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baggy4luv: You would jump into any thread and open that your wild mouth without thinking.Bro you lack every iota of lmatrimonial experience and you said her husband na boy.you are a fool
.get married and let your wife be bringing in takeaway as dinner
.get married married and let your wife be coming late..
.get married and let your wife be the major contributor financially.You go hear when..
A woman that has a financial edge over you is quite rocky in naija marriage,xcept for the born again marriages.(she go go show her true colours)
I dont blame the op husband.He should apply wisdom

u sound just like him u are as selfish as he is

Mynd_44: What do you think going forward? Do you see yourself having a future with someone who can't be happy at your success and might do things to bring you down?

my dad says. I should move back home and I feel so disappointed the person who is suppose to protect me is against me. What am I going to tell my baby its just so confusing

Mynd_44: That is not your man, he is a boy. It is boys like that that won't support your success but will want to hold you down so he can grease his ego.
He does not want to support you but if the reverse was the case he'd expect your support

that is how I feel

lynpetra: Your man,a hubby or bf?@op
Please explain

he is my baby daddy we have a daughter

Ok I just got this new job and it pays really good and my man has changed he has got so emotional and abusive he keeps reminding me that he the boss. And its his house and I should quit this job cause I come back late (I come back at 7 with food )and he complains I dot cook I came with take aways pls I don't know what to do anymore. My man has gone crazy

Nice one number 9 is so true. Lmfao

Communication,tolerance , honesty,compromise,trust and invite the lord and last great sex

secnelly: Recipe: How to Make Love.

[Ingredients]....
4 laughing eyez
4 well shaped legs
4 loving arms
2 firm milk containers
2 nuts
1 soft mixing bowl
1 firm banana.

Direction...:
1.look into laughing eyez
2.spread well shaped legs with loving arms
3.squeeze & message milk container very gently
4.gently add firm banana to mixing bowl,working in & out until well creamed. For best results,continue to knead milk containers.
5.As heat rises,plunge banana deep into mixing bowl & cover with nuts. Leave to soak {preferably not overnight}
6. The cake is done when banana is soft. If banana does not soften,repeat step 3-5 or change mixing bowl.

Notes;
1. If u are in an unfamiliar kitchen,wash utensils carefully before & after use.
2. Do not lick mixing bowl after use.
3. If cake rises,leave town.....

..........any question..........??

lmfao I disagree wit 3. If cake rises,leave town.....

Lolest don't give up so soon next tym don't push ur tough that deep. But that must have been nasty

dahmie2013: He already got wat he wanted wen u went 2 pay him a visit. So dear, move on & ur feeling not love 4 him is temporal.

I agree with u he tricked u girl

Oh yes I think they are but at times very rude. Most of the time very sweet and gentle the best man I have ever met.

Sapphire86: Apparently, hell has no fury as (OP complete it) .......

upon a womens s scored. I just had to

peelovee: I dont know what to do with this pregnacy.....
My fears: Its ten weeks and I dont know if it will be safe for termination
What about my life
What about My future


As for the marriage I have decided to let go..

advise pls

its not man that gives babies its God and they are gifts please keep the baby it did not do anything and as for the Guy he has just showed u he his not going to be there for u when shit hits the fan with his crazy mom they took u for granted and ur family as well. Its a sign he is not meant for u. Cancel the wedding and work hard for ur baby the man the lord put. For u will come and u will live happily ever after. After all no one wants a man who lies and can't take care of his family

Since the guy believes In true love then he knows that this relationship is not on at all. You can't stay with someone who brakes ur hart over and over again. He should find him self a new sweethart that will love and cherish him cause he can kill this lady.

Did u buy her air time (recharge card) so she ca call and text u

If he is broke HELLO NO and if he is rich the love of the cash is wot u can share.

