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whippersnapper:
my mum's testimony everyday. We're 4 boys

Thank God again brother, we are 6

Fact of life!!!!!!!!

All humans have feelings, feelings birth emotions and your ability to control it make you a man or more of a woman.

Women are emotional than men in life, From God creation till date.

The challenges of life is beautiful with God. We are all built different to our elastic capacity from birth. That's why no competition in destiny, no matter the situation you face in life must be successful as far you in line with the plan of God for destiny.

Men are not expected to do things with emotions and feelings but clarity.
The logic of the world, taught men reactions to keep the status, validation and need to impress people.


The only sure way to live a happy and discipline life is without emotions and feelings.

All you need is clarity.

Clarity is when you ball with who you are.

Others are pride when you ball with what you are.


In a nutshell

A woman balling with who she is, is stronger than the man balling with what he is.

One is strong with clarity the other weak with emotions and feelings.



As a man being too emotional makes you weak in all aspects of life.

Be brave nothing new under the sun.

Thank you God for not giving me a sister

Clarity


Clarity



Clarity

Do DNA for your kids,
End of the marriage.

Forgive a cheating partner but never accept them back to your life.

Lol


Projection is easy

in all you do in life, give God the glory and take your time chose a life partner.

Learnt to be kind and share with discernment no matter how small..

Still learning anyway.

advanceDNA:
oga is a randy he-goat with no sexual discipline......weda madam can cook or goes go in social.media or not....the outcome will still be the same......

Respect great man.

Someone under your care and protection.

No respect for himself.

MrCork:
brother the rule clearly say all men must chase women...pirrrrriod.. my suggestion is the day you sleeep with a marrrried woman, your life will change an u be 200000 times happier. Truss me!!!

LoL

My happiness comes from within not from validation or status.

I ball with who I'm not what I'm. The happiness resonating from my vibrational frequency it's enough for me to avoid married women.

Have never done that and neither will i do it in the future.


Life is all about choice, i respect your choice any way but remember discipline is the masculinity of a real man.

My brother i love, cherish and adore women resonating within my frequency and not all in my vibrational level is grant access. It takes weeks or months to calibrate with my frequency and the longer the stronger the connection.

I know already it will take my queen six months to calibrate with my clarity before any communication.

In a nutshell
Nothing sweet or give happiness sleeping with married women but sorrow.

Not even adviceable to sleep with your wife friends neither your friends wife.

From your view you can even bed the wife of your friend

APOPTOSIS:
Who told you he was having peace before?🤷🏾‍♂️
U don't know any marriage better than those involved. Hope I made it simple?
Don't be surprised to hear that the man is at Peace now.
Man could be worse of now
Man could be at peace with new wife now.

You right about that, the person putting on the shoes only knows were it hurts.

Why belittle himself to the househelp under his care and protection.
Life is all about choice, i respect his choice but involving the househelp was wrong to me.

MrCork:
really?.... so u like dont women..correct?.... WhY ARE U GAY SIR!!!!!!

LoL lol


I know projection when I see one.


Better follow my advice not to bed another man wife.

The thread is about making married women side chick.


I do women, women resonating in my frequency.

Married women are not resonating in my frequency

Double0h7:
Hmmmm. Why would God use an innocent wife to punish a sinful husband? The punishment for adultery isn’t more adultery!

That's life karma:

At the restaurant of karma, everything is free cos they already know what to serve you with what you sowed.

Some do carry it to the next generation before getting it back, that's why some driver bl**ping his boss wife.

There is a great force behind life and it's all about energy.

Energy can never be created neither be destroyed but can only be transformed from one form to another.
Life itself is a mystery of energies
It's sacred

This man next election na 4th go be he position.

A man that does things without discernment and get fooled by a woman is a bigger one himself.

Nobody forces anyone to spend on them with a gun,so when you spend unwisely on a woman and later discover she doesn't worth it. Then count your loss , leave with dignity and heal instead of being bitter cos of little change.

Man when nor get sense na they vex say woman use am.
Nor be to claim victim, what did you learn?
Coming here to express bitterness means you need healing.

I will say it again,
Practicing red pill with emotions and feelings make you toxic to the few good ones out there.

This is my opinion, you can bleep off.

LoL

Rivers they learn work compared to Edo state.

Say no to cultism cos na dju front them they carry rugged man go prison.

This na colos reaction, she is still high on it and the guy did the needful for safety.


All she needs is snuggling in a cold room after drinking enough water.

Say no to drugs

LoL.

