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Samantha125:
Of course it's about control, the world would've been chaotic had it been we didn't step in to take control over you... That's why English says "behind every successful man, there's a woman".

Why do you think many men change for the better the moment a woman comes into their lives?

You are perfectly right but it must be the right woman!!!!!!!!
Who is a right woman?
A woman who is real, respectful, discipline but not perfect.
You can never be successful with all women but the right ones.


Anyway, most modern kings built their kingdom without women from believe, discipline, dedication and hard work with grace and mercy of God.

Such kings can only accept a modern woman with ancient cultural values and principles of marriage as the queen of their kingdom.

Have seen women!
All women can cook and clean but not all is respectful and discipline.

Most kings are only permitted to marry a queen that respect them and their kingdom.

Enjoy the rest of your night

brain54:
I don't even tell my own self my secrets...


The only one I tell my secrets sometimes is scubi... my pet chicken!

You are a wise man!!!!

Men envy pass women i tell you from experience, me i don't have friends just me and me alone.
They can't envy what they don't know, of a true men envy their mate pass women.

Never be afraid of women but be careful with them.
Only the devil knew what he actually discussed with eve till today.

As a man the woman in your life will determines 50% of your future. Never settle for negative energies it leads to glitch of your entire system.

All women get one or two spiritual energies, na to relate with one when they compatible with your energy.

As man run from toxicity, it drains energy easily.

Time is fast 2021 of yesterday!!!!!!!!

Was one of my best years, built my business to standard, open another branch that same year.

So I spent my money on


Business
Good food
God works by giving to orphans
My family
Myself

Odebayo4010:
When a woman does not have her way she gets angry, she wants to destroy and burn everything down. As long as she's in charge she's happy but if she's not, she's sad. You see, for many women it was never about love. It was about control. They want to find a senseless donkey who will do as they please. Don't be that donkey.

When a woman complains or nags just know that her manipulative skills are not working on you.
Never settle for less man, never allow woman to control you. Our mothers didn't control our fathers but respect them.

Most want you to do things their way or no peace.
Me value my peace than $1b of a woman without peace.
Me that listens, care , calm but allergies to indiscipline and disrespect.

All women can cook and clean not all is respectful and discipline.

They are still very good ones out there, just wait for the right connection or adopt kids.

One woman can never come and control or disrespect my kingdom after all the storms of life God saw me through.

Respect man

Life is all about choice!!!!!!!
The decision you make today determines your futur.
There is no complete woman out there but they are still some real, discipline, respectful but not perfect ones out there.


All women can cook and clean but not all is discipline and respectful.

The quality of women you attract defines your standard as a man.

My queen must meet my standards or no marriage.
Adoption of kids is better than a wrong life partner.

SpencerForbes:
Omo, I have my specs and I’m definitely not the type to settle for less. Shey me wey dey improve myself, I be mumu?

Before I even consider marriage, there are certain core values, character traits, and stage a lady must have reached. I’m not looking for someone who will slow me down with basic issues they should have fixed a long time ago.

To be honest, if I can’t find a virtuous, hardworking, and beautiful lady who actually brings something to the table, then I’d rather just have a baby mama and call it a day. It makes more sense than entering a marriage that doesn't meet my standards just for the sake of it.
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You are a king!!!!!!!!


Never settle for less man, they must meet up with the standards of your level.
Every wise king knows the particular qualities he wants in his queen.


Respect

Most men don't wait for a woman to build with them!!!!!!!!

They build their kingdom and empire themselves.
They can only accept women who will respect them and their kingdom.

As a man build your kingdom and empire yourself.

As a man with this generation, you have understand life is beautiful with fact.

No DNA
No Name

In all aspects of life never share more than what people need to know about you not just women alone.


Some friends guys worst pass women when they reason your matter out of envy.

The best is keeping things to yourself and God.

DarkLover:
You seem to missed the point here. I've got other priorities rightly set, I've never run after women, they're the ones after me. However, I’m in that stage where I gotta pick one. But that one must have certain qualities I desire.

Now the summary is, those qualities or standard seems to be too hard to get.

I understand you man, was just saying men shouldn't make women the main priority of their lives.

To your conclusion!!!!!!!

Don't settle for less, you are a king and know the kind of queen you deserve.
There are still right, real but not perfect women out there with the ancient cultural values and principles of marriage.

