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Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Luvluv47(m): 6:13pm On Aug 04, 2013 |
DonalĂ° Genes: sorry to ask; are you that daft@op As in? How do u mean? |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by hal9000: 7:42pm On Aug 04, 2013 |
OP, i feel bad for you... First off, your name is ''Luvluv''; seriously?? Second, you claim u're not a virgin and u're not immature, yet you managed to tear your 'Confirm Naija Boy' certificate without even realizing it. Biko, ARE U A LEARNER?? No wait, dont answer that. Of course u are. 500L student?? In a naija public university?? And u fall mugu like dis?? Guy u're being economical with the truth jor. Do u even have male friends at all? Lastly (and this is the part that makes me wana beat you to a pulp), you still here yiddy-yakking about how you'll still get your 20k and all that $h!t... See, nwoke'm lee anya m'agwa gi, pDude and other folks have wasted enuf bandwidth advicing your sorry a$$ to wise-up, forget that dough and delete the skank-a$$ b!+ch's number; don't make them regret it. U don f-up be say u don f-up. So save yourself some diginity and stop spuking all that irritating moronic g@y nonsense. I dont care if you evolve into a womanizing monster or whatever, but u need to get it into your thick skull that any naija guy who's worth his salt knows when he has been played. Bro, YOU HAVE BEEN PLAYED. And you lost WOEFULLY. So get your $h!t together and move on with your life. Enough said! In the meantime, plz change your middle name to Abdul-Mumu-ni. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by dahmie2013: 8:18pm On Aug 04, 2013 |
@Op, wat u did aint surprising @ all&dont be so bothered abt d insults dey are normal. But 2 ans ur questns; 1. She doesn't love u because she obviously took u for a fool. 2. Its not wrong 4 a lady 2 ask 4 money 4rm her boo, but only wen dey are dating. In ur case, it was wrong for u 2 give money 2 sumone who u never saw not 2 talk of dating. Dat was 2 bad! 3. Dat money is wat u call bad debt in accounting. U can never get dat money again, find alternatives. 4. Please leave dat girl alone&face ur studies. D labour mkt aint similing. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Luvluv47(m): 9:06pm On Aug 04, 2013 |
hal9000: OP, i feel bad for you... Being economical with the truth? No. Whatever I said is the truth about me. It's amazing how some people think! Can this not happen to anybody? It can happen to anybody. Can anybody not be duped? Even some people in govt, have they not been duped? Pray it doesn't happen to someone you know. I appreciate ur concerns. Thanks a lot! |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Luvluv47(m): 9:12pm On Aug 04, 2013 |
dahmie2013: @Op, wat u did aint surprising @ all&dont be so bothered abt d insults dey are normal. But 2 ans ur questns; Ok! My pleasure. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Nobody: 4:05am On Aug 05, 2013 |
Thank God you are in final year. This is part of your graduation process. You are not a mumu. Most of the people calling you mumu have done worst. Try and learn from your mistakes to become a better man. I went through this stage at a time in my life. Apply this in your daily living; 1. Don't ever expect love from a Nigerian girl cos they don't understand what it means. 2. Don't believe what they say or do. 3. Better you hurt them, than allow them hurt you cos when you hurt them, you are just a tool in the hands of karma. They've hurt someone, somewhere before. 4. Keep them in droves cos they love competition and detest being the only one in your life. 5. Never put a woman above your business/goal in life. 1 Like |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by MariaGoretti: 4:39am On Aug 05, 2013 |
utumunta: Thank God you are in final year. This is part of your graduation process. You are not a mumu. Most of the people calling you mumu have done worst. Try and learn from your mistakes to become a better man. I went through this stage at a time in my life.well said o. Op, you don hear am, abi? But, dont forget to ask him for the male version of that his sermon because we wouldnt want you to come back here, crying to us that a guy duped you....better get the blueprint on how to deal with such guys from this mister now. A word is enough for the wise.....! |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by free2ryhme: 4:55am On Aug 05, 2013 |
Maria-Goretti: ... from your response one can conclude that you agree that Nigerian girls dont understand love, they(Nigerian girls)'ve hurt someone, somewhere before, love competition and never should a guy make them his utmost priority in life. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by MariaGoretti: 11:56am On Aug 05, 2013 |
free2ryhme:that was your conclusion....now, allow him to make his. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Boss13: 3:01pm On Aug 05, 2013 |
