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Be like say fulani dey craze? They tried it once, we fought them back, let them try it again, this time we will capture their emir in sokoto

Ochason:
My name is Jolade (not real name). I am 26years old , just finished my HND, awaiting service cos my school had some issues and so we are delayed. I decided to get a job in the town. My friend told me a new restaurant was opening around August last year and so I applied. I got a job as sales.
The IT manager was transferred from the restaurants head office in Lagos. Lets call him Vincent. Vincent is a very handsome guy. Every girl had their eyes on him. He was also very intelligent and friendly. I usually just say hi to him, that is all.
After some weeks, he called me to say he has been watching me. That he sees that I am a decent girl and he would like for us to be friends. I wondered why me of all the girls in the office? He just said something about me is different.
Dating Vincent was a secret because of office policy. But it was a very nice relationship.. He genuinely cared about me, always checking on me…asking me if I was ok…I tried to fix my off days with his own duty off days . We spent alot of our free time together. He was very surprised I was a virgin.
Vincent spoke to me about my future, he seemed very interested in my welfare. He talked about his future plans with me and I was really happy to be in love with such a smart kind and ambitious man. I felt God had answered my prayers.
All was well until towards end of December last year. Vincent all of a sudden started giving me attitude…and before I could figure out what happened, he sent me a message that we should break up with each other. I was not myself…what did I do? I kept asking him,he said nothing at first but he later confessed.
He said he does not want to pressure me but that he had s*x with someone else. That he feels bad for cheating on me cos he knows I want to keep myself. So, he felt it was best to break up with me. I cried and cried cos I thought I could not live without him,….I called in sick for several days cos I was an emotional wreck for days.
One night, I took matters into my hands. I went to his place and begged him to give me a chance. I was ready to give him my virginity. He deserves it…he has been a great guy to me and I am helplessly in love. I told him he can have me cos I cannot bear to loose him over my virginity.
Vincent made love to me. A very painful experience but I guess that is how first time is for some girls. I was happy again. Things were going to be like before with Vincent. But alas, something else happened. I started getting into trouble with our manager in the office. This woman started picking on me for flimsy reasons. She insulted and humiliated me at every opportunity.
I shared my concern with Vincent. He promised to talk to her. I wanted to move in with Vincent during the December period but he said his brother would be coming to visit him from Lagos. So I decided to surprise him with food on Saturday after new year. I made fried rice and chicken.When I got to his place, I noticed his windows were opened but door was locked. So, I went in through the back door,from the Kitchen. I dropped the food in the Kitchen and went to the bedroom. That was when I saw Vincent and my manager having s*x.
I ran out…heartbroken and betrayed. I could not believe I was naïve to give myself to someone who was playing me. Now, I understood why the manager was always picking on me. And the worse is this manager is married with children.
Vincent has been begging me to hear him out. That he is only sleeping with her to get something from her. A car. She promised to promote him and give him a car if he slept with her. He showed me their chats….its just s*x cos her husband is not satisfying her. He said its just temporary…that he wants me to be his wife…
Getting to work two days later, I was fired. I knew this manager was only trying to silence me. I was so angry, sad and upset. Vincent asked me to calm down that he will help me look for another job. This woman took my man and my job away. I want nothing but to revenge her.
I want to expose her to her husband and on social media but Vincent is begging me that he may loose his job if I do anything stupid. Now, I have been mocked and betrayed and abandoned…why should I care if Vincent is fired? I am sure he is still sleeping with her cos she has not given him the car right?
Even though I love Vincent…I think the only way for him to show me he loves me is to leave that woman and even resign from that job to be with me or he is lying to me and I will expose both of them, their affair. I will even write to our head office that Vincent took advantage of me, lied to me and caused me to loose my job because of his affair with the manager.
My reason for writing you ma: please help me share my story. I want to know what people think is the best way to deal with this matter. Do you think Vincent is telling the truth? Will he be with me after he gets the car? I know he cant marry her cos she is already married…should I be patient and see what Vincent will do after he gets the car or should I go ahead and expose them the way I want to?
Please advise me. I was fired unjustly and on top of that…she is stealing my man when she is supposed to be happily married…I cant just sit back and do nothing….

I fit help you reason that madam with sweet d, that will make her forget that vicent existed.

