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superior1: Maria, when a couple gets married, sex comes natural. If you want to know if the guests go into the bedroom with them, i will answer no (atleast that is normal). What is the point you are trying to make?

sex comes natural but not all couples have sex after marriage....period.

@Superior,
i am trying to help you understand and you do not want to be patient to understand?
Well, thank God you said, after marriage comes sex or as expected....so, you dont know if it was consunmated or not.

utumunta: Thank God you are in final year. This is part of your graduation process. You are not a mumu. Most of the people calling you mumu have done worst. Try and learn from your mistakes to become a better man. I went through this stage at a time in my life.
Apply this in your daily living;
1. Don't ever expect love from a Nigerian girl cos they don't understand what it means.
2. Don't believe what they say or do.
3. Better you hurt them, than allow them hurt you cos when you hurt them, you are just a tool in the hands of karma. They've hurt someone, somewhere before.
4. Keep them in droves cos they love competition and detest being the only one in your life.
5. Never put a woman above your business/goal in life.

well said o.
Op, you don hear am, abi? But, dont forget to ask him for the male version of that his sermon because we wouldnt want you to come back here, crying to us that a guy duped you....better get the blueprint on how to deal with such guys from this mister now.
A word is enough for the wise.....!

really have to sleep now.....got a long journey later today....Goodmorning, Children of Mary.

Syncan: Check the link I pasted earlier in my response to him in Pg 1. Its enough to understand him.

hmm, now I understand. I wonder where he is.

Syncan: Please do not bother.

ah ah, why nah? I want to really understand this dude.

superior1: It is a seal on the marriage.

oh really? Lets take today's marriage for example...do you actually witness the consunmation of the marriage?

superior1: So you mean the marriage was consummated in sex?

does that make a marriage legal?

superior1: You should re-read what you posted that prompted me to request for biblical reference.

You said before the forming of the world (Jeh 1:5 talks of before formation in the belly) but that is not the point.
Joseph is more than helper, He was married and had kids with Mary. Making him an ordinary helper is unbiblical.

lol, seriously, the fact that he was chosen to help made him special.......but am telling you, he was just a helper.
Can I ask you a question?

superior1: I am trying to use my head ma, help me please.

Ok, you mean Jesus parents are having physical sex or something?. Can you explain more your point here?

My point is this, they were both Chosen to bring Jesus to his world...they were chosen as his earthly parents and in that effect they still have to follow the jewish culture to make their marriage legal as instructed.....thats all.

superior1: Jeh 1:5
5 Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations.6 Then said I, Ah, Lord God! behold, I cannot speak: for I am a child.

In summary,It is talking about God's calling on a life which pre-dates even when the foetus of that individual was formed in the belly, God already has a purpose for such life.

good good.
So, do you really think that doesnt apply to Joseph and Mary?

superior1: This got me laughing real hard

still waiting for my explanation o.

superior1: I know what destiny is all about. What I don't understand is Joseph being just a helper?, Joseph was more than that, he married mary in line with Jewish tradition and had kids with her.

he did? Are you sure?
Yes sure, physically, he has to do that because he was instructed to do that. Look, let me tell you, when God wants to do his job, he doesnt leave loose threads.
Now listen, Jesus came to this world as a human, so, what were you expecting, that his earthly parents who get married as required by their culture? Of cus they will, but that is just for the physical eye....the spiritual things still goes on. If he must come as a human, then such must happen. Use your head, man.

superior1: If possible, Yes!

lol, now, I understand the bone of ccontention.
Ok, Jeremiah 1:5.......in your own understanding, can you explain it to me?

superior1: Which verse of the Bible is this stated?

you meant where it is written word to word, right?

superior1: You mean from servant, she became spouse So she became spouse to Holy Spirit and Joseph?. Then she remained a virgin (how?) Did Jesus came out through her mouth? How was the virginity sustained?

she has already being chosen long ago before the world came to be for this purpose....so Joseph was just a helper..that was his mandate and mission in life...to help bring up, provide for the son of God. Or have you forgotten that God hmself said that before you were concieved I know what you are and what you will be?

the most important issue here is to make sure that at the end you will be among those rewarded......now, whether you like it or not, some things are not meant for human understanding. If you think it is wrong to actually ask the BVM to intercede, then dont do it but dont judge those doing it. You know why? You dont even know if what you beleive in is actually what it is....you are just about the bible....look around you, a lot of things are changing. The same some pastors get revelations from God, that is the same way Mary visited the 3 little kids at Fatima......and that was the birth of the rosary.
Ask yyourself this question...
Do you really think God would have allowed that to happen if he had not already honoured and Chosen the BVM?

superior1: I dont get that?

what makes you think others have a different opinion, uh?
What other explanation do you need?

@Superior,
you tired of dealing with one of us?

D-Explorer:
Most assuredly! Keep your focus with minds open. Proud of my graduate already

phhew! What a burden! Thats out of my list now.

Practise for the day:

Listen courteously to the opinion of others but never force yours on them.

Happy Sunday peeps..!

Odenigbo Aroli: You talk like a twelve years old. I pray you find a good man that will fuffill your cinderella dreams but remember there are no perfect man on earth. Marriage isn't what you think it is. Its actally challenging,like trying to keep a job or pass exam. You have to put in your best and also take pains,sometimes. Be prepared,young girl!

Mature man, I guess I already have someone fulfilling my cinderella dreams....you can stop praying now ok? Or rather channel that to your relationship that is not yet a marriage. You never know what will come up. Be prepared, old man.

edie_mafio: I cant help but laugh when every woman screems run from an abusive marriage as if there are men out there willing to marry a used vessel,the right question should be,y is he abusive?could it be your fault?I have said this before on this forum,it isn't such a heanous crime to hit a woman,but a gentle man won't hit a lady,if ur partner is a lady indeed,trust me,she will be too precious to u and out of luv and respect,a man will not hit her,just because u have a pus-sy does not make u lady,too many naija babes are very vaulger and say very horrible things without thinking of the implications,if u behave like a lady u get treated as one,sorry dear,if u make ur self beatable,deal wiv it.

and too many naija guys are very decent in their words, right?
The topic is about the already damaged ones (both male and female) and how to connect and help those who wants to change.....stop blaming ladies like all is their fault. Sometimes, the guys are at fault too or havent you thought of that?

italo: Just do a search on google and you'll find various links where you can download these books and many others for free. I just did and found this link: http://www.sanctepater.com/2010/05/free-catholic-books.html?m=1

Though they dont seem to have "City of God" but you should that somewhere else.

thanks so much

D-Explorer:
Maybe it's time i do the finding while you concentrate on those things. I aint interesting in 30 and single. Gbam!

alright Uncle, you know my type, right?

D-Explorer:
It's good if you do. . .please, let this teeth crack new bones. Let me know when you do

believe me Uncle, they suck. I rather concentrate on somethingelse that will better my life.

D-Explorer:
Wait till i endorse your husband na

you found him yet?

dont8: Hi Maria, how was your day?

hello sweetie, it went well....had major rest now that school is on vacation.

D-Explorer:
Babysis, welcome back!

Unce D, am not a baby anymore....ya know.

chukwuinya: talking about love do u know d origin of that word?to gain insight into any thing u go for its etymology,God is love and everyone that loveth is born of God and knoweth God...so do u know God ?if u do u can be sure he will order ur steps aright,make friend with God n u will b glad u did

me likey..!

The only thing I have to say is everyone has the right to believe or rather choose his or her religion..... I have chosen mine.....period.

You can call us demons, no problems, it doesnt stop or shake me.

una don too flog this issue o...abi op, you never get enough advice?

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