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Follygunners:
Onwuzuruike Ikenna Kingsley. That's not tlue... Ibos no sabi do dis kain tin joor. Na business, tlade and commerce dem sabi.

Definitery na Ijebu man be dat.

You no well.

@freethinker01

I saw your email, why don't you drop your number so we discuss on WhatsApp?

Take am.

Poseidon000:
And I heard somewhere that this simping wack was among those advocating for the coza rape allegation be believed without evidence.

I have no sympathy for him, whether he's innocent or not. he's experiencing poetic justice he ironically nurtured. Infact, I wish he go to jail for this. that way; we'll have one less head count of the aberration of nature(SIMPs) making life a horrid experience for men.

If he advocated #BelieveAllWomen, he deserves all he is getting.

Omoluabi16:
See how some people are gloating here. They even know it wasn't rape, but that they can bend the law to convict this guy. Generation of potiphar's wife everywhere! Some of these ladies don't even give a toss about the crime of rape, all they want is revenge and bring someone down.
Guys stop having sex in whatever form with these girls. Stop cohabiting with them. No more dates. Don't work so hard only to crumble because of woman matter.

Blue pill simps will never learn.

Agba2020:
Tough men like you, huh? Please don't make me laugh. I don't know how many times I have to knock this through your head; You don't know squat about me. I pay absolutely no attention to what people say about me until they confront me with their bullsh!t, and then we work sh!t out, and I started caring even much much less after her accusations. Also, I, like most people, was mentally abused by both my parents many times. But the story I narrated was the one that stood out and impacted me the most which was why I brought it here. Just because you're used to bad parenting doesn't mean we shouldn't call people out for it. The only way we can even begin to solve anything is by acknowledging that there's a problem.

Lol. Why didn't you mention from the onset that both your parents abused you? Why did you tell us that your mum's questioning wreck you, and put a psychological wall between you and your dad? You just started calling out your mum and dad for whatever reason. Nevertheless, if you had tough skin (an attribute which you dad should have drilled into you), your mum's question wouldn't have done anything to you. Tough skin, in the way I have been using it, is simply the habit of not giving fuçk, recognizing that everyone has the right to say what they want, and word can't upset/hurt you except you want them to. That's not to say I support your mum.

Anyway, I don't want to go back and forth with you, and I believe there are other nairalanders with posts you find favourable and helpful. Focus on them. I rest my case.

Agba2020:
You know, I can actually take some valuable things out of all the trash you're spewing, if only your parents had raised you to be empathetic and not be so quick to judge others. One thing's for sure though, if you called me weak and fragile to my face, I'd lay you out. But I guess everybody is a strong man online. Anyway, I'll have you know that I didn't narrate this story in order to garner sympathy from anybody. I posted it to see if I could get some peace of mind by letting it out and also to create some awareness about mental abuse from parents.

I am empathetic. What you need is not empathy; what you need is the attitude of ignoring words/opinions that have no relevance whatsoever. You need to learn that people (including your mum) will always think something about you, and you can't stop them, but what they think is not your business, and you shouldn't care what they think. People's words/opinions can't upset or hurt you expect you want it to. You need to learn to ignore rubbish. Stop being dependent on people's word/opinions on you. Instead, be the source of your happiness and stability.

All things separate tough men like from emotionally and mentally weak and fragile men like you. By the way, how come both your parents abused you? I thought your mum was the supposed culprit.

Rozz:
monk what is redpill you and your cohorts always talked about here

I won't tell you. I engage in redpill discussions and inquiries with males only. Go do your research.

TheKingIsHere:
Exactly, thats why i aways smh when I see men on NL shouting kill the accused man without any clear evidence provided by the woman.

Dr. Funmilayo was one of them, he never listened to the other side of the story before attacks, now he himself has entered one chance..

I hope Dr. Funmilayo swallows the redpill. It remains the odious simp Solomon Buchi to bite the dust.

Vic2Ree:
You even had the patience to read all that crap

I stopped reading halfway since my doctor sternly warned me to avoid junks.

Sabr1na:
Martinez39s, LordReed, Vic2Ree

Did any of you actually read this

This man said

Yet in the same (over long over-verbose article) mentions "miracles" and invisible beings and "logic" in the same post.