@OP I read your story with interest. You are not a fool, do not mind whatever negatve comments being posted. They say men don't fall in love but when they do, they truly do. I understand you and you are not a mugu. She took advantage of you and your emotions. If she wasn't interested, she would have told you off rather she decided to rob you off the little money you have. She is heartless and wicked. Please I am truly in support of you in getting your money back and publicly disgracing her. Because this is the new trend now on facebook. To others, we are truly losing our morals in relationships. We are quick to run to public forums to heap insults on some gender, but we go into relationships with an aim/objective that may not benefit your partner. We need to reconsider because KARMA is B>>ITCH |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Nobody: 5:54pm On Aug 05, 2013 |
Rule number 1 in a relationship: as a man, keep ur money in your pockets! Make sure a lady does not get a dime from you at all times, no matter what. If she can't stay, let her walk out. Shikena. 1 Like |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Luvluv47(m): 2:15am On Aug 22, 2013 |
Waooh! It's been a while! Anyone in the house? |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Luvluv47(m): 2:17am On Aug 22, 2013 |
The story seems to be getting interesting now! |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Luvluv47(m): 2:20am On Aug 22, 2013 |
Yes, I now know I fell in love with the wrong person! Really wrong person. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Luvluv47(m): 2:22am On Aug 22, 2013 |
But really, what have people done for the sake of love? Can anyone tell me? What have you done for the sake of love? |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Luvluv47(m): 2:26am On Aug 22, 2013 |
I'm thinking I should change the title of this my thread/story to something like: "I Fell In Love With The Wrong Person.Please Advise" What do you think? Well, the story has just begun. Just stay tuned! |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Nobody: 2:32am On Aug 22, 2013 |
I don't even know if I should laugh or walk away or msscchhhheeewwwwww you So, after 4 pages of hard-core truth, u were still thinking you were in love with the right person well, as i bin no fit sleep yet, let's hear your story, maybe it wld bore or vex me to bed. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Luvluv47(m): 2:33am On Aug 22, 2013 |
But before I continue the story, I need to be sure that you people are in the house listening. So pls pals/nairalanders, pls indicate your responses as soon as possible and you will hear the continuing part of this my "surprising" story. Yes, surprising because it's really surprising to me that I could experience this type of thing with a girl. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Luvluv47(m): 3:57am On Aug 22, 2013 |
But I'm not in a hurry to let the cat out of the bag yet! It's still surprising that this could happen to me! In Nigeria, a lot of crimes and frauds happen everyday and just pray you are not a victim.Because at times you'll be totally swept off your feet by these fraudsters/con men/con girls/com women! Or how else would I describe this? Ok. I'll continue with my own story by tomorrow, hopefully, since I have some work to do now. But really talking about fraudsters, is it not surprising that since they use different tactics(which they usually change from time to time), they sometimes end up duping even security men or security agencies? Has this not happened in Nigeria? I said it before that she can never outsmart me in getting my money back from her, but how she succeeded in getting me to give her that N20,000 in the first place is still a mystery to me. Ok let's look at this case to buttress my point about some security men having been duped before. A casual friend of mine who is a soldier, was duped about four years ago of the sum of six hundred and fifty thousand naira (N650,000) by someone(a man)he did not know but the person called him pretending to have known him before through somebody. My friend is a family man, with children. He is not just a soldier, but educated too. He is a university graduate, and he went to the university while in the army. He speaks good English and is highly enlightened/well read. He is from the eastern part of Nigeria. He is about 48 years now. The guy called him claiming they knew him before. It was like magic. Later he introduced a business to him which has to do with selling precious stones, sending it from abroad, and selling it in Nigeria and all those kind of stories. To cut the story short, my guy parted with N650,000 to these fraudsters, he paid about five hundred thousand naira cash to this guy, which he even had the guts to come and collect inside the army barracks here in Lagos where my friend lives. The rest he paid to the bank account of these thieves. Up till now, he hasn't gotten a dime back from them and they have disappeared into thin air! So tell me, can this not happen to anybody? I know you people may call him all sorts of names for parting with the money, but at times do you know what these guys use to get the money out of their victims? Is this really ordinary? I rest my case for now. Pls stay tuned for more on my own story. I'm coming back soon. Got some work to do for now. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by MariaGoretti: 4:50am On Aug 22, 2013 |