Alphonsus, full metal alchemist viewers can relate

privaldo:
Stfu afonja, he learnt it from the useless ewedu Oba Adeniran.
Onye ofemm@nu go to school you would not, it's grandad and not 'granddad'.

Why be say na Only Things like this Osu Nyamuri flat headed bastards like you dey learn from Yoruba, You cannot learn how to develop your region like the Yorubas, but you can learn Ritual killing, scamming, hate, jealousy, wickedness, kidnapping Murdering, drug trafficking, and also be perfect at it, more than those that thought you. Ojukwu don curse him Useless tribe, nothing good can come out of the Potopoto erosion and war ravaged shit hold called the Eastern part of Nigeria.
Ps: Be like say you no go school, Nyanmiri bastard check Granddad for dictionary efulefu, Omo Igbo

Igbo, Confused set of people, once tried to be the sole ruler of Nigeria, failed, tried to segregate ,failed, now trying to rule again. God should give this people direction, and remove there two faced nature.

BlestHanneSSG:
Proud of his his heritage indeed!

As you said I'm not a Yoruba by birth but a Yoruba by marriage and have too gorgeous Yoruba children.
When I showed hubby the post he celebrated it his own way and not by rubbing it in the faces of other tribes like others do purposely here to cause discord.

Alright.

Nchenches:
Yoruba highest political leader today was a drug dealer in America. He paid huge amounts of Dollars to the US government in exchange for court trial.

Idiot US does not work like that, what do you think CIA and FBI are for. Some of you will just open your Ignorant mouth wahhh. Most Drug dealers are from Igbo tribe, now you are here claiming rubbish fact.

PHijo:
From all you wrote, it is obvious you are ignorant! Which of Jonathan's kinfolk did he empower? Mention them let's know!

You talk as if Lagos is the only state in the South west! You guys should push for bills that will stop oil allocation from coming in, until then we know you are not serious. Ordinary subsidy removal you all cried. You are lucky Jonathan was a gentleman. I would have followed you guys up with fire and fury. Even if I wanted to sell a litre for 250 Naira I would have sold it and nothing will happen!

What assets does Nigeria use to obtain loan? Crude oil!
What income pays interest and principal? Crude oil!

Stop deceiving yourself here!

If Jonathan did a quarter of what Obasanjo did for Yoruba for Ijaw we will be eternally grateful. We are not ingrates like you. We knew that being detribalised Jonathan saw Nigeria as his constituency. He gave no special attention to Ijaw people. Yoruba and Igbo benefited more from him.

He helped revive Femi Otedola's comatose business.

Obasanjo helped Yorubas buy government assets in the hospitality, financial services and petroleum industries.

The privatisation process was rigged to favour Yorubas. As petroleum minister Obasanjo favoured Yoruba businesses.

Don't deceive yourself here! We know all they did.

Stop lying what did Obasanjo do for Yoruba. And you are still. Lying that GEJ did nothing for you folks, I know a Ijaw man that Collected 10million per year from the fed Government during GEJ time all because, he was from an Oil Producing state, why are you talking like an Ignorant fellow, is the south south the only region producing Oil, Lagos Ogun are both Producing Oil, so why should we not collect from the Oil we give to the Government, your fight is with the North, they are the ones eating your Resources and giving you peanuts. You want me to mention your kins men in Jonathans regime, let me give you one, Allison Madueke, who looted Nigeria to the Point of recession and is still on the run, Jonathans cabinet mostly full of South south and southeast were eating Nigeria Dry including the inept minister of finance Okonjo iweala, during his regime.

Lol Jonathan removed subsidy we removed his chance of a second term, now he is just an Ordinary peace keeping buhari appointee. It is not like you have proof for this rubbish Obasanjo did for Yoruba, Obasanjo who the road to his Home town lies in rot, Obasanjo the greedy Idiot who wanted 3rd term. Most thing he did was not to favor any Yoruba person, the Yoruba like otedola were just smart, saw the opportunity and grabbed it, In 2003, having identified an opportunity in the fuel retail market, Otedola secured the finance to set up Zenon Petroleum and Gas Ltd, a petroleum products marketing and distribution company.

As owner and chairman of Zenon, in 2004 he invested N15 billion in downstream infrastructure development. Nobody told your people to be inept
The loan we recently Collected from China, it was crude oil we used as collacteral right?

PHijo:
Yoruba were NEVER marginalised under Jonathan. You are just an entitled bunch of ingrates.