The right connection will come.

Have a great day brother

achillesfoot:
Amazing mind you got there. Keep it up.

Respect man

Life is short, there is too much to learn and life is no life without knowledge!!!!!!!

A man can only stop learning when he's dead.
I'm here to learn, learn,learn and learn about the true challenges of broken homes.

Yes not taking side neither gender biased but will explain my little understanding for the awareness of the topic.


No one is perfect in life except God but we can do better in our choices of life partner.
Don't ever allow your kids regret you having them with toxic mum or dad.

In my school days, i had a good friend that is not always happy to go for holidays cos he dislike the way his mum treats his dad. Cos he can not help the poor man out of fear. Had to brainstorm him to face the fears of his mum and sisters by always standing with his father.

purpose of this topic!!!!!!!

There are empathy men and women same as toxic men and women out there is our society today.

There is a saying in my place!
The load you go fit carry na when he they ground you go know.


Most men knew the women in their life was not compatible for them but out of societal validation and status they wife them.
They noticed the toxicity in them but chose to be confused with their banging body and ringtone thinking they will change during marriage.

As a man every toxic flaws of a woman during relationship will be trippled cos you have shown weakness of your masculinity by making her your wife.

Then you raise up kids in a toxic environment with a toxic mother, they learn and believe toxicity is the way of life. Then they bring their flaws to the society.

Empathy men need to leave toxic women for toxic men by not settling for less in chosen a life partner
Empathy women need to leave toxic men for toxic women.

The family is the bedrock of the society. Not until we instill the ancient cultural values of family to our relationship and marriages for a better society and generation there will be more chaos in the society.

Marriage is too sacred to God , family and society.
So the level of broken homes shows wrong parenting of family.

We can not modernize the ancient cultural values and principles of marriage cos of civilization.

When you realize the standards of your life, the peace and unity you wish for your kids and family. You can never settle with the wrong partner.

No man or woman is perfect!
They are some real, right but not perfect women with cultural values and principles of marriage. Same thing as men.

As as a man the type of women you attract defines your standard, same as women.

When men and women realize their coming together as husband and wife is not about them alone but kids , family and society I believe things we get better.

Let start building our family with ancient cultural values and principles of marriage in this modern world.

I'm a modern man with an ancient cultural values of marriage and my clarity can only accept a modern woman of ancient cultural values of marriage.

For me I know my flaws
I'm not emotional with women , can't pretend to accept what I dislike from women.
Some says maybe I gat no sister, but I know it's my clarity of upbringing.

Wife duty is to respect her husband and husband is to love their wife.

Na woman when get respect they control man with dignity. Na only respect you fit take press man mumu botton.

In conclusion
Men stop marrying toxic women, don't allow your kids hate you for having them with a woman like their mother.

Women stop marrying toxic men, don't allow your kids to hate you in the future.

When we concur to this reality everyone will have to look inward to change their ways and principles for good.

Family is most important foundation of the society.

Never settle for less and never be in haste to marry.

This is my little understanding!

I'm here to learn more

Nigeria is wining the Nations Cup in Morocco!!!!!!!

Osihmen highest goal scorer with 8 goals

Osihmen Next African footballer of the year.

You might call it joke but you will always remember today.

I believe in Nigeria , all we need is unity to uphold and always stand for justice equally for a class .

Kukutente23:
From what I'm seeing here it seems the policeman engaged her services and refused to pay

Na dem sabi drag person like that

You right na B2B midfielder, na their way.

Why this B2B midfielder won put Edo state for bad news.

Na this kind woman they make men insult the real few good but not perfect ones.

That woman is going going gone.

MightySparrow:
Nonsense, no woman can make me lie.

I am a man of principle. I don't womanize, double - date. If you are not making sense, I simply dump you and move on.

You got clarity, na man you be.

I can't lie or pretend. We vibe we vibe, we nor vibe go your way with respect and dignity.

When you realize your standards in life, you will never settle for less.

Make one doctor nor play with the life of my queen, prince and princess during birth cos himself go forget he own.

Life is the most precious and important privilege from God. See as them destroy this man kingdom.

You swear oath to save life, now you they destroy generation.


They need close that hospital before and jail the consultant.

Life is all about choice!!!!!!!

I respect his choice

That man should be jailed

The guy body be feed to shark

The woman free.


