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aviato:
Lol@"I have you where I want you". I think you watched a different video because if you read carefully you will see where it said he has been charged to court, if there was no evidence against him I wonder why he has not sued her for defamation or has not be acquitted. And you are saying this article is biased because of them reporting what happened, I really fail to see what is biased here.

And there is no need to descend into insults, Mr Martinez.

So because he didn't sue for defamation then he is guilty? Did Neymar sue for defamation? Did Ronaldo sue for defamation? I can sue you for being human and charge you to court but that doesn't mean being human is a crime. I can and I have the right to sue you for anything I deem offensive, criminal or even though I know I am lying. Haven't you seen where a man sued god? I watched the video and it was clear that the actor did nothing. The woman is an opportunist.

boiz2men:
Just like feminism, mgtow needs help. The mgtow is the male version of that gender cancer called feminism.


Feminist think men are their problems.

Mgtow thinks women are their problems.


Feminist and mgtow need lots of affection...

As I said, your opinion and contribution are off point and inessential. Strawman the mgtow men and movement all you like, misrepresent the mgtow men and movement all you like, in fact, abuse and ridicule all you want, facts remain facts and do not bend to anyone. Good day and merry in your bubble.

TheGenius001:
Hello house say it and free your mind

Mine is:
(1). I regret having to tell a girl, I truly loved, that I do love her. Cos ever since that day I made it known to her, everything changed. Tho we are still together. But I still regret telling her till date.


(2). Not having to graduate with a first-class despite being the best graduating of my set.

Share yours, dont feel depresed. Someone here may sooth or placate your mind.

You told her you love her and her ego skyrocketed and she started acting like you need her more than she needs you? She has also being exploiting your love to bargain, act recklessly and get her way? What about sex, she has been bargaining with that too?

Cc. 2019elections.

boiz2men:
Since no one has told you all this. I will.

Although I don't treat women any more than a guy.. The MTGOW or whatever is a very horrible gathering of men with low self esteem mixed with depression and frustration. You all need to be shown love... You all pretending women are the cause of your misery.

At one time I saw a thread where your messiah on NL took his mum and yours to the gutters,rubbishing her personality because she's a woman and you foools whose mums should have aborted applauded him...


Don't you all see? In your weak attempt to be alpha males to women , you have become beta males to your messiah. Like dogs waiting for crumbs from his masters table.

You all are not worthy to own a diick... I spit on you all.


Weak men....

Your contribution is inessential and off point. Shame the MGTOW all you like and strawman them all you like, the facts remain facts and don't bend for anyone. So long in your bubble.

funmisticqueen:
then you are a rape apologist and your wives and daughters deserved to be raped

You suppose he believes her without evidence?

aviato:
You can go and check the video out on YouTube, I merely shortened the sexual assault to assault.

I have you where I want you. I followed the case and watched the video. The actor did nothing, the woman was exaggerating and nothing like sexual assault occurred. Through out the encounter, which happened in public, the actor was sitted with his wife and the wife sat between the accuser and her husband. In fact, the accuser came to meet the couple and both shakedown hands for quite a while.

He did not physically assault her, he did not grope her breast. The article which you are listing as evidence is only reporting the accusation and it doesn't even say that the actor turned himself in. The article is also tilted towards the accuser's favour. Do your research before you propagate malign rumours and don't be foolish.

ubunja:
Assaulting.

not sexually assaulting

is it the same to you?

Did he really physically assault or sexually assault her in the presence of his wife? Did he really admit to physically or sexually assaulting her?

These are the questions aviato must clearly answer and I hope he doesn't prevaricate.

QueenSekxy:
Nonsense thread, I'm out!!
Martinez, prepare lemme take you out.

I'm sorry, I don't trade sex for marks. Your A+ must be merited. Try harder girl, I believe in you.

QueenSekxy:
Ewu

Okay, that's my girl. You are just picking up. You will need more that to score few more points to get a B-. I am impressed. Your journey to an A+ had just began — your first A+ in life. C'mon, I believe in you.

QueenSekxy:
I'm done with your little ass Mat.
Take care.

What?! Don't you want to get an A+ and make your parents proud? They've invested so much in you to let them down. Try harder, c'mon.

QueenSekxy:
Lol. Small boy.

I don't want to drive you into depression like the last time.


Enjoy your thread, but I will be watching.

You shouldn't give up on my assignment, you know. With enough hard work and ingenuity, you could get an A+. Try harder, fulfil your potential. Oh wait! You are giving up? Too bad!