Jonathan's people never complained for the over 45 years you Yoruba and the Fulani held away at the centre. States and LGAs were created in an inconsiderate manner. The oil wealth of Jonathan's Ogbia LGA fed Nigeria for over 6 decades but people from Kastina and Ogun are deemed fit to waste and mismanage that wealth.

All you are doing, just know others are not stupid. God is on the throne and a day of reckoning will come.

What did Igbo people or any other group gain under Jonathan that Yoruba didn't gain?

The truth is, you guys are used to depriving other ethnic nations and your inability to reap where you didn't sow was what this whole political plot was all about.

I already mentioned what the other people gained under Jonathan, that Yoruba did not gain. You are just trying to be seriously Ignorant. Fulanis and Yoruba were at the center, are you dreaming or something, Abiola.was killed.by the Hausa bastard for trying to become a democratic President, Obasanjo the greedy bastard offered nothing to his people.in all his 8 years terms. Jonathan came to Power, took his tribes men into power, Igbos are just greedy bastards who can't take what they give to others.
Which stupid oil wealth fed,may be the north, Tinubu created LGA's in Lagos and for his 8 year term Obasanjo gave him Nothing like fed allocation.
Jonathans.5-6 years in charger of the Oil, they were still burrowing money to pay Civil servant workers, na Yoruba do that one too?
The current NDDC corruption saga na Yoruba dey do am too? I wonder how a country will.move forward with people.like.you self

PHijo:
The offline country is on the path of self destruction. Igbo people have a right to leave a country that is not working for them.
My grouse with them is that they don't want a homogeneous Igbo nation.

A fraudulent society like Nigeria that has refused to address her issues is on the path to death.

Another prediction, Most of you just talk like it is the country that is ruling her self, the country is the citizens acting in her. Are you not one of the many citizens trying to destroy the country? the corrupt politicians Decaying the country, are they not a product of the same society you came out from? I have come to the conclusion that most Nigerians, have a Big self caused problem, which they will seriously deny at any given opportunity, most of us are very unpatriotic, very clueless, don't even know the essence of a country.
The Igbos want to leave, who is stopping their many senators, Governors, from pushing for secession. When the the Igbos were in Government during GEJ regime, and the tables were turned, they were the ones benefiting the most, most of the top governmental Position were associated to their tribe, while the other tribes, Yoruba especially were seriously marginalized, were was their one voice then? Now the tables have turned, they want to seceed, only some idiots are saying the rubbish amongst them self.

PHijo:
It foolish to assume everyone is Igbo here. If you were not lazy you would have done a little background check.

By the way what is there to be proud of your offline country?

It will be a total waste of time, what value does it add to me checking who you are or not. It no new thing that most of the Nonentities who bad mouth biden here on this forum, are Igbos and Ipob who think trump has there interests at heart.
Atleast the Offline Country is in existence, same cannot be said of the so called ideology that can never die, there is always hope for the living. Hahah

PHijo:
No, the US made the right decision and corrected it!

At least if not anything, I am glad America has her own Buhari in Biden. When they are through with America, Americans will regret the day Obama was elected.

Only igbos see the buhari in biden.
PS:Trump was never going to support your failed online country, he never gave a mess

There is a reason we have rules, Man is nothing without rule. As a lady going to an Official Occasion intending to meet a male attendant. wearing Reavealing cloth is not expected, it will be distracting, and the society as already termed you as a slut. Men too should look good, you can't dress like a tout, looking for a managerial Job. Even Mark Zuckerberg wey dely always wear grey t-shirt no fit wear am go US Congress, na suit e go wear, jack owner of twitter dey do zoom meeting with US congress, na suit the guy wear, this one are now talking like uncultured mofos. Well i was once in their shoes, now i know better, thanks to my Dad.

BlestHanneSSG:
I'm sure this issue of bringing tribalism to every post/discussion on Nairaland will soon become a thing of the past by the time every sane person here realises it's just a mere tool to cause disaffection and hatred by agents of darkness who don't even have any love for this country. I bet you're not even a Yoruba person, not even if you can speak the language.

You're only working on people's mind so that the other tribes will attack you while you use your other monikers to fan the embers of discord you've just sown!

Kwantinueee...

He is proud of his heritage, you are the one who i think is not Yoruba. When they mention your own tribe to, make sure to show that you are proud of it too. Like no be the same Nairaland we dey,

DSC7:
If only the yorubas can stop asslicking the juntas.....