Only a foolish man will wife a toxic woman thinking she will change after marriage. They allow their banging body and ringtone confuse them.

The signs are there from the beginning, toxicity in any woman is obvious when dating but most men can't work away out of lust.
Any woman that doesn't respect you as her husband will always cheat on you.


All these kind woman na make us they insult the right but not perfect ones.

Thisisa:
Well, they used my weaknesses against me

Take this seriously, don't joke with it.

This is a storm to build your weakness into strength, God will see you through all you need is stillness in the storm.

It might cost you a lot , never take it to heart cos there is something God want to learn before going to next level.

Believe, be strong and fearless.

Nothing new under the sun.

After the storm and learnt lessons you will achieve your next level with your weakness been the foundation of the clarity of your strength.

Let fear be your friend but be still in the storm

keemsleek:
I don't understand you people issues with single mothers. Is it not men like us that made them single mothers? In every circle there are always few good ones. What about single fathers or girls that committed several abortions or una single babes that are into runs etc. There are still few good single mothers 100% better than una single girls.

My brother i never spoke or stereotype single mothers in any of my post.

All I did was exchanging ideas with a wise brother about the little i understand about life.

No one is perfect but we all should be always responsible for our life decisions and choice.


Nor let anyone gaslight you!
My clarity is mine freedom.

I'm a free modern king in a modern world with ancient cultural values and principles of life.


Have a great day brother

Tenrack:
Thanks for this man appreciate

My pleasure brother

Tenrack:
Thanks man. But I let myself down before. I've forgiven myself sha. Never again. Have a blessed day, man.

Enjoy the rest of your day brother

Tenrack:
wahlai if you get problem, you no go even notice woman let alone say dem no get certain qualities wey you dey find.

You got clarity!!!!!!!

As a true man, women are not supposed to be your priority of life.

Be open for good connection, then wife a discipline and respectful woman. Then make yourself, her and your kids priority of your kingdom forever as one united happy family.

Till you meet that right but not perfect woman nor settle for toxicity out of haste.

When you realize your standards of life, how you care for the peace and unity of your kids and family. You never settle for less neither marrying a toxic woman.


I always say the quality of women you attract, defines the kind of man you are. It's both genders thing anyway.

Just want make them collect the remaining $2m. So that he can face the pain and heal then move on with life.

Simp.

Double0h7:
You didn’t state a budget or where you are in the world but if you’re able; get him some thing luxurious and practical like a grooming kit. If he has a beard get him manscape grooming kit, it has everything he needs to groom his body hair from the face to his man garden. If he goes to the barbershop often then maybe get him a barber kit.

Your husband go enjoy you, it's seems you understand what good for a man.
Keep it up

Tenrack:
indeed. Wish I took this seriously. E get some mess you no suppose attract at all based on your principle and person. We fvxk up gan

For you to realize, you are man of principles.

@ baby light more grace and blessings.

Thank you mummy for your care, it takes discipline and respect to build a home.

God bless your home and family

FreeSpirited:
But do you know that 80-90% of women will remarry in less than one year especially if their husband left considerable amount of wealth? Do your research and find out. It's so because the wealth will allow them to do and make any decision without consequence. Especially if the children are young. Older children can still caution or fight their mother if she tries nonsense, but younger children, most of the women will marry in 6month- one year

Yes I concur but that depends on the discipline and respectful cultural values of the woman.

They are some real but not perfect women out there. We just gat to marry according to our standards.

As a wise man never wife a toxic woman

When you realize your standards in life, you can never mingle below your vibrational frequency. It's leads to the entire glitch of your soul.



The women you attract as a man, defines your quality.

It's both genders thing.

FreeSpirited:
The older I grow the more I feel sorry for men who take pride in acquiring excess wealth, without focusing on their soul and making impact in the community.
Acquiring excess wealth no longer makes sense to me as we see men die quicker and their wealth left in the hands of people who will waste it and never value the hardwork that came getting it.
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Imagine after your death, that same woman u cherish will start knacking new men, your business partners, church members, and friends in your mansion and matrimonial bed. It's not worth all the stress we put into women matter

Respect man!!!!

That's why marriage is never my life priority, generate happiness from inside through values of life.

I can never settle for less when comes to marriage.
That's was never his wife but a toxic woman.