Real men don't bed other men wife's.
It's only low self esteem men that does that, marriage is sacred to God and never be the reason breaking of another man home or marriage.

In a nutshell!!!!!!

You might think you smart laying other people's wife, just remember God will use even men not up to your standard to lay with your wife. There's no two ways about it.

Life experience from my school days, big man when they lay with he driver wife out of help.
The wife discovered through the driver with evidence and start bleeping the driver and got pregnant.


As a man, not matter the lust never lay with a married woman neither your wife friends.

essentialone:
Better to be safe than sorry. Most of these demon ladies were once thought to be angels.

Yes that's why clarity is life key.

Clarity exposes demon lady pretending to be an angel.

Remember clarity is allergies to manipulation.
Real red pillers are allergies to manipulation.


It's only when you practice red pill with emotions and feelings is when you become toxic yourself to women.

It's both genders thing brother, most men practice red pill with emotions and feelings and they are toxic to real , respectful and discipline women.

You must not be toxic to practice red pill.

LoL,
No one is left out it's both genders thing!!!!!!!!

Life itself is a mystery, we can only navigate it with the wisdom from God and our little experiences of life.


Marriage and family (children) is the stability, respect, dignity and happiness of a true man.


The only important thing is never to settle for toxicity in any woman out of lust. Marrying a toxic woman can destroy your life, future and everything you are as a man.


Never be in haste to marry, take your time in chosen your queen cos marriage is a forever agreement between two people ready to tolerate each other flaws as one united family.

Never settle for toxicity it will definitely steal your peace and happiness and your kids will hate you for it.


Nothing beats marriage and having kids as one united happy family.

There are still real, respectful, disciplined but not perfect women out there. Just take your time and patience to marry the connection that vibes in your frequency.

No home without a woman, but there can only be house.

In a nutshell
Men should marry with clarity not with emotions and feelings.

As a man, women as to vibe in your frequency before approaching her for a date.

The ones not vibing in your frequency, when you force yourself out of lust. There must be a glitch which leads to separate paths and it's feels like disrespect to the other person.

Anyone not vibing in your frequency is a total red flag

That man just destroyed his peace and home forever

It's not adviceable to sleep with anyone you don't want to marry without protection.

I'm against baby mama stuff cos it destroys a lot than repair.

Any woman you fit sleep with without protection, that means you can wife her.

Sleeping with the househelp is wrong in everyway, it shows no dignity for himself, wife and family.

No matter the excuses from his wife about their sex life he gat no business with that girl.
He was supposed to protect and care for the young girl not taking advantage of her.

Sleeping with your househelp show you have no respect for yourself, wife and family as a man.


They are some things you don't do as a real man even when others are doing it. Be unique in your ways of life.

Men should stop doing things out of emotions and feelings but clarity.

When it's destiny, you guys will cross paths again.

Many are called, few are chosen.


Who the cap fit, let them put it on.

Buhari, Buhari, Buhari.

So far still Buhari

Double0h7:
Well, I guess it’s time to put your foot down. You’re not a donkey so stop acting like one. If you are the breadwinner, then you should be the one who decides how the bread is shared. Take back control of your finances. Close that account and move the funds into a savings account with only your signature since it’s only your money going in. Stand up for yourself because nobody will have mercy on you.

Set boundaries: “this is what I can afford (.) this is what I can do (.) this is what I need, and if you can’t provide it then this is what I won’t allow (.).”

Be the head of your home. Your family must live in a house that you can afford, eat the food that you can afford, go to the schools that you can afford. If your wife wants more then she’ll have to be able to afford those things she wants.

If you continue going the way things are going then your marriage will break down and your daughter will suffer the consequences. Be the man of your house. No be by penis ooo but actions and decisions make a man. But what do I know! I’m just sipping sauce 🙇‍♀️

You are a true example of a real woman, Keep it up.

No more advice

Life is sacred and precious to God!!!!!!!

That child is a blessing, so abortion shouldn't an be option.

No matter what, never make her a baby mama but a wife.


Na woman when get respect and agree to carry your child na be wife o.
Face your fears , you will always conquer.


Congratulations

Letmecum:
Na man write this nonsense. Honestly nairaland girls are more mature than many of the guys here. You hardly see a nairaland female writing rawbish like this

You right man, some guys need brain scan.

Beauty always sit at the back of character and attitude in my priority.

Kaczynski:
I will try this let me see as how they will lynch me

Ingram Mac 11 don't play games.

They will not come.