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This one name simp when allow banging body and ringtone confuse he intuition of being a man.

No pity for him , make them even collect the remaining $2m.

I don't pity mean that marry toxic women cos the signs are there from the beginning.

Men all you can do is to pray for your sisters and let them face reality of getting a life partner themselves.

You are a man that understand true men want to marry a modern woman with an ancient cultural values of marriage.

I tell people, 70% of men of marriageable age are capable of running a standard home but no one wants to marry chaos as a wife.


I'm a modern man with an ancient cultural values of marriage and my clarity can only marry a modern woman with ancient cultural values of marriage.


There is no pain to feel man, just believe with prayers.

Tell them the truth, woman when respect man na still they press he mumu botton.
Men will do anything to wife a woman that truly have discipline and respectful character of building a home.

I pray God give me at least a sister in my next life.

Hhh4444:
Yes, marriage and relationship are now outdated. Everything has changed,only the blind seem not to notice. Our women are now becoming less feminine,hence making them less attractive for commitment. They believe they are now equal to men and don't wanna submit to any man. Two captains can't be in control of a ship. Women that are supposed to bring peace to their men are now busy bringing chaos. A man goes out to face the chaos of the world and comes back to his house to meet a bigger chaos in his wife. He is likened to a soldier fighting war on all fronts. It's just a matter of time before he is defeated. No man in his right senses will venture into marriage with this present day women.

You got clarity, many are talking about the primary issues that devalued the principles of true cultural marriage.

Have had experience with women, so as other men and every man knows what he deserve in his woman he call wife.

Biblical principles were the cultural values of marriage.

A woman duty is to respect her husband and in return love's and cherish his wife.

A modern man of ancient cultural values can never accept disrespectful woman as a wife.

Fact saying, 70% of men that of marriageable age are capable of running a standard home.
But nobody won marry chaos put for house.

For me , my solitude and peace is very important to my Life, family and future. Nor go let one toxic woman stain my white.

He get the kind wife when you got marry out of lust and emotion, even your kids go blame you why you marry this kind woman as their mother.

To women looking for husband, respect a man he will wife you and you control him with dignity.

Na woman when respect man they fit press he mumu botton.

Mirasteel:
Have the right woman by your side and you won't regret it.

You right man that's why we still waiting for the right but not perfect queen for my kingdom.

You got clarity.

Many na toxicity plenty for their vain and modern men with ancient cultural values can never be compatible with them.

My brother life is all about choice!!!!!!!!

Whatever gives you happiness is your joy.

Time is coming women will be looking for who to marry them as second and third wife's.

Expecially those disrespectful , entitled and undisciplined ones not all.


When you have the financial capacity your choice is good.

Some times particular women come into your life to prepare you for your wife. It's both side thing!!!!!!!!

No perfect woman out there, the problem is most men fall in love with the wrong women. They become broken when disappointed, refuse to heal before meeting their life partner and they sabotage the true connection.

As a man you don't fall in love , whatever falls breaks and is why you must be broken when you fall in love.

A real man only grow in love with his woman, when it's not a divine connection they go separate ways with the lessons of growth.
That experience leads to true connection with clarity.


So men should stop falling rather learn to grow in love.


Your friend need to heal and prepare himself for his wife.

Exceed15:
You see true person of a woman when you marry her proper no matter how good she appears during courtship.

You are right but that's why I always say my standards of morality from the beginning.

There is a saying in my place!
Load when man fit carry , na when the load they ground him go know.

Other people experience shouldn't define my choice.

Thank you for your opinion, more respect.

The level of narcissist in women is higher than men!!!!!!!

Toxic women : they manipulate and hate you secretly, gaining whatever they can and move.
Damage women : These one no matter how big or rich your empire is you must be poor. Cos they go won use everything hold you not to leave out of fear.
They always want you poor so that they can be the only one in your life. Thinking you will get more women with more money.

You never see these two types in women, that means you have a lot to learn as a man.

They can destroy an empire built in decades in a year.

Not men alone

Alot sincerely only with the right woman!!!!!!!
Who is a right woman?
A woman who is not perfect but respectful and discipline with an ancient cultural values of family.

