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You can never buy the truth, all it takes is time and patience.

You are someone that do not need to much closure to thrive. Your energy likes space for productivity.

There is a level you get to, your energy will crave the right closure.

Try to be seeing her only weekends, then run your stuff during the week.

Always sun bath 30 minutes every time she leaves after weekend to revive your energy.

She's not the problem but your AURA


Just tell her you travel for a two weeks, don't see her you will realize the difference.

Your Aura doesn't resonate around her, minimizing communication will her but never break her heart.

henrimoto:
My brother 1,000 likes for you. You've written like a wise man.

You also wrote from Experience.

More wisdom to your head

See, a full blown woman/wife at adult stage that can't cook a good food for herself,husband and
family.. it will be. Very very difficult for her to learn how to cook a good meal at adult age..

You as the man of the house, e go tire you one day. It will cause problems in your home.

By the time you are tempted to go after your female maid because of her good foods, it's then you would know what you put yourself into.

On the part of the lady not Good at bed, it's easy and quick for her to discover the sweetness of sex , with continuous sex orientation and continuous sex practice, SHE IS TEACHABLE.

That her prayer life and Good cooking skills cover the rest. She is very good to go.

Respect wise king

abidragon:
No all women can cook oooo

LoL that's not a complete woman and shame to womanhood.

The first quality of a good woman is cooking
The second is cleaning.

No matter how rich you are, never allow your house help clean your matrimonial bedroom, cook for your husband and kids. Doing that as a woman, shows you exposing your home deliberately.

That's why some women lost their homes to house help, they became of no use than a boss wife.

If you need house help for cleaning and cooking for your workers.

Anunakeeh:
All women are Manipulative and Deceptive.

It is innate and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

men are not left behind and are same. Selaah!

They're some few women out there who still posses clarity at the highest level of their vibrational frequency.

Clarity comes with who you are, not what you are.

Those rolling with what they are: pride, competition, status , public validation. It drains energy to keep the performance of the ego and there is no true inner happiness.
Qualities of low vibrational frequency:
They jealous easily
They envy their mate
Pretend always putting on mask
They can never embrace change


Those rolling with who they are: realness, respect, discipline, but not perfect are not manipulative.
They know what they want and can never sell their peace and happiness for treasure.

They might be few but they exist. With clarity you can identify them when you cross paths.

Qualities of high vibrational frequency:

Realness
Respect
Humility
Discipline

They speak up and never afraid to walk away from abuse and toxicity.

2025 is my greatest year of achievement since birth!!!!!!!


My solitude not loneliness as people may think increased my level of intuition and clarity against the logic of the world.

This year thought me more the true difference between the noise and chaos of the world and the peace and happiness in solitude.


To God be the glory

No 3 fresh one, the from the farm that same day.The cooked one is preferred with pearl.


As a man wherever you say good night, never go back there to say good evening.

Remove the Ex

Remember all women are beautiful, can cook and clean but not all are respectful and disciplined.

I just said something, i know you are a wise man.


A woman that can not cook nor clean has no respect for you as a man neither your family. It shows high level of indiscipline, an indiscipline woman destroy your masculinity as a man.

It is the duty of a good wife to cook for herself, husband and kids.

Sex is all about experience, we all were novice but improve with time and knowledge.
Nobody is lazy on bed, na to discover her center of gravity then hit that spot very well to activate her sexual response to sex. Nor make woman when nor like sex discover say sex sweet cos you go run.


Any way, you know them well they anyone one here.
Life is all about choice, the choice we make today determines our future tomorrow.

You are a king and it's a duty of wise and respectful queen to cook for king.

Make women settle their matter o, think say na another thing.

Double0h7:
I hope he learns from his experiences rather than becoming the victim of them. You’re very kind and I appreciate your presence on nl. 🫶

My pleasure, it's only a kind person that cansee kindness in others.
When he fail to learn, the cycle comes again till he learns. There is no two ways about life, you must face the pain and heal for better experience.