Originalsly:
You should consider the society in which they're in. Some justice can only be had with the help of SM. You have to think three times before dating to go report certain matters... four times of you're a nobody.

Oga, what justice? Justice without evidence? Coming out on social media and getting people support doesn't prove a damn thing. Instead, in event of gathering public support, you ruin a man's reputation and life without evidence. Let her go to the police and file a law suit first. Coming to social media is pointless. Knowing fully well that coming to social media and gathering the support of majority doesn't prove a thing, why is she coming out on social media instead of going to the authorities? What is the whole point of this?

QueenSekxy:
Answer me first.
Thought you've deactivated and left nairaland for good according to You?

Oh I forgot, only on nairaland you get the attention you are being deprived off in real life.

Wow, I would give you a C+ for that. I know you can do better. Try harder, I am waiting.

QueenSekxy:
Lol. Thought you've left nairaland finally this boy? What brought back your coconut head here? This place was a bit sane when you stopped posting those your craps, you know.

Shaming language are outdated. C'mon, I know you can try better than that. Now impress me, come up with something better.

ubunja:
you don't get it do you?

you'll just push the conversations to where YOU won't see them. WhatsApp groups etc.

why do you think the political parties first banned end up ruling the country? you think people are quiet but discussions are now happening in the shadows. and what's in the shadows is dangerous because that's where moderates meet with extremists. all the time you think all is quiet and peaceful in the world.

say I'm lying. I dare you

even mynd44 himself if he's a man his day is coming. women are out for blood. it's only a matter of time. lol.

Funny enough, men foolishly think that some women still have their interest at heart. Every man is in danger and with the proliferation of feminism and liberal madness by the courts and social media, it won't be long before they start coming for all men — both the alpha men and manginas.

Hasn't it occurred to you that the so called conservative women who claim to hate third wave feminism and love their men and equality have never been recorded protesting and actively campaigning against the biased divorce laws and child support laws? Have you ever seen them actively protest against women receiving low jail time compared to men? Is this a mistake? Of course not. Women are united when it comes to exploiting men and using us a foot mats and tools to getting resources and free passes but men are divided — some are simping while, some are red pilled. Any group divided against itself cannot stand.


All women are third wave feminists and there are two types : those that are spoken and those that are silent and pretending. Conservative women claim to hate feminism but they like and embrace the benefits of feminism in divorce courts. Third wave feminism (the masculinity envying and free pass seeking feminism that hate responsibility but want privileges), is simply the female nature unrestrained.

If men can't stand for themselves, they are finished.

QueenSekxy:
I'm watching you all.

Any Nonsense, I will be ready to call the mods to.close this thread.

Yeah. Censorship : the last resort of the squeamish minded when they can't reason anymore.

ubunja:
Most men are emotional when it comes to pussy and women because they came from pussy and from women

As in. Once pussy is involved, they become devoid of reasoning. I am usually disgusted when I see men saying rubbish like "I believe her," "the accused should step down or be shunned until his name is cleared"(can you imagine the selfishness and disunity amongst men?) etc. Men don't know their real enemies when pussy is involved.

They forget that what happens to Mark tomorrow is happening to them. Because we all have women harboring grudges against us.

Exactly! Many men are usually selfish, irrational and emotional when it comes to sympathising with women on this issue. They would, without evidence, even deride the accused(their fellow) and espouse the idea of "believe women" just to make the accuser feel happy and comforted.

They seem to forget that they could be accused tomorrow by any lady and they are oblivious of the fact that, with their foolishness and weakness, they are, together with women, creating a system where any man's life and reputation can be destroyed by an accusation. How these men fail to spot such immense danger baffles me. Even more baffling is that it never occurs to them that they could be accused tomorrow and they never put themselves in the shoes of the accused.

This same arrogance and selfishness are the same reasons why many of them in the western world are still getting married. They believe the ones who were raped in divorce courts are from another planet and their case would be different because their wives would be different and, you know, a NAWALT. Such arrogance, stiff-neckedness and selfishness only clears from their minds when they find themselves in the situation of the men who were raped in divorce courts.

Cuba Gooding Jnr just got accused of sexual harassment and HE WAS EVEN WITH HIS WIFE WHEN IT HAPPENED.

Shît is getting crazy!!!!!!

Very soon, MGTOW would be censored and become illegal. In fact, its already happening on YouTube. I blame the men who bent and simped for these women. These nonsense can't happen if all men stood in solidarity and fought for their interests.

