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I don't see anything wrong here except your ego is too large. She is providing while he does the chores and other things; this is just how it is in a traditional household with genders switched.

If the guy was assisting in the house chores while he provided 100% in the past, I could understand the mild betrayal of his wife going fully traditional on him now that the tables have turned. That is why you must swallow the red pill. Your wife, including all women, won't cut you any slack when they are in charge and you depend on them no matter what you have done for them in the past. For every penny she spends providing, she must get it back from the husband in form of the traditional roles of a wife (that's the best she can do now). She won't cut him some slack. It doesn't matter if he pampered her and never demanded traditional roles from her. Even if he says "taking care of the kids is too stressful," as many women do to cunningly avoid the responsibility of doing house chores alone and make their beta simp husbands assist them in the chores, his wife won't be having any of that.

This is why I shake my head at the beta provider men that help their wives wash plates and shout "your wives is not a slave." They don't know the pepper, slavery and disrespect that are coming to them from their wives when they go broke and their wives are financially in charge. I won't be surprised if the woman is keeping late nights and openly playing with other men to the knowledge of the husband. Let's not even talk about the disrespect and rude attitude (especially in the way she talks to him). Let's not talk about the resentment she will have at "broke useless husband," and the sexless nights.

OP, tell your friend to carry his cross and try to get his money up. You can't expect a woman (or man) to provide 100% and do the chores when the other person is there. Finally, hope that a higher bidder doesn't come along because she will monkey branch and take the kids. It pays to take the red pill.

^{NB: I am being objective here. I don't want to sugarcoat anything. Try not to bring your emotions into this.}

NigeriaB:
Yes bro, I have thought about the whole scenario and this is why I wish to bring it to an end...

I will stop enabling the situation. Thanks bro

Your op shows you are confused, and you lack some spine. It's not too late to do the right thing. Stop giving her money, forget about her, and move on. I know you can do this.

SweetCunt97:
Give and it shall b given back to you. Atleast for d sake of d kid. Too bad she allowed d good for nothing man rope her with lies. Mtcheeew

A big lie peddled by religious books and the gullible. He has no business catering for another man's wife. He shouldn't put himself in a position where he is financially responsible for her, and her kid isn't his responsibility. Let her and her husband carry their cross.

blinkz4real:
"Can u take care of me" is not always what ur small mind is telling u she is thinking. She could mean can u be my support system, can I really share my thots n feelings 2 u n u won't tk me 4granted or tk advantage of me, can I confide in u, can u be a person who can advise her on d right path 2 success. How abt that?

Don't always think its ur money she is after bros, have respect 4 women pls n if others do it don't assume all of dem re like that.

Moreover u re the man are u not suppose 2 take care of ur woman? Anyway sha its for matured n responsible men 2 undstnd but pls try 2 reason things positively n u ll c women respect n adore u.

See the way you are dribbling yourself and scoring own goal.

Junnior:
What are the reasons

I will compile them and give you tomorrow on my meme thread. I dey watch match, no vex.

Skepticus:
Martiñez39s, this your man dey para gan oooo

I'm having a fit here MGTOWs still dey learn work.

Simps can make redpill men mad.

mahvellux:
You are such a sadist and a low life..now I see why you say you've never had sex and Now I tell you,you probabily never will because no reasonable girl would want lay with you cos your so ugly, weak, stingy,broke nd immature..I understand #blackneo as trying to free woman frm pussy slavery.. but preaching hate of the opposite gender is bad..
There is a diffrnce btw being a bad guy nd being a jerk nd a total dick.

Mandela27:
His sister looks like chucky

Seun is handsome, smart, and rich. I just hope he has swallowed the redpill to complete the mix.

anslem04:
All things be clarified i think the thread is still in line, moving frm redpill to game is like undergraduate to post graduate studies

True, in a way. Game is a field on it's own in which one can become an expert. In game, you don't just know, you practice.

One assertion i have come to reckon with is "LIfe is a Game" whether we take the pad/controller or not, the match is on. martinez i don't know you in person, buh a bit concern .... get a woman bro afterall you're immune. there mama !

You are right, life is a game. Romantic relationships/the dating market is a game, and women are playing the game whether we men are playing or not. Personally, I choose to remain a monk because it's just the way I like and there are many reasons why I like my lifestyle. At the end of the day, you do the one you like. I am not against gaming.

anslem04:
@martinez39s what is the essence of a knowledge that will never be tested ... i think redpill is more appropriate for handling women than avoiding women. blackneo i can relate

Redpill and game are two different things. Redpill is simply the truths on female nature and behaviour and other peripherals. Game is just tricks and techniques on how "get" women. Game is AN application of the redpill. To be a very successful gamer, you must walk in light of the redpill and common sense. It's unavoidable. Game teaches you the right methods to get women, Redpill just teaches you about women. You can be redpilled and not be a gamer.