But damnnnn dey re bunch of hypocrites......

Says the not trustworthy Igbo flat headed mother fuckers. You want to know Hypocrites, the Igbos who left their shit hole to wrought in the hands of there senseless Governors, to condemn Yorubas that are far better than them are the real Damned slaved hypocrites who cannot think for them self. We don't want any thing to do with one, useless tribe from the eastern part of Nigeria, Na by force.

Jibsy203:
The are called afonjas for a reason,read the story of afonja you will understand very well..very hopeless and senseless cunning set of ppl that will even betray there own mother from de womb

This your life go sad alot... In real Life, I can bet you serve this same people you thrash on a face less forum. Na them dey feed you

DasaintHope:
Mark today's date. If Yoruba's do not get rid of Fulani while they still can, before 2023 they will no longer be Obas. We will have Emirs in places like ice.

Same in the east, Fulanis have satrted gunning down the Igwes there

ChoCho54:
The yorubas should learn to live in peace with the herdsmen, killer or not.

Lol you think say we no know say all those videos Aba media dey circulate na fake

Fixey:
Which begs for the answer why the presidency is he'll bent on fighting so hard each time there's an uproar against Herders or fulani people in skirmishes especially after they did wrong ?

I'm not a Yoruba but like to ask, did the Onto state just wake up to tell them they didn't want the people anymore?

Did Onto two weeks ago tell fulani people disguised under the emblem herdsmen to leave?


What right does the fulani have to dwell in forests so much so that the president would hold brief for them over the ESN that are dwelling in forests in an act of service to defend it's people so much so that the presidency would evoke all he'll to want them out of the forests.


Some years ago, the SW says this was thier presidency, not the one before it. What a shame if this is what allegiance can bring. Shameless servitude

Nonsense

BastardWike:
I don't if the problem with you afonjas is due to inherent proclivity to lies and propaganda that runs in your genes or faulty basic education.

Yes, a lot goes on in Abuja aside government offices. Do you think that economic output is only when a production facility is built? Do you know that hotels, construction companies, IT and other activities that place in private offices also generate economic output/value?

The op is myopic and didn't mention any coherent reason why Abeokuta made the list and why Aba and Nnewi among others didn't. Does abeokuta have more industries than Enugu?

So because Aba has bad roads now mean it is no longer an economic powerhouse?

Please go back to school and get some education, and make sure you carry both the op and Thatfairguy along.

Gosh, these afonjas are so unbelievable

What can be said of Abuja before the Government got there. Abuja that if the capital leaves there today, Not much will be said about the state.

Tranquillity360:
What is the direction of you yoruba.


And who care about ZOO president.

Lol you can only fool your self.

Tinubu has not done that much for Yoruba Land, No son of Yoruba has been able to.compared to Awolowo.

BastardWike:
This people and their useless propaganda all the time. Just look at how the idiat included abeokuta among economically important cities yet he excluded cities like Abuja, Aba, Enugu, Jos, Maiduguiri and Nnewi. Now, does this clown even understand the meaning of economically important? Tell me one area abeokuta is economically important to Nigeria? Should I list to you the numerous areas cities like Aba, Abuja, Nnewi etc are important to Nigeria so you can understand how myopic you are??

Shameless people, SMH.

What else is in Abuja except from the Government we have there?... And he explained why the other states, you mentioned, were not listed there. Try to read sometimes okay, he no hard at all.

NaijaRoyalty:
Yoruba people deserve what they're getting from their fulani masters .

Senseless people like you too are expected to comment sometimes.

AlphaLover:


I gree , infact my name na sicker

But if nor be ashewo born u and ur papa nor be bastard dm me ur digit

Until den ta!

Lol... People like you make mw laugh, i have met alot of you nonentity here, every thing na empty threat. Na only faceless forum you guys fit make mouth sha, we can't be on face book and you will talking this kind of shit... Mitcheeew..maggot.

AlphaLover:
I say broz if na woman way not be ashewo born u waka cum or all ur lineage go waste

But if na bastard born u nor do natin

Guy dm me ur digits or na dirty stinking ashewo born u

Back up ur talk na

Empty threat, if we see each other now, we know who go bend. The way yo talk self, someone will know that, the individual behind that moniker is a complete sickle cell like weakling.

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