She brings respect, stability, and build your home.
As a man you can never have a home without woman but you can own a house.

Women are important in men's life as the neck holding the head.

Men are important as the head turning the neck to every direction.

The only thing is never to chose a disrespectful and undisciplined woman. True Women can build with you to succeed but toxic women can destroy your Empire.


As a man chose your woman with clarity not with emotions.

PureSperm:
Good morning my fellow Nairalanders.

Whenever I remember the things I did for my woman out of love,I don't know whether I should be regretting or I should be happy. But deep down,lemme don't lie,I feel like crying

The story of Peller and Jarvis really opened my eyes to many things. But that's one of the major reasons I've thought about loving my woman with my head from henceforth and not with my heart like I used to. I've come to realize that sometimes it's more preferable,for your peace of mind as a man,to just walk away, bearing all the regrets of all your loses in the relationship. What'd have happened if Peller had died ? . Definitely, Jarvis would move on with her life and probably one of those men who'd be showing support to her would be the next man to be smashing her, badly

To every man out there, please always be careful in all your dealings with women because they're very manipulative and wonderful set of creatures created by God

Mynd44 Dominique nlfpmod obembet.

He's a little modern man in a modern world.

Felimax:
Have you met toxic women? The ones that just hate you because you are a man.

Have you met damaged women? The ones that are ready to kill Paul because of what Kelvin did to them.

Have you met the witches gang? The once that will carry your pregnancy and make sure the baby is damaged. Some will get back to Nigeria to deliver your baby for you instead of giving the child that international uplifting.

Know their categories and live in peace.

You right brother, everything you said is true!!!!
Same as men it's both side , that's is why it's better to heal before entering new relationship.

These categories nor hard to know just that most men refuse to walk away cos of their banging body and ringtone.

Some even know the relationship is toxic and damage but get manipulated cos of lust.

Men need to wake up.

More respect man

There is no excuse for the failure of most marriages in our society today but family have a bigger role!!!!!!


It starts from the failing of most families to instill character in terms of respect and discipline in kids at the right time.

We have lost the true cultural values of marriage!!!!!!!
Not until we start with our generation by imposing the ancient value of family, most marriages will fail.


This generation devalued marriage hopes by modernizing the sacred and cultural importance of it.


I'm a modern man with an ancient value, so my clarity can only accept a modern woman with ancient value of marriage.


We have to start building the family with ancient cultural values in a modern world of today.

A true man needs respect to love his wife!
A true woman needs love to respect her husband!

The problem is most of this generation do the opposite, they claim their wife love them without respect.
They forgot you can only respect what you love, so before a woman respect you there's true love.
When a woman disrespect you there's no love cos you can't respect who you don't love as your man.


It's all going to start from us bringing up a discipline and respectful families to the society.


I respect your opinion, more grace man.

Deepspirituals:
Husband,Have you done DNA on those Children your Wife Claimed they are yours ?

To Avoid Stories that Touched the Heart in the near Future ,You better go Ahead and do it .

Maybe, You already fall for the Deceitful statement " Pikin Na Pikin , whether it's yours or not ...🤣🤣🤣.

What a Terrible situation,having believed those Children are yours ,You have Worked sooo hard to send them to School,They already knew you as there father ,But that Evil Daughter of Eve knows Very well that there father is somewhere Else,This same Wicked Woman still goes to sleep with this Hidden Man ," How are my Children" They are fine ..Chai !!! The M.U.M.U at home knows Nothing.

Yet you still see this Jezebel Shouting on this Ignorant Simp man " When are you going to Pay The Bastard Children School Fees ..Oh ! My Goodness...What an irresponsible Father is the Filthy words that comes out from this Jezebel..just a Little delays in School Fees Payment by the Man He made to take care of another man Children.

There Likes will soon Flood the Thread now ..Watch ..

Husband ,It's quite a Pity that your Sperm can't Make a Kid for now ,But you were being deceived ,Those Children you want to Kill yourself on ,Working and Suffering on .

Are they Truly your Children?

Common stop those Crap .. Pikin Na Pikin.

Take them for DNA right away ..do it without that Jezebel knowledge.