Game is not the only application of the Redpill. In our daily lives, we deal with women whether we are Redpill or not; the Redpill will come in handy when we have to avoid being manipulated in whatever way by women, and in putting women in their place and treating them appropriately and accordingly. Many nairalanders use Redpill and game interchangeably because ubunja combined both without making a distinction. Pùssy and handling women accordingly are the end goals of game; wisdom, enlightenment, and handling women accordingly are the purposes of Redpill knowledge.

Omar09:
Donovan Sharpe is good but CRP is better.

Donovan Sharpe is very redpill, but the hope he is selling to american guys to venture into the dating market over there is dangerous. Many guys think that they can be dominant and maintain frame in a marriage in gynocentric America where the wife is given too much power over the husband. The divorce courts don't care if you are alpha or beta, or if the frame you are maintaining is made of steel. If one is stupid to married over there, the divorce courts will grind you to pieces. There are even new laws that treat a man and his girlfriend as married couples if they have stayed long enough.

Donovan Sharpe is good but just like Richard Cooper, they are selling pious hopes for cash. The difference is that Richard Cooper is arrogant and charges exorbitant fees for his unnecessary services (I have no problem with that, after all it's his service). I stand to be corrected on Donovan Sharpe tho, I only listened to some of his podcast back then.

shekauvsbuhari:
you guys no go kill me for nairaland. But honestly, I have received help from about two ladies before. Total strangers. I understand what U mean but being mean to all because de majority of them are bad is like an overkill to me.

If you have received help from ladies, keep on helping in return. When I and others receive help from ladies, we will help in return. We are not being mean, let's just say we have different experiences. Shikena.

mattfeuter:
Not to derail or offend any MGTOW here, but I’ve always shared this sentiment.

Like , why letting these women go to waste ? Lol

Staying away means feminism will be on the rise which is clearly evident in this day and age

You already have control over yourself , now it’s time to apply all that knowledge and dominate.

Again, these are just my personal thoughts, no disrespect intended to anyone.

Lol. People should do well to research ideas they know nothing about. The goal of MGTOW is not to hurt women or hypergamy, we don't give a shit, and we don't have a vendetta against women. MGTOW are simply men who shun marriage, short or long term romantic relationships with women, and cohabitation with women. In place of these, they seek to live their lives on their own terms (usually self improvement). Being MGTOW doesn't mean you can't play the game or have sex with any woman of your choice. Being MGTOW doesn't mean you can't put women in their place. The only MGTOW men that don't want sex are MGTOW monks.

Alexgman1:
she is such a nice person.

Well, since you don't want to grow some balls, keep considering her niceness and watch as your foodstuff and resources get depleted. I don talk my own.

Miggs:
Like i said before,many of you guys dont just get it .If it had the lady with the umbrella and the guy just stood under it just like that,the lady would have screamed "Will you get out of here!! Ordinary umbrella you no fit buy! Useless man! E won take style molest me"
By the way,women are attracted to men who say NO to them

Gone should be the days when rich men will pick up a girl that has nothing, polish her, and give her the whole world. Women wouldn't do you such favour no matter the billions they have in their bank account, and we are in the era of equality and feminism that women craved for so much. This is not hatred, it's called appropriate treatment. If your male friends were parasitic, ungrateful, and entitled as these women, would you still think of being kind to them in situation where they wouldn't help you out if they had the means? Would you even think of tolerating some inconvenience or making sacrifices for them? No one is saying we should hate women, and I am not stopping anyone from helping women. I will just do what I deem fit.

Mandela27, don't develop hatred for women neither should you become a mister nice guy and blue pill simp. We don't have huge hatred for wild tigers even though wild tigers will kill us if given the chance. Just accept female nature and live with it. I know it hurts to think about your past simp years and how you have been used. Take heart and make sure you heal.

Alexgman1:
Its not as easy as u tink. We av formed dis gud and
non-romantic bond.

Can't you maintain this "bond" if you declare that she should stop visiting you for a while and you need your space?

ElasmoBranchii:
You are not getting my point at all. If you go through my intial comments you will see I have been advocating putting your needs first, don't sacrifice yourself.
What I'm against is saying you can never help a girl.

