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Mandela27:
Exactly.
I noticed am thinking of getting ladies lately,like desperately.
Can desperacy also be the cause? I also try very hard to hide my thirst,but I still feel it inside

Mandela27:
Please what could make someone suddenly lost self-confidence?
Note-I am a born introvert but after i took the REDPILL with the MISEDUCATION,I felt different,like my life changed,and I spoke to people without fear and maintaining eye contact,but suddenly 2days ago,I noticed my confidence has dropped.I need help fam

Mandela27:
Please what could make someone suddenly lost self-confidence?
Note-I am a born introvert but after i took the REDPILL with the MISEDUCATION,I felt different,like my life changed,and I spoke to people without fear and maintaining eye contact,but suddenly 2days ago,I noticed my confidence has dropped.I need help fam

PaulH07:
Do these stuffs apply to one's sister(s) also?

PaulH07:
How would you have reacted if it were you?

Would you walk away or fight for your girl

PaulH07:
What do you think about a man marrying his best friend?

Sixfeetbelle:
Advising him based on his story about her behaviour makes you biased; gender biased if I dare say. Even other males here can sense Op just wants to score points to validate his claim. If he wants to divorce, he should go ahead but even he knows it's not in his best interest to do so.

The statement 'milking him dry' is fallacious at best. Marriage expects certain commitments which he failed to uphold, such that even the devil will be against him (biting preek ). The man gave an opportunity for him to be disrespected and he's reaping it in multitudes. Simple.

Sixfeetbelle:
[/b]Didn't you read the part where Op said the in-laws are against him as well?

I tell you no woman will be that disrespectful and everyone will be on her side. None at all. It is clear the Op is painting the wife black to favor him, while forgetting to pen down his shortcomings as well.

@ the bold. You people will never fail to amaze me.
Typical of you to call me fake and gender biased because I pointed out a likely reason for her behaviour, but in the same vein you seem to accept whatever the Op said just because he's a man. Now tell me who's being disingenuous here?

softguy1:
Bros due to my own understanding what this guy is teaching is almost the same thing with what u have been teaching so collaborate with him and make it happen.... Thank God u just realized Kudos and eradicate the simp

Sixfeetbelle:
I didn't understand what this guy said earlier until I reread the Op post. He really didn't do traditional marriage which would explain why the in-laws are against him as well. He was asked to bring cow but he decided against it entirely and went to do court marriage. I know that if it's an Igbo tribe, his action would be viewed as disrespectful and the lady's family will turn against her for marrying him. Now 10 years later and she's still 'unmarried'. Definitely sure her 'behaviour' is as a result of the marriage thing. Her family must be on her neck to get him do the needful yet he refuses to get the sign. Hence, the woman disrespecting him so blatantly is cause she has backing.

Tbh, Op knows the right step to take to remedy the situation but he wants to validate himself online.

osazsky:
then where did u get ur own conclusion that the prob is from d girlfriend..

have u heard from the girls family...this is d greatest disrespect in life...he had to wait for 10 years so that the girl parents will die in order not to do marriage...is he the court he got married to...kid here dont know anything..when u marry a girl u marry her family

DrFunmisticGlow:
what exactly is toxic about his wife? He didn't give instances.

We need both sides of the story

osazsky:
nor be who first report matter they dey right... he disrespected the girls family and shouldnt expect either the girlfriend or her family to respect him... he waited for the girl parents to die in order to dodge marriage expenses.who does that..the guy needs to b hanged by his balls

Dicktion:
That lady is not as black as he painted. Dude is only hyperbolizing the story to his advantage in other to gain favor and the typa validation he so much crave for on NL folks.
Why he couldn't state even a single happy memory they shared in his narrative. Or did he meet her like that and got married

Dicktion:
What a crooked story. OP call your wife here let's hear her own part of the story

Dalil8:
Don't stress it man. Divorce her and move on.

Life's too short.

pansophist:
Propaganda

BlackNeo:
Note: I will henceforth not reply Beta males. Many of them are here to form Captain America. Go save them Thor, go get that coochie Iron Man! Leave this thread. It is for those who are open to learning. Go do whatever the Bleep you want. It is tough bringing anybody out of the the matrix. I wont waste time on Betas who want to remain Beta!

pansophist:
Go ahead, prove it. I do not agree with your proposition.

Firstnebo:
Copy it quickly please.

Firstnebo:
Please can I talk to you privately Martin

Martinez39s:
President Buhari

Rozz:
congrats Martinez39s come and see your mate and tell me if you are still interested in being a monk

wizdomnzube:
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Na so she clear me say she go like make i donate blood for ha. As she dey talk am, she dey romance me oh. Me I just look babe laff. I just meet my guy wen we gather go see our friend for the hospital say if my blood go make dis babe Well, omo she don die finish oh. My begin laff.

I go back go meet her.... me clear am say my blood nor fit leave my body cuz me nor fit risk my life cuz if bae naw. Who does that. I tell say me nor fit drop even I syringe of my blood for her oh. Say if na dah one make she nor vex say she fit don die go oh. Her face change ones. All the romance stop and bae nor follow me talk again. I one laff better scatter.

My just clear ha say she meet the wrong person because when it comes to women i nor fit go out of my way run shit for them. Lie lie.

I ain't no simp. Who romancing of hands and face help?? Her fine face nor help one bit

Rozz:
i have earlier created a topic on that in religion section and your likes came in with annoyance and bombarded everything with insults.They are waiting to pounce

Rozz:
only if you visit religion section,your question has been answered several times there.You just came back from service abi(catholic),anyways you have to save face as an atheist. lol

Rozz:
You don't need to admit being played by women as I understand the effect it has on your proud ego,just a matter of time and with the right person you will fall back on track.You are only proud as an atheist online, can you truthfully tell me that your parents,neighbors,friends and families are aware that you are an atheist?They will begin to view you as mentally challenged or spiritually disturbed(please no offense meant) Most of you atheist hide in your shell but warriors online,then what's the point practising a belief you ain't bold and proud of.