CharisEleos:
Twp Captains cannot be in one boat.
The problem lies with both of you.
She cannot take shit. You cannot take shit. So, who will now take the shit? Pride.

Pride goes before a fall. That is what has befallen your marriage.
When you learn to get off your high horses, you both will be cohabitable.

The problem with many couples is that they place themselves higher than the other. Now you talked about her trying to measure up to you ( equality). What made you see her as trying to do that if you yourself have not placed yourself so high.? Even before God, we all are equal. So why think you are higher than someone else? Your better half for that matter.

It's normal for two people to have a misunderstanding. But you should learn to to let go immediately and also try to avoid anything that will cause any further misunderstanding. If you see it coming, quickly turn it to a joke. Is she sees it coming, let her do same. but no. Rather you'll feel, "Why should I be the one to backdown" let him /her go to hell!!!!!!. Ego.

If you can't manage your first marriage then you'll not be able to manage the next. mind you the other woman will be coming with a baggage of her own character flaws.

No one is perfect.

You forget to talked about her weak womb and abortion. You be yeye person .

post=103908040:
No politician wey no get people wey dey support am for dis country, same thing all over the world.
Even Dino get him fans,
Also, Donald still had over 70 million votes in the last POTUS election.

But d koko be say : posterity will judge us all.
If you support criminals, thieves, looters that looted our darling nation 100 years back, continue and if you support men of integrity and honesty, also continue.

Karma has everyone's address, no one will ever escape their evil in this life.

Oba ni kobaje : Mafo!
Dem MANNA : Pepper dem eyes with Sallah stew
Tesoju awon werey!
Sisi Yewande and Madam Ngo of @MANNA on da beats

ZB

Just imagine. This is what simp has reduced men to.

CR777:


No time for that bro but I think u should be open to learning more and adding to the ones u already instead of being stuck with only the one u know. Thats the only way to grow. It's just a friendly advice Sha.
Shalom.

We Dey always rationalize every learning here bro

CR777:


Stop mentioning me bro, I don't know who the fvck u are or who roscol is, but whoever the roscol is, he must have shared some truths here which u all couldn't swallow.

I can see you and the hate-filled motherfuckers here are just copy and paste masters, u don't even come up with your own facts, most of you solely depend on quotes and memes created by someone else, lol, can I ask you one question?
Why base ur principles on someone's quote? Do you know his state of mind, pre-events or mood while writing that quote?
Why not step out of your comfort zone, step into the real world and create your own theories? That's the only way to know how the world truly works.

I ain't anti redpill, I love redpill, I just despise the hate some of you are planting inside the minds of innocent men coming here to learn. Oh, someone even called me bluepilled cos I refused to digest ur devious antics, haha, bro not even your own brother can do for you what I get girls to do for me.
It's funny how you are keep bringing up schemes and antics just cos of a mere woman? A woman who was created from just one of your own ribs? A woman you are far superior physically and mentally? Haha, it shows one thing, u all lack game and an attractive personality.
Well, I'm just gonna advice people coming here to learn, work on yourself bro, if you are fat, diet and exercise so as to lose weight and look fit, be fashionable and always dress well. If you are broke, acquire a skill and get a job so as to earn, don't let anyone deceive u, money is very important bro, like very very very important. Just be the best version of yourself, you have an advantage over women when your game is topnotch.
Befriend 4 women, study them closely, pin point the one with all the qualities u love and ask her out.

I have a secret for u, women basically need 3 things from a man.

1. Emotional satisfaction
2. Financial satisfaction
3. Sexual satisfaction
I don't need to explain these things cos they are self explanatory.

If you can give her these 3 things, she's gonna do whatever within her powers to keep u in her life cos she's scared she might not find someone like u if she bleeps up, and it's true, most men can't give all the three, some give only one and others two, if you can give 3, you are by far more superior than other men giving one or two. This is the secret players use to amass as many women as they want while getting them do their bidding.