I was on a queue and the next in line to use the ATM machine. A pretty lady came up to me ask if she could use the machine that she has somewhere urgent to go. I had to tell her to join the queue not because she would have told me the same if I was in her position but my first priority was to use the machine any other thing is irrelevant to me.

She later told me that she will have her revenge, one day I will need her help and she will do the same thing( crazy bitch)

Are we not saying the same thing? The mistake is from you. You thought I was advocating hatred towards women whereas I was only saying men should put themselves first and treat women the way women would treat them in a particular situation. Also note that too much kindness and unearned privilege given to women by betas/nice guys invariably create a huge sense of entitlement. Too many nice guys and betas have been letting her use the atm machine ahead of themselves so she feels entitled to it. If someone is used to preferential treatment, equal treatment will be like discrimination or unfair treatment. I am not saying we should hate women.

ElasmoBranchii:
This is a slippery slope she might, she might not but that doesn't matter. Two wrongs don't make a right.

I will use the umbrella case to illustrate, let's imagine after the girl goes home, she says ”Because a guy refused to help me today I decide never to help a guy again". Then the next day a guy asked her for a favor which is within her power to do but she refuses because she doesn't help guys. Now the guy goes home and says the same thing...

You see where this is going, it's completely irrational.

What makes you think women store your good deeds in their emotional bank account and would repay you or other men in kind when the situation arises? We are not saying you should hate women, we are saying you should treat them how they treat you in a particular situation. After all, are we not in the era of feminism and equality? Forget about what a woman will think of men, she will always do what she wants whether you are helpful or not.

Look at husbands that have been super kind to their wives and have tolerated "equality" in their household (to the extent of assisting in the house chores even though they pay the bills), and look at those that have been dominate and ruled as alpha males. Is there any difference in the way they are treated by their wives when they grow broke and their wives are now making massive money? NO! Forget about what a woman will think of men, she will always do what she wants whether you have been helpful or not. Treat them accordingly and appropriately, and don't die or inconvenience yourself trying to please or protect a woman.

Miggs:
Many of you guys simply dont get it. If you were in a similar situation the lady was in, she would NEVER have asissted you even if she had a billion in her bag. Infact she would have been disgusted by you asking her for help. For goodness sake, start treating these women how they treat you men.

Exactly! If ship is sinking, I can't be among those shouting "women and children first." I put myself first and fight for my survival. I won't be like the men that died when the titanic sank because women will still embrace feminism and tell you with scorn how they are strong and independent and don't need your protection.

phoenix90:
You’ve got to learn to respect people’s spaces, right. This is a dogma he’s trying to imbibe right now, so a doubting view from closet Betas who claim to be redpillers can easily mar the whole process. Just give him his space.

There is no personal space on this public forum except you want to run to the diary section. Besides, have I ever disrespect his space or spewed hatred at him? I don't usually comment here to derail his thread. When people ask me a question here, I carry the answer and subsequent discussion to my meme thread so as not to derail his thread. Closet betas who claim to be redpillers (whosoever he considers them to be) are not his problem as longer as he ignores them and keep on posting his contents. His results are what will speak for him not shouting "haters and so, stay off" or throwing the beta label.

As regarding the issue with skepticus, you need to know where we are coming from with our comments. Skepticus is foud of spotting and calling out PUA scammers. He judged Blackneo too early, and I told him that blackneõ is actually one of us, he should hear Blackneõ to the end, and if he turns out to be a pua scammer or his methods fail, we can call him out or offer our corrections. As simply as that, we are not saying that we want him to fail. We are just following and enjoying him, and we want to see his results to know if he is worth his stuff. Though I am sceptical for cogent reasons, but that shouldn't be his business. His results will speak for him.

SweetCunt97:
Guy it's not third world War! Y d hate? Abi one girl infected u with one disease hence d hate?

OP said he wanted to stop her from coming, I told him how to stop her from coming. What's wrong?

Alexgman1:
She even knw where i hide my key incase am not around and there is light.

She has cleverly infiltrated you. Next time, don't give girls such free hand with you. They will abuse it and it will lead to great sense of entitlement. Some guys fall prey to this, and it gets so bad that these bitçhes will be dragging these guys' tv remote with them in the guys' house.

If you respect your hard earned money and properties (food stuffs) it acquired, don't waste them on a leech. Keep your keys with you, and do as I have directed. Be ready to lose your "friendship" if it comes to that. Personally, I would have been direct in telling her to stop coming to my house. Just do what I told you.

