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SHOCK7:
what I want 2 know,is why the last part of 'ur paragraph of not having a gf?

Biglittlelois:
Hehehe, so many còcksuckers here, he be feeling like a cele on a faceless forum here for the laughs

yeyeosoronga:
Because you trained even your relative through school doesn't mean you deserve a kidney, bros. It doesn't even mean you would offer them a kidney either despite freely giving up your money, if the tables were turned.
While it's unfortunate the gentleman in question is so Ill to need an organ transplant, his wife shouldn't be shamed into giving hers up unwillingly.
If she's noble and brave enough to do so, I would cheer her on and never discourage her not to. However, if she's also realistic enough and true to herself to decline giving up her kidney in the name of love, I would equally support her gidigban.

catwalq:
My bro is a lover. As for my sons,I'll teach em CLASS so they watch the kinda women they roll with( and I don't mean that in terms of money)... A king doesn't eat from the trash. They'll attract their kind

Blackivy29:
How many times do i have to ask.
Can i drink the red pill too. Cause this overhype is choking. And tempting.

Btw. You guys needed another guy to tell you, you were all being mugulized

yeyeosoronga:
Love has always been a scam in most relationships, and often used loosely to manipulate others. She doesn't love her husband, but nothing suggests her husband loves her either.
I wouldn't advice her to give her husband of 2 months her kidney if she's not comfortable doing so. It's as simple as that

catwalq:
And you've been watching

AntiBrutus:
Keep mentioning me.

There isn't one alfa male that I have earned a ban, who didn't go this path.

You are only fulfilling your part in the cycle.

Just like the others, you will fall off by the wayside...and I will still be here.

Don't ever stop mentioning that username.

It shows who is the olodo rabata. Let me add that to my titles.

AntiBrutus:
I thought he said he won't mention me again. Make I deactivate my account if he can...

Mrshape:
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Very true, an even number can only be archived by processing the odd number(s) with a function.

catwalq:
Its RARELY...

JasonScoolari:

scaramucci:
Never trust a book about women written by a woman. It is full of stuff the reveal those techniques the elite women no longer use. It won't tell you about their cutting edge antics. It is purely designed to keep you feasting on outdated knowledge.

stanley000:
it might look that way to u the author but trust me alot of guys especially matured folks are gaining alot of knowledge and experience and from your write-ups. What I normally do is convert your write-up to PDF and save it for a more convenient reading. ever since I discovered your thread I have become a master of my game. whenever I remember how poor me used to cry for little ugly babes way back then I feel so embarrass lol.


and sir,I will like you to give me advice on what to do. I had this girl I met close to my house and I talked to her on that first date we exchanged numbers. she was the first to call me and asked me some few questions like if I live alone bla bla. 3dats later she came to my house and we had sex, she stayed till Dawn but something happened, she logged in Facebook on my phone and started chatting her ex and I demanded to see the chat but she said that if I saw it I would be hurt, so I let it slide coz that ex is at another state far away.

but ever since that first time she began acting strange and kind of started demanding money every now and then. I do give her most of the time and the other ones I would decline but now she's acting like she's no more in love with me. I don't want to believe that it's that money part because even on our first date I gave her money just to test her and she didn't accept it. tilll date now she's been acting really wield and even when I go to visit her she will hardly smile. ever since that first time she has refused to come to my house and she's always giving lame excuses.
this is someone that we had a great time and she even let me take her nude photos as in like real nude photos not just soft ones. she was really into me and I could tell but everything just turn around suddenly. please boss I need your advice,. thanks

ubunja:
sometimes it does feel like it's time wasted. There are days when I'm too lazy even to write because I'm asking myself "do people even see value in all these threads?? "

Yar there are days like that.

What's more discouraging is that guys don't wanna share their stories on NL. I have a wealth of testimonies on my WhatsApp that if they were given on these threads they would be 10X more glorious.


But it's all good. We march on.

Katenavas:
Nigerians are learner, Indians are the most 419 people in the world

JasonScoolari:
Dear Nairaland moderators,


This is the type of topics we would like to see hitting front page as it celebrates, Hardwork, Dedication and Excellence.....

Not topics like;

-"Tacha slams Mercy for wearing N50 OK pants."

-"Toyin Abraham kisses her brand new husband in his ear drum"

1stKing:
starts with T ends with NO

yeyeosoronga:
Only few marriages are based on love, since time immemorial.
I don't support divorcing her husband based on illhealth , but she doesn't owe him her kidneys

Korllami007:
If she finds it irritating, she would have broken up with him.

Imagine this scenario, if your brother tells you that he's really caring and loving towards his girlfriend that's why he's paying her girlfriend's school fees, he's saving money to buy iPhone 11 for her and she also knows pin to his ATM cards, I'm pretty sure you will call him mumu and even detest his girlfriend because you will be thinking she's using your brother's head. But if you were his girlfriend, would you break up with him because of that?

ikorodureporta:
Kidney failure is a countdown to d end, ' cos afta d transplant, how long does it last?
Instead of putting d wif @ a risk too with only one, if they can't get a seller, then how wl they manage d post operation era??

Duggedised12:
oga,using love as a yardstick is part of the guilt shaming we are talking about. I can personally sacrifice anything ,but not my organ, so to each his own o, God will not send anyone to hell for that.

Duggedised12:
will she be able to bear children with one kidney? Cos i have seen some comments on that.

And like you said, its nit by force and no one should be guilty shames into doing anything.Kidney failure just doesn't come out of nowhere,if it is established that he knew about his condition and kept it a secret until it degenerated to this point ,then she should walk away.

And also ,she doesn't need any tangible excuse to refuse to give her kidney,its hers ,and she has the right to give or not. The choice is hers ,she doesn't need to explain to anyone her reason. I personally will not give a man i have no child for my kidney and that is that. Certain things need logic not emotions.

Midas01:
[s]Oh please shut up. The average man ditches his partner due to a life threatening medical condition and this is pure facts. Most women stick with their partners . Google it and cure your ignorance.[/s]

kongolo:
@Emboldened I think i just found my twin

hopefulLandlord:
interesting, any reason behind this?