Pastor Olu T: Cant believe its a female giving such advice

: :oo. What its done when push comes to shove. Clearly he dose not love the girl cause if he did he was going to take her to school and make her a better person. After all u don't find ur perfect person u make him /her. So op just want to tap and go then let the mind games begin

Tell her that its not her its. U and u need some time to figure out what u want and she is a great woman u need some space she will get a guy to comfort her then use that against her and u remain innocent

Get ur daughter to counseling then move her as far away as possible from this monster then have him killed inherit all his wealth live happily ever after with ur children. After what he did I don't think the is any more love left and as for the pregnancy terminate it what will u tell the child when they ask who's my daddy. My God put u through this

all4naija: Really, it is time South African women should stop disturbing Nigerian men for sex. There are lots of Nigerian girls back home who these men are meant for. Many of them only need your permit to stay and commit crimes or make money.

So SA girls be warned! Desist from Nigerian men for the benefit of all!

AND u think u have it figured all out don't u. The reason they leave all you raggedy ass girls is because they are looking for woman and its not like we ask them to date us they come to us. Stupid b,I,t.c.h

Ijeoma Okeke100: south african woman are sluts and shuold stay away from our men

ur the slut u cock eyed. Bitch get a life and I bet u so ugly and u don't have a man. And they are not ur men.

tyoseni: HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY

1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him in peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his movements

HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY

It's really not too difficult but.... To make a
woman happy, a man only needs
to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
44. give her compliments
regularly
45. Go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU
MUST ALSO:
50. give her lots of attention
51. give her lots of time,
especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never
worrying about where she goes.

BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY
IMPORTANT
53. never forget
*birthdays
*anniversaries
*valentine
*arrangements she makes.

k u made ur point but atlest we know what we want

MEN ARE IMPOSSIBLE TO PLEASE...

1. If he calls you and your phone
is off, he thinks you’re cheating….
then he sends a sms saying“don’t
tell me the battery story coz I
know that line”

2. If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are
TOO IN LOVE, moving too fast;
If u Don't, he says u are PROUD

3. If u DRESS NICELY, he says u are
trying to LURE other men; If u
DON'T, he says u are RURAL.

4. If u ARGUE with him, he says u are
STUBBORN, too manly; If u keep QUIET, he says u have no
BRAINS, a walkover;

5. If u are SMARTER than him, you’re a SHOW-OFF; If he's SMARTER than u, he is GREAT.

6. If u don't LOVE him, he tries to POSSESS u; If u LOVE him, He takes you FOR GRANTED. (very true
huh?)

7. If u don't MAKE LOVE to him, he says u DON'T LOVE him; If u DO, he says u are CHEAP...

8. If u tell him your PROBLEMS , he
says u are TROUBLE; If u DON'T, he
says u don't TRUST him.
9. If u SCOLD at him, u are treating him like a CHILD; If he SCOLDS at u, it ’s because he CARES for u.

10. If u BREAK your promise, u
cannot be TRUSTED; If he BREAKS
his, it is circumstances beyond his CONTROL.(yea rite!)

11. If u SMOKE, u are a BAD girl; If
he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMAN.

12. If u do WELL in your career,
it's LUCK ; If he does WELL, it’s
definitely BRAINS. (luck?)

13. If u HURT him, u are CRUEL; If he
HURTS you, you are too SENSITIVE !!

HOW ARE WOMEN
SUPPOSED TO GET IT RIGHT??

My parents have been married for 30years and they still kiss in front of us and he. Still brings my mom chocolate cos she is a chocoholic I think its sweet

His incredible smile and his lovely legs and the way he smelled mmmm his physic my word I have never seen any man like that before

Do u still love her and do u love the one u are with now are u willing to forgive and for get what she did to u I say take a break from both till u decide what u really want. Go to a day spa or something. Goog luck u need it doc

They need to find that fool and chop his dick off since he can't use it. If someone tries that on my baby I would kill him its things like these that make me want to keep my baby in my tommy

Give them the say one word and u are dead look it works all the time