It's only when you fail to heal and live in the past that can destroy future.

Enjoy the rest of your day

Double0h7:
So, why won’t you end the relationship?

Have you lost confidence in your ability to find someone better? It’s better to be alone than to be lonely and abused in a relationship. When you’re ready nobody will tell you to leave. You haven’t suffered enough yet…

Respect and more respect for you

The beast in him will rise this week, all he needed was advice and motivation.
That's empathy for you

Namaster:
WTF is going on here?!

Someone lives in YOUR house rent-free.
CHEATS on you.
BELITTLES you.
INSULTS you in private and in PUBLIC.
She TORTURES you mentally and emotionally.

And I'm 100% certain you are enduring all this NONSENSE without getting laid.

Yet you are HESITANT to throw her out.

You are a BROKEN man!
You were broken by a WORHE too.

Here's your SALVATION:
1. Call a MALE friend, colleague or sibling to come to your place. NOT a weak person like you.

2. Call her family/friend to come pick her up.

3. PACK her bags MINUS everything you bought for her.

4. You and your male HELPER should throw out ALL her belongings.

5. NO NEGOTIATIONS!

6. If she INSULTS you, keep quiet. You are USED to that.

7. If she TOUCHES you, do something that'll make us read about you on Nairaland FrontPage.

8. DO EVERYTHING TODAY!

9. If you succeed, thank your helper PROFUSELY and buy him a couple of drinks.

10. Get and READ these 2 books: No More Mr Nice Guy and The Manipulated Man.

Good advice respect!!!!!!!!


He doesn't need anyone with him to send her out, there is a beast in every empathy when pushed above limit. That beast have to rise in him, God brought that girl to his life for lessons and the time is over.

All need to do send her on errand to buy ice cream and pizza for herself that you are tired can't go with her.

Then when she leaves, pack all her belongings including the ones you bought for her outside your appartement. Change the lock to your protector, wait outside for her when she comes back you bounce out to chill with a rap of local weed when you smoke, a bottle of beer when you drink.

Don't go home for a week, lodge or go to your trusted friend place.


Block her everywhere, but nothing on earth should make you beat her any day. Avoid her like plaque cos narcissist girlfriend can destroy your life by destroying your mental health.

As a man your mental health is your productive theater.


I know every narcissist girl within five minutes of communication cos they are never at fault always shifting blames to avoid accountability.

God help you , you have to be a man as the real empathy you are. Wake up that beast in you!!!!!!!!

NwokoloOwa:
Just pray you don't encounter such, cos I tell you can become so overwhelmed that you cannot even SHOUT.

Amen not our portion.

The consultant act of carelessness killed the woman.

It's good to help when you have the capacity.
People are passing through a lot.

No matter how little you have, learn to give with discernment. It might be a token to you but abundance to the receiver.

God bless the hand that gives.

Narcissist girlfriend can kill you, they drain your energy. They crave light in men but uses their darkness to destroy the light.
They always want you sober, mood swings and manipulative skills of tears.


Just one way to win against narcissist girlfriend is to ghost her completely.
Go no contact, block her everywhere and never return after ghosting her cos she will destroy you completely out of revenge.

They are happy when you have and mock and disrespect you when you are low.
They compare you to others for you to feel small of the man you are.


As a man not matter the beauty never accept disrespect.


That girl they cheat on you with two other guys, you are just one of her supply.

Ghost her with no contact

Life is all about choice, i respect his choice as long he is happy.


Not until you learn from your mistakes, it increases with more pain till you learn.

When ten people read a book, that's ten different understanding or comprehension of the book.

Real red pillers cherish and adore women but allergies to manipulation.

I always tell people, there is no home without a woman. You can own a house as a man not a home when there's no wife.

Women are important to man's life.
So when you see a respectful and discipline woman, never hesitate to wife her.