na wa o... This one na correct super story...the only difference is that superstory is more interesting. @Op, Ok, she defrauded you using charms or what? |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Nobody: 4:21pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
Aww I'm sorry guy. She is using u. She doesn't love u. U made it to easy for her. A woman likes a bit of a challenge. Kinda hard but soft too. Ur too soft n she doesn't have anything to proveto u. She doesn't have to show u appreciation cause no matter how awful she is u still treat her like she walks on water. Don't let her harden u. It won't b fair the the real love of ur life. Let her go if she changes then maybe u can try again but think back to ur past relationships... Did u have to work so hard for attention form ur lover? A phone call is simple n easy n a nice way to show someone u r thinking of them n u appreciate them yet not only does she not call but won't even answer?? I assume u already know the answer to ur headline... Yes u have fallen in love w the wrong person. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Luvluv47(m): 12:38pm On Aug 24, 2013 |
amitalian: Aww I'm sorry guy. She is using u. She doesn't love u. U made it to easy for her. A woman likes a bit of a challenge. Kinda hard but soft too. Ur too soft n she doesn't have anything to proveto u. She doesn't have to show u appreciation cause no matter how awful she is u still treat her like she walks on water. Don't let her harden u. It won't b fair the the real love of ur life. Let her go if she changes then maybe u can try again but think back to ur past relationships... Did u have to work so hard for attention form ur lover? A phone call is simple n easy n a nice way to show someone u r thinking of them n u appreciate them yet not only does she not call but won't even answer?? I assume u already know the answer to ur headline... Yes u have fallen in love w the wrong person. Alright, thanks so much. I appreciate. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Nobody: 1:05pm On Aug 24, 2013 |
For say internet na like physical thing I for plank this OP |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Tinkybabe(f): 1:10pm On Aug 24, 2013 |
First of,Welcome to Nairaland OP Now,back to the matter When I read your post,I wanted to tell you how stupid you were but being Nairaland,romance landers have done even more than that and all I feel for you now is pity. 1) This girl doesn't like you ,much more love you..so forget her completely. 2)your money has been given to charity as you can only retrieve it if she gives.Unless you have something illegitimate up your sleeves. Most importantly,never fall in love with your heart only,the head inclusive makes the best recipe for a fun filled relationship But I can't help it,OP you were a MAGA |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by baggy4luv(m): 3:30pm On Aug 24, 2013 |
My history of madness stl lingers on even when am in love.you need to have a history of madness to deal with some gurls.u exhalted her dts y she dy punish u |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by kpolli(m): 10:12pm On Aug 24, 2013 |
Can't believe a human is this stupid.... False story |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by Nobody: 9:50am On Sep 15, 2013 |
Luvluv47: Pls nairalanders, I have an issue I want all of you to respond to and advise me. Pls after reading this, try and make your honest contributions and advise me on what you think. Pls bear with me because the story may be a bit long because I want to state virtually all the necessary details for you to know how to advise on this. This is because it is necessary to have the full details in some cases before one can reach a conclusion on the issue. |
Re: Did I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person? Pls Advise! by NDelta(m): 11:34am On Sep 15, 2013 |
Lol, laughing so much that everyone in the train is wondering if am ok, guy, $he does not have a car rather she has a sugar daddy/financially ok, older bf. If ur lucky she may allow you to touch her once as payment for your money but if ur not lucky she will delete u on fbk, block ur number.....end of story |
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