Please don't allow people that their babes left cos they couldn't give them the aforementioned qualities instigate you to hate women. Most of them saying women cheat are just suckers in bed or two minutes men who can't even make a woman reach a sweet, body-shaking orgasm.
They don't know what's up and have refused to learn.
If u refuse to digest this my advice, no wahala, but just know that in few years time, u are gonna be a lonely, hate-filled chronic masturbator or regular brothel visitor, that's what most people infiltrating your heart with hate towards women has settled for incase u don't know.

You are not supposed to be here there are many other thread on nairaland.

The guys should understand that there is more mercy in the land people are angry .

Omo I no understand ooo. One of my neighborhood girl was complaining badly this morning that I don’t check on her, that I don’t message her, that my other friend that is a guy do messaged her and comment on her WhatsApp , she was now saying things like even when she post a very beautiful photos on her WhatsApp status or take a photo with a celebrity and post it on her WhatsApp that I just viewed and passed no comments from me. When she was saying all that I was just smiling.
She was like she knew the other of my friend through me that he is the one that is always commenting on her photos and checking on her that I’m doing the opposite of what my other friend is doing . Las las I just said to that I and my friend we are two different people and she said I should learn from my friend. And she still like to Dey around me more than my other friend .

CR777:


You are so predictable bro, to you anyone who doesn't conform to your ideas is a troll?

Go back and check the first post I made this morning about your disrespectful nature towards women, it has gotten more likes than you've had today. I'm not petty and social media likes means nothing to me, but it's a way of knowing how many people believe or agree to what you are saying lol. You've been here for months if not years, I've commented just once here but how can I amass so much likes from people here through a post directed at you? I'll tell you why, it's cos the People here are just scared to tell you the truth to your face, but bro, them never born person wey fit scare a street-oriented person like me. I'll always say it to u as it is bro.

You are smart, in fact you're very intelligent, but please work on your mindset, it's messed up.
There's another moniker as smart as you are, his name is nwaamaikpe, that guy can compete with Chinue Achebe in terms of writing prowess, but he's got the same problem you have ; masturbation.
That shit has a way of messing with the mind, stop it for just a month, you are gonna see changes in the way you reason bro.

How can you just wake up and upload a picture telling us that our fathers were not our mother's first? To you it makes sense cos of how shallow your thinking is, but to someone deep, it shows how wayward your family is, you were never loved as a child, hence the lack of care in your upbringing which unfortunately has messed you up till date.

I'm not the enemy, u make sense sometimes, trust me but most times it feels like a nut has been removed from your brain.

Guy leave ubunja and the people who believed in him alone why are you fighting your self? I see no reasons for all this fight. Let’s everybody do what they like.the world is big enough to accommodate both redpillers and simps .

You have too many simp around you.. you are a very lucky girl.

smogup:



Simp everywhere

Just because of one dirty pussi

reubenobi:
some guys are just a big simp!!

I’m tired � was swear down .

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fineboynl:
probably after enough nacking.

a guy bought a phone for her sister just in her four days in the city.

I saw it

TheDarkGamer:
A great piece of advice concerning people in general, especially females, is not to listen to their words but understand the intent of their actions and their body language.

Understanding body language is very essential when dealing with people in our daily living. It is a fundamental part of communication and reveals a lot about the intentions of the other person. When communicating physically or visually (video calls) with people, their bodies also tell us a lot about the thoughts of the person. Apart from speaking, the body communicates with the listener in ways known as "non-verbal cues".

By understanding body language, you will be able to discern if: a girl is into you, a person interviewing you is pleased with how your conversation is going, a person is lying to you, etc.

When a person can accurately interpret non-verbal cues, it serves as an invaluable tool in getting through the hurdles of dealing with people in our lives.

It's such a shame that Nairaland does not support sharing files, otherwise I would have done so. I have some simple books regarding body language, you can contact me on Telegram or join my telegram group and I will share them freely.