I did Mine on my Children Already .. Positive , DNA Matches So Amazing ..What are you Waiting for .

I remain Spiritualist D'Light...

Things are Happening

You are a man.



My life principles
No DNA
No Name.



Thank you for the awareness, men need to wake up.

lilsmart:
Government suppose make DNA test for hospital compulsory immediately after woman born pikin.

The DNA test result dem go give am direct to the papa wey dey for marriage certificate.

Because na de mama dey born de pikin, you no fit question am about who be de real papa.

Dis go help make sure say de papa wey dey for certificate na de true biological papa.

E go reduce cases of paternity fraud for Nigeria.

De father go get peace of mind from de beginning.

E go make family life more transparent and trustful.

So, government should implement dis policy fast.

No DNA
No Name.

You must undergo DNA test, to prove you are legitimate prince and princess of my kingdom.


Respect king!

Your level of clarity is infinity

Stephen0mozzy:
Interesting read.
Following.

You have lived up to your name.
You're a Man, and you know your self. You've made a good life for yourself, so you are the prize - don't settle for less.

Respect king

OKOATA:
Bro from your story it seems you already have in mind the kind of woman you want. To make things easy for you, write the qualities of the woman you want. Meditate over it and pray. Sounds crazy yes but pray over it. Just so you know you can never find someone perfect.

My principles are biblical!!!!!!!

The bible said wife respect your husband,
Husband love your wife.

No one is perfect in life but my queen must meet my principles which is of God.


Most men of this generation devalued the principles of God that's why there are broken homes today.


I'm too authentic to pretend to like anything against that. My experience from my parents was not perfect but shown 95% of true respect from my mother and true love from my father.


Life is all about choice and others experience shouldn't define my choice cos I'm the only one to live forever with the queen i marry today.

Thank you for your Opinion, more respect.

Dikastan:
The next person he will find will read him like a book,hide those bad qualities well well only to be bringing them out one after the other after wedding. You can only marry a lesser evil,that's what the world refers to as wife material...if you know,you know

My clarity and level of intuition will expose her.

Men should take time to know who they are not the logic the world told them.
Ask questions within your soul

JASONjnr:
But he looked carefully and wasn't able to compromised or accept certain flaws for his peace of mind?

One time, I dated a good girl but she was a short fuse and I couldn't stand her anger issues but then she was supportive and a great cook with good skin and facial beauty that attracts..... But I'd rather go for peace of mind.

Life is all about choice

lilsmart:
No be say you go find perfect person or perfect marriage, because e no dey. But as you dey find your match, make una alignment no be only for love or beauty, but for common purpose. Make una get one kind vision wey una dey follow together na im be the strong thing wey go make una build house when rain dey fall and wind dey blow. Love fit cool, but na purpose go make una stay for same road from beginning till end. So abeg, no rush marry person wey no get same mission with you; wait for the person wey una go dey build kingdom together, not just to occupy space.

Respect king

lilsmart:
let me reframe it for you, not as a rejection of your truth, but as a clarification of his.

A King who knows his worth doesn't believe he is flawless. He knows his flaws intimately that's why he guards his kingdom so carefully. He knows a weak treaty made from desperation would amplify those flaws, not fix them. The compromise you speak of isn't avoided it's just chosen differently. He would rather compromise on waiting longer than compromise on the fundamental peace and respect required to build a legacy.

You speak of "these generations of today" as if standards must lower to meet them. But a true sovereign doesn't lower his banner because the wind changes he builds a citadel so strong that the right ally is drawn to it. Respect is not a generational heirloom that's been lost it's a currency minted by character. It still exists. To say it doesn't is to surrender before the battle. A cowards Move.

From what you wrote you've definitely surrender before the battle.

You got clarity man.
Nobody is perfect.
I know a king from far when I see one.
Respect king.
Don't have energy for ambiguity, na why nor reply.

Life is the most precious and important privilege from God!!!!!!!

Only you alone is the architect of your dreams and destiny through the grace and mercy of God.
Never allow anyone ditate how you live your life but always be open for good advice and criticism from people that are where you want to be in life.