Literally LOL

I stopped reading halfway because that crap is an eyesore. It's a pathetic and sad, yet amusing, attempt at self-deception.

This is why I always warn beta simps and white knights to stop pedestalizing and pandering to women. Doing all these and being a captain save-a-hoe won't ingratiate your to women, neither will it get you in their good graces. It won't stop women from throwing you under the bus when it's convenient and beneficial.

Swallow redpill, una no go hear. Another blue pill simp bites the dust.

PaulH07:
Cc Martiñez39s

lol. Why you dey call me?

Agba2020:
Lol at weak and fragile. So you think you have a clue the kind of person I am because I decided to spill my heart out about the worst mental abuse I've ever suffered this one time on a faceless. Come to think of it, I don't think anyone's ever defined me as weak and fragile, not even on my worst day, in fact people find me highly unusual due to the high amount of threshold I have for both mental and physical pain. I find your comment slightly humorous, but let's be guided.

Agba2020:
I'm not even sure what to say to ignorant & idiotic comment... talking 'bout tough skin. If you've gone through half the shit I've gone through, you'd probably be in a vegetative state right now. People like you don't really surprise me anymore... with your big mouth and lack of substance.

We can agree to disagree. Like most parents, your parents, especially your father, didn't drill you in having a tough skin. You are overly emotional and fragile as far as this issue is concerned.

If you don't like what I have said, no problem; feel free to wallow in your misery and depression (and self pity, perhaps) brought about by the foolish accusation of your mother. If that's not enough, allow the foolishness of your mother to ruin your life completely, and after that, top it up with sniper or fall from third mainland bridge. After all, the sky won't fall when you are gone, and the world will move on. It's harsh of me, but I won't pamper you like others. You must be tough like a real man. Mtewww.

As I have said, words cannot hurt you except you let them. You can decide to move on and live a well-rounded and productive life, or keep wallowing in your misery and depression, and let your mother's foolishness ruin your life. Your mother's opinion on whether your father molested you or not is of no relevance to you, and it shouldn't ruin your life. Her unwarranted behaviour is something you should brush under the carpet as one of her foolish acts in life (we all have foolish acts).

If you let someone's foolish words/opinions ruin your life, it's your fault. In life, no cares what ruined your life; if you end up useless, it will all fall back on you. WEAK AND FRAGILE MAN. Good day.

Here's mine.

mekuso89:
were is your sense, you need to go find it before I count to five...

Gerrarahia.

agadapromise98:
Griezman made a very bad move to Barca imagine fati ahead of him

As in. I don't know who advised Griezmann to go to Barça. He just bleeped his career. Atletico Madrid was his heaven.

Messi the GOAT has scored for the spot.

Dtruthspeaker:
Hey Sab, Ready for Round 2, with the Rules of Fair Play and Good Reasons, No insults?

Could Concession to the victor also be included?

And no after-thoughts and Repetitions, which means forfeit to the other side.

Arguments on points and points alone, breach of which is forfeit to the other side?

Not many things are as amusing as a religious freak who rejects evidence, and thinks he is smarter than every atheists.

You are not ready to learn. If all the reasonable arguments and facts against your religion (presented in the past by NL atheists) couldn't make you see the light, what can Sabrina do with you given your lofty stubbornness and arrogance?

Agba2020:
Maybe "ruined my life" was a bit of an exagerration, that was mostly so people would check out the thread. It definitely ruined my relationship with not only her, but my Dad as well, because since she said what she said i just couldn't stand the sight of my own Dad anymore. There was a time not long after the accusation when he was talking to me and Dad tried touching me on my arm and i just freaked out, i almost jumped away. It might sound funny, but it really wasn't funny to him, he was just shocked and confused as hell, but i couldn't tell him coz i thought it would only destroy the family, so i just shouldered the burden. It didn't affect my sexuality, but it held me back academically and in life. I was isolated because i had no one to talk to.

You need to stop this nonsense. When next you see your father, give him a good handshake, and thank him for his efforts in providing for the family and seeing that you are alright. Don't let the foolishness of your mama put a psychological wall between you and your dad. Your dad doesn't deserve all this nonsense after all his labour. Sit up Jare!