Recently, Busola Dakolo came out in public to accuse the general overseer of COZA, Pastor Fatoyinbo, of sexually abusing her many years ago. As expected, I was treated to an exhibition of prudent and, for the most part, pathetic decision making abilities of many Nigerians. If you took a neutral stance on this issue and demanded that sound evidence must surface before Pastor Fatoyinbo is declared guilty and convicted of rape then you are prudent and wise. If you took either side despite lack of evidence, then you are foolish and your foolishness is very dangerous.

When a rape allegation is made, the proper approach should be to remain neutral until sound evidence surfaces to either validate or invalidate the claim of the accuser. Being neutral doesn't mean that you doubt the accuser, it simply means that you are not going to assume a thing or play "I believe you" for either the accused or accuser instead you shall follow where the evidence leads. Whether you like it or not, the accused is to be presumed innocent until proven guilty.

Coming out on social media and winning the support of the majority doesn't prove a damn thing. As long as there is no evidence, the accused must be presumed innocent until proven guilty even if the whole world believes the accuser. To create a mob system where evidence is ignored and emotions are supreme is detrimental to both men and the real rape victims, most especially men. In such system, it is made clear that the reputation and life of any man can(with the help of the naive and foolish majority) be destroyed if a woman can accuse such man of rape and reels out a touching, emotional and Oscar worthy display.

The result of this is that once a woman harbors any enmity towards any man and wants to deal with him, she accuses him of rape and his life is ruined at the drop of a hat. Also, if a woman can't overcome you in any dealing or have her way with you, she can accuse you of rape and deal with you. If a woman wants to extort money from you, a rape accusation is the means to that end. Whether you like it or not, this opportunity will be exploited by women themselves and history has shown this to be case. We men really have to be careful with the way we lose our heads for pretty vag1nas and with the rashness we employ when we try to please these women. Under such system, men are not safe and men will pay dearly for their simping and servitude towards pu5sy.

Men must take a firm neutral stand on this issue, espouse due process and stifle the effort of any individual or group that tries to demand that we believe women blindly and convinct, without evidence, those accused of rape. It's for the good and safety of men. Is it until you are rotting in jail after many years that you will realise that reasoning and evidence are superior to emotions? Is it then that it would dawn on you that anyone, even your friends, relatives or blood, can be a malicious liar? Is it until you lose your job because your boss believed a woman who falsely accused you that you will realise all men have to place reasoning and evidence above emotions and drama? Is it until your loved one becomes a victim of jungle justice after being falsely accused that you will realise all men have to place reasoning and evidence above emotions?

Under such system, false rape allegations becomes a banality(thanks to the human affinity for opportunism and our excellent deceptive capacities) and no one takes it seriously anymore and this affects the real victims. I would be naive to expect women to reason this and take the needed moral and rational stance but hey, "why stand up for my fellow women who are suffering when I can falsely accuse Neymar and get $350,000 from him?" the cruel and opportunistic woman ponders. Women are their own enemies.

Another thing that is tenaciously utilised by these women are the excuses they give to account for why they didn't bring their claims to the police or court of law when the abuse occurred but had to come out many years after the event. These excuses are the usual "I was dealing with the pain, it takes time to deal with the pain," "Rape is rape and I can speak anytime," etc. As ludicrous and silly as these may sound, I don't want to arrogantly dismiss anyone's experience but there is a problem. If you had concentual sex with a girl eight years ago before you became a celebrity or a very wealthy person, she can falsely accuse you eight years after the event and use such excuses. A girl could just wake up one morning and accuse you of raping her thirty six years ago while effectively using these silly sounding excuses.

Who shall we believe and what shall we do? Well, you don't need to believe, take a neutral stance and demand evidence and due process. Whether you like it or not girls falsely accuse men of rape for even petty reasons eg. You didn't give her money, you didn't let her unduly stay in front of you in the ATM queue, you didn't accept her greenlight etc. It might sound weird but it's true.


... to be continued


Edit: This has been continued on a new thread.









Ubunja, johnydon22, CAPSLOCKED, JOHNNYSPUTE, CosmicPhoenix, MJBOLT, Regiomontanus, budaatum, trollkiller, Seun, lalasticlala, mynd44, Ishilove, HardMirror, XxSabrinaxX, Michellekabod2 aka Michellekabod, LordReed etc.

I am sure some Nairalanders have been victims of Internet fraudsters and/or have nearly been victims on certain occasions. If you fit into any category, share your story. How were you duped? How did you nearly become a victim? What did you wish you had known or what precautions did you wish you had taken to avoid being victim?

