whether dey r hiding spmthing or otherwise, dey suffered a big loss n a big blow 2 their national pride I think dat about settles it

[/quote]lets see what yaradua(baba-go-slow) gotta say!!

afterall he is sharia apologist[quote]

I think u r way out of line

As hard as it may b 4 u 2 accept it, there is no perfect person. I personally think Clinton is a great president if 4 nothing 4 keeping d tension in d Middle East 2 a minimal level. Something George Bush wld never b able 2 acheive. Sometimes, I wonder if Iraq wld ever knw peace

Asking dem 2 refund salaries dat dey had been paid along time ago is simply ridiculus. Dat wld b crying over spit milk dey shld rather seek ways of enforcing laws dat ensure there's no repeat of such incidents. D culprit here is OBJ he's wat we refer 2 in my language as an adult who doesn't knw dat while eating d soup he shldn't just dig in, but he shld take it gently