You are too weak and fragile for a man.

Janeberryy:
Question the motive you know the picture is innocent. For her to do that I'm sure she didn't even imagine the response.

If a man had done that with his little daughter, should he be excused because for him to do that he didn't even imagine the response?

What she did is wrong, but I'm sure she doesn't molest her son abeg

At last! The admission on your bias. A little push further, you would even admit that mothers can simply do no wrong. No need to argue with someone with such bias. Good night.

Agba2020:
I've only told this to one person and I've been carrying this one for 9 years now.

This might turn out to be a little long, so bear with me. When I was 17, a few days to my first WAEC, I was reading in the living room when my mom walked in and falsely accused me of sleeping with my own Dad... Oh, I'm a guy btw. I'm not gay, neither am I effeminate.

She claimed she saw my Dad touching me and that he slept with me. I was stunned. I went through different ranges of emotions. At first, I wanted to curse her, then I wanted the ground to swallow me up for real, then I wanted to cry, and then I wanted to scream, tears just filled my eyes, and the first thing that came out of my mouth was "Why are you doing this?" and then she just walked out. I just sat there losing my mind, I knew it was untrue because there's no way you would penetrate a guy without him feeling it, right? Not to mention the fact that I have no memory of this ever happening. And yet she claimed she saw this happening, if that was true, why didn't she stop it?

Long story short, that was the day my life got turned upside down by my own Mom. The not so funny thing is, she never once brought up that issue again since then, and yet she never apologized for it (not that I'd ever forgive her anyway). Dad has no clue about this issue, by the way.

You should have handled the situation like a man. If my mum accused me of such, I will simply say "I never did such" and continue what I am doing. If she insists, that's her problem. If she demands for answers, I maintain my response and move on. I can even report to my dad if her unnecessary wahala is becoming too much. As simple as that. Life is not hard.

This is why I always encourage men to drill their children, especially boys, in having a tough skin. Just for an accusation, you are crying, upset and saying your life has been destroyed. You no try, you fall my hand. Words/opinions cannot hurt you except you want them to. So if a girl accuse you of rape, you will hang yourself or fall from third mainland bridge?

Janeberryy:
We hardly see that. The male figure represent alot of wrong things that's my point.

Yes what she did is bad, but even men supports guys to be exposed and sharp but a lady is supposed to be innocent.

You see two children making out you pity the girl the most because she can spoil but a small boy cannot spoil but can be sharp. That's my point

"We hardly see that" What is this supposed to mean, and what is it's relevance? The fact that there are mothers who molest and sleep with their children is enough reason to take photos like this seriously and question it's motivation?

If the genders were reversed, there would be an outrage on how such weird display of affection is disturbing. Why? Because people know that there are fathers who molest their daughter(s), and the father, who could take such a photograph, could very well be among those who molest their daughter(s). In the same vein, since we know that there exist mothers who molest and have sex with their son(s), why shouldn't we question a mother who could take such a photo, of all photos, with her son?

You seem so sure that the woman can never be among those who molest their son(s). Do you know the woman in person? All your arguments so far aren't cogent. We can agree to disagree.

Janeberryy:
The internet will not take it likely if it's was the other way round.

The only reason u see this as wrong it's cause I would see it as wrong the other way round.

There is a way it looks innocent because it's a mom and son, they hardly rape or hurt their children sexually that's why It has a soft landing.

It doesn't look innocent in anyway. Mothers do molest and have sex with their children, and she could be one of such mothers.

Liliantalks:
I don’t know why u men assume , because a woman wants a financial stable man she’s broke or hv nothing doing , women getting such nko.

You don't need to explain yourself to anyone. If you like a rich man, it's your preference, and you are entitled to having your own preferences.

Sabr1na:
Dear OP, you forgot -- "AtHEiSm iS a ReLIgiON" -- Hands down the most retarded claim they love to make. They think the whole world revolves around their myopic views. In a way it ties in with your first point though.

Oh don't be silly, we all know atheism is a religion....



















.... only in the minds of disingenuous and dishonest believers.