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comeby my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church. But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely. How do i politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).
This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

Tell her to stop coming. Is there any other way? She has cleverly infiltrated you, and she is draining you. Anyway, since you can't be direct, when next she knocks on your door, tell her "your timing is awkward. I want to be alone, and I don't want any visitors for next one week. Come back later." Keep doing this.

If she gets angry and start distancing herself, don't be surprised. If she tries to infiltrated harder, don't be surprised. Just stand your ground like a being with balls.

Priam:
Honestly, could these guys just let the OP be and allow him space to expound his own views on the game aspect of redpill.

It speaks volumes of the kind of individuals you are that you're waiting for him to make a slight mistake and slip so you can devour him; what arrogance! Like, who made you the sole authority in matters of redpill?

I am not waiting for him to make a mistake. I don't even wish for him to make a mistake. I don't consider myself an authority on redpill issues. There is no leadership or creed in the redpill manosphere.

As I have said, I am curious to see his results. All I simply said was that if he turns out to be another PUA clown like the ones we had in the past, we will call him out. Those who have the best interest of men will call out PUA scammers who prey on men's hope for easy pùssy and extort money from them. So far, I have seen nothing wrong in the OP's contents, and I have never called him a scammer. His work is interesting and I am following. Did I not stand for the OP when someone came hard on him? Didn't I say we should hear him out to the end? Please do read my post very well.

Martinez, you've been telling all who care to listen about how you're a redpill monk who's never had sex, well good for you and the lifestyle you choose to follow. But I hope you know that'd be a difficult strategy to propagate in Nigeria where most people would like to have a family of their own. And since you have your own redpill thread, please preach you gospel of monk mode there, you'd still have people interested in that.

I am not forcing my ideology on anyone, and I never did. If you followed this thread closely, you would see that I erroneously thought OP was asking for the next step after the redpill, and I was sincerely lending a helping hand. I didn't know he wanted to tutor those that needed help. In fact, I later followed his post and I saw his intentions clearly. I am a MGTOW monk, and I don't force it on others.

Women will always be with us, there's nothing anyone can do about that. What BlackNeò is trying to do is hand out tools and strategies to enable men efficiently traverse their interaction with women.

Do I not know this? Am I stopping him? Am I stopping anyone from listening to him? As I clearly stated, I am not against anyone playing game.

BlackNeo:
All the Betas masquerading and calling themselves Redpillers, I see you all. However, I will ignore. I have said it from the start:

1) If you are not interested in Gaming, stay off
2) MGTOW, stay off
3) Book sellers, stay off
4) So called "redpill experts" stay off

Look, this is not a pissing contest. I have only come here to help those who need help. To save the little I can save. I am not here seeking clout. Online fame is not for me. I don't have Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. I never had a Nairaland Account. I viewed as a guest.

I registered in this way to do my little. I only need guys who are tired and who don't know. If you feel you are an authority create your thread. Don't be a Beta idiot. Create your thread and teach your opinions.

What you are doing is derailing the thread. People who truly need help will have difficulty getting it when you are here competing over superiority of views. I only mentioned Ilegend because he is truly a beta. And I will never allow a Betas views to be mixed with mine. Just check his posts and judge if he's not worse than the most disgusting Betas. What makes him worse is that he even bandies these views and sells them producing more Betas.

So stay off. If those who truly need help don't shut you down, I will close this thread and vanish. At this stage in my life I have no time for pissing contests.

Go create your thread big boss. Just like I created mine. Everybody on their lane.

Any more rubbish on my thread, I close it!

Go ahead with your redpill/game contents. No one is competing with you or stopping you except you want to stop yourself. I wonder where you got this idea that people are competing with you or others for superiority. There is no power contest here, it's just people throwing different ideas as usual. You need to realise this is a public forum and no matter how much you shout "MGTOW stay off, red pill expert stay off, ..." those that want to enter this thread will still enter. Shouting "stay off" doesn't work here. If you truly want to help people and you are serious about it, you will ignore and keep on posting your contents. If you feel this thread is being derailed, nothing stops you from taking time to compile your contents and posting them at once (even on a new thread).

Whether you like it or not, your followers are here, your enemies are here, and those that are curious or sceptical and are awaiting the results of your methods so as to scrutinise/review/criticize them are here (after all, you promised to put your methods in practice). That's what a public forum is all about, and there is nothing you can do about it. If you are really serious about helping people, nothing can stop you from releasing your contents except you are not really serious about it. If you come to a public forum, and you are easily disturbed by the intrusion of diverse ideas and opposition, this place isn't for you and you should consider the diary section or a secret WhatsApp group where you can have all the control.