Be the get keeper of your mental health by refusing to mingle below your resonating frequency, it's a glitch to your entire vibrational frequency of your soul.

My main reason for this topic !!!!!!!
I'm an electrical electronics engineer (Elect/Elect), from Edo state and was born in 198?.

This year 2025 , told myself this is a must year to marry without excuses.

Though I was not in any committed relationship before taking the decision . The girl I disflowered that was supposed to marry was never allowed to marry me cos the mum never like my tribe. She told me on phone herself to leave her daughter alone, the girl wished I got her pregnant against her mum's wish but I refused.
She broke up with me 2022. Ever since before my 2025 declaration have never got that time for women neither any committed relationship.

So January told myself to be open for good connection for marriage.

1. I met a banker at first bank during one of my usual transactions, she was polite and communicate with respect as a professional in her field. We exchange numbers, got on a date and she was happy to have a man like me her life. Told her let see how things goes in 3 months, then decide if we are compatible to continue the relationship. No sex I said it should be after we decide to continue with the relationship.

This babe is 30 of age, she comes for weekends after work.
Good qualities of her:
She sweep and clean the whole house including the bathrooms and toilet.
She is a good cook, respectful and kind.

Bad qualities of her:
She nag so much about little things
She doesn't want to see me around other women, even the ones I knew before her at the bank.
She almost rape me one day when sleeping but Woke up when noticed someone was pulling my clothes.
She has anger issue and keep malice easily.

Told her can't continue after one month and three weeks.
No love lost no love found!!!
She begged but I done move on like no tomorrow cos my life is precious to me.

2. There is this lawyer, knew her as a friend when she was 200 level. We met at one secondary school she usually reads and me do go there to smoke weed when back from school cos my family must not know I smoke. There was a day some boys were bulling her was about to beat her then came out from the class I was stop the situation immediately cos those boys knew me in the hood.
So we kept in touch as friends for years till I asked for a date , she was happy i did cos her statement was have been waiting for you to up with that.
Same principles as first followed!

Good qualities of her:
Kind, clean and sweep, good cook and watches my clothes at will without me asking any weekend she's around.

Bad qualities of her:
No respect as in law confuse her brain say man like respect pass love.
Jealous is too much, to the extent she took my cousin number to warn her thinking she was my other girlfriend.
You must do things her way or no peace.

After two months, i ghosted her.
She still begs me to give her any rules for us to come back. That's through email cos I done block her , I'm a man not a toll.


3 . She's a nurse with a big pharmacy in GRA were i stay, i knew her through a friend when I had ulcer. She done give me green, yellow, blue and white light form say I nor understand.
She jokingly told me one day you nor they understand if woman like you? Now I see the reason why you never marry belike you nor send woman.
Told her women are not my priority of life but when I see the woman that can inspire me for marriage I will.

Same principles followed
Good qualities of her:
Caring, can cook for me anything best cook among them,clean and washes my clothes,

Bad qualities of her:
Jealous to much
No respect she abuse me when angry ( i don't beat women, she nor fit make me start am)
She sometimes joke to stab my Gul bladder if I have sex with her and dump her.
She always complain of me nor loving her enough.
Me and you when they observation stage.

So I broke up with her after her birthday, just want her to be happy during the celebration. One week told her can't continue.


This is my point and advice for everyone in my situation both men and women!!!!!!!

The year is coming to an end and so many people are saying 2026 na do or die for me to marry.
Please leave marriage matter, face your future and wait for the right connection resonating in your frequency.

Never let anyone pressure, mock or advice you into marriage in haste. You are the one to face the outcome of every wrong decision you make today in the future.
It's better to remain single and adult kids than to marry the wrong life partner. Marriage can build or destroy your destiny and life.

Especially the women above 30, please never be desperate about marriage. It will lead you to wrong decision you will regret forever, there is always a man for you just that most times you guys look outside when your man is within. At this stage of your life no more games but respect and dignity.

For men above 30, keep hustling in faith cos the connection go come at the right time.

For me have told everyone in my family, make anybody nor tell about marriage for 2026 except na blocking you the find.

Though I'm open for marriage when I see a woman resonating in my frequency that can inspire me for marriage. Not a priority for me like this year 2025.