Never let anyone tell you how to love a true woman of your dreams.


You must not be toxic to practice red pill.

In life there are purpose and reasons for every relationship.
The purpose definitely determines the outcome.


No man on earth will say he can never spend on his girlfriend during relationship, just that wisdom must be applied not to be drain with entitlement.

When you have a real, respectful, disciplined but not perfect woman as a girlfriend. She deserves your time, care and affection.


Na only when you won impress woman with money turn her papa for everything na bad.

When you have a good woman, cherish and adore her for who she is not what she is.

Never forget she must be discipline and respectful anything aside that nor waste time and money.

Make this man rest abeg, Nigeria is winning the cup osihmen highest goal scorer.

In all you do in life avoid the use of drugs it can destroy you and your empire.


The only and best highness if you must high is local weed.

Bahamas95:
Even if we start this life over again some people nor go still get sense.

Wisdom is the best gift a man get from God freely but depends on the capacity of the person to activate it to intelligence.
Sense nor common

Respect

ibechris:
The one statement I don’t want to hear is ‘Don’t let money control you,’ because when I was broke and poverty was controlling me, you said nothing.

When poverty had me in chains, nobody called it control.” Now money listens to me, and suddenly it’s a problem.

Yes it's good advice, but depends on how it was said cos everyone deserves respect.

My brother the best way not to allow them remind you they warned you, invest your money and more money will follow.

Enjoy your life brother, when you they grind them nor send you.

In life minding your business in this situation is better, women hardly forgive things like this.

That guy need to more careful get why, women are emotional and go to any level with things like this.

Waiting concern you with person when privatize public pu**y ? Na only time she go return to street.

I don't know why some people don't like to celebrate success with others when they win.

Man do man nor be lie

No pity for them cos the signs are there during relationship.

It's both genders thing anyway, never stay in any toxic and disrespectful relationship. All humans deserve respect.

Yorubastardz:
That is how one babe said she loves sex very well but she is against sex before marriage.

I ask am if you say No sex before marriage
How can you now say you love sex

Most women not all are manipulative, you need to read their aura to unravel the mask with clarity.

Your clarity exposed her.

if she can bring stability to the structure of your kingdom then wife her.

In a nutshell, all women can cook and clean but not all are respectful, intelligent and disciplined.

Life is all about choice, men will respect your choice.

Yes people exploit, use and dump people when done. It's both genders thing and that can turn an empathy to a beast without conscience towards the next relationship.

It's better not to accept an ex cos what made her leave the last time we make her leave again.

When people deliberately leave your life, be smarter enough to let them go forever. They bleep up and discover it's not beautiful as they thought out there.

Wherever you say good night don't go back and say good evening.

Good advice!!!!!!!!

As a man with vision and dreams, women shouldn't be your priority of life.

Man must high after all the stress of the week o but must be moderate. One or two bottles is enough when you drink.

One rap of local weed ( not lad or colos) to calm your nerves. Man must have a quiet time of thoughts with himself, weed inspire some people to the theater of their reason.

In a nutshell, when it's not good for your health quit with dignity.


Health is wealth.

Samantha125:
Okay, enjoy your kingdom...

Thank you I'm enjoying it with pleasure.

Enjoy the rest of your day.

Samantha125:
Your wife will only be by your side forever only if you treat her right.

Whether you settle for less or not, if you don't treat her right, she'll one day up and leave.

Yes right about that, I'm not a beast neither a gentle man but kind. I don't beat nor abuse women but can walk away with dignity.

That's why I'm taking my time to settle for the queen of my kingdom cos she has a big role to play as the only queen.

The woman that win my heart will be adore, cherish and loved forever. She's a queen and must be treated with respect and dignity including her family.

All i care about is peace and stability of my kingdom. My wife is the stability and I'm the structure.

So in unity, we can have one happy united family.

Not until I see that queen can never settle for less.