Every redpiller, you included, on this forum can't escape haters, scrutineers and critics. Of your own accord, you promised to demonstrate your methods, and those that want to see the results of your methods for whatever reasons are watching, commenting and waiting. Either you keep chidishly whining and throwing the beta label, or you go on with the work you are bent on doing if your are a serious person with genuine intentions. Let your results speak for you. No matter what you write, as long as you are on this public forum, you and your results can't escape diverse opinions, scrutiny, and criticism. Others before you faced it, and your case won't be different.

Posting redpill contents that all redpillers here already know and have said, and shouting "stay off," "stay on your lane," etc are wastes of time if you don't have results. Show results, and you had better not be another Donovan Sharpe because you won't flourish here (redpillers will make sure of that as we did to other pua clowns), and you would only make yourself a laughing stock. If you want to help others and you are serious about it NOTHING can stop you on this forum except the mods. Just know that if you quit today, you did it because you wanted to.

^{NB: I have nothing against you. I support most of your content so far. You just have to come to terms with the fact that you are on a public forum.}

Descortes:
In your thoughts: She got a rich and very generous man who pays her monthly alawee. Why can't i get someone like that


at times we don't get to have what we're too desperate for..
Dey wait for man wey go carry your financial burden...

You go OLD

Liliantalks:
Jealousy is an inevitable snicky feeling , it’s a feeling that you always are in denial of ,, maybe cause u don’t want people to see you as a bad person, but truth is it happens to everyone but they never want to admit it, but here in a faceless forum, I think we should talk about it , how do u cope and how did u overcome . For the first time I feel like I am jealous of someone , I really don’t want to , but it’s happening , I really want to get rid of the feeling but hasn’t been easy , I hv watched a lot of YouTube videos in other to stop , it helps! but not enough. I know my own blessing is coming , I hv pep talk myself million of times. But the feeling won’t go away. Been in denial about it but just kinda admitted to myself , that it is what it is.
The feeling of why can’t i get it when she got it , now she would feel she’s better than me. I feel like totally avoiding this person, but she hasnt done enough for me to take such action. Yeah it’s a crazy feeling. How do you overcome this feeling..

To the self righteous that’s gonna write nonsense on this thread. Na you get ur mouth .

Jealousy is felt by everyone. It's part of being human. What separates good people from bad people is letting the feeling of jealousy overwhelm one and influence one's decisions. Don't try to stop the feeling, you can't, just follow your head and be happy for your friend, wish her well, and don't have any ill intention towards her.

One thing you must also realise is that life is not fair. Some will have, some will not. Just work hard and hope for the best.

COOL10:
Lol,we're getting our whips ready .

I do have a feeling he might deliver though

I have cogent reasons to be sceptical given some things he said earlier. As I have said, let's hear him out till the end.

correctyourself:
Such women are just been goldigger, is she not aware sex it's involved in marriage and she gave her consent for the marriage? And she thinks her husband must seak her consent for sex, does she ask for her husband consent before her husband take charge of the responsibility of fending for her?

If she is sick does she ask for his consent before she gets treatment, nonsense

Don't mind her. Why doesn't she just walk away from the marriage instead of complaining? If the husband fails to provide, she will nag the hell out of him and disrespect him. If I were the husband, I would divorce her silly ass instead of raping her.

Skepticus:
I hope Blackneo disappoints my expectations of him being another PUA-centric clown (To me, full PUAs are men desperate for female validation and in fact, they end up validating women rather than being validated), but so far from what I've read from him is what Red-Pillers and MGTOWs yap about all the time, except for his encouragement of marriage. It's impressive to me and I liked and shared his opinions, likewise others.

Indeed. He has been impressive so far in most of what he says.

My criticism of him came off from the PUA-centric vibe he gave in his comments at the beginning of the thread, his ignorant opinion on MGTOWs and his discouragement of critics which I find suspect.

These are enough to raise suspicions, but let's be patient with him and hear him out.

I'm good with his ideas so far and I don't see anything "game" about it. Just red pill reminders.

True. However, we will be patient and let blackneõ get to the end of his message. As I have said, IF he turns out to another pua clown or his methods fail, we will call him out immediately and fire him to correction. If he is knows what he is doing, we will give him the thumbs up.