Nice one

maraellaa:

And who told you I don't have a job

If you have a job, you will not been looking for a man that will take care of you .

maraellaa:
A rich one that can take care of me

You don’t need a man you only need a job

Flier:
OTAGA was a very stingy man who prey on innocent ladies without taking care of their immediate needs,imagine dating such a rich man and still not able to pay 380.000 naira school fee
Why would you continue to have sex with her if you can not take care of her?
Why would Chindinma kill her big god if the man was really useful? From experience ladies don’t deny you sex if you are seriously taking care of them
I think Chindinma decided to kill him after he told her his ATM pin(because She knows that he still won’t fulfil the Promise after the sex romp)
Note...if you are not ready to take care of these slay queens DO NOT DATE THEM

You be fool Na she get the money ?

Kooldon:
Typical DL girls. But reglion difference might be a factor here

Shut up religion factor kill you there the fact is that the girl Na olosho

Stormtrooper11:
Well, am not used to this section. But something came up.
My girlfriend and i had been dating for a year. We are one of the weirdest couple you will ever meet. Alot of outsiders don't believe this except our close friends.
She is a Christian, a deeper life member and I'm Sunni Muslim.
We've been dating for a year. She is the most amazing creature i ever met apart from my Mum. She does not complain, she just show love, care, affection and always attentive. I used to think we will end up married. I'd made sure she is always comfortable. Always been there for her.
She's a Nurse. I am a Software engineer. So i just said let me check her Facebook account out. Damn. I was shocked at what i saw. She was always calm with me. I didn't know she was a "pro". She always acted innocent. It looks like a nightmare right now. I couldn't believe what she has been doing. We even knew each other families. I didn't know she could just lie.
Damn. I have lost interest in dating. I don't know what to do

Another man down. If them tell owner make owner take redpill owner no go listen

Stalliondik:
Happy weekend to you all,am easy going guy that base here in lagos, am sincerely, looking for a female friend that can be my companion or close and penpal,in Lagos. A lady that will be free to chat and communicate with each other, from time to time, u can text or call me 08027580228,pls no insult .
Thank you

Mumu girl no Dey your place?

Martinez39s:
What the woman did to Christopher is a normal thing among women. I am talking about the parental alienation and the public slander of Christopher as a deadbeat even when he is not and he is putting tremendous efforts only to have the woman make it difficult and/or impossible for him.

Many women have shown us that women can be selfish even when the best interests of their kids are involved; they would rather see their children cry and be denied of the benefits, involvement and influence of a father over petty disputes with the father than muster the maturity to not involve their children in the dispute they have with the father. They don't prioritize their children's emotional needs and wellbeing above their petty disputes and games with the father. It is not beneath them to reduce their children to mere pawns and deny them the good truths about their fathers in their manipulation and petty games than give these children a complete childhood.

Many alienate their kids and poison their minds against the fathers just to prove a worthless point or to get back at the father, even in cases where they are wrong. Many don't care about the kids, but they withhold them because it makes the man suffer to be denied his kids; as long as he suffers, she is happy.

Men make better parents than women and you hardly see them doing this rubbish. Men are usually the ethical and more compassionate sex despite what the matrix wants you to believe. Look at how many Nigerian women treat housemaids and stepchildren. It would be better to grant custody to fathers and have them regulate the mother's visitation as it was done in old traditional times before the introduction of the feminist Tender Years Doctrine. Men know how to handle this authority with maturity and ethics for the benefit of everyone involved.

You are a great man

KingClown:
one of the best things I've ever read on nairaland

https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman


probably most people here would have read it.
just in case you haven't.

Nice one bro

Fearjah:


I beg make i laugh small
Lol

This is really funny because there is a big difference between
"Thunder fire you"
And
"thunder fire your head."

They no wan hear say the thunder do mistake hit you for hand or for leg

Don’t mind him.

Keep moving we are with you

Martinez39s:
No one is condescending to anyone or belittling anyone. You should stop reading emotions into people's posts just like you once accused caveadullam of jealousy and fishing for followers. You also accused me of pride and other things.

In this thread, we are beyond needlessly reading emotions into people's post until they give us good reasons to. In this thread, no one is looking for followers or worshippers. There is no leader or authority here.

You are bigger than this bro you can’t be talking to ashawo customers.