Thank God I was never desperate to chose any this year.

No because of husband kill yourself , boyfriend or girlfriend break your heart kill yourself. Life is precious, sweet and beautiful.

Happiness is free, generate it from inside not from validation of others and never live your life on the opinion of people.

Always remember you are special and the best of your kind on earth.

I'M A KING, AM ONLY PERMITTED TO MARRY A QUEEN THAT WILL RESPECT ME AND MINE KINGDOM.

My brother those men done tag you as opposition, nor take am as joke. Change that location cos them fit hit you when there is war.

Then just they wait to see you with any opposite side to confirm.

Life is precious, just comot for that zone .

FashionCapital:
Amen 🙏

I have planned myself accordingly

Thank you 😊

My pleasure brother man

Aditkd:
Greetings Sir/Ma
Hope your day is coming along nicely?
You are correct about the level of temptations females face this days and not to forget not only females but also men.

I believe it all boils down to discipline. When one is disciplined, content, self control and all other attributes that makes a human free and devoid of certain misbehaviour.

A lot of negative things won't occur and the individual ends up living a peaceful, happy and content life.

That's my own little opinion Sir/Ma.
Thank you Sir/Ma and do have a pleasant day ahead.

You are a woman of virtue, your husband got a priceless gift in you.

FreeSpirited:
This is what they spend 25million on for wedding. Nonsense

My brother absolute nonsense!!!!!!!!

Most of the women of this our generation posses all.


In all , you can spend on a woman that fits your inspiration for marriage. No one is perfect!!!!!!!!

Just check with clarity if she's not pretending, then wife her after six months.
Build your future and family together.

Always never hesitate to dump a woman without respect and character.
Always check the home she's from, this is the most important.

FashionCapital:
very manipulative being. She would have denied and even tell you to take her to anywhere to swear if not for the evidence you have. I also have my story to Share but let me conduct dna first when she gives birth.

My brother God will give you the resources and life to do the DNA test.

Nor allow woman destroy your destiny.

No DNA
No Name

James4358:
my wedding was 3weeks away. Preparation was gaining serious momentum, I was in another state hustling to meet up other expenses, then boom... My wife to be slept with one of the officiating ministers. I had no idea. The wedding went on. I got to know when 8 months later I was using my wife's Sim card for data and at past 2am the pastor sent an SMS how the style my wife gave him just made his John Thomas to stand. I sent him several SMS with her line that night and he unknowingly confessed the month it happened and how many times they did it. I was depressed, I almost died from high blood pressure. It turned out the pregnancy was not mine. I returned her to her parents with the help of my family. I have not even recovered from the expenses of that marriage. I just came out from depression recently and trying to pick up my life again. I don't wish my enemy what that daughter of eve did to me

God really loved you

My brother even in future, it’s DNA after birth.

God will give you a better partner

Woman of Virtue!!!!!!!!

1. Respectful (character)
2. Humility (submission)
3. Value ( virginity)
4. Beauty ( personality) in education and connection to your level of frequency.


Most men goes for

1. Beauty ( presentation for public validation) no proper information from education and below frequency.
2. No value ( nor virgin’s)
3. No respect ( Modern woman in a modern world )
4. Pretends ( faking submission for some time to gain)

But you can still marry no value when she ticks the rest boxes.

I always tell people!!!!!!!

Be the gate keeper of your mental health getting clarity.

Woman call you broke means I can’t manipulate you like others. You are always special and unique with your principles!

Make woman call me broke when I know say only my opay balance fit feed her for 5 years.

If not your wife or sister nor give those entitlement priority.

You must inspire me to spend my money on you as a woman.

Cashio:
You'll be shocked to know how true this is

Then he is not a man, that’s the reason why I don’t mingle below my frequency. Make my friend come they tell me this kind story? No man.

That’s is the reason why I gave myself till the end of this year to get the right frequency to inspire me for marriage cos me done almost give up on this conscienceless generation.

Please never allow him marry that girl, even his children will blame him in the future for marrying their mother.

2026 upwards nor want hear anybody tell me about marriage cos this generation of women not all 95% nor clear.

This is not real bro