Share so we can learn. Your story will benefit others.









NB: This will be my last thread and last post on nairaland. This forum has been wonderful but, just as many things, my time here has an end. This info is irrelevant and deserves no fvcks from anyone but I still gave it out.

Edit : I am back.

XxSabrinaxX:
Unstoppable...

Stoppable.






Nb: no vex just comment and leave me alone.

RoyalBlu:


Agreed, this picture you've painted is of a man who's got little time to be in the house. But las las he will still lay down with his woman, have some personal moments with her. In those intimate times, he can praise his wife, voice his worries, make corrections... A wise woman should be able to put everything together and let things work smoothly.

Work load too much

Let her get a help.

Oil dey your head. I would have gotten you a Benz for this but I heard you only drive Bentley so I wouldn't bother.

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felixomor:
This one is still in pains

Hello, longest times

Long time no see.

thorpido:
You shouldn't have posted on the thread cos it's obvious you still don't comprehend.

Indeed my post was irrelevant to the topic but your replies to me were irrelevant to my point that T.D. Jakes is an scam.

This is a man doing something,making advancement,changing lives.He's here celebrating his wedding anniversary

He is also fleecing people with the rubbish called christianity.

What are you doing with your life apart from criticizing and living from hand to mouth?

I am living my life happily and as I want it.

Contumely:
How do you explain to Nigerians that won't mind their business?

And do you think you will ever regret it?

Oga, you owe no one any explanation. Personally, I don't want to get married but I want two children from surrogate mum(s). That's how I want it and I owe no one an explanation.

See, people are going to talk but they can't stop you from doing what you are going to.

^^^
Must you?

They should free the man abeg. Can't he be happy around children in peace?

tydi:
Madam you're deviating from the topic probably cus you became so angry to read the post to the end.
summary of what he was trying to pass out is that women whom has taken the pill called feminism should sit their ass up and stop being lazy dirty and stupid which is also harmful to their hygiene.

Thank you o. They are trying to make me guilty of generalization and shame me into "defeat." Refreshing to see another sensible soul on this thread.

thorpido:
Foolish people do not evaluate.They just lump everyone together.Not surprised.

This is a man celebrating 37yrs of marriage.Again,I ask you,why has your own life remained the same after many years?

My post had nothing to do with his marital success. Why are you still a sheeple? Is this how you will carry your gullibility to the grave with you?

lilwetdick:
is this an attempt to save face and build your NL bad boy reputation, Mr Virgin

I don't strive to build a bad boy reputation. Those who try to be bad boys are simply boys trying to up their game in getting girls. That's childish, vain and immature and I do not partake in such vanities. There is so much more to life than girls. I am only good at being myself. I am a virgin and I see nothing wrong in that. What's wrong in virginity? I am not like you who derives a sense of being and self esteem from laying girls, getting their attention and validation. I don't strive to be a bad boy and I only be myself at all times.

you just show an attitude of a loser who is still suckling..instead of facing confrontation like a man you claim you are..you went to a corner to complain so that you can get support/attention from your association of fellow losers.

Online confrontation is not a sign of a man. Since I attained mental maturity and exposure before you and since you still lack both, let me school you. Winning arguments and having the last say in an argument are not a necessity. It's not a must to always prove a point. Sometimes you have to walk away and let the idiot(s) swim in their stupidity. In fact, you may even let them have the last say in an argument and give them a false sense of victory so that you can have your peace. It's not a must to prove a point.

The set of people who think having the last say and launching personal attacks give them the upper hand in an argument are what humanity called fools and you are one of them. Notice how you are selective in picking out only certain points of my write up in the desire to throw insults.


Anyway, I promised not to respond but I broke my promise. Just have the last say so that you can sleep well at night. I am waiting.

BrokenCock:
... For ur mind u think u make sense. Check your 'likes' and see u are alone in the dark

If you are wise, you should know that validation and having numbers behind you don't necessarily mean that you are right. Reasoning and facts don't care whether the masses acknowledge them or not.

^^^^
^^^^

Lol. Someone can't realise that not everyone is like him and he is having a hard time grasping that a 13 year old can be very exposed and so mentally mature. Even though I made it clear that I received a lot of unmistakable "green lights" many times, he still insists that I was unsuccessful in get a girl to like me and hence frustrated — talk about selective reading. Logical consistency and rationality are not to be expected from him.

I am not obliged to keep on responding hence I shall let him and his gf let out their pain and have the last say if it makes them feel better.